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dd25251: @frank94, I love Nigerians very much. I don't care what the world say about them. I think that they are awesome people but also very tough. They are also sweet but can be very rough sometimes. I guess it's part of their culture so no one should criticise them. God bless Nigerians.

Girl, you talk like my Guyanese girlfriend that loooooooovessssssssss Nigerian d*cks bad.Hahaha (No offence meant)
Of course I appreciate your love for Nigerians. Yeah, we can be rough yet we are real tough. Hugs girl!
Keep up the good work of helping others okay.

Guyanese are indeed warm hearted, I've got a couple of friends from your country.

Ariyke: I can relate to some of things here always feeling empty no matter how

No friend no foe always lonely at times I think am on the wrong path everything is just so frustrating I wish I could close my eyes and it all go away
Av learnt to put up face no matter what bt am dying inside seeing me smile doesn't equate to me been happy cus there's a lot behind that smile

Inner strength! Inner strength!
Muster it.
Guard it for yourself.
When everything around you is going crazy, the way you never expected.
Be strong for yourself so that the billows can roll pass you without taking you along with it.
Someday you will emerge safe, shake off all the sands and waters of the oceans of life and live on.
Yeah.
Yeah.

opisco01: Owk, so u make 1M in a month yet u castigate ppl trying to make their own money even though u dnt offer any help. Of wat use is the castigation wen u dnt profer solution. U dnt contribute nothing to this thread. All u do is castigate ppl and post pics of ur acclaimed 1M monthly .
If u dnt av anything meaningful or profiting to say why not SHUTUP.

Oga Opisco, chillax small.
Infact if you understand Oga Cesclxg better, he could be your inspiration.
He knows this business and if he is trying to point something out to you, do listen to him cause he has a good point.
He doesn't blab too much in the thread, when he talks he is talking for a reason so don't feel too bad.

@Cesclxg
Your betfair account that you pasted is an inspiration once again but I will advise that you take it out if you don't want plenty attention and eyez on you. Yeah sometimes too, you have to let the small players do their thing, all hands are not equal even though if they think harder they will understand that you are really giving them great courage with those nudgings you know. Just my thought.

opeolukoya: Hello all neva knew this thread exist until my efriend told me and sent the link and I must say its a good one since 2006 my name is opeyemi got married in April and give birth to a baby boy In august I love my hubby to bits and he loves me more Jan 26 he add an accident that affected his brain and Feb 18 2014 he left me to be with the lord our marriage was not up to a year but we had fun I enjoyed every bit of it and I say some people in marriage might not enjoy like I did in 8mnths of marriage I am young but its not been easy I thank God I have a son to show a sign of our love and I pray for Gods protection for him I miss so much and I know he misses me more but I am moving in with ma life

May God comfort you, sis.

RTFM: It is so difficult to be the leftover part of what was once a perfect unit. I find I'm second guessing myself, procrastinating and making stupid mistakes. It's supposed to get better and easier with time, allegedly. I am yet to see evidence of this. Last week was the Swiss national day. From my balcony one has a grandstand view of two different fireworks displays. In the past, this was shared with my significant other. I remember how lucky we felt last year as we watched and shared brandy and coffee beneath the spectacular display. The plans we made for this year and the commitments we made to stop and smell the roses and take time out for the little things. Alas, all is now for naught. I'm trying to keep my head up. I have tried and failed to make sense of this tragedy. I accept things are the way they are and God knows best, I put on a brave face in public and try to be stoic but when I am alone the knowledge that we will never share the little things is almost too much to bear. I remember her with love and gratitude for the many, many happy, joyful memories and all the "splendiferous" little things. I miss her.


Opeyemi, May God comfort you and bless your son.

May God comfort you too, brother.

My Jehovah Jireh!

I will find a way to reach out to Rita, that lady must be suffering in the hands of bad heart-ed ones as is being shown in this thread.

sexyseun: Aunty Rita you are getting Old, Go and marry jooor

It's unbelievable that it is a female that is making this wicked comment to her fellow woman. Where is your heart, girl?
Does your Nigerian culture give her the ability to go and marry a man of her choice? She has to wait for a man to come marry her.
If she runs after a man, mouths like yours will sag and wag.

Anyhow, I myself i am of the opinion that ladies like her who want babies shouldn't fold hands waiting for husbands to come.
They should organise and make babies for themselves through IVF or even through a clean boyfriend because when they are unable
to make babies in the future, blabber mouths like Miss Sexyseun will yab them finish. I saw a single woman that made her baby through IVF the other day. This is why I am happy for such ladies as Ibinabo Fiberesima who don't study and watch una Naija faces and are living their lives. She has already had all her babies and is now going for marriage while approaching forty. No biological time pressure, no societal pressure on her. See pressure all over Rita, not only biological pressure but pressure from the mouth of ignorant Nigerians like this seun human being and others. I pity Rita.

I love this write-up below. It rejuvenates and enlightens minds seeking forex knowledge as it holds some stuffs I call Forex Nuggets.
I have posted it here before, each time I read it it refreshes. I just read it again and felt like sharing once again.

http://www.fxkeys.com/currency-pairs-correlation-in-forex-market-cross-currency-pairs/

The artist that drew those tats is amazing though.

onome710: They are pretty cool. Very exciting but still doesn't change my stance on tattoo's.
I can't get one. Not because of religious doctrines but because I love my body the way it is. Its perfect!
Besides they usually if not always have side effects and puts u at risk of skin cancer. And then imagine when you're 75 with sagged skin and the tattoo looks like a 5year old did his colouring assignment on your body.
And then the way thee society looks at people with tattoo's. They may appreciate it but they still see you as 'irresponsible'
#myOwnOpinion.

What the society thinks of you seems more important to you than everything else, this same society that only appreciates you when you have dollars in your pocket. My friend, get real and live your life for yourself.

If you don't like tats because you love your body as it is I respect that but don'ttell us about the society seeing those with tats as irresponsible. F*ck the damned judgemental society. I have no tats yet but I hate it when we look at others and judge and cancel them out by things as ordinary as tattoos. The kind of tats people have on says one r two thing about them but that doesn't mean that we should go about considering such individuals "irresponsible". You guys in Nigeria have this way of labelling people that are doing stuffs that make them happy which you don't flow with for example people with rastas/dreadlocks, tattoos etc. Let people enjoy their lives for goodness sake.

RoyalRoy: Nice one Madcow1.....guess u ain't so mad after all. Lolllz

Yes poster Madcow was great.
Miss Beetruth, Madcow really took time to give you great words.
You see that part about being strong for your kids and for yourself, you have to take that to heart. Don't worry yourself to death because he cheats and lies. If you bring problems on yourself from worrying too much and something happens to you, Life goes on. Mr. Man marries another and keeps rocking and making his body happy. Why don't you concentrate on your well being and happiness now. It's one life, you know. Only one life you've got so live it in spite of what goes on around you.

Remember: Your Well being, your Happiness.

Am I the only one getting this kind of delay from Nairastake? I have written more than 15 mails and yet i haven't been credited since yesterday morning. They just spoilt 2 days for me and keep telling me about st-upid "Miss Patience" and sitting on their ar*ses doing nothing to credit me.

Cesclxg: Some ppl are big idi*ts... If u get a sure odd of 5, why don't u stake 20k on it to make 100k, instead of begging ppl for 1k? Big fo*l...

Oga Cesclxg, check your mail and reply . I sent you mails. You no dey reply mail. The answer to the questions I asked in the mail are important to me please.

She is your younger sister but you are too rigid wanting her to do things your way. She has a right to fellowship/church where she wants to and to be with her friends (though she should respect your privacy if you don't want her friends entering your one room apartment). It is not right for her to finish food and leave nothing for you but please don't give yourself hypertension trying to mould her into what you want her to be. She is different from you, every human is different so don't expect her to breath and talk and walk like you do.

Give her advice and relax your life, don't kill yourself if your advice is not taken. You are stressing too much and worrying too much over her. Try and cool down when talking to her, don't breath down on her neck and don't go the nagging way and you will see that you two will have peace.

JuanDeDios: I know it will be a great relief for me if this life were to end this very minute - drowning, road crash, Ebola, stray bullet, poison, I won't care. I have made enquiries about getting a job in Iraq or Borno State but nothing yet. Anyway, I know I don't have whatever it is it takes to take that step and end it with my own hands - so no suicider I am.

Glad you are being strong.
Life is like a Kaleidoscope of many colours. You may be seeing an unpleasant colour today and tomorrow the colour you will see may be heavenly beautiful. I am sure that if the dead ones can see, some people that killed themselves will be crying "how foolish they've been" while looking at the beautiful sides of life they caused themselves to lose out on.
It's foolish to kill oneself because of the troubles of today, you end up losing out on the joys of the good days and years ahead.

A boy won over 3 million naira with just 30k at sapele.
Experience has taught me to stay with singles instead of long combos. How do these boys work with these combos that give them plenty winning? It must be pure 70% pure good luck.

Cesclxg: The amount u stake is the amount u win... If u stake 20k u win 20k... If u stake 100k, u win 100k... But u sud know that the higher ur stake, the higher ur liability...

I think this just about explained laying a bet better. It's clearer now. I guess that is why the liability is more than the winning one gets. So it means that the money staked gets multiplied with the odd factor and in the winning of the bet the multiplication is not done which is why the only thing one wins is the amount staked. (that was my reason for being mad at them in Nairastake cause the liability one loses is greater than the win)

Cesclxg: My advice for now is to try inplay laying on naira.stake and discover how sweet betting can be... Cash out if u deem it necessary, esp when u layed against heavy favorites...

I enjoy betting on in play at Nairastake but their laying wasn't clear then so I was only back betting on in play, has only laid twice. You get better judgement when the teams are playing already. Yeah, laying on in plays (one is 80% sure of) should be twice fun.

Cesclxg: The inplay-odds on naira.stake are returning back to the way they used to be(i.e they are becoming juicy again). As season is about to start, try laying teams that are already losing... This bet works like 90percent of the time... Last night when arsenal were losing to Red bulls, the laying odds of arsenal was 4.3... I layed arsenal staking #35000, my liability was #115500, but I know that arsenal will have a hard time winning the match... It was worth the risk.... So I won 35k just like that

Now that's what we are talking about! Good game there not throwing away money in these things. I salute.
You are one person that is using your brain well in these things.
I am not ashamed of having foed some of your posts like twitter here in the thread cause they are loaded with wisdom.

Cesclxg: My real moniker is francesclxg... I didn't stake on those picks. Just advising those u wan stake. The thing is that I actually don't bet. That is y I don't drop picks because I don't bet...

You don't bet? So what do you do? I have a feeling that I can learn much from you. Your posts always make great sense.
I saw that you are already uncomfortable from explaining laying a bet, please bear with me and explain to me. I laid bet one time and the chunk of money they put aside as liability was taken by the bookie when I lost. I also laid a bet one time and when I won, a paltry tiny sum was added to my stake money as if I backed the bet and that got me feeling so deceived that I harassed the bookies' customer service with a mail asking them why it is that one can't win the same big chunk they remove (when a laid is lost) on winning a laid bet. Make it clearer for me.

You said that you don't bet, is it more of laying that you do. I tried to send a mail, i will try and send mail again so that you can explain better if you can't talk much in this thread, okay?

@Safari29
You see what I was telling you.
See what this dude is doing and making all the money in the internet. https://www.nairaland.com/1499182/making-regular-income-publishing-amazon
If you get busy with these things, you will realize that there's no time to feel down, you can use that downtime creatively to cook up some nice books that will be earning you money monthly and on and on and on.
Things are happening in business section. Real things.

dagentility: Thanks dear, ur advice will go a long way in making forget him. Its just dat it hasn't happend to me before dats why i'm finding it hard 2 cope with. But all d same thanks, i wil do my best 2 get out of dis miserable situation.

Do your best, Always remember your self worth.
If he doesn't appreciate you and does not consider you good enough for him.
You at least appreciate yourself, don't you?

Safari29: thank you bro

am trying my best to get a job. something I notice about me since I lost my job is that I av bn very unfortunate in Almost everything. I don't know if it spiritual or normal thing. It's either they just done with recruitment or no vacancy. another thing is that I don't have people around me like before like friends girlfriend all gone. even brothers all avoiding me except my mum.
My downfall started when I I was dating a single mother. she left when everything crumble d.




I need a doctor

Do you have a skill or something?
Anything that can help you get started without waiting to be called to start on a job by a company.
Pull yourself together please.Do you have a laptop or computer?
You can start something with it. I see youngsters getting busy with one money making engagement or the other in the business section.
I mean things are changing right now. When people wake up and run to work, you can actually sit in front of your computer and do one form of trading or the other. Go check them out there, some are doing mini importation. If you have no money to import, look for those that import in the "Do it yourself importation thread" etc and market for them so that you can get your own cut.

Don't feel down okay.

@Chaircover
How is Madam Chaircover? I hope she is okay.
Not seeing her at the thread.

@Safari29
You alright?
Are you alright dear? How are you?


@dagentility
Get him out of your system already.
Remember your self worth. You are worth more than many sparrows.
Be strong and forge ahead. Life can be funny, someday he may be the one running back to you.

Amusaopeyemi: 100 naira pepper and 50naira tomatoes with 2 bulb of onions, blend the onions with hand blender and blend the tomatoes and fresh pepper with electric blender or grinding stone.
Fry your oil, add lil bit of curry and stir you can add locust beans (Iru) if you want buh it is optional sha, then add the blended onions plus reduce the heat of the stove. Stir for a while and add your blended pepper and Maggi with salt to taste. (use a wooden spoon so it won't burn)
I love using smoked fish (shawa or panla) for my stews cuz am not a meat person, my teeth no too strong

Amusa I sent you a mail, reply okay.
Why is your teeth not too strong? You may be over drinking your Coca cola(as u said in your profile), seriously.
And that is a serious health issue.
Weak teeth are sometimes related to sugar problem. Anyway this is not the place for us to do that big sister chat up.
Reply me okay. I want to discuss sth important thru e-mail.

Amusaopeyemi: I don't want him to wait for me, I want him to look for me, to find me, to see who I i've grown to be without him, to apologise.

Don't cry Baby.
If you can find him, make effort and search for him. It may not be what you think? He may be wanting to get to you too.
Opeyemi, that your picture you put on your profile is it really good to leave one's pictures in websites?
I know that you can do what you want with your pictures but I don't think that a beautiful young girl like you should leave her picture there. Some bad persons may want to exploit you somehow, I mean it makes you vulnerable. I think that it is better taken off and when you make friends here and they wish to see your pics, you can show them on your own terms. Again 419ners do copy pictures of women to do their yeye runs. You do what you want all the same.

Do be taking good care of yourself okay Baby?

Amusaopeyemi: tnx, at least before she died she gave me education which happens to be the best legacy.
God bless her in heaven.

That was very good of her.
Yeah, May God bless her in heaven.

Amusaopeyemi: I grew up without a father, i'm an only child and I graduated at the age of 20, i'll be serving next month. I'm proud of who i've grown up to be.
My mom was an iron lady tho, she takes no nonsense. Died last year.

Oh Baby, that means you have non of them(parents) there for you now?
Hugs Sweetie.

I call him my Jehovah Jireh!
My Jehovah Jireh, My Jehovah Jireh, My Jehovah Jireh.

Ka anyi kpo ya aha ya a a (Let's call him his name)
Jehovah Jireh, Jehovah Jireh.

Ka anyi kpo ya aha ya a a
Jehovah Jireh, Jehovah Jireh.

Aga m akpo ya aha ya a a
Jehovah Jireh Jehovah Jireh
Jireh Jehovah Jireh Jireh
Jehovah jireh jireh
Jehova Jireh
!!
!
Sings on and out.
Poster, Thanks for the thread.

Some parents help put in place situations that bring these kind of harms on their children and even spouses without knowing it. I wish most of these parents can be as sensitive as I am. I am SUPER SENSITIVE so much that I can read the minds and faces of abusers like this one and before he is making his plans to get the kid into bed, I am already making such plans that will not afford him the opportunity to be alone with the child in the first place.
There was one that they reported that happened in Ajegunle, a kindhearted mother was allowing her child to go help a disabled person/neighbour who was in turn sodomizing the child. How can a mother leave their child in such vulnerable position? It is in the olden days that people are showing such kindness not nowadays that some funky adults that are feeling sophisticated with (h*mos*exuality) are going about molesting kids.

Safari29: thank you very much for the cancel. I am undergoing some hard times now hence the depression and suicide feeling. I try to keep my hope high especially when I see the less privilege still hopeful. I also believe it will pass soon. my case is like someone that fell from grace to grass. Am starting over again May God help me. Thank you so much May God Bless u

Be strong dear.
Life is full of ups and downs.
This too shall pass, you know.
Sending you plenty of warmth.

I also think that what Essien Igbokwe's husband was deeming as "keeping her body in a room for 3 months hoping that she will wake" is the family having to keep her body at home (to honour her request not to be taken to mortuary) while preparing for her burial. There's no way their adult children & closer friends in the know will agree for him to leave her body at home for 3 months in order to see whether she will wake up. The man knows to write in a moving way sha.