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Radiant:
Some here could be shouting NO after they've broken up, made up and broken up again like 4/5 times with their ex. Wish we had a lie detector here

true, some pple are terrible when it comes to saying bye bye. they could wake up @ 12am to end up @ their ex's door!

atutupoyo:
NO Never again, because I went back to my ex boyfriend (no sex) but his girl friend insulted me, over night my mind went blank towards him.

pele. if he's with someone else, then i guess he's moved on. no vacancy.

parents can be a guide but not the deciding factor in such things. i think of it as a coach on the pitch line barking instructions to his players on the field, thats áll he can do cos he can't get on the pitch to play himself.

Jackal:
Babes, it has everything to do with morals.

Where is the self-control?
Are u saying there is an excuse for a woman to sleep with a man because she is at her lowest ebb?
What's that excuse?

my dear, read my post again. i neva said its an excuse and i neva said being vunerable makes it right. am only highlighting the tendency to feel that way as possible as against ur comment.

wild guy:
you right mann, ma dad was kind of harsh on me and ma mum was the kind one,

@all
AM NOT GAY

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just like everyone in jail is innocent abi? ur just another closet case.

means atimes they easily give in atimes even when it shouldnt be.

my dear, its got nothing to do with morals.

@radiant- nobody said its wrong, some just dont. it's a matter of choice and opinion. simple.

studentetc:
Gentlemen only patronize escorts. Thats the word.

yup, another glorified name for a related line of business.

saucekid:
@ topic
u better burn the lust out of your system

good advice

Jackal:
For a woman with no scruples and decorum, YES!!!!!!

u don't need to cheesy with ur remark. woman can be emotionally susceptible.

@poster- no, u cant. obviously other men hav been givin u attention but u should remember ur with someone. unless , . .

Negro_Ntns:
@poster,
No,problem.Just tell him his performance inside you will be delivered in 9 months. While you are waiting, buy gps wrist watch (don't tell him it has gps) give him as gift for the good job. Men have tendency to abscond after such incredible performance.

lol, u know, they are neva ready to harvest the crop.

no! i dont believe in saying good morning after sayin good night. we can always be friends though.

he came inside u ke? u be door?

tie ti ba e!

Method-Man:
@Poster

Are you a hobo clown?

OR

Are you gay

@poster-i think u just landed a boyfriend!

@pataki- did u read his post very well ? which one is stammering in front of guys or not being able look @ guys? dem wan bite u?

2dye4, ess and tetchines are on point. its a different thing to be generally shy or withdrawn but to turn to a jelly in front of guys and having tea partys with ladies his far from social balancing.

@poster- my dear, did u just turn 17? u need to get real with urself

i don't know why we can't stick to threads without creating our own meaningless diversions. so what if the poster is gay? does that mean he can't start a thread?

to the thread jare, ,

alicia keys- when u really love someone.

well access to information which is key, time is money !

in the words of A. Keys "a real man knows a real woman always comes first"

sarin, i beg to differ! so the capital punishment for lady who misbehaves should be the beating of her life? yes ladies can pull alot of crap but then real matured men know how to put them down and bring them back to their senses, worst case they walk out to let of their steam. i personally see a man who hits on a woman as handicapped mentally & emotionally.

Sarin:
For real, I don't think you can do that if you are wrongly in love. I don't pray for my guy to beat me up but in reality,ladies find it difficult to walk out because to most of us the devil we know is better than the angel we've not met.

for real girlfriend, this love thing can be hard but i think av watched and read enouf of how such men end up becomin complusive wife-beatin savages!

only the ones that survive such relationships can show u their scars. no matter how strong the feeling, there's a thin line between love and hate, and trust is always hanging on a breakable thread.

an attempt for him to raise his hand @ me is more than enouf reason to pull the plug. i can't stand for any form of physical abuse in the name of love. mba!

tope2000:
tell me about it, rubbish xcuse

me thinks a guy flying all the way down to call it quit with his girl would have prepared a beta script too.

sistawoman:
That wont woo him just get him into bed then he will think of you as a slut or easy girl.

damn right, like every 360 degrees ho!

abeg, wey that virginity register? i wam sign cos i don tire oo!

kind of agree with tope. your pastor says he's the one, but u have issues with his features. what if he is perfect to u in every way possible and your pastor says he aint the one? .

my dear, life is give n take, u can't have it all. whats important is that he has the attributes u value the most. thats what will keep u guys going when he's bald and your figureless!

quote author=~Xerxes~ link=topic=141213.msg2362320#msg2362320 date=1213227600]
The guy is very wack at making excuses.
What he wanted to say or what he should have said is. . . . . . .Baby, reh reh reh. . . . . .You are too good for me. You deserve someone better than me.
But when he claims he is good and the girl is too good. . . . .Thats no break-up excuse.
I suggest u tell your friend to get the guy kidnapped and castrate him. He is a disgrace to us men.
If a nigga gotta lie, he should make frantic efforts to do it well. . . . .If a man has to be monkey, let him be a gorilla.
[quote][/quote]damn rite. its like trying to give her a soft and decent closure but its pointless in every way. probably sayin u have no reason mite sound beta.

kidnap and castrate? becos of man? she's beta than that and i know the this blows ova, she'll find someone more deserving.

Cristalz:
Bingo! Mind before body,if you're thinking long-term. Short-term,anything goes.

kinda agree, but then pple's minds are not like plasma screens! it takes a while before u get in there so the wooing thing is like prelude (thats is ur thinkin long term).

ztyle:
Applause!

welcome to the art of seduction!

~Xerxes~:
How can 2 people be too good to be together.
When people are compatible then it means they are doing extremely well.
When did something good turns out to be NEGATIVE??

strong wake up call, xactly my point all along, the guy saying she was this or wasnt that would be logical, but too good together is scary. something is definitely stewing.

~Xerxes~:
Too good for each other to seperate or to marry?
Which one?

too good to be together?

~Antidote~:
Did I imply such?

I don't believe any two people are alike, and yes compatibility is important even in platonic relationships, The thing is many of us don't under the meaning of compatility, We somehow misconstud it with stupidity,

no u didnt, was just threadin ur path of benefit of a doubt.

debosky:
don't mistake 'complacency' with being 'too-compatible' - or else is this your way of saying unless the woman provides 'drama' from time to time so that he doesn't 'take her for granted' then it won't work? That is not being too-compatible - being too compatible means they are too GOOD for each other?? It doesn't exist in my book - too alike maybe (maybe meaning they reinforce negatives but don't complement each other) but not too-compatible.

if i culd hug u, i would. ur rite on it. maybe my question should av been can 2 pple be too good for each other?

jassie:
Lakiriboto~ Elebolo

i know thats a strong word, whats d meanin?

@donkay- i find the fact that she's refuses a committed relationship with u and the idea that she could commit suicide if u leave her ironic!!

for the record, like someone said, its not a matter of life and death. before u were born, relationship were failin and after u go, they it will still be the same. pele.