Commentor:
Nigerians don't know the meaning of bail.

linearity:
Can you guys spend more time on other forms of sex, other than penetration sex?

You can cum by her giving you a handjob with good lubes, the bj....Just condition yourself and set some days and tell her, no penetration today, let’s explore other forms of sex for today session. I think, she will begin to like it.

Finally, allow her to take the lead; listen or follow her body and vibal cues; also when you do penetration sex, you don’t have to continue with that until you cum, if she is tired; you can ask her to finish with handjob or Mouth Gig or you can even finish yourself up with her encouraging you with sexual stimulations.

Ginaz:
He wants to kill her kpekus. On top the 40mins he’s saying 2-3 times a week isn’t enough.

Na government work na Dey between her legs?

You have to change. Keep up with her pace , whenever she cums , you stop. Don’t mind if you haven’t satisfy yourself yet. If you keep up the routine maybe with time your body will adjust to hers.

It’s not going to be easy and you may not like it but what choice do you have? 40mins is too much for a daily tumble in the bed.

Try to see a sex therapist too.

PrimadonnaO:
The tone of entitlement in this post just makes it so unbelievable.

Fountainofyouth:
This is going to be a very interesting thread

But seriously it's obvious you don't do oral abi pre intimacy, you just go in fiam, that's why she complains of injuries, try and make her dripping wet very well before going in abeg, or get someone else with the same sex drive like yours.

pocohantas:


No you don't . How many minutes is a full match?

In 90mins that Ronaldo will score hat-trick and get paid GOOD MONEY- you are there thrusting for 40mins to 2hrs.

Oya, change position. Try cowgirl with boobs in your mouth. 2seconds everything will burst. In fact, find German machine like you.

NGRsenate:


Well then, you need to train yourself to cut down on your sex time, train yourself to cum quick infact.

40mins is unrealistic for a round of sex. 8-10mins max, more if you guys are sex crazed but never 40mins.

You are probably under-stimulated. watch porn, masturbate frequently. Do lots and lots of pre-intimacy.

Are you circumcised? If you’re not, I’d advise you to get circumcised.


Don’t listen to people telling you to sacrifice sex in your marriage. Lots of sex is good for married couples. You guys should fokk as much as you’re both comfortable with. However, it doesn’t mean you should spend 40mins pounding a woman. Even if you’re changing styles, a few minutes is okay.

NGRsenate:
Buy lube and stop injuring the poor girl.

Make sure you keep pouring lube at intervals to keep everything smooth and save your girl pain from friction

sarrki:
Igbos are foolish

Where were they when part of there land have been ceded to Their masters up north

Fulani's

kimbraa:
Madam, quit supporting nonsense and take a moment to think. The said successful women know how to create a balance between their chosen careers and relationships. Whether you like it or not; relationships is all about 'Give' and 'Take'. I have no business with whom adds no value to my life just as I'll do my possible best to reciprocate that.

Look, the guy had a busy schedule and it would've been good if she'd come off her high horse to help me with washing the clothes. No one said she should be doing it at all times but that he asked politely for her assistance. Apart from sex that's cheap, what has she to offer him? These little things count and it shows she doesn't have the guy's interest at heart.

kimbraa:
But it's her duty to demand for hair money and expect to guy to give her ungrudgingly. Na wa for una!.

Greenbullet:

There is nothing African in the mentality, a relationship is for companionship , it is not her duty to wash his clothes, its not also his duty to give her a dime, do you think it is easy to make money, he gave her a total of 45k for her hair and transport fare, some people don't earn that in a month and it was given to her in 2 days, for doing absolutely nothing, the lady should appreciate his effort by helping him do chores, cooking, etc. How many girls here can ask their parents for 30k to make their hair, they can't because they know they will be lambasted, but they see a guy who gives them the sum and can't even appreciate his support.