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the whole drama is sickening! cant believe the guy didnt loose it. most guys can be jealous n possessive u know. since he knew she was not a saint from her past, he shouldnt blame her totally, i guess the guys thot she was still d same person she used to be. life has a way of throwin our crap back @ us so i guess she just as to deal. honesty is a relative, some pple just tell u things they think u should know, the rest is for them alone.

@sam milla- u made quite some sense there.

am not against a guy being broke, it is not a crime u can be convicted of

am to against him being jobless, we all know out there its tough

but i am against a guy not tryin or makin progessive n consistent effort to breakthrough,especially when he chooses to smother the hen layin the golden eggs.

@poster- u alone know what ur goin thru, theres a sayin that its easier to drag someone down than to pull someone up, if he doesnt want to man up and be responsible, let him go before he becomes the rain that will drown u.

love is a choice!

@poster- i really feel ur pain, but really if u guys were mad crazy about each other, those excuses wouldnt be a sand hill not to talk o a mountain that u guys cant weather together. i think u guys av managed to make urselves "almost lovers" by not stickin together when it mattered most, am not sayin it would av been easy though. now ur with someone else who does not deserve the pretend relationship ur aving with him. my advice, search within urself and if u dont see urself being happy with anybody else but your ex ( i mean in the remotest possiblity), the let ur current boyfriend know and dont delay his misery and torture urself any further. i really hope ur ex can say the same about u too. for the record, ur condition has not made u a cheat, ur decisions & actions did!

this is hard, gonna try coin something from a.keys and i'll bne back!

dear, i felt d way u do bout a month back and it was pathetic, jmy relationship was just like watchin a house burn down! don't wait till it gets to the point where u cant even bear the thot of seeing him. just tell him u don't love him anymore. trust me, he'll get ova u like a bad habit.