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MrBrownJay1:
I am a man you dumbaass....

haaaaaaa. man, and you they spew dis trash. am ashamed of you. I think say you be woman, wey they like support their fellow women. but you na woman worshipper

MrBrownJay1:
When paying is no longer an issue, you don't even mind who paid last or not...

my friend, will you keep quiet. you're just spewing trash.i pity the guy wey go date/marry you, because you na liability for him

stanliwise:
Hian... ok o if Na so carry go. But I hope say that compliment na harmless oh?

I just they they whyn her sha

stanliwise:
what is fine in that eye. Omo na normal eye jare. Perhaps be like say na stolen picture. You just enter Nairaland sha

lolz. but na Australian babe she be na. I don confirm am through her post.

stanliwise:
why you lie na?

which one be lie again. you no check her profile pics

Missyford31:
Aww ta. It's a shame mine are pale green then

pale green, I thought it was grey. those eyes of yours,are charming. maybe we should exchange each other eyes( mine is black)

Missyford31:
Aww thanks. Nice of you to say so

wish my bae had ur eyes. my love for grey eyes are like 5&6

Zzor:
Not in this life,and afterlife sef,neverrrrrr

this your ass. na killer

Missyford31:
That's rediculous. PlayStation is for relaxing n entertainment.
U dnt gotta be serious every second of your day. Imagine how tightly wound ud be if U was serious every second of ur life lol.
Having a playstation doesn't say anything about who U are as a person n wat kinda future ull have lol. It only says U like that kinda entertainment
He'll I love playstation but I can also be a serious person too.

I love your eyes missyford, they are cute.

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Congratulations



Nope....
Am always online huzzling...so when my clients are not responding or rather not online...
Then i use Nairaland to pass time

this guy. I they sure say na gay dating you they run.

Mbdovey:
And you don't even love her. If you do, why kiss and tell? Maybe someone will do the same to your future wife, sister or daughter.

make we hear word. i don't know why people find it hard to mind there business

okija strike that ur pencil you they call penis, mugu. na ur type wey they die fast.

WICKEDNESS:
[color=#0099ff]Ogun kill you, Amadioha strike your left Nyash, Shango fire your public hair there. Pedophile nonsense [/color]

In behave of O.P, thunder from okija fire you there. make trailer crush you there, make car from no were knock you down. did OP force the girl, she was the one who gave op her virginity.so why are you cursing op. thunder and lighting kill you there

WICKEDNESS:
[color=#0099ff]First of all op, may God punish you and that your useless penis that you use to deflower that innocent foolish girl.

So fear did not catch you, you had mind to deflower a girl from a Christian home, and MFM for that matter.

Now that you have transferred your traits of lies and stupidity into her what were you expecting.

Nonsense [/color]

Shoot

shoot

my height (my tallness no he here o)

Jack005:
A woman just ruined you because of your weak nature and stupidity!! More idiots keep sprawling out from God knows where,time and time again we've seen threads like this and we will keep seeing them since a large number of guys have refused to learn from others experience.

and they keep upgrading their simp version.

RavagedHeart:
I had to create a new account for this thread. Please try to read everything, so you would know what to say

It's been more than a year now, but I still hurt badly. I entered a relationship with this girl when I was in my 200L and she was still a jambite. She was beautiful, but it didn't show because she was suffering at that time. I was equally a handsome campus guy. Everything was fine between us and the journey was so sweet. In her, I found all the important things I needed in a relationship, and the love blossomed. Though she's got her bad sides, which is pride and stubbornness. I overlooked this believing love conquers all. At some point, I began to give her a third of my upkeep every month.
Fast forward to early last year, she was already in her final year. One thing led to another and we had to cohabit, and this required me to move to the state she schools. I quit my job in my state and focused on getting something better in the Internet space, and it worked for me. The whole arrangement felt like it was made in heaven. We lived happily like in the movies and more money was starting to flow in.
All this while, everything I earned was channeled to seeing her through the university, as she's got almost no financial support from her home. I'll say I was her provider 85% of the time all through her school days.
When I got the big job online that paid roughly $1,500 per month, money became surplus. I began to polish and furnish her with everything she needs to look good. She responded well to the spending and within months she dressed and looked like the daughter of a politician. During all this time, I never thought to invest or even polish myself to look better. I was only focused on her happiness.
Before we began to cohabit, I had some girls I do with, because of the distance between my state of residence and her school. Besides, she is not the type that fancies sex. Because she knows she's not giving me enough shots (like once in 4months), she doesn't make serious quarrel when she finds out I am doing other girls.
Within a few weeks of staying together, she asked me to stop sleeping around, that she's not comfortable with that anymore. She said I should leave all my girls that she would give me anything I want from a girl. I was convinced and that was what I even wanted all along. Cheating has never been my ideal. So, I left all my girls and clung to her. We both agreed to marry and everything was good, at least for a while.
After two months of this faithful arrangement, and about 3months into my dream job. Something happened.
Out of curiosity, she went searching through my phone and reading all my chats with other girls. She did this for weeks especially when I'm asleep after some shots.
What she found in her search made her believe I was still dating one of the girls.
One morning, she broke up with me saying that I still cheat on her. She broke up a 5years relationship. I tried to explain and make her understand her assumptions are wrong. I even called the accused girl in her presence with the phone on speaker and asked her to tell my girlfriend my position in her life. The accused girl confirm it to her that we are now just casual friends and nothing more than that. But my girlfriend didn't believe that. She changed overnight. She began to disrespect me she stopped doing anything with me and even left the house and stayed where I believe is her girlfriend's place (though not sure). I took her as my everything and when she left, my whole life crumbled before my eyes. I turned from a vibrant intelligent and happy lad, into a depressed, unproductive, and confused person.
The emotional blast caused me to lose concentration and I began to make mistakes with my job. I woke up one morning to see a sack email sitting in my inbox. This was the second blast and at that moment I wished I could die. Everything that made me happy was no more with me, and I cried most of the time.
When she comes home to take clean clothes and drop dirty ones, she'll just walk in and out of the rain like I wasn't there. Even when it's written all over me that I was dying for the heartbreak, she seemed very happy unconcerned seeing me in that state.
This went on for like 5months. During this time. She still comes home only to eat the food I cooked and to change her clothes, after that she's gone again. At some point I noticed a little remorse in her as she began to come home more frequently, but her pride won't allow her talk to me, not to talk of apologise.
One day I thought I should apologize for doing nothing. I called her to come home. She came home that evening and I asked her to forgive anything I did to annoy her and come back to me. She reluctantly accepted with the clause of no more sex and no extreme romance. I objected to this because I can't stay without doing something once in a while. She said that I'm not yet serious, packed some clothes and left the house. She never talked to me except she needs money which I still gave, thinking it would bring her back. But I thought wrong.
This was how it went on till I went bankrupt and completely broken.
I continued trying to get her back as that seemed to be the only thing that can restore life to the creature I have become. But the more I tried, the more I was burnt.
Because she's now polished and looking the path, she began rolling with very rich men as some used to drop her off with exotic cars when she comes to pick clean clothes. When I try asking she'd tell me he's just asked her out but nothing is happening.
After one year of suffering from heartbreak induced depression. I decided to help my self. I began to pick up girls again, I tried having a lot of sex, but it only helped for a moment. No matter how good my new girls are, and how well they do the do. No one seemed to fill that hole in me. I still hurt and I'm still depressed.

Fast forward to this day. She's gone, my money and dream job also gone. But the hurt and emotional damage remain. I had to go back to my family house as my finance doesn't permit me paying rent, and my new business is not receiving the best of efforts.

Now the problem is. How do I move on? How do I get to heal? How do I find the vibrant and happy me that once was? How do I erase her memory so I can find love again? How do I become a man again because time is no longer surplus like that for me?
It's been more than a year but I still feel betrayed and broken, as if it all happened yesterday.


Mods please. Let this get the maximum exposure

which kind simpness be this. you allow one girl do you this kind thing. you loose your job, turn to broke man, and also loose ur home. chaiiiiii. and you still went ahead to apologize to her. this kind creature ehn

Good

Too much weed won't allow me to have time to date girls. I just love to be alone, smoking my weed. Really, kush is friendly.

The guy know get sense, which one be love again. For me Those kind girls na cheap product Dem be

Uyi168:
..
Stop deceiving yourself with love..
U suppose don get sense by now..

Pretty angel

BigSarah:
These are mostly signs of a faulty phone

Please can you teach me about that bitcoin.

lexdany:
1). learned more about forex and crypto currencies.

2). watched more than a hundred movies ( i'm a movie freak). i watch everything from series to single movies but i don't fo nigerian movies tho.

3). i was scammed online by some of those read news and get paid sites( i've learnt my lesson sha).

4). learnt video editing and text animation.

5). i also found some legit sites where i earn free bitcoin( one of the major achievement of the lockdown) free money
6). i also started some body building exercises (we need to look sexy yeah