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illitrate:
Wrong, God designed marriage for singles. The ladies are not married because they ain't single.

You have to be single before you can be married.

NiRfreak:
If we all notice of late, unlike in those days, we will realise there is this proliferation of guys who are well into their late 20s and early 30s yet still having no mind to take a lady serious in relationship that may culminate in marriage. In fact their mind is far from marriage and on something else - which is, travelling out of this country.

Yes that's the truth and the reason many guys aren't planning to marry is because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so there's no point to form a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out of the country.

So ladies, here you have it, the reason you can't find a husband today is mostly not about you but the guys who all are bent on leaving this shit hole, cos an average guy of marriageable age today is planning to leave the country, In fact has been denied visa a multiple times yet not giving up.
Many guys won't tell you this, but it's the fact. May God provide your husband.

Samolaogun:
Like I said she has always been self centred. Always been about her looks. My wife is beautiful and when you marry beautiful girls I thought that was the package that came with it, nobody is perfect. It was manageable at first, but after the kids arrived it’s like she felt tied down and she wanted to just live her life. It’s not today this problem has started, it’s been happening for years. I’ve tried everything to tame her but you cannot tame a wild beast. Only thing left is to report her to her mother, but her mother is a replica of my wife. That is how her father died before his time, I cannot allow that to be my case. When you are too understanding or calm with women, they take advantage and misbehave. For my own peace of mind I have decided to let go, I no longer want to be involved. I cannot have a woman parading as an ashewo in my house making a mockery of me. I’ve reached my boiling point.

ornicus:
The responses are funny though. A lot of guys are under the illusion that women are pikins they can just boss around. I forbid you from browsing Instagram, I will take away your privileges. I will check your phone. How?

ornicus:
No be you look hot chick? You no see homely chick when you dey look for wife?

When you were dating, did she not also have other toasters then?

Unless your wife was an ugly duckling ie she became hot after marriage, you knew exactly what you were getting into.

I honestly don't have any advice, because I don't know if you are paranoid or insecure or right

pocohantas:
She wasn't an ugly duckling, read his post well- he said she has always been like that, but he ignored.

This is the same thing I commented on the other thread, if she keeps showing signs that she loves the fast life...pull the plug.

But do they hear? They think they can always use marriage to tame every womam. Shior!

pocohantas:
Did the people calling OP insecure go through the opening post at all?

If all he stated there is the truth, then his concerns are valid. People should stop accusing their partner's of insecurity, as a way of getting off with their bad behaviour.

truthsayer009:
Does she have any higher authority she listens to
and respect that you can report er ro?

If yes, that is what you should do.

I would like to say there is a reason for every decision. She started partying heavily for a reason. I'm not saying you have infidelity issues here but you need to investigate. People dont change or switch up for no reason.

Good luck sir.

Edit: lastly, perhaps part of the investigation is you actually join her in partying. It may sound stupid but thats how you get more info.

Samolaogun:
Oga my problem is not her looking good as you can see I praised her for it.

My problem is her scandalous behaviour, partying every minute, too friendly behaviour and extreme seductive dressing. No man will be comfortable with such behaviour. As it is, I just want her out of the house. Do not envy what is shallow, as you see me so I’m dreaming of a quiet decent woman who will give me peace of mind over this scandalous show off wife that I have at the moment. Be careful what you wish for.

truthsayer009:
OP, if i get married and have what you have right now I would totally be happy.

10 years of marriage and your wife still looks really good to 100% is rare. You need to ask God for forgiveness because you dont deserve what you have.

Even if your wife wants to play around or go back in shape, it should motivate you to join her in the Gym, get yourself in shape too. Go out with her to events, look like a power couple.

You guys always admire Beyonce when you see her. You think it was by Juju she maintained her figure after 2 kids, imagine if she was with Men like you?

What makes you think she doesnt want to take care of your children.

why don't you join her in looking good?

donstan18:
[s]This is insecurity at its peak since you're yet to catch her.

Or maybe, just maybe, you have very good reason to think and feel the way you are feeling because there are some flirty activities that is expected of a married Nigerian to quit or reduce.


But in my opinion bruv, I'll advice you to reduce the way you stalk her phone and life and focus on how to train your kids, before you die of HBP, because you never complained of her inability to contribute on the welfare of your kids, you are just uncomfortable with her Slaying life . Stop stalking her so that you don't find out what you've been longing to see. If possible; Start slaying too.

Not all women are ready to turn to an old mgbeke because of marriage, some like looking good and you should be happy you have one because they are few.[/s]

airmark:
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MESS FC

pansophist:
Said by a depreciating sack of solipsistic estrogeneous matter. Rock.

zclass:
The focus is women. The write up is teaching us to work hard in order to impress, that's bull shit.
Though he has made some valid statements sha. Fvck is a lot cheaper if you understand the game.
Yes ofcos we all work hard but different, we do it for personal improvement to establish a good reputation and a legacy.
Op wants us to worship women as though they are the reward(trophy) for hard work.
shebi you get my point?

zclass:
No atom of wisdom in this write up. Just a load of bull crap

franchasng:
God will bless your handwork bro, its just a matter of time. I know what people are passing through in Nigeria, yet some people who are fortunate to get a visa to US or other developed nations dont know what God did for them and they will be blabbing rubbish after wasting the rare opportunity.


My brother the truth is, getting US visa now under Donald Trump govt is very difficult unless you are going through a spouse sponsored or reputable company under work visa.

I had suggest you try Canada express entry or some other small countries in Europe.

Unfortunately I don't reply messages here cos I no longer have access to the mail I used and for some other personal reasons

pu7pl3:
Lmao...which films budget is high?

Please use the sarcasm font

pu7pl3:
Allow them to sell their market bro ....you can Sabi nitpick eh

Don't forget it's an emancipation of one Harley Quinn...she is the focal point of the whole movie

pansophist:
Of course. Environmental and societal factors will influence the degree and intensity it is expressed, but the core of the matter is ever relevant. From my experience, in underdeveloped countries, women premium an economically dominant man than your average fine boy. To be handsome as a man and broke in the west will attract women to you (Jeremy Meeks, a convicted model dating a billionaire's daughter come to mind), can't say the same about Nigeria.

pansophist:
It seems so, but again, it is expected that readers should understand it in its true context. The romance section is about romance, relationship, and stuff. And yes, nature only cares about survival, so if the only reason you can improve yourself is to gain female attention and have a family, in nature's eyes, you are a success. It is your kids that lives after you, not your career.

pansophist:
Yes, especially when toned. You know, the Justin Bieber look. Less body fat (subcutaneous and visceral), trimmed jawline (triangulated), sparkling white teeth, v-torso,

Come get money and get sense join am, with impeccable diction, humor and sense of style, you go enjoy woman tire

pansophist:
Example?

xzqplhh:
American Singer, Miley Cyrus shared these photos of herself flexing her muscles with her underboobs on display..........


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oyaskii:
For me...Heath Ledger in TDK, Matthew McConaughey in Dallas Buyers Club and Jake Gyllenhaal in Stronger.

TheKingIsHere:
Infact eh, i still wonder...but i am still watching and giving will smith a benefit of a doubt