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Politics / Re: Hon. Chris Kohol Congratulates His Mentor George Akume On Appointment As New SGF by apache4: 10:27am On Jun 09, 2023
Good morning

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu shocked
Politics / Re: National Assembly Leadership: Tinubu’s Meeting With Lawmakers Fails To Resolve Z by apache4: 10:27am On Jun 09, 2023
grin
Politics / Re: Do You Know These Questions About 2004 Nigeria's Budget by apache4: 10:26am On Jun 09, 2023
cool
Politics / Re: Dino Melaye Shares 16 Yrs Photos Of Him, Hon Ndudi Elumelu And Babangida Ngoroje by apache4: 10:25am On Jun 09, 2023
Thanks

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Politics / Re: President Tinubu Assents Landmark Electricity Bill by apache4: 10:23am On Jun 09, 2023
Good morning

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu shocked

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi's Witness Stopped By INEC, Tinubu APC As Clear Evidence Appears In Tri by apache4: 10:20am On Jun 09, 2023
Good morning President Bola Ahmed Tinubu shocked
Politics / Re: Ondo Dep. Governor's Wife Speaks, Debunks Allegation Against Her Husband by apache4: 12:35pm On Jun 08, 2023
My brother you are absolutely right on point .

E be like say na Jazz


OldBeer:
I totally understand you.
I have never followed a politician's actions like I follow Tinubu's. I have followed all his aides on twitter so I can glimpse pictures and videos of him. And when they upload, I look at them countless times, maybe to understand a little of the essence of the man.
E be like say na jazz. embarassed
Politics / Re: 10th NASS Leadership:Tinubu Fails To Unveil Akpabio,Abass as APC's Candidates by apache4: 12:00pm On Jun 08, 2023
grin
Politics / Re: El-rufai A Schemer, Disregard Islamization Claims - CAN Chairman, Hayab Joseph by apache4: 11:58am On Jun 08, 2023
Yes

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Politics / Re: Ondo Dep. Governor's Wife Speaks, Debunks Allegation Against Her Husband by apache4: 11:58am On Jun 08, 2023
I'm so obsessed with President Bola Ahmed Tinubu shocked and i just don't know why
Politics / Re: Deconstructing The Lies Against Mr SEYI TINUBU And Jake Clifford’s Diatribe by apache4: 11:57am On Jun 08, 2023
I'm so obsessed with President Bola Ahmed Tinubu shocked and i just don't know why
Politics / Re: Lagos Belongs To Yorubas; Lawmakers Will Pass New Property, Business Ownership L by apache4: 11:56am On Jun 08, 2023
I'm so obsessed with President Bola Ahmed Tinubu shocked and i just don't know why
Politics / Re: Hailing Tinubu For Subsidy Removal by apache4: 11:54am On Jun 08, 2023
I'm so obsessed with President Bola Ahmed Tinubu shocked
Family / Re: How Do You Handle Incest Issue In A Family? by apache4: 12:41pm On Jun 07, 2023
So sorry for the trauma.

I think the elders are getting it all wrong, an incest was committed and that should be the major issue here, not who cajoled or initiated it first. Both your cousin and her cousin are both guilty. The both families should be looking for a way to appease the land or their ancestors and not playing the blame card here, that's why they are elders, we need a solution not blames here and there.

Nobody raped anybody, it was consensual

Your cousin's quietness is Golden

The both parents should be summoned to look for a solution.

That's my one cent


Forrkke:
Hi, guys please I need advice on what to do. It’ll be a bit lengthy, but please bear with me as I wouldn’t want people drawing conclusions without fully grasping the situation.


Back in 2015 my cousin with whom I stayed in the same city got pregnant at the age of 16. She was still in SS2 at the time, and the guy that got her pregnant was way older and a university student. It was a very disheartening news for the family, and her dad was very angry, so much that he said he didn’t want to see her with his eyes.


In just 3 days, my aunt ( her mother) made arrangement with one of her father’s sisters in their hometown for her to go stay there. That was the last time I saw her until late last year when she came back to Lagos. She worked, schooled, and generally lived her life there for over 7 years. Her dad had forgiven her when he went for a function over there in 2019. They were not talking before that.

So, the issue at hand now is that her aunt aborted
her pregnancy just within 24hrs of getting to the town, even threatened to stab her if she didn’t do as said. The aunt stayed with her husband and son who was about the same age as my cousin, and she was told that she’d be staying in the same room as the boy but in separate beds.

6 months later, it had become evident that this boy was a drug addict and smokes. My cousin kept this to herself and didn’t tell the mother. One night, when the parents had traveled, the boy approached her and cajoled her to have sex with him. My stupid cousin fell for it. She admitted that she wasn’t forced and it wasn’t rape; the boy just convinced her, which was very foolish of her. And it’s not like this had made any suggestive move before; it was the first time and you fell so foolishly.

The second day which was a Sunday
, the boy wanted the same thing, but she refused him this time having been whelmed with shame. She confessed to their pastor and was prayed for, told to never fall into such act again. This happened way back in 2016, and it was a secret until now. My cousin moved out from their house a month later to stay with another of her dad’s sisters in the same city. And that’s where she stayed and schooled from till she came back to Lagos. She and the boy have never spoken or met since she left.

Now she’s done with school and is back to her own father’s house in Lagos. Her father’s eldest sibling called recently and said the boy has been depressed for
some months now and that he said he had some confessions about he and my cousin. The aunt asked my cousin what the matter is before the boy made his confessions, but she didn’t say anything.

Unfortunately, the guy was the first to say something, and they said he has been wanting to commit suicide. But here’s the problem: the guy narrated it in a very different way; according to him,

~ My cousin forced him ( which is as good as the word “rape”)

~ He was a virgin the time and my cousin deflowered him (a huge lie, this guy had been carrying all sorts of girls before this period)

~ What she did to him has been affecting him mentally, and that’s why he’s failed academically so much that’s he’s dropped out twice

~ My cousin ruined his life


Continued below

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Politics / Re: Moment Wike, Akpabio, Umahi Others Were Barred From Entering Office Of Vp by apache4: 10:45am On Jun 06, 2023
Thank you
Politics / Re: 78 Killed, 12 Kidnapped In Tinubu’s First Week – Punch.ng Report by apache4: 10:30am On Jun 06, 2023
I will still vote President Bola Ahmed Tinubu in 2027 to continue his good work in our Great Country Nigeria shocked
Politics / Re: Moment Wike, Akpabio, Umahi Others Were Barred From Entering Office Of Vp by apache4: 10:21am On Jun 06, 2023
Rest

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Tenders Results Of 8 More States In Evidence At The Tribunal by apache4: 10:20am On Jun 06, 2023
shocked
Career / Re: 200 Thousand Minimum Wage Breakdown By Chatgpt by apache4: 6:50am On Jun 06, 2023
Abuse

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Politics / Re: President Tinubu Tours The New National Security Adviser Office (pics) by apache4: 6:48am On Jun 06, 2023
Loud

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Tenders Results Of 8 More States In Evidence At The Tribunal by apache4: 6:43am On Jun 06, 2023
Tell them

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Politics / Re: NLC To Commence Nationwide Strike On Wednesday, If PMS Price Isn't Reverted by apache4: 4:54pm On Jun 02, 2023
You are beautiful


That's all i can say


Beremx:
I hope they're serious this time around. Nigerians have missed going on strike 😁😁😁

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Autos / Re: How To Make Your Vehicle Run More Efficiently (Post Subsidy Removal Tips) by apache4: 10:27am On Jun 02, 2023
Please tell us one highway in Anambra where one can drive for at least 30 minutes without encountering any of the above mentioned..


Oga answer the question first ?

Me too I'm from Anambra and i reside here in Awka

buygala


Manuella4ace:


Oga go sit down, try apply wisdom when needed, we still dey talk on how to run your vehicle efficiently.
If you like you can use cruise control inside holdup or check point, it's your choice.
600 per liter go teach you how to economize.
Politics / Re: No Protest Against Fuel Subsidy Removal For Now – Labour by apache4: 6:13pm On Jun 01, 2023
End time

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Politics / Re: Subsidy Removal: Tackle Fraudulent Regime In The Fuel Pricing, CISLAC Insists by apache4: 6:12pm On Jun 01, 2023
Late
Politics / Re: Even Tinubu Knows He Didn't Win The Election. by apache4: 6:11pm On Jun 01, 2023
Indulgence
Politics / Re: Lawmaker Abandons Car For Electric Bicycle Over Fuel Price Hike (pic) by apache4: 6:10pm On Jun 01, 2023

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