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eneez:
At least a year, it's not easy to pretend to be who you are not for that long.

Also ensure you live together for some months

Wisdom. This is it OP.

Kemimarch16:
6months

Very funny.

Anything above is what?

Deandean:
Baba...covid 19 has taken 2 solid months of my time(we as we no get choice)...but to spend another second arguing with .....will obviously be my fault...so henceforth,what u believe is your own n my own is my own...i'm not a lawyer,i don't need to win any argument

Na so Baba.

May God bless your peaceful and thoughtful mind.


I hate the tribalism the most. I'm igbo, I have very tight Hausa(Muslim) friends and a very close Yoruba friend.

I won't judge a tribe based on the actions of a few foolish ones!!

Deandean:
What do i know? You win brother. Lets be friends

I'm not sure he knows what immortality means.

That's assault. Still happy she didn't touch the girlfriend.


If it were a different guy, she would have gotten a not so deserved whooping.

I know they'll bash her but first, learn. Lol.

NiceMen:


My brother, she is gone.

1. You were being too serious with her.

2. She wants nothing of such nature wrapped up in a relationship.

3. You were too available to her.

4. The girl is still in her hoe phase but you were thinking about the future. She actually fooled you with all those talks about being serious.

5. Accept this fact that women in a romantic relationship is different from women in a platonic relationship. You did not know this and that was why you started the relationship because "she seems good" during the platonic phase.

To address the being serious part let me give you an example. There was this pretty fair skinned lady that I met on Facebook.

There are two parts of me in this.

Part 1 is me being nice (foolish) guy. I was being too serious, too caring, being holy and you know, always available.

Did it work? No!

I left her presence and 2 years now I have resurfaced with a different personality.

Part 2 is me being a bad boy. This time around I am not serious. I talk dirty. Even told her I will suck her. All she does is laugh and smile (a sign that she is enjoying it) now she is willing for us to meet, despite uploading her" boyfriends" picture few days ago.

It was even after that picture I led her cunningly into dirty sex talk... Now I don't even hide the impression that I will love to fvck her. Let me stop here: is it working? Yes!

Will I win and end up fvcking her? I will let your imagination answer that.

Summarily, your approach is why these girls will take you serious or ditch u.

The sad thing this girl you talked about will start taking you serious after losing that virginity, fork one or two dicks. At least I have one like that now who previously will not spend the night with me telling me she had lost her virginity in 2017 blah blah. I never asked her o.

Last week she( ex virgin) was telling me I should have invited her over during this Corona period. Something she wouldn't allow when the virginity was there. In her mind, I am serious now. Me go chop and leave.

Spot on bro.

When they're done exploring, they settle for the good guys. Lol.

ChizzyBuna:
No, She is already married
I'm the Side Nigga

"You're a SIMP
A GREAT BIG SIMP"

Ring a bell? Lol

I'm just messing with ya.

CAPSLOCKED:
THIS IS THE DEAD MENTALITY THAT MAKES NO SENSE TO ME.
I HAVE RECEIVED COMPLAINTS FROM MALE NYSC MEMBERS ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEIR COLLEAGUES. THE PROBLEM ALWAYS CENTER AROUND MONEY.. AND IT GOES LIKE THIS.
2 PEOPLE EARN 19,800 MONTHLY.
FROM THAT SUM, "HE" GIVES "HER" MONEY FOR FOOD. MONEY FOR HAIR AND UPKEEP. AND ALSO TAKES HER OUT ONCE IN A WHILE. WHENEVER HE RELENTS ON ANY OF THESE "RESPONSIBILITIES" HE FACES PROTESTS AND IS NAMED THE GUY WHO IS FAILING TO CARTER FOR HIS GIRLFRIEND. HE SPENDS ALL HIS MONEY ON HER. HE HAS JUST TWO JEANS AND TWO SHIRTS OUTSIDE HIS NYSC UNIFORM. SHE USES HER OWN MONEY PLUS HIS TO DRESS WELL AND SECURE MORE ATTENTION FROM RANDOM MEN ONLINE.

THIS IS USUALLY A CASE THAT MANY FORMER AND SERVING CORPS MEMBERS CAN TESTIFY TO. EVEN WHEN SHE'S COLLECTING 100K MONTHLY AS SALARY THE MAN EARNING 10K HAS TO PROVIDE FOR HER.

MEN JUST IMPOSE CERTAIN RESPONSIBILITIES ON THEMSELVES. I'M NOT AGAINST ANYBODY LIVING HOW THEY WANT, BUT IF YOU'RE BROKE AND YOU'RE TRYING TO PLAY DAVIDO TO YOUR CHIOMA THEN I'M SORRY FOR YOU. IF YOU DON'T ESTABLISH YOURSELF... AN ESTABLISHED MAN WILL FALL FOR THE PRETTY DRESSES AND HAIR YOU PAID FOR, AND COLLECT YOUR GIRL FROM YOU. END OF STORY.

Wiser words has never been said.

Okoroawusa:
You just open thread n you ended up saying nothing

He's carrying out a survey.
Smart.

Funny how females will jump on it just to find out if you actually know what you know. Lol.

The disappointment on everyone's faces.

I found it funny and smart.

nijaomegacode:
Jesus.

LMAO. I was not expecting this reaction.

That dude is spot on in his analysis. He just explained the physiology of what's about to happen.

Nice. Good for you and the baby.

Seek medical professional advice first next time.

oloriLFC:
there won't be gatherings at the viewing centres yet

You don't know Nigeria's and football.

fortran12:
How many kids have the virus killed?

You think that's the problem?
You don't think those kids can be a vector for the virus?


We're trying to curtail spread here. Damn!

Mrmourinho:
So u're categorically saying people who have kids won't support reopening of schools, mhen d way some of u people reason forces me to think dat u live in a forest, probably u don't move with people. NEWSFLASH!!! I have three kids, alright? I and their mother supports school reopening, so pls say something else, sending ur children to school after resumption is optional ok? Those of u who are unnecessarily scared should lockdown ur children at home till December, na una Sabi, Coronavirus isn't a death sentence, dats a fact. Obey Government directives, personal hygiene policies and pray to God, dats all, disallowing ur children from going to school doesn't mean they'll be safe from d virus ok? some people didn't go out, still they contracted it, it's unexplainable bro, just do what is right and see d outcome.

Ignorance at its finest.

Came4amod:
If he injured her In the process he his going to jail ..

Yeah, that's on him too.

It wasn't pleasing to watch but I'm glad he settled it with his wife and not the man.

Vyzz:

BOPDADDY

ROTFL

Naija246:
you just renounced a lifetime worth of freedom.
Come back in four years and tell me if your dick still rises at the sight of her unclothedness.

You will eventually get tired and irritated of her as time passes.

Enjoy your serfdom bro

With all due respect, fvck your opinion.

I smell something cooking...
Your story!!!

queenice7:
I am leaving this forumn, honestly. How do I delete my account? I just wana be a newsreader here, that'll all

I really don't get why you would get hurt by faceless people, trolling your faceless monicker on a faceless forum.


About your post, tell him you have strong feelings for him. Chances of you guys working out is low though.

thatsleepboy1:
Girls masturbating don't have side effects na. Just longing for sth harder. That's all. You know what you're battling with anyway.

Funny thing about masturbation is the lie about the lack of side effects.

There ARE side effects and you listed most if not all of them!

MelaninSkinGirl:
I am not sure I even believe in love, people that claimed to love me have hurt me beyond imagination.

I am healing though, this Corona thing has been a sober reflection journey for me.

That's good, heal properly.
If they hurt and left you, it just means they were never supposed to be a part of that journey.
You learn from it, be more cautious.
Love exists. It'll find you and when it does, you'll be glad you gave it a chance.

2buffagain:
- They were lovers, but never friends
- had no shared interests
- No shared long term vision besides sex, swag and/or "I want to have children".
- Ignored the red flags.
- More focus on the wedding than on the life that follows (This one is huge for girls)

Nailed it.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Yes, yes, yes. They find the 20% who lacks the 80% but they are so fixated on the 20% that they lose sight. Man I am too old school for this generation. What's the best dog that is nonviolent?

A poodle.
Cute and cuddly.

Your man will find you, trust me.
Don't let the society make you unresponsive to Men. Have fun, meet new people, flirt a little.

While maintaining your Peace, sanity and principles. Life is interesting. Enjoy it.

MelaninSkinGirl:
it's ok, most of them are rookie writers. I am reading about British history at the noment after all they created this sinkhole called Nigeria . They too had corruption but the people fought for democracy and forced their Monarchy out of political power. Very fascinating. If Nigerians can apply their methods, we will be able to remove the decrepit fossils in power.

I'll look into in my spare o know if its applicable in Nigeria. I have my doubts though. The key to Nigeria's success is education and a total change of mindset.

The change isn't necessarily from the top, the people need to change.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Peace of mind as well, the grass is never greener and that's why people keep on hopping from one relationship to the next thinking there is better out there. There is no relationship Eldorado. If you meet someone who has 80% of what you are looking for, why dump them because they lack the 20% you think you deserve?

We are definitely on the same page.
80% is good enough. Funny how some people have that 80% and get easily confused by someone who has the remaining 20%. Only to fond out that 20% that was all there was to it.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Netflix is boring, I keep scrolling and keep finding nothing to watch. I have started reading instead.

Reading works too.
Should be easier for you too.

Wattpad is good. It's a book app.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I know. Whispers, I am a Medic .

One of my professors who is a Biochemist told us that he wonders why the WHO is telling everyone condoms are safe, a virus is nanometers in size. Anyway each is own.

That's true.
Medic huh, nice.
Sticking to one partner has always been a better solution.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I want a time machine and I want to go way back to my parents time.

I'm not sure they had Netflix then.

Those ones weren't much better. But whatever was done, was done in secrecy.
There was respect. There was fear of repercussions.

But nah.
I'm not giving up all these tech advancements for that. I'm good here. Safe trip.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Condoms do not protect against STDs. The HIV virus is so small that it can pass through. Also when one gets carried away it can tear or come off. It is risky but each his own.

As doctors they should know better.

Lol. You think?

Don't worry about them, its not there time yet. Lol. They know better. You don't want to know about Medics. Lol