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pendo89:
His name was Paul M. Used to call him PM and the smartest boy in class with the best swag.
I was 13 and extremely shy.

Yorisb:
Just finished reading about the Oedipal and Electra stages of psycho-sex[i]u[/i]al developments. . .

As mentioned there, the complex occurs in the third - phallic stage (ages 3–6).

However, I'm not sure if it could possibly go beyond the sated ages - to wit, to have a crush on one's Mum at 10-12?

Kinda weird, I tell ya.

What do u think @ArQueB?

pendo89:
pm

Yorisb:
Excuse me?!!

ArQueBusieR:
It actually centres on Sigmund Freud's phallic stage of psychosexual development -3 to 5 years - in which children in the aforementioned age range experience the 'Oedipal' conflict.
Children develop incestuous desires for the parent of the opposite sex.
I know it sounds weird but, along with the wish to possess the parent of the opposite sex comes the unconscious desire to destroy the parent of the same sex (Junior's not so innocent now, is he?).
Later in this stage, when a boy discovers his mother has no p e n i s, it leads to 'castration anxiety' -He becomes scared of being castrated by his mom- The boy then starts to identify with his father.
Likewise, a girl develops 'p e n i s envy' and starts to repress her love for her father.
Successful resolution of the 'Oedipal crisis' with identification with the appropriate parents is critical for 'healthy development' and determines s e x u a l orientation.
Same-sex persons are persons who had alterations in the phallic stage of development. Capische!!!

slimyem:
some guy who used to sing so well in my church.
now,i look at him and feel like what the heck was running thru my head  when i was crushing on this so not there dude?
smh @adolescence hormones.

25omega:
a girl in my primary school named Linda.

Excelboi:
As In!  

ArQueBusieR:
It actually centres on Sigmund Freud's phallic stage of psychosexual development -3 to 5 years - in which children in the aforementioned age range experience the 'Oedipal' conflict.
Children develop incestuous desires for the parent of the opposite sex.
I know it sounds weird but, along with the wish to possess the parent of the opposite sex comes the unconscious desire to destroy the parent of the same sex (Junior's not so innocent now, is he?).
Later in this stage, when a boy discovers his mother has no p e n i s, it leads to 'castration anxiety' -He becomes scared of being castrated by his mom- The boy then starts to identify with his father.
Likewise, a girl develops 'p e n i s envy' and starts to repress her love for her father.
Successful resolution of the 'Oedipal crisis' with identification with the appropriate parents is critical for 'healthy development' and determines s e x u a l orientation.
Same-sex persons are persons who had alterations in the phallic stage of development. Capische!!!

Lucario007:
a girl in my primary school that saved my life,
details not necessary.

emofine:
reminiscing?

kimberluge:
Yes,especially your female relatives! Dnt 4get your mother!! Only a fool insults himself!!!