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Daniel058:
TINUBU you are doing well

immortalcrown:
What does one thing have to do with the other? What is the connection between the chieftaincy title and the bombing?

Sccarrr:
the mumu dey fear the crowd...he went for the loudest crowd

osquareone:
I don't know what kind of coach would remove the engine of the team for a winger? You don't remove Onyeka. He is the engine of that mid field and defence. Instead, remove Lukman for a defender instead. He is not a coach at all. Our local coaches would make this blunders.

Sccarrr:
Make that stupid ref wey dey bow to pressure no near our game again for this tournament 😏

Dreambeat:
This is NEVER a penalty

tolurx:
That shouldn't have been a penalty. The officials just bowed to the pressure from the crowd. Its absolute rubbish.

AdemolaA2:
Poor officiating from the ref . Seems he’s on the side of the Tunis ..

SlavaUkraini:
Super Eagles..... 5

Tunisia............... 0

Tunisian Eagles will cry tonight 😭😭😭😭

God1000:
In few years from now, this destroyed city will look better than Abuja

samwash:
Because the is been played in the mid field, the opponent has a formidable defence.

summerflame:
I am 18 years older than my wife

mummycaesar:
Maybe na TimeBomb...

always247:
sir I beg reason my matter. im down with malaria

helinues:
For how long would you people continue to be mischievous.

Nigeria has never rejected USA support or any other country in fighting insurgent in Nigeria.

This collaboration should have happened earlier if not for the distracting false christian persecution allegations

FreeSpirited:
This case requires a lot of wisdom and very complicated.
It has to do with your happiness, conscience, Surrogate father whom you love, mother who you also care about since she's your mother. In your shoes this what I will do.
First thing first. If your surrogate father hasn't heard it from you, then no woman in the guise of girlfriend, wife, or her family deserve to hear. So the question of telling your girlfriend without your surrogate father first knowing is a big disrespect to him. If you can't tell him then keep shut from telling anyone close to him who can use it against him or you.
Keep it to yourself and be a man. You dint die all this while. How can you even ever thought of divulging your most sensitive secret to a woman. You have to be wise. Every family has secret.

As regard your mom, if she's happy and the family is happy. Don't be the one to ruin her or her family. She already regrets it
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Just pray the secret doesn't get let out while the man is alive. You have to live with it cos it's too complicated. But you have to use this pain and information to treat this man in a more loving and caring manner that he will feel grateful you are a good son. So be more loving to him as your father. And it's good for you to distant yourself from ur biological father since he doesn't really have connection or stake in your life. In fact, the more distant u are to him for now, the better for your mental health. Cos any stunt from him can ruin you.
Now, imagine if this man wasn't alive to care for you, do you think your biological father would have cared and nurtured you the way this man did? So let him have his bliss and be good son.
But if he finds out. Go to him, cry, beg him, tell him you want to remain his son, that you have no father you know. make him know you are with him and against the evil of your mother.
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For now stop accepting gifts from your biological father he's only using that to soften your heart and confuse your identity.
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So be a man, if u didn't know this secret you won't worry, and since u know, use it to be a man, and also always use it against your mom so that she fears you and know her boundaries for the pain she caused you. So you can use the information to your advantage. It's time to be a man
As regard your girlfriend. Go on with her, love her, do your marriage. Keep it secret. In fact live your life as though you dint know this secret cos u are not even supposed to know. It's your secret and pain, bear it, and be strong. Child who has no memory or knowledge of their father and mother gets married, why not you. You have not committed any crime. The problem is you thinks life should be perfect. No you can't determine how life will relate with you. So be grateful for your life and be strong. Message me if you want further advice.
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I repeat, never you tell your girlfriend because she will use it against you, and she will never respect your mother, let alone her family respectin ur mother. They don't deserve to know that part of you. They don't. Give your head sense, respect urself, ur in-laws shouldnt know everything about u

Kcash200:
Hi guys,

I have a problem i have been dealing with since i was 12. I am from a large family and when i was 12, my mum told me my Dad is not my biological father and for me to make it a secret. I did not know what to do with such an information at that age but i knew it was wrong but i couldnt talk so i am not the one who destroys the family. Everyone lives in peace but i always wonder what will happen if only they know the truth. My biological father has other children and some of them know me that i am outside. He was involved in my life financially from 12years as far as i am aware of. He sent me money then and i kept quiet too and also supported me financially a couple of times though we have no personal relationship asides 2-3mins phone calls here and there and it is been like that for years.

I know my biological father and we kept in touch while i was in secondary school. Now that i am an adult now, i feel really sad about the whole thing and sometimes i even cry on my bed. I have been living in secret and a double life and fearing i might be outed one day. Some people in my mother's family are aware which is very strange and i find it shameful as a man now but i did not choose my fate. I have always tried to forget it and just leave my life but it is always just there especially when i think about starting my own family. I am striving hard for it not to define the way i see marriage and life as i am trying to write a different story for myself.

I grew up with my father who is not my biological father and i have been a good son to him as well and still taking care of him but it bothers that my whole life is a lie and it is hard knowing what i know and i can't say anything as that will scatter the family. I met some girls from a very good home who i can marry but i am scared if i tell her or other girls, that her parent will not let me marry her with that secret.

I am scared of getting married publicly as someone can take the news to my biological father as i do not intend to invite him as my biological father but i always feel heavy anytime i think about it. I want to start a new life for myself but i don't know how to handle this. I do not plan to tell my father as he is getting old and this can kill him at his old age as he has been through a lot in life. He is finally enjoying and i am taking care of him very well and he prays for me all the time.

I am building a good life for myself as a professional and have a lot of girls around me but i don't know what to do. Should i keep quiet and tell the girl i marry after marriage ? Isn't that me building my marriage on deceit. It is a shameful thing to talk about if you look at it.

Sometimes, i feel like they caused me trauma putting me in this position but i am an adult now and will bear responsibility for how i live my life and cant continue to blame any trauma or anyone. I am the one who has to keep quiet for peace to reign in the family.

I don't want to wait too long just incase it is a dealbreaker for someone but i also don't want to be disclosing to anyone.

Aside from marriage, i still do not know what to do with that information.

JAOS:
Nigerians can't go this extreme watching?

eazzzy1:
People like this should be placed on DSS watchlist. He on one of his faithful can arrange a Christmas bombing.

Pootle:
ordinary noddle's you wear glove like who dey moon, if na soup you go dress like who dey go space

always247:
happy christmass sir apoptosis. may you live very long and fulfiling life, may you stay on this earth for a very long time in good health and prosperity. may God give you whatever u need in this life. may you never witness any bad event in your life, may your life be happy 24/7 continously.
merry christmass.
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Kdon2:
When you marry a prostitute as wife then this is inevitable.

Pootle:
this one always looking for cheap validation.

na apkabio wey toast you i blame.

ManknowThyself:
That man just destroyed his peace and home forever