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Bros take heart,
May God comfort your heart. You were really there for her.
May God bless you and reward you for the way you supported her greatly.

Fulaman198: If you put yourself in his shoes, you would see what he did was a justifiable act. As someone else has mentioned, animals by nature defend their offspring especially wild animal moms. Do you think a lioness would sit there another animal injure her child? Absolutely not.

I am not siding the child abuser neither am I saying that the man did wrong in beating him. My statement "Served him right" showed that I condemned the act totally.

The man beat the boy out of shape. His jaw and ear went out of alignment totally. Served him right for abusing a little child.
Thank goodness that he did not die or the child's father would have had another case in his hand.
One should be careful when enraged to avoid temptations that can bring one bigger troubles.

Doclight: kenedy relax, i'm also going to mouau did mine today.

Dnt really knw what to say, try relogin and see if u can edit it or better still go to d skul ict centre to report, since its not ur fault

Young man take good pieces of advice like this one and stop worrying too much over nothing.
How can you threaten to kill yourself over ordinary typing/computer error?
Don't be in the habit of thinking suicide thoughts when you come across problems.
If you love your family, you will never think of committing suicide because the loved ones left behind after such missions are left devastated with the heartbreak and stigma and all. Don't ever make threats with that okay?

haymoney01: Oh! Dnt be annoyed oo

Gosh boy! I wasn't being rude really.
It was just a term I used as in "discussion has ended, let's not keep draggging issue".
Guess I wasn't in a very light mood when I replied that. Sorry please.
Okay, why don't you chat up Miss Shoe freak or Miss Charm.

Touching!
Keeping a dead body in a room just like that, didn't it rotten up and ooze badly?
Did they use refridgerator/cooling system to abate decay?
Whoops!

Good to hear, Good to hear!

haymoney01: Lol... Thanks btw d way wen u gt 1, lemme knw... Might be u

What the f*ck!

CharmO1: When I got my tattoo, it was spontaneous. My former neighbour is a tattoo artist and I had lived beside her watching her work. I have always had a fascination for body art whether it's lali, uli, henna etc. It's something I did and honestly don't regret. My entire family hates it but they've realized it didn't change who I am.
If a guy thinks I'm wayward because of a tattoo then I wish him well. I knew of girls who were whores in our uni days but had no tattoos. When people notice my tattoo (it's a flowery band around my wrist), they look at me oddly but I really don't care. It's what my family knows and God knows that matters to me. Some ladies who posted "God forbid" on this thread can hide behind the anonymity the internet affords. If only our secrets were engraved on our foreheads like tattoos, we'd be shocked at some revelations made. Cheers.

Keep rocking your tat, Girl.
Don't let the frowns of others (who allowed your tattoo to displease them) affect you jor.

shoefreak: Duh!!!! Se two eye dey answer Asa ni? **flips hair** i'm not gentle, just trying something out

missed u too like 'dadubule'

wich lid? Abeg, mke them bring it on!!!! We don't get endowed to be hidden under heavy clothing na! Hian! **taps boobs** these 'mouka foams' loves to take dreamers to dream land.

GIRL!!!
You have me laughing there.
Did you say Mouka foams? You are one hell of a girl and I like you already.

nikkypearl: Y all of una dey take dis yeye op wey stil dey find job serious

Yeah girl.
He did sound like he was fantasizing about being a manager. Hahaha.
His story even sounds made-up too.

OlamiB: Dunno where or how to start, but I feel sad nd unhappy anytime my boyfriend is with his sister, she is the only girl and she is based in calabar, he travles there once in a while to visit her and each time he spends close to one month which is annoying to me, I dnt know why but it get me really angry tho I dnt show it.
He doesn't always have my time anytime he is with his sister, its either she takes him to swim or they both go for dinner party, she is the type that harbor many ladies so my BF will be practically the only guy in the room with the girls! It drives me nut!
I for once thought she is actually his gf until I saw her late last year during her last visit and to say the truth, she looks pretty well like their last born and she is also the first born too. Is this jealousy normal? Cos I feel the same thing each time he uses her pics as his DP, I wonder why he won't use mine but his sister's own not until I realize that my younger brother has also been using my own pics has his DP for a long time now, does this mean that guys love their sisters very much?
Her birthday is in a week's time and he is already plannig on how to be there for the party, I have been sad since because he will go there to be among girls, I want him only for myself, maybe am feeling insecure. He as been busy with his final year project so no time for me lately cos we dnt school in same place. My sweetheart is a handsome guy, an upcoming music artist that will become popular in less than 2years, I wonder if this is how I will feel by the time he starts going for shows and everything. Pls help

Yeah, if you don't let up a little bit. You are going to be a mess soon or even when he becomes a star or something.
Don't be too possessive. Relax he is only your boyfriend and can even choose to be with another woman that is not you tomorrow. What happens then? Will you kill yourself? Open your eyes to reality, try and make yourself happy on your own. Don't depend on him to make you happy. Don't be doing the boyfriend friendship thing in a "do or die" fashion. How can you be jealous of the love between him and his sister? If you don't let up now, that kind of jealous feeling may push you into causing harms to others. Keep a check on yourself, control yourself. Feel relaxed, enjoy your young life jor. Do things that make you happy and you won't be thinking such crazy thoughts.

naij28: I am 27 years old ,manager of my Uncle's company here in Lagos(name withheld) . i first met my employee's girlfriend/Fiancee when we had a company picnic outing which my uncle had organized for the company staffs .she's (24 and he is 29). we exchanged numbers. ever since then,I have been fucking her . she sometimes visits and brings lunch for her boyfriend . we chat and joke around in the lunch room while her boyfriend is also there. all of my employees are afraid of me I can be very Serious ,I even use my belt on them when i get uncontrollably angry . once I kick her boyfriend and the other staffs back to work after lunch ,I invite her back into my office for sexual intimacy .
her boyfriend recently found my name on her phone and called my number. I got really pissed at him and brushed it off with an excuse . I even threatened to sack him . I made him scared by telling him that I have a gun and have my Boys that could beat him up etc . I was so furious and pissed , he begged me not to be angry. The next day his fiance brought him Food. after lunch,I sent him and the other staffs back to work and his girlfriend went with me back into my office.
He recently came and knocked on my office door to ask for my assistance at the warehouse ,His girlfriend was in my office . I went outside my office without fully opening the door . when I got to the warehouse I was angry and used my belt on him for mishandling the machine . I fixed the problem and went back to my office to continue with his fiancee .
He still seems a little bit suspicious but too afraid to confront me about it because I am known to be very mean and no-nonsense Boss.
deep down inside I feel a Little guilty.

What the f*ck is wrong with you man.
Quit acting like Hitler, boy.
No condition is permanent, don't use your good position to maltreat somebody else cause God has the ability to reverse that situation in a twinkle of an eye. Now quickly have a change of heart and stop treating your fellow man like filth, to think that the man is even older than you too and you are using belt on him. Never you use belt on anybody again, okay?
Get it?
Got it. I'm sure you did.

BoboYekini: Missthang!! *drowns her in kisses* emi na soo.
babey, o ti gentle gan o,
whoa, but I missed ya o.

What's going on in this thread?
Looks like the tattoo talk has the fellas going mooshy and lovey dovey, doodling on the ladies. Smile.
That makes me wonder how they will be tripping when they set eyes on na*ked b*tts, waists and b*oobs that have tats on them.
Jeezy guys! Put a lid on it already.

Hey, this thread just reminded me of my primary school mate that this kind of issue caused great unhappiness in their home. Mum woke up one day and started covering head all the time and attending a church that is different from the whole family. There was always disharmony as father and mother hardly agrees on issues anymore. Mother always bring in strict strict ideas that made the children unhappy too.

Husbands! close up on your wife real good before they take them away from your home with crazy religious beliefs with this religious madness going on in Nigeria. In this case that the idea has already been imbibed in her, poster try to kinda help her unlearn. Have a liberal woman pastor (who preaches the word of God and still know the importance of looking beautiful and feminine) speak to her. They can help her unlearn her new found belief that she is hugging to heart like that. Forcefully or rashly speaking and nagging her about it can only make her run deeper into it all because in her mind's eyes she believes that now she has seen the light.

Blockus: OP!!

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

One day, take her by surprise, looosen your belt and whip her like a child that she is. And when you are done, give her an ultimatum; Return to factory default setting or move out.

Dont let any pastor become the head of your family. If your biitch isnt acting right, whip her or cut the biitch off.

And its okay if you cheat now, God would understand.[b] If Virgin Mary looked like that, she would not had been God's babymama.

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Boy Blockus gave me a good laughter this afternoon with that his Babymama-Mary talk. Jeez boy. You are one hell of a funny person.
Wait till the Catholics in Nairaland descend on your funny self.


All this religious over zealousness that break homes.
God made women beautiful.
They spice up the world, the site of a sweet looking woman whether with make-ups or not brightens the day of the beholding husband.
People shouldn't go imbibing crazy ideas from their fellow humans in church. You have a mind of your own to choose what is good for you.
The pastor isn't God, it's a pity some take them as gods which is why their words are being allowed to trickle down in their homes and be causing unhappiness.

haymoney01: Thanks for the touching piece... I jst had a change of mindset... I might end up with 1 if I see a decent one btw do u av 1

Nah Nah, I haven't any now but I am going to get a very sweet one when I have the time for it.
Is that you in that picture? You look cute, boy. If I have the time I may look around to match make you to a good lady that you will make happy that is if you are a good person but I don't have time for such stuffs right now. So take care of yourself, I wish you luck there.

haymoney01: no... I dont tink a a lady with tatoo can make a good haus wife... I dnt want my kids to become bad... Btw iya ibeji is my mum

Sweetheart, tattoos is not what makes a woman bad.
Some women just put it on in some of these s-exy places just to excite their men when they are going down south with them. It's just a way of being naughty or making fashion statement. You yourself have already confessed that it excites you, now you see what I am talking about.
You have to open your mind to things you really like (as long as it's a good thing) and not be inhibited by what others will say. You only have one life to live. Expand your mind. Liberate yourself, don't shackle yourself for fear of others. Why hide your desires under the shadow of "mum is not going to like that" only to ogle and fantasize over the tattooed women while married to "the tattoo free good girl that mum wants". It's you marrying the woman not mum Iya Ibeji. Anyway make I no talk again o make Iya Ibeji no say that I dey spoil her son for her. Lol

I like tattoos, neat ones. I will advise whoever is going for it to be careful and make sure it is done in a healthy//clean manner to avoid infections.

NeuroBoss: Krasid and other insulters, I'm too dignified a person to engage you. Can't you read in my opening line that I've not read this in any English-speaking media? I read the news in French this morning and sharing the French source here won't make much sense. Do due diligence and search online. He's been in coma since last Sunday

I like the bolded statement. It's cool.
Poster check well, It doesn't seem like it's the footballer they meant.

haymoney01: I am somehow addicted to ladies with it... I really can't take my eyes off the tatooed part especially if its the boobs or butts... Buh I can't marry any of them... Iya Ibeji no go gree

Better marry the kind of woman you like. Don't be gawking at the ladies with tattoos in secret and tomorrow go marry one without it. You may end up feeling trapped in marriage and always embarrassing your wife longing for such ladies, and the next minute u go come open thread here begin to dey shout"I don't find my wife appealing anymore". Hia o.

It's your life, are you living for Iya Ibeji? unless you already had a first wife whose name is Iya Ibeji sha.

vicchi12: Chi chi! My biggest crush

Really?
I am happy that they are doing well in their field but crush? Nah.
They must be putting in long hours of hardwork that had their muscles this toned sha.

Onyiclara: Intimidate? R u kidding me? D 1st tyn that crossed my mind was 'hw can u let urself look lyk dis?' Believe me dis is no way intimidating 4 any girl that wants to look gud.

Can you Imagine? If we all go looking masculine in their sophisticated new world order, who will comfort the men?
Where will they get warmth from after a hard day's job? Who will bear the children?
Feminity is still beautiful, the feminity of us women is one of God's gift to our world.

Each time I post in the football betting thread I get banned by the spambot. I have asked Mukina to help and just when I thought she has solved the problem spambot banned me again for the umpteenth time. Can somebody solve this issue please. Thanks very much.

These Chicks meeeeeeeeeeeehhhhnnnnnn! #Chicksmen #She*male

I know them nowadays when I see them showing off selfies and pictures of them gawking at their midwaist.
Who are the ones talking about men marrying these Chicks? Dey there, these Chicks are on another level.
I am not sure but I won't be surprised if they have girlfriends out there whose p*ssys they suck away at just
to establish their new found masculinity.
I had such a chick wooing me sometime ago, can you imagine? I can't suck any p*ssy please. #Straightthinz
She even went as far as having an operation so that she won't menstruate again. It's a crazy world.

coogar: i am starting to think you take life way too seriously. let's even assume fakaay is a chronic mental patient like you presume, what makes you think he hasn't been taking his medications? you are just assuming & rubbing his ailment in his face - that's not cool!

fakaay has not hurt anyone here. there's no risk at all having a conversation with him. he came here with a genuine request & you guys are just scaring his potential mates away by trying to play God. leave him alone, he's here for something. i am here to give him what he wants. this is an online forum, let's keep it that way.

The bolded is what I had in mind when I posted the post below. It's alarming the way some are throwing it in his face like that. Singing it like that can depress such a person more and can even make some go harming themselves. Faakay seems strong sha.

Angeldemivida: Care!
Handle him with care, people! Almost like an egg!
Be careful what you tell him to his face lest it affects him deeper than you can imagine.
It's a delicate situation. A real delicate situation, a real delicate situation. We don't have to shout
some things from the roof top as some are doing.
Care! Please.

faakay: For those that cannot believe me it's normal until when you see it happen, I'm just starting
It's not really easy as you think, if you had gone thru what I went, you will hate you came to this world
I can also build your own internet if you want - and you will not use a public one - I can do so many things

Of course we can see that you are quite knowledgeable and that you are passionate about innovations.
You don't have to be hotting up your head too much. It seems like you rack your brain too much and that made
you have some religious & even scientific beliefs that are different from the ones others have.
You are entitled to your opinion but they made you seem weird.
Relax Faakay.

faakay: During the process - I developed a mental illness which is gone and I'm okay - I'm not ashamed of it -
Do you think it is easy to invent
Who did the computer and internet you are using today, you think scientist who did it never went to the hospital, we all go there when we first start because everybody will think you are mentally ill or will develop because it will definitely affect your brain -

Your much racking of the brain may have contributed to the mental illness. I'm glad that it is going and is almost completely gone.
You will agree with me that it will be in your good interest to still be seeing the doctor once in a while, you know.
I am proud of you that you are not ashamed of having had mental illness. You are being very mature about it and not allowing it to bring you down. I have a feeling that you are not making a wise decision rushing off to go and marry.
Come on to the business section. There are many good ventures young men like you are getting excited about and making money with them.
You need to get on something that can give you money now so you can tide by comfortably and not hurriedly make marriage decision.
Don't be in too much hurry. Don't rack your brain too too much.

Your pictures are yours to do with them as you like, your life story and personal problems are your to share with whoever you wish but these things are better kept private.

faakay: lol nobody will use the wife or girl for robot experiment - you are funny

Faakay doesn't need urgent care, faakay is more than okay and can even take care of you

faakay is just temporarily out of finance and needs a girl who will support him .

Faakay you are still young.
Don't be too serious about the wife-search thing.
The support you need from the wife isn't a financial one?
Is it? If yes, You can work hard and support yourself for now.
You need to relax. Maybe a girlfriend should do for now.
A friend to chat with, that can give you emotional support.
You need to be financially ready to take care of a family before wifing a lady.
Relax dear, relax. Don't be in too much hurry with things, okay?
Everything will be alright.

Care!
Handle him with care, people! Almost like an egg!
Be careful what you tell him to his face lest it affects him deeper than you can imagine.
It's a delicate situation. A real delicate situation, a real delicate situation. We don't have to shout
some things from the roof top as some are doing.
Care! Please.

[quote author=maxdozie]-- hw do u fund ur nairabet acc? Can u help me fund mine abeg![/quote

They have agents around, check their website to find an agent in your area that you can pay into his account and he will fund you.
The method is risky because somebody can eat your money in the name of an agent but some are trustworthy. The best method is the one nairastake is using in which u pay money direct into their company's account and fill their bank deposit form online stating your teller number and after 5 minutes u will be funded. I don't know whether Nairabet is using that method. Somebody told me that he funds his nairabet account very easily using his ATM card online, I haven't used that method and that should be one of the fastest way. Check their website and read up which method suits you best.

Obi1kenobi: That's not a good comparison at all. Abusing children sexually is wrong cos it takes advantage of their vulnerability and inability to make informed choices. Abusing minors is wrong whether coming from hom.osexuals or heterosexuals. Any sexual activity between adults that is consensual and impinges on no one's rights shouldn't concern the public.

You mentioned "sexual preference" so I used that example to show that we shouldn't all go indulging in our se*xual fantasies cause some of the preferences are real wack and if we all go indulging it, it's gonna be a crazy world. I tell you.

Obi1kenobi: I really wish Nigerians and Africans in general showed the same revulsion and outrage they show to homosexuality to other real social vices that plague the country and stunt its growth - especially corruption. Morality in the twisted, perverted definition of most Nigerians is defined by attitudes to sex and sexuality and not the holistic view of morality that affects every facet of life. The same person that cheats in everything, from cheating in his academics to the workplace and politics, would often be the first to decry homosexuality. It's rank hypocrisy and a total misplacement of priorities and accounts for why this country, this continent and our race would remain firmly at the foot of everything that matters in world affairs until there's an ideological shift and people learn to use their brains.

And that is not even addressing the key question: how does an individual's sexual preference affect your life and why do you feel the need to meddle in his/her choices?

Talking about "se*xual preference", if we all start acting out our se*xual fantasies it's gonna be a crazy world as it is even fast becoming.

Yeah I agree with the beginning part of your post all the same. You made a good point there.

But they got to be sick! or while will a guy fix in his thing into another man's an*s. It's the sickest of all sickening sickness. Two men kneeling and prodding the others' rear. Now, I don't want to vomit.


I agree that the homos*exuals shouldn't be driven away from the church though, the bishop shouldn't pet up things jor. Should we be giving them thumbs up and high fives?