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Comparing u with her EX is an obvious sign dat she jst wanna use u to get over her EX, and she's still madly in love with him. Don't be fooled cos bae's aren't loyal. It's a clear sign dat she caused Y her EX dumped her. Guy man-up and make clear ur stance to her, or very soon she'll man you down.

Your babe is battling with a serious water spirit that needs urgent attention. It will do you good if u like yourself and ur future to avoid having sex with her. Help her by taking her to a very gud church for deliverance. She's not normal spiritually. I once had a frnd like dat too, but today, she is free.

Guy, y did u prefer to settle for less, obviously ur so called girl is in love with d other guy,Y did I say so? u said she doesn't want d oda guy to knw abt u, while she freely talks abt d oda guy wit u, this is a clear reason to show u dat she doesn't care abt ur emotions and as a result doesn't luv u. Which guy in dis century will entertain a girl dat's obviously using u as a stand-by incase d oda guy dumps her. Sorry to say ' u are a weakling'. Man-up my frnd and make her decide who to follow, or u dump her slutty ass. It's quite absurd dat u even proposed to her. Maybe u don't knw wot is called MARRIAGE. Grow up

Burlah4u2c:
remember, you add the number in a group...probably a boring group... if u are not the group Admin, compel him to add the number

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OP, u have to acknowledge the fact introverts are good husbands cos he'll love u,care for u,make sure u are happy,won't cheat on u etc. It's beta to be in a relationship with an introvert guy who'll give u his time and care than an extrovert who'll not give u his tym. I am an introvert that had same issues like ur guy, when I discovered this, I started working on it by joining the choir in my school, singing in a large crowd etc though it wasn't easy at first. U should be grateful u have such a rare kind of guy who will love u. My ex too was like u who wanted an extrovert though an introvert, but today she's regreting for leaving me. Jst show him and not tell him that he needs to build on his confident issues,if he truly loves u,he will change but not totally. Have a nice day.

softappless:
HOW can u even ask a question like this? i am not holy but for a guy to be a virgin is a thing of pride, joy and glorification, he might not be clean as snow but heaven and all its host are proud of him, its like u dnt understand how heaven answers the prayers of virgins in a twinkle of an eye(dis i hav confirm, 4rm d life of my younger sister), "there is always a blessing attach to a lady or guy that keeps his or her virginity till after marriage.

This is so true. I am a living testimony,still a virgin at 25. Sometimes I wonder how everything I do succeeds. And when I ask God for a need,He does it speedly. U are jst on point. Praying for His grace to remain a virgin.

@0P, Not all guys do that, a typical example is me. My best friends till today dnt knw that I have actually manipulated my girlfrnd let alone kissing her even afta I broke-up wit her. It's an individual demeanor not all guys.

I still don't understand what ladies really want. Is it that their wants are complicated or they themselves. I was a perfect gentleman. I loved this girl with all my heart, did everything for this girl, even to the extent of following her to fetch her water. When she falls sick I made sure that I showed her all the care I could,sometimes massage her body wit hot water and rob,pay for most of her assignments,helped her in her exams etc, only for her to finally dump me. I think ladies dnt like perfect and loving guys but the harsh ones. Now I dnt think I'll try such a crap again. #never

Adaeze003:
She came to see him no? Why shouldn't he serve her?? I guess the ideal thing woulda been to take over the cooking while he spreads his legs to chat with his friends abi? Because two of them can't be in the kitchen together while people are in the room.

Does he cook in her house? That'll be the only absurd thing.

She spends virtually 40 percent of her total stay in my house, so expecting her to do my cooking isn't a crime between I do help out in her chores sometimes.

KashyBaby:
Lol...too much complain..what do u expect from 20yr old college girl? And abt stinginess....that's her money,not urs & ur juz dating so she is not obliged to spend for u
OP ur such an ass & u expect ur gf to do everything for u..smh

U might not knw wat I'm talking abt. I dnt nid her money, my parents do well in providing for me, I'm not asking her to give me her money. D level of her stinginess got to a point dat even on my birthday she couldn't give me a gift. But during hers, I made it memorable for her. I am a cool type of a guy dat spends money on my babe directly or indirectly. U can imagine a situation where u hv spent thousands on a girl u hv not had sex with and u could only get only #100 frm (mayb frm biscuits). It's vry vry absurd. On her cooking for me, Is it a crime for her to sometimes cook for me? when atimes I do out of my gentle mind join her in fetching her water.

eph12:
Does she demand money or other things from you?

She's not a demanding kind of person,but sometimes she does. I dnt always wait until she demands before I do the needful for her. Tnx

AdeniyiA:
@arki,
- the poster above me is also speaking sense.
-you have a good heart and wish to find a wife material partner

-her seriousness about the relationship is not real, it might be only séx on her mind, has she asked you to come meet her parent?

-don't ever think that if you loose her you can't find someone better than her, it's demonic thoughts .

- just finish your studies and get a good job, then u'll get what you want, good things happen to those who wait.

read these links i searched out for you, they are my all time best write up on relationships...

https://www.nairaland.com/1136070/why-should-not-marry-girl

https://www.nairaland.com/1182427/thread-single-ladies/43#14536377

I must commend on your advice. On meeting her parents issue, her parents live in PH while she schools in Owerri. Tnks alot

Sommyangel:
Is she ur chef?.. Why would she be cooking for u.. Abi no be school she come?

You're right na school she come, but are u trying to tell me is bad for a girl to cook atleast sometimes for her boyfrnd?

Sincerely speaking, I am between the devil and the dead blue sea in this case. I am an undergraduate of 24yrs,and my girlfrnd is also an undergraduate of 20yrs in d same institution and department. We've been dating for close to 9 months now,my girlfrnd displays some attitude that sometimes keeps me wondering if she can actually make a good wife. Though she's d first girl I dat I hv actually had as a girlfrnd and I luv her wit the whole of my heart. She avoids cooking for me each time she comes around and hence chats wit my frnds each time I do d cooking,she is very stingy and doesn't spend on me,she gets angry easily and so so egocentric. She has been pushing for a serious relationship, despite that I luv her atimes her character puzzles me. Matured mind in the house pls can I hv your views about her, and pls no insults and also "no face your studies thing".

By the way,were is our ever skilful oxaze. This man has lost it all, a good coach will not be oblivious about the danger inherent in constant changing of players like women changes sanitry pads. Such a coach can never build a formidable team,the last time i knew keshi was SE coach was Afcon 2013,not anymore cos he is now being paraded by ego which wil definately lead him 2 a fall.

swhiss: fear not!...we will surely survive.. We will show them
no Mercy.... If they have LIONel messi we have Tiger
Emenike and Bull Dog Enyeama

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Cut !t off, s!nce u dnt l!ke !t. That's !f your story !s true

This is complete extortion,can you image this,2400 for pume form,1500 for result checking,2000 for checking admission list which is the most absurd of all. Mehnn all 4 becos person wan skull 4 nekede. Nawa o

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Don't u think it would have been better for you to have viewed silently than commenting.

chikk: Hmmmmm. You've got a point there.
@OP, How come the guy had his way when she said she was menstruating? And if she really was going for tissue paper, why did she abandon her quest to follow a man to some place? And what exactly was her reason for following the guy? She never said she was bored! Yes. Agreed. This kind of 'follow home' ish happens at parties but she's just using the period/tissue paper story to cover up. She followed the guy on her own and she wasn't threatened in any way. That se.x was consensual.

But if you guys are really serious and you have a heart to forgive, know it that she regrets her actions and can't seem to live with herself having such in mind. Thus, she opens up to you. If you press further, she'll tell you the truth. For all I know, if this your story is real, your girl hasn't told you the complete truth.

Gbam

haitto99: wld lautech accept 189?

U are on a safer side as long as it's nt below 180. Jamb cut-off for universities will be 180. Also pursue your poly 2

yhemite: Notting do u bro..wth 198.. U re already a stdt of uniosun in embryo..i can bet my life wth it,so long u hv 200k skul fees o

Jamb cut-off mark for universities might be 180