Fountainofyouth:
This is going to be a very interesting thread

But seriously it's obvious you don't do oral abi pre intimacy, you just go in fiam, that's why she complains of injuries, try and make her dripping wet very well before going in abeg, or get someone else with the same sex drive like yours.

I do sometimes, that's the only way to turn her on. But when it's time for penetration she quickly dry out. I get it, it's scary, me too I don't enjoy it for that long. Just wondering if any medicine or herb exists that can make someone cum quickly.

PrimadonnaO:
The tone of entitlement in this post just makes it so unbelievable.

please how do you mean?

Ginaz:
He wants to kill her kpekus. On top the 40mins he’s saying 2-3 times a week isn’t enough.

Na government work na Dey between her legs?

You have to change. Keep up with her pace , whenever she cums , you stop. Don’t mind if you haven’t satisfy yourself yet. If you keep up the routine maybe with time your body will adjust to hers.

It’s not going to be easy and you may not like it but what choice do you have? 40mins is too much for a daily tumble in the bed.

Try to see a sex therapist too.

Please I don't want to kill anybody's Kpekus. I know I have a problem and that's why I'm here in case anyone was in the same situation and found a solution. I work, and I know the amount of energy it takes from me. 2 to 3 times a week is fine, but she wants us to cut it down to once a week or 4 times a month if I can't find a solution.

linearity:
Can you guys spend more time on other forms of sex, other than penetration sex?

You can cum by her giving you a handjob with good lubes, the bj....Just condition yourself and set some days and tell her, no penetration today, let’s explore other forms of sex for today session. I think, she will begin to like it.

Finally, allow her to take the lead; listen or follow her body and vibal cues; also when you do penetration sex, you don’t have to continue with that until you cum, if she is tired; you can ask her to finish with handjob or Mouth Gig or you can even finish yourself up with her encouraging you with sexual stimulations.

Wow, this sounds really good, great advice. I'm going to try this, thank you.

ardiva:
Honestly I really appreciate your inputs, you made alot of sense and they are worth trying. Thanks a lot. I appreciate you brother.

ah don't masturbate frequently ooo, it kills the p*nis sensitivity, infact me think it's because you masturbate alot that's why you last 40mins.

Rextizzy:
Sex doesn't suppose to last more than 8 minutes, if it exceeds that then it means you want to kill someone's daughter..

hahaha.

prizlezzlalasky:
This is serious. Well let's wait for the elders in council.

BTW, I'm FTC.. Enjoy the yuletide season fellas.

Funnym

prizlezzlalasky:
This is serious. Well let's wait for the elders in council.

BTW, I'm FTC.. Enjoy the yuletide season fellas.

Funny

Bros there is nothing wrong with you,
if only you can pray for God to give you His will as your wife,
There are many Ladies that are crying in their marriage because of what you can offer and someone is complaining about it
Find your wife through prayer and you will enjoy sex in your marriage

ardiva:
I'll go straight to the point, I met this girl exactly 3 years ago and we've been dating since then. It's more of a distant one since she was a student at that time. I live and work in PH so she comes visiting once a month or in two weeks depending. She's done with school now and we plan on getting married March next year.

Now the problem is I have a very long sex season, as funny as it sounds it's ruining my sex life and relationships! The girlfriend I had before her couldn't put up with it and we broke up. A typical season could last a least 40min to 2 hours ( in between breaks), it's not been easy for her as she usually complain of the length so we had to cut down sex. Because she was in school then, it was a once in a while thing but now she's staying with me for the holiday I can see the danger ahead. A week ago I wanted to initiate it but she complained she's still in pains from the one of 2 days ago, I tried to get her in the mood and I succeeded but 15mins down I was tired of the complains and just ended it, took my bath and angrily left for work. When I got home I decided to discuss it with her to find out what we can do, she said it hurts and she's hardly in the mood. I know when she's in the mood and that's like 3 or 4 days in a month! I told her we can't have sex once or twice a week, that can't work for me. We're not even married not to mention when we have kids, it doesn't use to be this way in our first year or second. I told her to let me know if she's tired of the relationship I don't mind, I can move on and let her be with who she likes. She's not even making attempts to find a solution and thinks it's entirely my problem. But maybe it is since she said if I just last 5min to highest 20min she will enjoy sex better. Ave always been this way and I can't find any solutions anyway. If anyone has any ideas please let me know, I don't enjoy the long seasons please, my marriage will be greatly affected and I don't want to cheat around cause that's BS in my opinion.

Bia onye season, go and look for something more productive and lucrative to exert your energy on and stop sounding like its the only thing you came to life to do.
Imagin you lost first relationship because of that now another is on the verge of breaking. Ok until you kill someone the season will end as sex don turn season film now.

Go and get busy biko!
See davido travelling every now and then making money, you dey on top girls wey you Neva even marry dey act season film mtchewww...

Hmmm

NGRsenate:
Buy lube and stop injuring the poor girl.

Make sure you keep pouring lube at intervals to keep everything smooth and save your girl pain from friction

I honestly don't believe there is anything wrong with you. The issue is that so many women are not in touch with their sexuality hence see sex as an obligation or a favour they are doing for the man. I go for as long as you mentioned and even more frequently with my girl and she barely complains, she enjoys it so much. My advice to you is to get into a relationship with a girl who is sexually "woke" and whose sex drive is in tune with yours. When you find that person you would never have those complains instead she would be initiating it.

Be like say una no dey sex compatible.


Very funny, na like dis we go dey taste till we locate the perfect one.