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Ogbeni explain something well na.
People have to read though twice to understand what you posted.


Marriages these days. Be very careful.

And this man will also be referred to as a HUMAN BEING.

Some people are evil. He just ruined his life because of anger.
I hope they catch the wild animal.

Randy100:
It was a hot afternoon of saturday 21st december 2019, I was sweating profusely like a christmas he-goat. I was busy minding my business and walking on the pedestrial side when I saw a small girl who I later got to know to be 19 years. She was carrying a school bag at her back and also a sack full of book on the hand, I could see she was struggling. As a man with good heart, I decided to help a little sister. I offered my help and I can bet my left balls that she was pleased as she smiled back and agreed without reluctancy. She was beautiful though slim with no nyash and a tiny breast that you could mistaken as a big pimple. I didn't mind, I was only interested in one thing to chop and clean mouth. I collected the sack from her hand with ease, showing no weakness. We started matching to where she will enter keke that is going to her direction. When we reached where she will enter keke, I asked for her number and she said, I should call my own instead that she is going to call me. I called my number, but I noticed she was not writing it down any where. I asked her why, she told me that the number is already stored in her brain. I doubted it and asked her to call it. With the speed of light she vomited the number for me. I was so impressed. She promised to call me but she refused to tell me when.

I have always been in control when I am involve with any lady, but this one, I was the one anxious waiting for her to call me. After waiting for the whole of december, I gave up and stopped expecting. On friday, 3rd january 2020, she called to wish me happy new year. I was so excited, and still I don't know why I was excited. I called her back in the evening to ask her if she will be free on sunday, that I want to take her out. She agreed and we fixed 4pm at genesis located in leventis at Enugu.

Having dated so many girls, I know how girls think, so I am always ahead of them. Thinking I was dealing with a random girl, by 4pm I started coming out from my house when she called that she is already there. I lied that I was helping an accident victim that I will soon be there. I arrived 30 minutes late and apologized which I have never done because I am always earlier. It has been the other way round, the girls apologizing. We went inside and sat comfortably talking. I got to know she is in second year studying electrical engineering at UNN. All my life, I have never met a girl as highly intelligent as her. She was so versatile in every aspect. We discussed politics and I got to know that her favourite tv show is journalist hangout. We talked football, her analysis of why she thinks Messi is better than Ronaldo was top notch. She countered every of my defense of Ronald intelligently. I was perplexed and shocked. We ordered for their useless fried rice and drinks and ate. She brought out 1k and gave to me. She said I should use it and support whatever I am paying. She even paid more than half of what we ate.

I came back, lost in thought about her, I was so impressed. I picked up my phone and texted her "God bless your father for raising a great daughter like you. Good night." I have been doubting if truly she is a girl, or if I have a Bobrisky situation here. Just like Thomas in the bible, who said "I won't beleive untill I put my hand inside that hole."

OP, if you enjoyed her company so much, I don't see the problem.
Sex will come. Might be from her or another female but don't ruin this with lust.
Sex is one thing but sitting down and having a long intelligent convo with a Female is another thing.

MIGOS- big on big

iyke926:
Song: Holiday Inn feat Snoop Dogg, Ludacris
Artist: Chingy

O.G!!

Social media and the Internet be brainwashing men into believing that all that meat is what's up. lol
Fickle minded, low self esteemed ladies hate their God given attributes. Surgery, bleaching, for what?

Truth is, with a body like that, most men just want to Ram you.

Officialgarri:
She needs space..... respect that!

Although she will later blame you for not texting or calling, just ignore and act like a man.
And if she never asks for your attention again, also act like a man. Just move on!!

You see the part where she turns it on you and accuses you of not caring, I burned that bridge since.
Females can be quite manipulative.

OP, follow the advice above. TYUP guy gave you the key.

For a red pill merchant, number 2 is weak af.

MelaninSkinGirl:
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Your last paragraph is so pertinent to my discourse above. How can we undo these web of lies, deception, broken trust/promises and revenge?

Love
Honesty
Communication
Forgiveness

We humans are flawed, we are not perfect. We'll make mistakes and we'll learn from them.
People confuse the learning part. A broken relationship did not teach you how to cheat, lie, revenge and all that stuff. You're stressing.
Rather it thought you how to handle those, how to see those coming a mile away and how to avoid those. You becoming a monster was your decision, FACT.

People just have to know that life isn't a bed of roses. Bad things happen. How we handle them is what matters.

If you want to change the world, start by changing yourself and staying strong. Someone is always watching.

MelaninSkinGirl:
I am sure ladies you can all relate with this, many women all believe that all men are nice but in fact they are shy, sly and slick. Women get carried away and get loved up and think love is true but these men walk all over women

Many women do not look before they leap and end up in deep water. So ladies, guard your heart, play hard to get or you will regret the day you were born when he leaves you for another woman/man because "Good men are like finding a needle in a haystack".

You know the funny thing about all of this?
You, OP will see a good man and deem him "too good".
Women are fickle in the way they think.
I don't know your age but I bet when you were younger, you loved those so called bad boys, the ones that you know, had the whole player aura around them.
The good guys stood no chance with you. You prolly hurt and ignored some along the line.
Now, you're all grown up, you want the good MAN to settle with. Truth is, most of them gave up on being good to females, they gave up on honesty and decided to be the guy that gets the girl. lol.
Here's the twist, most of these tough guy wannabes ARE the good men.
Masquerading and waiting for that GOOD woman!!
Ariza's comment up there is key to unmasking them.

But then again, we stress ourselves playing ourselves. A vicious cycle of lies, broken trust and revenge. The game is a bitch innit.

Ariza:
If you like play hard to get from now till kingdom come, if he will leave after hitting it, he will leave.

My advice :Don't find a Good Man, its not your job. Be a good woman and pick out of the good Men you attract. That's your job.

Gospel truth.

placeofallure:
Not really, but I've stumbled on people making love, twice now. One was my friend and neighbor back in my off campus house. His girlfriend came around and they were doing it. His room is downstairs with his window opening to the pathway, I stayed upstairs with my friends, 4 girls. He's very friendly with all of us so it's not an unusual thing to stop by his window and say hello on our way in. This particular day, I just want to say Hi! Then I saw them. They were twisted together like 2 snakes, they didn't even notice me. I told my friends and we had a good laugh.

The other occasion, still during school days. I went to visit my bf in town. He is a banker, works with CBN and he also has a restaurant in town. He lives in a 3 bedroom apartment. He lives in one of the rooms, his boys who work for him occupy another room and the last room is empty. I have the key to the apartment, so I can visit anytime I want.

At about the same time, he told me of his uncle who also works in CBN and has just been transferred to town. The uncle will be staying with him since he's not coming with his family. I just assumed the uncle will stay in the last room that's unoccupied. I haven't even met the uncle cos he'd barely spent 3 days or so.

I just bounced to the place that afternoon, opened the door with my keys and sauntered to his room, Eh! I just stood at the door, transfixed. I saw two people in real combat, like wrestling,. They were so engrossed, none of them noticed me. Me too I was lost, I just held the door, the fierceness was out of the ordinary. They were two big people but I think at that moment, their weight didn't count. They just want to kill each other. The lady was throwing her legs like she was in a frenzy and the man too looked like he was electrocuted. Then they were still. I just hid behind the curtain rod and took back steps, and returned to my house. That must be his uncle. And I was right.

I always wonder how a man will get to a place newly and quickly get down like that! Men! Na wa!

Maybe that was the reason for the TRANSFER?

Personally, I hate cheating married men.

Unibenfucker:
Shut your dirty trap you call a mouth

Kudos for constructing a correct sentence.
Ease off the hate bro, it helps no man.

Lovely family
Dead leg loading for the guy tho.

Unibenfucker:
See as the children Dem b like shit

RETARD describes you perfectly.

Gentle0wavez:
What you said here is complete trash, can you swear that you don't have a preference in body type. Why be a hypocrite??

I'm not a hypocrite.
We are saying the same thing.
Read my comment again.
If you don't understand it, fine.

Unik3030:
nobody is body shaming anybody here,don't try to b an ass licker
it's a matter of choice,what u want.
if u are given d option of America or Australia n u decide to go for Aussie,that doesn't mean America is bad.

learn to respect people's choice without insulting them

Spot on.
Having a preference to specific body type is now body shaming.
The phrase itself reeks of insecurity.

blowjohn:
If a woman stabs u in the head or chest nko?
U will wait for bail?

You really just had to take what I said out of context.
Well, self defense is a different ball game, sir.

Vulcan24:
lol !!!! it is not a pleasant thing but pray u don't meet that woman

True.
I hope my luck doesn't run out. lol
I always take deep breadths, keep my mouth shut or walk away when things get heated.

I still can't understand why a man would hit a woman.

donbachi:
Both sexes are all affected..men are abused just like the women..i once dated a girl dat broke bottle on my head,threw chair at me at a public function and poured hot noddle on me.i walked out,even when she was sexually my type,beautiful,hardworking,educated,nice curve and very religious..i decided not to give the devil a chance...i took off.dat does not mean all women are heartless and evil..i'm still married to a wonderful woman.she has never insulted me or use male demeaning words at me..every human is like a car engine,if u put bad oil.it smokes.

I think she's referring to excessive bitching of men on this romance section.
Honestly, I find it annoying that 90% of the threads that has been on here recently are from men bitching about some girl.
I have empathy for them but the bitching should be left for the females.

FuckDaMods:
Dream on for being supportive of my country footballer?

Nah, I was referring to the picture.

Jay is a legend and I have respect and love for him.

FuckDaMods:
Who is Messi? Okocha was the real deal

Dream on bruh.

chiunlimited:
Back in the University i used to have an over Religious Roommate .

So after my admission, I made a new friend with these guy, we met on Facebook.

We both decided to rent an apartment and became roommates.
His a strong church goer, his dad is a senior pastor in deeper life, and these my roommate plays a big role in their church campus choir.
We both set so many rules and regulations to govern our stay together, and one of them was.
Never To Have A Female Visitor sleep over In Our Room

Something interesting happened

Towards the ending of our year-2 first semester, when our exam time table was out, *We both became very broke.
No money, no food stuff, no provision,everywhere just dry. Then there is these fyn girl From his Choir group, who miraculously visited us. God being so Good, She brought Egusi soup in a food flask for us.

You can say *Michael*, but before you Add *Jackson* , I have already gone outside to arrange my *FuFu* sharply

When I came back my roommate was expecting me to show some sign of anger that a girl visited us unexpectedly, i no even look my guy face, I just entered kitchen brought out my plate, so our sister in the lord will pour some soup for me.
If You See The way I was rushing the food ehn, the girl told me to take it easy, that she even brought 2 extra fufu..
Chai, body over sweet me, that girl na Confirm Wife material I swear

Immediately I finished eating, I told them to enjoy the house, that am going out to give them some privacy. I turned to the girl and said, sweetheart enjoy your night, I'll see you in the morning when I come back(lolzz).
The thing sweet the babe ehn, E be like say the girl have been planning for these opportunity for a long time with my roommate.

*Next Day*

I came back early in the morning from my friends place, and the girl happily prepared tea and fried indomie for me. Mhen see enjoyment o----these girl na God sent,
Jehovah is these how miraculous you are!!..
When she left,my roommate was like, guy I don't understand, why will you give these girl the liberty of staying over?. Shey you know our rules.

*I told him*
See my guy, make i tell you,there are two things I can't allow to happen to me in these life�
1. Hunger will not kill me
2. On no account or whatsoever will I allow hunger to kill me in these school.

He was like, we are working so hard to look modest in the eye's of our neighbors and you know the church I worship with, and now you have allowed this to happen.
I told him, modesty kee you and those neighbors dere. So you want to use modesty and starve me to death. Bia you're very very mad in your head.




End Of Story

Guy, this comment just made my day.

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU HAVE THE GUTS TO BRING MY MATTER TO THIS PUBLIC PLACE.
ONCE SCHOOL RESUMES YOU BETTER NOT COME NEAR CAMPUS CUS I'M SELLING OFF YOUR PROPERTIES, AND MAKING ARRANGEMENTS FOR YOU TO BE DEALT WITH.

LMAO
The world needs more of your type bro.

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AarewaMafia:
So lemme get this straight..They were having a discussion and he gave his sincere opinion which is kind of true and now she's angry at him for saying the truth? WOW

Lmao
Females bruh, females...
Just don't stress it with them.

EricSmallz:
If na me eh, hehehehe. I go blast that girl eh, she go carry bag run. I go dey blast her like 6 times in a day (if I no dey go work o)
Body go tell her say, this guy go kill me o.
I dey blast o especially when I dey vex for the girl

Una strong sha o.
Personally, if I really had feelings for such girl, I would see her as scum, filth, I wont be able to touch her.
And she's definitely leaving real fast.

Dande55:
Naso una deh always talk when a girl seeks for better option.
Besides, your sex game might be poor, learn to satisfy your woman.

Better option?
Poor sex game?

Okay, assuming you're right, what is she still doing with him?
why didn't she stay with Mr IndecentStar cum Better option?
Its easy. Just leave and save a guy and yourself the stress.

Dande55:
Girlfriend of 3years without proposing and you expect her not to seek for other options.
You time wasters are something else.

Wow.

But then again, what do I expect from females.
So, she couldn't sit her ass down and have a convo with him?
She cheating was the best option?
Y'll really do want to eat that cake and have it.