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OP, you're right.

Cunnilingus can easily give a woman three to five orgasms compared to traditional fvcking that may not even give her one.

But as the first poster said, you need her mind on board.

Connect with her emotionally. Talk. Gist. Humor. Hold eye contact.

Build rapport and TRUST (very important).

Not all girls are comfortable with the idea of being eaten out.

Then when things begin to get sexually charged, use soft physical touch.

Then if she's down for it, use your tongue to send her over the edge.

P. S. Don't do this with a loose girl or someone with a high body count. At the very least, make sure she's super clean.

We're talking about boring and this one is talking about sex styles.

Of course, if you give an olosho plenty of money, she's going to treat you well. It's a business transaction and no one likes to lose customers.

The boring we're talking about refers to intellect, intelligence and the ability to sustain a sensible conversation over a period of time.

Boring may also be talking about values and things girls deem important—as compared to guys.

There are many useless girls out there but from your post, it's obvious the guys are not far behind.

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The attraction is not the problem. Anyone can be attracted to you.

You're asking this question because you don't have a fixed family/relationship goal you're working towards.

Single pringle in your 30's so the affection of young girls is shacking you.

Just decide the type of family you want to have, the kind of girl you wish to marry, and the kind of legacy you want to leave when you die.

Work towards that and take the unrequited affection from young girls in stride.

They're good for the ego but I don't think you need to do anything about it.

Unless those girls are your spec and you're not ready to settle down now.

If that's the case, well get hooked up and keep banging away.

You know what to do.

People who had less than you still made something out of their lives so your point is invalid.

Even if you had a softer life, you'll still find a way to blame someone for your misfortunes.

You're an adult now and you have everything you need to make your life better or worsen it.

So stop whining and do the work.

JoeRizzla:
They thought I was a foreigner
Wan mo pe yoruba ni.

Lol

YCEE!

Hmm.

Many women are shallow minded, although shallow-mindedness is not restricted to any particular gender.

Other girls are just quiet and are not confident or comfortable enough to share their thoughts with you.

You need to find a way to probe and prod them—gently—so they can reveal those thoughts.

Also, our areas of interest as guys and girls rarely intersect. Girls can talk for hours about bags, shoes, clothes, fashion, celebrities, makeup, jewellery, events, shopping, and some other topics guys would find tiring.

To have a good time with any girl, there needs to be give and take.

Your discussions can't be only about what you like to talk about.

You may need to listen to a lot of what you consider nonsense. But you also need to steer her into discussions and topics you want.

This requires patience and an unselfishness missing in most guys (so the women are not totally at fault here).

Finally—

Be non-judgmental.

If you've spent time talking with ladies, you would definitely hear stuff you don't agree with. Don't put anyone down. Don't make them feel less of a person for their thoughts. Don't disregard it even if you don't agree.

If you need to correct something they said that you think is wrong, do it sensibly and with maturity.

Otherwise you could hurt them with your words and attitude and make them clam up.

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My two cents.

Yep.

For the first time in my life, a lady called me over the phone and was crying. It was when she finally realised that although I liked her, I didn't have the same depth of emotions.

Didn't speak to me for a year after that.

We've patched fences now, though

But I don't allow the same level of closeness as before to avoid rekindling hot flames.

I know a girl that fits this your criteria sha, but unfortunately, she dey enter my eye too.

I no wan follow my guy man dey drag woman, so I go just lockup.

My network is still down too

MTN dey always make person regret buying data in bulk.

I had to subscribe on two other networks before I can come online

Dafuq

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Waawu

Hmm.

Interesting times ahead

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