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I have only one female friend that I can chat with. I have been having feeling for her for the past 3 years. I don't know how to kill this feeling because this situation is very risky. Because if I tell her how I feel, she will regret me and hate me forever.

Please how do I kill this feeling? I have tried everything possible to kill that feeling

Olarewajub:
Nothing anymore.

Most of the time, it is a question of if I am interested in starting a conversation with a stranger.

If I need to ask a question, I do it without any hesitation.

For example, if I find myself in an unfamiliar environment and need directions.

I would ask the question.

The rule is not to overthink the outcome of starting a conversation or asking questions.

please help me. How can I start a conversation with a girl on WhatsApp.
Please I need line by line statement.

Note I have never done this before

Good day everyone, merry Christmas.

I previously posted about the problem I am facing as an introvert. But now things are getting bad. I lost my mother in October this year. And she is only one I talk to frequently. This has made my fell in deep depression and illness. I have tried googling and trying the treatments for depression and overthinking but its not working. I seriously need help now.

I don't want to tell my dad and siblings because I don't want to add to the existing situations.

starbuck:
Better forget going and send a simple text and if possible request for account details..

thank you. I will send an apology message immediately

Please I have made a bold step of attending a public event that is wedding this Saturday
Can you please help with the following:
1. How do I greet the celebrants
2. How should I dress.
3. How should I behave
4. When is the right time to leave the wedding venue
5. If I later refuse to go, how should I apologize

litigator:
I will only recommend books and tapes. Also, figure out your personality type and join your group on Facebook. It will help you learn about yourself. That was what helped me grow.

Just google the MBTI test or 16personality test. You can take the free versions of the test. Take it on different websites to be sure.

Introvertedness is not a sin and it's not a disorder. You are unique in your own way and watch what you say about yourself. Words are spells. They have power. For what you say is what you see. Keep a diary and just write. Keep writing and let it all out. You can go back and cancel. But don't keep it in. It can be online or offline.

I guess if I told you I have a 10Million naira deal for you right now, you will forget for a moment that you are an introvert and want to meet up.

thank you

Iamkaro:
You will remain useless if you do not do nofap/semen retention. Thank me later

thank you, I did that, it didn't work

adezie:
Best way to overcome your fears is to face them. You won't die trust me. Ask yourself how much you really want it and put all your effort into it. First, I think you need to get a job, any job. That way you have the opportunity to go out and meet people. Also join groups in church and be active. Make it a point to be as busy as possible pursuing the goals you set for yourself which is to be more sociable and less lonely. You can start a blog where you talk about your challenges and how you are overcoming them. Being an introvert is the best thing. Most great people are in troverts. Read about them and be inspired. There's a whole community of us. You are not alone and you live to discover your own possibilities. Wishing you all the best.

thank you. But I had a job before in which I was very busy but it still did not solve the problems

DanielAlhassan:
send me email to

danielalhassan6@gmail.com

too shy to do that.

Good day everyone,
I am a terrible useless introvert, I don't have girlfriend and I have never ever had one. My self confidence, self esteem, etc are very low. I can't walk to someone especially the opposite sex to talk, even just saying hi. I can't maintain eye contact, I can't speak well, I can't do anything well.
So please I am begging your guys here to help me. I am dying in loneliness and depression. I know some of you guys are in a relationship, please help me, train me.
I also masturbate alot and for someone that stays indoor all day, it will be hard to overcome this addiction. I have tried everything possible to stop masturbating but to no avail. I have alot of problems to solve and if anyone can help me solve just 1 I will really appreciate. And if they can't be solved, let me end my life and prevent disgrace to my parents and friends.