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I hate to do this but i don't have a choice cos nothing seems to be working for me, i don't have a roof over my head and not to talk of to feed.. I know what am about to do is very wrong i love children but i wouldn't want to bring a child to this world i can't take care of, i can't even take care of myself right now.. Am almost seven month pregnant and i can't get a job in my condition now i beg to feed myself, am d only child of my parent my mum is sick my stepdad is broke even my mum sisters can't help me am all alone i can't go to my village cos everybody i know is dead, none of my people goes to d village anymore.. Pls all i want is to have this child am carring to give it a life also to a couple that needs a child for them to look after and him as their own so that d child can have a life, i won't come looking for it in d future i just want d best for this babyboy... But if i will be supported to look after it with financial help then i will rethink but as for now pls guys most exspecialy ladies pls put yourself in my shoes.. If intrested or you know a couple that is well to do pls contact me on 09092452151 AnitaFreancis.. As for those that send me an email sorry guys i can't respond cos my phone is bad.. Thanks..

Happy sunday guys i want to thank some of u dat gave advice on what i do with my condition i really appreciate and God bless u and as for others dat insulted me without knowing d full story i also thank you.. Let me make something clear for d record i didn't get pregnant to pin him or for him to marry me cos i can't marry a man that beat me and i still go out to beg friends for money for me to feed and cook for him when he is down on cash, i was working due to somethings i lost my job i fell inluv wit d man, i 4got i needed help and started dating him not becos of his money anymore i got to like him alot but still i was not 2comfortable living with him i still need my own place, the little money i have from my savings in d bank i spend d money on him cos he was arrested by d police to get him out of d station he asured me dat he was going to return my 200k and even add more to get my accomodation and even add more to it,, i was beaten by him he even knows my family friends and consin.. I didn't mention all this just to cut d longstory short.. I wanted to abort d pregnancy but he said i should't cos he has always wanted a child.. When he started complaning about no money i didn't complain too but he drinks and smoke everyday and still tell me he donesn't have money, i was five month pregnant and i have not started antenatal even d house we both live he couldn't renew his rest cos of no money, i was worred cos i have been having malaria for d pass 5month and i have not even gone to d hospital.. One morning d landlord came i was d only one at home he said we must live dat he has tried dat either we pay or leave his house, i told him and he said he was expecting some money dat i should not worry, on the 16th of junly i came home and found the house empty with all his things gone i cried all throught dat day i even call him he doesn't pick i keep calling on still he off his cellphone.. So pls don't insult me cos u don't know me or my story....Thank you...

ajimega:
I am willing to help you but on my terms that after you give birth i will collect the child and cater for she or he very well you just let me know if you are interested to give up the child but pls don't abort the baby and don't dump the baby in the gulter or dustbin i am willing to care for the child.

. Pls call me am so much interested.. 09092452151.. Anita francis..

Dear readers please mature advice and no insult pls..


Am going throught a difficult time in my life and needed help badly, to cut the long story short, I met this man throught a friend i was living with, she introduce me to this guy saying he has money and he will be able to take care of me, I had no choice because I needed help and the guy has the money to give..

I started dating him and he gives me money a lot and promise to get me an accommodation which I did believe him of course. I got pregnant for him and he told me to keep the pregnancy which i refused but my girlfriend told me to keep it that he may even marry me. After five months plus, he started changing towards me and telling me he doesn't have money anymore. When I try to talk about the situation at hand, he gets angry and even tries to hit me..

He does not give me money anymore, he is always drinking and smoking.. I couldn't go for an abortion because I was scared and it's too late for abortion. I came home after service on sunday and found out that he was not at home and he has packed all his things and left an empty house for me. I cried throught out that day. Where am I going to start from with almost six months pregnancy? I later found out that he's married and he has 3 kids..

What am I going to do?. Pls advice..