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speedyboi: From Wikipedia:
Ties That Bind 2011 with Ama K. Abebrese, Kimberly Elise
Amina 2011 Amina
Last Flight to Abuja 2012 Suzie With Hakeem Kae-Kazim, Jim Iyke, Jide Kosoko
Blood on the Lagoon 2012 Post Production
Up creek a paddle 2013
Post Production
Hit The Floor 2013 Omotola



Google could've answer this your fooolish question. Abi you expect her to dey star with Tonto Dike in Iphone babes?

Gbamest !!!

50GB??

Na only me dey trip

Is this Dude a learner?

She's gorgeous !

Neat .

Burger01: Help me ask him...I am still waiting for this his answers.. BB not a smart phone.. huh?...

I'm still waiting for his reasons tooo

Like seriously ?

Serendipity: I become unaccountably enamoured and smitten by women with a good heart. Those that are kind earn my love unconditionally. And if you are observant and perspicacious enough you will notice them, as people tend to manifeat their real character unwittingly, the possibillity of pretence nothwithstanding.
For instance, I was about to board a bus that was Enugu bound. There were four physically challenged (blind) women already in the bus. Having waited for them to sort their money and pay, the conductor spoke to them in a harsh 'agboroic' manner and they felt affronted and started making little noise.
You know what a lady that apparently should be in her mid 20's or late 30's said?
''Why did you even allow these people to enter this bus?
I was startled by that statement. So this lady has no pity for these challenged persons, I asked myself. Of course the possibility that that statement must be a true relection of her character is gigantic.

OYINBO PO ! Are u a Obahiagbon ?

Bollocks ! Cheap lies ...

My list ( Try and beat this)

1. Oliver twist - Dbanj
2. Damiduro - Davido
3. Roll - Rayce
4. Kukere - Iyanya
5. Azonto - fuse
6. The thing - Atunmpa
7. Beautiful Oyinye
8. Carolina - Sauce kid
9. Azonto - Wizkid
10. Sarkodie

coogar: annie1, how are you doing tonight? how's the little man?

We r great .. Thank you

coogar: you are intensively daft.....

if he wanted babies for rituals, there are several baby factories in nigeria where he can do "cash and carry". does it make economic sense to you for him to search for a willing partner, impregnate her and wait about 9 months to get the child? this might take him more than a year to achieve - and you are this obtuse to think a man would wait 12 months and pay almost a million naira for what he can get instantly for as low as N250k in nigeria. you are the type that would taste dog's shyte on the street before identifying what it is! unrepentant dunce!

*Faints* with laughter .... Hahhahahahhahahahahahaha

coogar: in nigeria? you would wife the most beautiful girl in UNILAG with a refurbished iphone 4s

Hahahahahaha

Refurbished ke ? N Not even IPhone 5 ? Hahahahaha hilarious

coogar: just becareful.....
many males/hermaphrodites would come to you as females.....make sure you conduct a thorough physical examination to be sure.



annie1, sex is not that expensive in nigeria!

Lol ... I'm sure it is ..

Hahahahahahahaha

This thread is soooo funny

@ Op
Why not make it 1million naira ( u know million sounds wonderful to the ear ).. And while we r at it ..chuck in a tear rubber car .. Also a fully furnished apartment ( you won't want mosquito or cockroaches chopping the belle now , would you?)
And lastly a year supply of of BIG STOUT , just to fatten mum n shild ..

ileobatojo: I don't understand what's exactly is in your hands. Whether to become his mistress? His second wife? What exactly does he want? For you both to hit the sheets first before he'll be convinced to divorce his wife? I'm confused as to why he's trying to guilt you into taking the fall for his own mess.

I know
Its kind of strange ... Also With close ppl telling me to think about it .. He said he's separated but he's not divorced yet !

I don't get why that ain't a problem to ppl .. Very weird ..

He's confused ..

ifyalways: Lol @ "I can have him if I want" . I don't know a sweet way to say this but babe , twas this same I-have-him-where-I-want attitude that made him leave you earlier. You assumed you were his one and only, was preggie and planning wedding when dude bolted with another woman.

Its good to be self confident, but having a man to baang aint same as having a man for keeps and vice versa.

There's no competition here, just let go completely and use your charms, charisma and self confidence to hook another man.

Ok I can't have him , if I want him .... Does that make u happy ?

Honestly I'm not trying to be arrogant , I'm just saying it how it issss

Sometimes , I wonder if some ppl read n understand these pages long post , cos I keep repeating myself ..

He didn't bolt with another woman , I asked him to leave ! He met the other woman 2 years after ... I know that cos he dated another girl , before he met her ( I was dating too , so noooo biggie )

He gave me a ring , I fell pregnant n started planning a package wedding .. Despite doing this ,our argument was getting tiresome .. Then I composed a mail , telling him I was no longer into this n best we go our separate ways ? Should he have stayed despite this maybe , should I have said I didn't mean this .. Yes

Having a guy to bang ? Common girl , u know better then that , if i need someone to bang .. I won't go for a married man .. Singles still dey now ..

My aunt still called me today ( honestly he's called everyone ) telling me , it's in my hands n citing different stories , where such happened.. And all .. ( how they can't understand that marriage part is beyond me ...)

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Why are you gloating over your "powers" to have him at your will?

Based on that, I don't believe your write-up. You're only saying the right thing - not that you mean it. Now tell me, what would you do in this scenario:

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It was a cold, wet and grey November evening. The winds howled eerily as the rainstorm gathered force. Annie was in her living room, relaxing on her sofa, as she watched her three year old toddler junior, on the floor play with his toys. She looked at her watch - 7:30 pm. Her ex (Richard) was meant to have been there 30 mins ago. She checked her phone for any missed calls or text messages from him...nothing. What was keeping him so late? She wondered.

BUZZ..BUZZ.. went her doorbell.

Getting off the sofa, she walked barefooted to the windows to see who it was. Richard!

"What took you so long?" She asked irritably, as she slid the safety chain back and opened the door.

"Annie, I'm sorry. I got caught up in traffic and would have called to let you know but my phone's battery is down", he said looking crestfallen. He was completely drenched and Annie couldn't help feeling sorry for him.

"You could have called me from a pay phone", she said accusingly at him.

"A pay phone? Baby, who uses those archaic artefact these days anyway?" He asked incredulously.

"Some people do", she responded. "Anyway, it doesn't matter. You're here now. You might want to take off those wet clothes while I pop them in the tumble dryer for you", she added.

"Would you do that for me?" he asked, giving her one of his slow, sensual smiles. Annie could feel her heart flip-flopping in her chest as they both looked at each other.

"Yes. Yes, I would. Now please go change in the bathroom while I get you a set of clean, dry clothes", she added.

Three minutes later, with an armful of fresh clothes, she knocked on the bathroom door. The door swung open, with Richard standing unashamedly in his birthday suit. Annie gasped in surprise.

"What do you think you're doing?" She asked in a strangled voice, unable to tear her eyes away from his well toned, Adonis god-like physic.

"What do you think I'm doing?", he countered staring back at her, daring her to look lower. "You don't expect me to sit in my wet undies, do you?" he asked, as he stretched his arms to take the clothes from her. Wordlessly, Annie passed them over to him.

I shouldn't be here, she told herself half-heartedly. [i]I should go back to Junior and just let Richard get on with it...[/i]Her thoughts were interrupted by the feel of Richard's warm hands on her arms, pulling her closer to him. She let the clothes drop to the floor as Richard bent his handsome head down to hers and covered her lips with his in a long, slow sensual kiss...She could feel the room spinning around her as Richard pulled her closer to him, wrapping his arms around her waist. She could feel the full outline of his need as his body pressed against hers, while he gently caressed the small of her back...

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Annie, need I continue?

Now tell me that didn't get to you? Talk true and shame the devil o! [/quote]Hahahahahahaha

It got to me , I'm not going to lie whooooooo

Girrrrrrrrlllllll , I asked for help , not to fuel the fire ! Dang ...

Airpure: Annie God Bless u for this post? U will surely get u heart desire .

Those of u that said she should do otherwise change ur ways ohhhhhhh. God is watching on 4D

Looool ... Thanks babe

I still love @Coogar though

[quote author=baby_123]No seriously, test him and see what he does. Hey, if you dont try, you will never know. But be prepared for him to tell his wife at some point if he is just messing with you, which will create so much drama for you in the end. But you know what, you took the leap of faith. Just update us. hey, no one here knows you. I think some other girls may learn from it too.[/quote]Naaahhh .... I know I can have him , if I want him .. But my conscience will not let me , and most especially my God .. If he wasn't married , i won't even open this thread .. But the marriage makes it a sin !

Few days ago , I wasn't so sure , cos I was interpreting the signs how I wanted to ..

Yes I still blush thinking bout some memories , but that's what they r .

I honestly don't blame the girl he married , she met a guy she liked/loved n they got married ( n most of us will do the same) .. Did he tell her ? I'm sure he did , but how many of us don't have a bad relationship story ? When I use to tell my dates then about him , by the time I finish the story , I'm sure most of them would have strangled him given the chance , cos I told them things ( from my view point ) , so imagine him telling a girl that thinks she's found her prince charming about me , u think she will say go back to her ? Nah , most girls will say thank God I found u , I ll take away ur pain blah blah ..

So it ain't her fault n I'm not mad at her ..

I take the sole blame (I'm not been hard on myself o ) , but the truth be told , I caused most of it ..

I know the man I'll marry by God's grace , will reap the benefit of this growth ..

Can I get an Amen ...? Amen

[quote author=baby_123]Ok Annie, lets try this. Go for it, and update us. I sense you want this badly enough, so go for it. You are going to do it anyway, all this one na ogboju. Do it, but make sure your truthfully update us on all the ups and downs. I think this may be a great learning experience for you, or even your path to happiness. Who knows. [/quote]Loool , if u know me , u will know I won't do it ! I'm so timid .. It's all mouth n no actions !

I always go by 'what will be , will be '

Its all this M&B novels jor n too much pretty woman n like movies ... , like a prince charming will just roar down on his white horse n say ' Oh my love , where have u been ' and I'll go .. ' My prince '

Lool , seriously though ... The best will come out of this .

To ppl saying he will run , if I tell him to pay expensive school fees , or pay more money.. I can tell u he won't !

We discuss this all the time ( what we want for our son) and and as we both want what's best for him, we ensure that happens !
Money is not even the issue here , so pls let move away from that .

Also , I don't think it's about sex , we live in a society where u can get sex from black./White /Asian/ e.t.c
So he can get it anywhere , he's a goodlooking dude with a lot of confidence .. So sex won't be a problem

Obviously he could miss our time together n probably just wants to ... Hmmmm , but I doubt if it's only about that ..

jennykadry: No one is being harsh. Maybe a few people

Seriously though on a normal day I would be the one hitting Annie's head onthe wall but the one thing that has kept me in check is -her smartness. She is smart and I read where she wrote about friends and family members that advsed her on what to do,which sounded like the obvious - go back to him but she opened this thread to ask for other people's opinion as well. She has a conscience and she is smart. Nothing stopped her from doing what her family members have advised her, nothing whatsoever but she chose to come here cos deep down, she knows what is right and what isn't

Gbam ! Exactly

I know , I can never break up a home

Yes everyone around me tells me to go for it , and I know it's not right ( even though I still like him) ,

I started this thread to see other views n to make sure I'm not just been placid .

What gets to me is how he can just move , meet someone else , get married n I'm still here , not even in a relationship! I honestly thought the reverse will be the case ... It's seriously humbled me .

ileobatojo: I was actually about to say this. I highly doubt that he married someone else to spite her. If he was so interested in spiting her, why wait 3 yrs after they broke up to do it?

I would think that all this is because he is having problems with his new wife (which may just be the normal initial stage of marriage problems), and that's making him fantasize about the good times he used to have with OP. Especially since she's constantly around him.

No I'm not constantly around him ..Grrrrrrrrrrrr

When he comes to see his child , I either leave the in the living room n go to the room , or I'm out n it's him , my boy n the Nanny .. N even when I'm at home , most times , I've got a mask on , hair net and in my Pjs ( never night gown , If I know he's coming in) , very unflattering , like I said from my previous posts , I thought he hated me , so looking flattering was the furthest thing from my mind .

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Annie, 9 pages on and you still don't get it, do you?

What's it going to take for you to understand that you're playing with fire?

Correct me if I'm wrong, but you, your ex and his wife are Nigerians based in Naija, aren't you?

Your assuming your ex's wife is meek and going to take this crap from you and your ex, lying low abi?

I warned you some pages ago to tread carefully here. Your trespassing here and you know it. What's it gonna take for you to back off? Even if you don't value your life, does't the life of your son matter to you? Are you waiting for things to blow out of proportion before you get your act together?

For all you know, this woman could be lying low, waiting patiently for the perfect opportunity to strike. Ever heard the saying: "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"?

Tell me, what are you going to do if this woman tries to eliminate you & your son? Call Naija police? You think people'll pity you? On what moral ground? You won't be the first, nor the last victims to fall foul of poisioning from a jealous wife.[/quote]No , we r not based in Nigeria , I thought that would have been obvious from my post ! Hmmmmm

For all u that r still going on about me breaking up his home , u r missing the point !

I didn't start this ! I never bothered him , he comes to mine regularly n ive never tried to seduce or come on to him even when he got married , I didnt go seeking trouble , all I did was scream n punch some pillows n put on my stepford wives face or in this case stepford not his wive face n carried on with my life

When he kissed me , it came out of nowhere n I kissed back , cos I couldn't help it , I wasn't expecting it .. Few seconds after it registered I pushed him away

Yes it's opened up this feelings , that I thought were long gone .. But I want to do the right thing !

andromida: You really need to stop being so hard on yourself and feeling like you didn't do enough. The responsibility to work out the relationship was not yours alone. You got pregnant and had the child and what did he do? he went on to get married to someone else despite the fact that you guys had something good going to the point of planning a wedding. You both were immature but all these are in the past. Now the present -you are here with your kid while he is married to someone else and wants you back as?? and the truth is some day you will meet someone you'll like and will like you too, it may take a while but rest assured it will happen. Babe let him go he isn't yours. While sorting out his marital problems he shouldn't be messing up your own life. He didn't look back before he got married and now he is looking back when its too late.

andromida: You really need to stop being so hard on yourself and feeling like you didn't do enough. The responsibility to work out the relationship was not yours alone. You got pregnant and had the child and what did he do? he went on to get married to someone else despite the fact that you guys had something good going to the point of planning a wedding. You both were immature but all these are in the past. Now the present -you are here with your kid while he is married to someone else and wants you back as?? and the truth is some day you will meet someone you'll like and will like you too, it may take a while but rest assured it will happen. Babe let him go he isn't yours. While sorting out his marital problems he shouldn't be messing up your own life. He didn't look back before he got married and now he is looking back when its too late.

Thank you

jennykadry: UJu you weren't there so stop it. You can bet from now till tomorrow, you were not there

Do you know what caused the problems? Do you know why they are having issues in their marriage? do you even know what caused the marital issues? Why are you judging and blaming a woman who we don't know might have been innocent in all of these?

@Annie has been asked many times what caused the issues in their marriage and she has refused to answer.

I've got no idea , what caused it ..
I asked n he said , tts just not working ( n it's all up to me , of I want us back )

Really weird ... Y get married if u r not in love with that person !

Cos I could have done the same thing ,if I wanted to show him , I've been proposed to too , I boils have just gone ahead nbmartied the person , but I knew I'll be messing up my life !

That has always been some of issues (arguments ), even career wise , he makes rash decisions ..!

Ujujoan: I really don't think you did anything bad by wanting your man back. Yes, I call him your man cos that's exactly what he is. He might be married to someone else, but he was yours first.

You made a mistake when you let him go, a mistake that many women make. Some have lost 'the one' cos of their silly pride; some others were luck enough to get extra paitient men who are also very matured. I say this because it's obvious your ex is very immature. It doen't make his a bad person, it doesn't make him unfit for you or anyone else .. . it just makes him fickle. Something he's bound to outgrow eventually when life begins to come hard at him.

That being said, I think you need to come to terms with the fact that he's gone for good. I know it seems impossible, but you'll love again, and then you'll see why this man you love so much now was never meant to be your husband!

No, you are not going after someone else's man, no you are not silly or crazy . . . you are a perfectly normal young woman who made a mistake. A mistake that cost her a lot, but NOT everything. You have a bright future ahead of you, please don't lose sight of that.

Let your ex go . . . .

Thanks Jenny for this post , u r so spot on with this post !

( yes we were planning to get married , we were about to buy those package weddings (my idea), cos I was already pregnant n I didn't want any naija long shindig... )

Yes Immaturity played a big part n being very fickle .... I can still see some immaturity traits even now ..

I told him , yes I caused most of it , but he left despite a child been there n he got soooooooo upset , like how can I say he left , that I told him to leave , I said yeah but u didn't stay , u left n we just went back n forth again ..

I really don't think he's moved on cos these things upset him so much ....

We havent spoken since Friday , when I told him , it's best we move on , which I think it's for the best , though I'm not going to lie , I do wish he will say something ..

I think , the thing with me is the loneliness , I soo hate been lonely . I've met a lot of ppl , some have even told me , they will wholeheartedly adopt my boy n we should get married n all , but they r just not my type n I know they won't make him happy , I will rather stay home , than go out with ppl that I find it tedious to hang out with! I crash my Sis n her husbands dates every time ..lol
Don't get me wrong , I've met some that I like , but they r after that one thing n it's so glaring to see , I ve been tempted yeah n regretted it n vow not to make the mistake anymore .

I just feel , I've made so much of a mess

Thanks for all ur advice ( the good n the bad) ( though which , will I deem good , hmmmm I wonder !

but thanks all the same

coogar: shouldn't you be studying home economics or introductory technology? what are you doing here?

Hahahhahahah ...This got me laughing hard

Coogar , u r man ... Wow , didn't realise ..

But I still loveeeeeeee u though

Ur posts r hilarious .. Keep em coming jor

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The husband's? No wonder they keep mistaking you for a female.

It's the husband's fault that she cheated? It's the husband's fault that she thought it was no big deal to cheat? It's the husband's fault that she refused to apologize to him? It's the husband's fault that she dumped him? Back up . . . it's the husband's fault that she stoned him with an object at a point in time and he got injured? VIOLENCE! It's the husband's fault that he got chased out of the relationship? It's the husband's fault that he met another woman and married her?

If Annie wasn't/isn't cray-cray, this "couple" would be as straight as a 30cm ruler! [/quote]And I'm not even a violent person , Ive never got into a fight with a girl , mouth yes ..plenty ! , but when it gets physical , I bolt ...

Dont know what got into me honestly , anyway now I know I can never do that again .

jennykadry: He kissed her a year after marriage.

@Annie
I dont know you but I like you and honestly I wish you well, I really do. You are smart and I love that.

Bye bye y'all

Thanks Jenny ..

jidegirl12: UMM thanks @cooger ..that was a very thoughtful of you on the info part....I just have a gut feeling that Annie and this idio t have been involved and she feels guilty so she came here for advice if she should go ahead with the D thing and she doctored her story....I will still stand by my point tho on the Karma rule ..evil will never befall a good and kind hearted person...it's just doesn't !

@ jidegirl .. Now I'm confused , thought u were wit me hmmmmmmm

Again ,no we ve never been involved ! Just the brief kiss
( took everything in me to push him away )

@ Coogar , girl u r feistyyyyyy
Me loveeeesssss it