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MelaninSkinGirl:
Yep these tough guys will want to beat up the men that gave their sisters the same treatment they give to other men's daughters/sisters. It's a funny world isn't it? They don't see the hypocrisy though.

They don't.
Its a cold world out there. I believe one should set an example with the kinda life one lives.

It's annoying the society is this way. It's going to get worse. Way worse.

MelaninSkinGirl:
That's great that you are inspiring your friend. The sleeping with different girls every night gets boring and scary as well because that person could pass you a super resistant or an incurable STD.

Well, most of them are doctors. Lol.
They stay safe.
I don't support it but its their life.


It does get boring, I'm not a saint. But nothing beats Peace and Sanity. Honesty is the key to that.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I agree nice guys may finish last as they say but they get the good girls and have built a career vmeanwhile the yahoo boys and bad boys have built up karma for their female progenies and have accumulated STDs, body counts and soul ties.

I encourage the female haters to become h...omosexuals, or follow the MGTOW movement. Ladies do not need these kind of wicked men in their already stressful lives.

Same Tough guy would flare up if he's sister was a victim of such but its The Hate U Give.

Nice guys don't finish last, they finish on their own pace, own terms and most of all, have their Sanity and Peace. You know why? They weren't in any race with no one to begin with.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Nice guys need to speak up. I love nice guys, nothing wrong with them. I never liked bad guys, knew they would murder my heart. Some bad guys have masqueraded themselves as nice guys just to get girls, I fell into that trap.

The guy kept saying he is a nice guy, a principled man and a Christian. Trust me, he was none of those things, he was a con-artists/decepticons/pretender.

I don't have a problem with bad guys. I have friends with the so-called 'bad guy' tag. But one thing about them is honesty. They live it and own it. Females fall for them on their own accord. They don't lie about their feelings. Now that's a REAL bad guy. You will never hear stories about them because they attract the type of ladies they want. Pure sex based. They don't go about putting me down, though they'll throw in a yab or two about my inclination to commitment. They respect what I'm about. I take pride that one of them looks up to me and wants something stable. He wants to challenge himself with commitment and loyalty.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Hello ,it's not fun anymore. Just hate-filled comments from men denigrating Nigerian women. Nigerian women are a product of this dysfunctional environment.

At this point everyone's hand is dirty, there is corruption every where and people are trying to survive.

All these men speaking ill of women are probably are stealing from their bosses in their jobs or cheating the system in some ways. I think they should tend to their own backyards first before judging others.

This Post wasn't about women though.
I just don't understand how someone wants to push his foolish ideology on all MEN.

I normally ignore dumb posts like this but this one hit personally. And I'm sure there's a weak soul reading it, feeling bad or getting brainwashed by it. It's okay if you're a nice guy, the other breed of men won't understand and they have to respect hoe you were raised.

About females, its disheartening actually. I pray alot of the men bashing stick to their guns and stay single. Because if they try marriage, well let's say i'll be reading alot of tales from karma.

What you sex craving, Alpha wannabe, Dumbass Men fail to understand is, some Men don't care about sex. We want to be nice because we choose to be nice.

If a girl sees a nice guy as dumb, her loss.

Mr Bad guy, keep chasing sex instead of your dreams.

To the nice guys out there, it's alright to be nice but don't be a fool about it. I'm a NICE guy OP.

MelaninSkinGirl:
This battle of the se...xes on Nairaland is becoming ridiculous.

Men need women, the way women need men. Unless you are a l...esbian or H...omosexual. Stop these mind games, life in Nigeria is tough enough why being the jungle into your relationship?

Are there any nice people out there who just want love and be loved?

Nairaland used to make me smile but these hate-filled colourist, featurist, sizeist, tribalistic and misognistic topics are depressing. I am considering deactivating my account.

You'll miss out on all the drama.

Don't give up, people actually listen to your sane comments.

varnaija:
Migraines from reading this shut.

I am sure this is a Yoruba pigs wanting to control someone life.

Go learn how to compose a grammar free content first.

Nonsense and buhari.

You are a special kind of dumb, you know that?

You have a point.

But, if its 1,I really don't see any reason to hide that. Since you've also made it clear you're not a virgin.

But keeping mute or being silent to the question, gets the mind wandering.

Las las, if she/he kept their body, they wouldn't be in that awkward spot.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I did use to have fun, I am trying to just enjoy life right now.

Mr Arthur, I didn't make married men sin o!!!! I am sure they were sinning before they met me, I just blocked them and rightly so, they should be getting their needs met at home.

I am enjoying Celibacy, my peace of mind trumps a roll in the hay.

Okay okay, Peace of mind coated with success is the goal.

The married men thing was a pun hun.
You're good in my books. You aii.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Celibacy will save you alot of stress. Women can cope but men not so much. There are so many damaged people out there who have not healed and want to hurt other people. It is scary how sinister people are.

I would love to get married but the divorce rate is soaring and the married people I see are unhappy. Married men have asked me out, I have to remind them that they have wives at home. I belief in Karma and will never hurt another married woman.

Stick to your principles, do not let them sway you.
As much as there are sinister people out there, there are also good ones, great ones actually.

Work on yourself and grow, mingle, have fun, be happy, someone is always watching.

I don't know you but if you can make a married man want to SIN(lol), you definitely won't enjoy a life time of celibacy.

MelaninSkinGirl:
There is more to life than plugging holes. Someone who stimulates my brain is better than a hole plugger. Celibacy is the way forward in this era of shagging and dumping.

Definitely era of shagging and dumping.
I'm with you on that and the brain stimulant.
But, I don't mind having both the stimulant and the plug.

I can go celibate for awhile, heck I am right now. But a lifetime of it? Hell no! Lol.
My brain and body wants to get married. Lol.
Mostly my body honestly. But these days, marriage scares me.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Hahaha you've got jokes. What other problems are there?

The dog won't plug all the holes.

Not to sound corny but every human being needs a sexual partner. The only exceptions to these are those that have a religious obligation.


But if you're cool with celibacy, its aii.

Enoch07:
lol who be this again? anyways enjoy yourself. by d way, she looks like she's from S.A or kenya

Don't mind the ones tagging Nigeria to everything.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I am considering getting a loyal and cute dog.

They never disappoint and loyal to a fault.

I'm not sure it'll solve all your problems though.

exstreve:
Lol i remember that thread, if only i can get the link

I Gat you.

https://www.nairaland.com/5841694/craziest-thing-partner-ever-asked/13

It will end in MYOCARDIAL Infarction.



It WILL surely end in Tears.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I am the homebody kind of woman, i love to stay indoors and hate going out but when I am out, I enjoy it. Ideally someone who is an extrovert who will bring me out of my shell would be great. However the extrovert person I dated denigrated me for being me, the very core of my existence was not good enough him and he wanted to change me. Terrible times that was.

I understand. You really don't change people in a relationship. You can help them be a better version of themselves though.

You learn in relationships, know if you can tolerate some certain traits in a person.

Keep an open mind on it though. Don't close off men that are a bit off your trait scale.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I went for an opposite person who killed my spirit by critising everything about me. Never again. Opposites do not attract like physics states, they repel. Like minded people will vibe on the same wavelength and get along better.

Opposites don't always get along. I personally don't like opposites. But someone that brings something different and understands ain't bad.

Its like this. I'm the go hard, outdoor party type. But I've been with someone who's the indoor, cinema type. We understood each other and it was refreshing. It taught me alot.

Staying with someone who's exactly like you, limits you to your own world.

Well, this is how I see it sha. You on the other hand will be perfect with your mirror image.

MelaninSkinGirl:
It would be perfect, we would like the same things and just vibe on the same frequency and synergise together.

I think someone that complements your flaws and at the same time isn't Toxic with his is better.

Squillaci:
Jeez!
This dude spent 108M naira to go to med school?

You really don't want to know what he'll earn in the equivalent number of years while working.

Had this female friend. Shawty's face was so innocent looking, she hid the nympho within.

At first it wasn't sexual for me but shawty had plans. She was bold, spontaneous, ignited that fire I suppressed. We screwed everywhere on campus. With that innocent face, she fooled everybody. She would rub the D in public spots and giggle when she felt the effect.

Shawty was a nympho and shawty was fun.

Get you a nympho but don't date you a nympho.

Its all in the past now though.

I'm not gonna lie, that girl gave zero fvck about you.

You was dating yasef.

chinchonglee:
So u really posted ur pics

U re a disgrace to the male folks!!!

Guy, e weak me.
Lol

Godoverevery:
bro 95% of people all over the world practice premarital sex...
u may not be doing it but u aiin't holy

Funny how your name contradicts everything.

GOFRONT:
Where are our Oloshos!!!......I mean those ones that are highly connected with Nice smell........Not the likes of Tacha..

But if Tacha can eminate body odour, Then I wonder how she smell down there.....Nyama!!!!!

It's time to go and have your pvssay serviced by the panel of Judges at the Audition and get yourself into the Big brother house!!!

Olosho detector, you did not see online auditioning?

Will the servicing be online too??

MelaninSkinGirl:
Its a big mess, I hope sometime soon we can all get along. I doubt it though.

Yup. Its a vicious cycle.
But we can't let them influence our values and principles. We can't all join the wagon.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Yes reading the comments here triggers me. I have been hurt but I will not bash the people who have hurt me neither will I go into the next relationship with the aim of hurting that person because of my past experience.

Maybe i am too conservative and old school. If these are the calibre of men who shame their girlfriends and wives then I am not sure I want to get married.

Most times I'm disappointed. I just ignore it.
But I still blame the sex that put the ball in the other sex's court tho. I mean, if you messed up, come clean and get it over with.

It gets annoying when someone messes up, comes clean and get used as consequences for the shortcoming. Childish!

Then again, most females don't have substance and they ask for it. Truth.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Absolutely singlehood mustnt be mocked, its a time of great discovery, healing and sober reflection.

Most people jump into relationships for the wrong reasons and that is why we have so many damaged people today.

If only they knew.

Plenty damaged people. Reading the comments here most times don't give me cause for hope.

It won't get better. Sadly.

maestroferddi:
Naija and audio wealth...

The way you guys are mouthing this hustle of word makes it look like there is money to be picked on the streets.

Some people are coming to wealth but doesn't make becoming wealthy a cake walk.

His wife taunts him and fiam! he goes hustling and his account balance starts reading seven figures...

Come back to the world...

You misunderstand sir.

If he was paper chasing first and left the girl alone, this whole story would be nonexistent. That's assuming its real.

Yes, it takes time but its just an advice to set people's priority straight.

Hustle is not about wealth only, it's for comfort first.

MelaninSkinGirl:
Life would be boring without Men or Women, we need eachother. To quote some musicians

1. "Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
It's not warm when she's away
Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
And she's always gone too long anytime she goes away"- Bill Withers.

2. "This is a man's world
This is a man's world
But it wouldn't be nothing
Nothing without a woman or a girl"- James Brown.

I totally agree with you.
We need each other to coexist.

But sometimes, we need solitude in other to discover ourselves.