Munzy14:

They come with someone's problems already..Unless you are a single father, two can play better.

If not, it is tricky.

There's nothing tricky there. You're just avoiding responsibilities.

Bloooody:
I can't be the only one noticing the alarming rate Nigerian women are going to runz and prostitution.
You can now see girls at age of 16 using iphone 12

Nigerian women are internationally known to be wayward and backward thinking but this rate of prostitution is something else!!

I strongly suggest you talk to your mother about this.

She started the trend.

yanabasee:


You will just open your mouth and begin to spill trash....



Marrying a single mother who adopted a child isn't funny ... As a man, I will likely get worried because it is possible she'd destroyed her womb with excess abortion.

But if she's intact and can give birth, she's cute, homely and intelligent. We're good to go...

Mtchew.

Okay.

Thank you for your answer.

Jennyclay:
Nigeria men have shallow minds, they might not marry the woman. They might think her womb is damaged reason why she has an adopted kid.

Infact, the ones that might agree, would want the woman to take-in (get pregnant) for him before he proceed the marriage plans.

Some men don't even want to raise someone else's kid.

You're right.

Men who don't want to raise other people's kids are stingy and wicked

BigJoe19:
No one loves old whines, single mothers are old whines.

Okay if a single woman adopts a child, she becomes a single mother. Will you marry or date this kind of single mother?

immortalcrown:
Is child adoption evil or shameful? If yes, how? If no, what is the reason for your question?

Actually this question is for redpillers. They don't like single mothers because... I don't even know why.

Chioma is so beautiful

Davido is a fool

Would you marry a single, childless woman who adopted a kid?

There are different types of hustle. You don't have to go out to the streets and act like portable before everyone knows you're hustling.

The feeling of rejection is worse than overthinking.

Okay, Chukwudi. Quit pretending now

I used to like Rema too but after that Calm Down song, I'll just observe him from afar.

Kobojunkie:
I apologize on behalf of your mother in this.

It's okay. I think I've moved on.

I forgive her. But we've never talked about it before and I believe someday we will.

Putindbutt:

Always known that bitterness must have been the reason you hate men.
Siofra, your brother, uncle or father must have molested you. For the fact that your mother didn't raise an alarm or bother fighting for you just so to keep the shame within the family. But you're clever to hide that part of information in your comments.

My uncle, brothers and father didn't molest me, scumbag. I said I don't really know what happened after that. I don't know if she confronted him but she was shocked. And the abuse continued.

God! It was a terrible experience. I'm just glad it isn't happening anymore.

Kobojunkie:
Even after you informed your mother of it?

I didn't tell her directly because I was so scared. He always threatened me. But she asked me where I had been and I told her his house.

I hate chatting.

It was terrible. I remember crying to my mother that my vagina itched badly. That was some hours after he touched me down there. My mother removed my pant and was shouting Jesus. I don't know what happened after but I know that the sexual abuse still continued.

I don't wish it on the person I hate the most in my life, not even his daughters. He even has a daughter now sef.

They pretend and lie too much.

Besides don't trust these white people. On their dating apps like Tinder, they are notoriously classist. Especially Americans.

The kind of poverty they are talking about isn't living below a dollar everyday, I hope you know?

And that's the most common kind of poverty we experience in this country.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jenWdylTtzs


I wanna hold your haaaaaaaand

I wanna hold your haaaaaaaaaaaaaaanddddd.

I'm watching Fisherman's diary now.

I ugly cried and I loved it. Especially the Cameroonian pidgin. No one told me Cameroonian pidgin is sweet like this.

It's a beautiful movie.

Haakeem:
u no sabi read

You're funny.

Ocholu:
Shy person but you splash your picture for Nairaland. Enjoy the promo sir

Some people are not shy online only in real life.

Benki003:
Okay am this kinda cool person,tall handsome and shy But I hardly talk and I prefer to keep to myself, but as it stands it's really affecting me with keeping convo with people, if I try pushing it then I get tired of the conversation and start ignoring the chat,some people say I Do it cause am light skinned or cause am proud but I am not, no topic seems to catch my fancy



Then Secondly I get alot of attention mostly from the female but I don't know how to approach them, the last time I tried it I peed on my body

So please does anyone have an idea how am gonna overcome this

Ps am posting pictures for reference

Op I think knowing how to hold a proper conversation is an art that must be learned. It's conscious. If you don't want to talk to someone then don't and stop caring about what they say.

ESenthusiast:



Hi!

You guessed right they are too busy. In finnish society there really isnt the concept of men working and the women taking care of the children. It Isn't an option for a regular finnish family to have someone at the house all the time with the children since the costs of living are very high and it would be hard for a single person to provide to their entire family. The other thing is family relations that vary largely. Some families that are very close sometimes have a grandma/grandpa or even an uncle/aunt to take care of a child. Some families are more distant and see their family members rarely or have bad/cold relationships with their family.

We do get to spend time with the family but i dont know if in other cultures that would be considered too little. For example i remeber when i was in elementary school i would get home at 1 and my parents would come home by 4/5 so i was alone for about 3 hours.

Cheers!

Yeah, it's too little but I guess during the holidays they spend more time together.

Danielwiseoo:
Guys y are girls like this my girl keeps avoiding me cos of one guy with iphone 8 whereas am using samsung galaxy note 10...she always say he is her photographer..y do nigeria girls like cheating ..

If I aim you slippers

I don't think your sister has goals that motivate her. She's not ambitious enough. Maybe she'll realise herself later or never.

Besides you provide everything for her so she's relaxed.

This may sound a bit to strict but you should cut off her allowance for like a year and see if she'll change. She may become more hardworking or she may become worse.

Whichever way you choose brother.

But be careful not to do anything that might make her deeply resent you and drive her to self-destruction. Make her see (through dialogue) that her ways are not up to your standards or not right if she wants to be financially successful in life.