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portplus:
She simply asking you to come out plain.

In other words, she is asking "where is this relationship leading to?"
You are warming yourself into her heart and she is "falling for you" but does not want to waste her time in the "friendzone".

How can true friendship b a waste of tym?

portplus:
She simply asking you to come out plain.

In other words, she is asking "where is this relationship leading to?"
You are warming yourself into her heart and she is "falling for you" but does not want to waste her time in the "friendzone".

How can true friendship b a waste of tym

Very funny

What do you ladies really want ?
After all this womanizing attitude I decided to get a real female friend without any sexual related stuff..
I met this lady for one month now and all I do with her is chill out, chat on phone have Lunch's and dinner so as to build a bond for pure friendship but she surprised me yesterday, we were out having fun but then she came up with a question on what i want from her and why I'm actually being so nice, i felt very surprised and abit disappointed cos deeply I was only trying to make her my friend even tho we might turn lovers later but now I don't even think of that...I have never invited her to ma place or even touched her for once so I wana know why she feels da dia is no good man or is she so broken that she cnt see ma sincerity....
Ladies pls I thought that frienships happens when u spend time and communicate with people or am I supposed to chyke her for normal friendship kwa..
She said that she don't understand me , that why do I only bring her out yo just talk, eat, chill and then drop her off without any other thing.....cnt I just have some true female friends without dating or other stuff.

Assurance.. Now u can cheat in peace, not broke and also a cheat

Pls stay away from hard drugs...stay healthy and get rich

collinslevi:
U made a mistake by kissing her ....don't complicate things for yourself,tell her about ur ex and her pregnancy i think that should solve d prblm

Tried a lot to let ha know das a mistake

CaZmir:
The 'Benjamins' over the ladies.

I like your imagination.

How old are u!

stillseth:
you said you also kissed her once... shey??

AS YOU KAN kiss her once... WETIN YOU GAIN??

Nothing bro

TonyeBarcanista:
Too many movies on Nairaland

This ain't no movie, dead serious shit

So ma boss paired me and his daughter to lead the team that will complete a contract, normally I'm not the type that likes to do work related things with ladies right from my university days but because of the money and in order to be professional I accepted the offer.
The Lady got an apartment and a car of her own, so to cut it short...she texted me to drop by her house if I want to read the report she made last week, we sha had good time and nice discussion in her house, yesterday again she brought me berries in the morning and then took me to a nice place we had lunch on her....I sha like the drama cos the lady is tall and beautiful with class but I'm really worried on how the whole thing will turn out in regard to my job and the relationship I have with her father, av always kept the whole thing professional and av also kept ma cool but today she told me to come to her place for dinner, with promise to make me a good meal since I'm a man that lives alone, yen yen....to my surprise when I stepped into her house around 7 because I don't want to stay out late, she opened her door and was dishing stuffs in my front half naked, I just rushed the meal and ended everything short to avoid doing what I might regret....

Now the problem is how do I cope or handle her ?
I even think I'm loosing concentration on the project at hand, tbh tho, I kissed her once last week in the car the day i gave her a ride to her place and I have already tried to let her know that the kiss was just out of circumstance nothing much but she never listens, always trying to be cozy even in the place of work..

P.s.. My ex gf is pregnant for me and I'm still thinking on how to deal with that before this one now carry her own come.

If you have had office romance that turned out to be perfect help by typing down your experiences mbok

Retards

Eberechi24:
My husband, then we help my brother establish his business/ whatever he does

Some husbands don't worth it, like dy treat ur fam like shit , will u still do da?

How old are you?

Dress well and stay neat, also Neva do stuff for attention and see how guys start to notice u

Ishilove:
You are not serious. Did you not know when you were hitting that punny raw that pregnancy will occur? Gold Circle condom is 100 naira, for Bleep's sakes!! (Pun intended) All you had to do was take precautions but no, you belong to the Raw Gang so contraceptives are a taboo. Mscheeeew.

Mr Man, congrats, you are now a father. Tighten your belt and start saving for Pampers and Cerelac.

Jisike baba omo, sharpshooter, Mr One Blow One Land

Lol, u are a comedian

CArt:
Pls don't blame him. Action with condom doesn't give maximum satisfaction.

Oshey

Allaboutkatiee:
This calls for celebration op

U just funny

Avraham:
I kinda envy you bro

Why?

AryEmber:
I don't blame you but that girlfriend of yours. Anyways, I would say keep it, babies are sometimes blessing. Moreover, you are not going to do much other than providing money and other little things.

Thanks

Randy100:
I accepted it in good faith. It won't be easy. I thank God that I had finished schooling when it happened. I worked my ass off so as to take care of my sweet girl. Don't worry you will survive.

Thanks

Yoshy:
You have an existing fear of she playing games. So O advice you monitor the process and it's confirmed..own up, there is nothing bad in bringing a beautiful soul to the world.

Thanks

Oreofepeters:
if you think the pregnancy may hinder you financially then tell her to take drug and flush afterall it hasn't germinate to fully embryo...

Leme think

[quote author=Yoshy post=72476603]See my friend, you better start behaving like a man yourself. Take her to hospital or buy pregnancy kit at nearest pharmacy store. Get her tested, if its confirmed, congrats, you better keep that child and don't even think of committing murder.

And yes, if you can have unprotected sex, I think you're ready for anything.

[/quote

She went for a test already , I saw confirmation

Pearl05:
What kind of solution are you looking for? Please give the woman money to go register for antenatal . you have 8 months to prepare the ground for the arrival of your baby. Make sure you don't stress the mother.

Carry wine and some elders go pay for bride's price. Congratulations.

Inform us once the baby is born. Some of us will come for visit.

I think I'm still not into that marriage stuff, never want to cheat on ma wife

rame18:
you said she is pregnant and I said you should marry her, anything wrong about that advice?

Tryna get shits in place for now, isn't da gona pull it down?

Ken4agent:
She showed up at your place......u didn't think u r ready?
U commence romance session ....u didn't think u r ready?
U gain eretion while she was hot...u didn't think u r ready?
U had unprotected sex with a woman ovulating...u didn't think u r ready?
U discharge all the acamu in her with pleasure.....u didn't think u r ready?
She lastly broke the news......still u didn't think u r ready?

Guy the earlier you start getting ready the better for you two. Register her with a maternity clinic, start thinking of a good name for the pressures child, start saving cash for the hospital bills and lastly start shoping for baby things

Congratulations!!!!! U soon be a father so be ready!!!

Lol, are you a comedian
Thanks for cracking ma shit up abit
But next time talk like a man, never know it will turn out like this

rame18:
marry her.

I think you are bemused, try reading the stuff again

Randy100:
Four years ago it happened to me. I am now a father to a four year old sweet girl. It is a good thing cos you will now be more responsible.

How did you do it bro?

[quote author=Oreofepeters post=72475695]Then what advice are you seeking? If you are capable of catering for yourself and the baby, why the worry?..[/quote

Have some certain level I wana ascertain, think it might way stuffs down

[quote author=Oreofepeters post=72475695]Then what advice are you seeking? If you are capable of catering for yourself and the baby, why the worry?..[/quote

Have some certain level I wana ascertainz think it might way stuffs down

PharmaGirl:
I did and I hope your gf's not playing pranks.
When you were having sex, it didn't occur to you that somehow, just somehow,she could get preggers lmao
Just listen to yourself "didn't sleep the whole night" looolll
You're about to become papa ejima bruv, accept your fate.After all,it's a good thing.
P.S:Don't even consider abortion!

Was never my doing, she caused all that by demanding raw meeting, just not into that papa ejima stuff now