sucre450:
Personally, it hurts not to be remembered on your birthday by someone you claimed is your girlfriend. Anyways who am I to judge?. But the big question here is how old is the relationship?.

getting to a year now , she’s now telling me that she’s frustrated and that she has a lot of crisis going on and that she don’t even rate her own birthday and that I could have reminded her again . She even called me on that day but she didn’t know it was my birthday

Thegeneralqueen:
I think I should be asking you that because if you're man enough your said girlfriend won't forget your birthday

Apparently you are a kid , but some kids are genius so is it that your are naturally unintelligent or you making extra effort to be a stupid person in life , what’s wrong ? You need help ? what do you know about been a man ? Are you so stupid ?

We4all:


It is either she is the forgetful type, or not so into you. But if she actually didn't remember, then it is because she is yet to fall for you. The truth is, no one forgets the birthday of that 'special' one.

she has been apologizing and posting my pictures, she actually calls me daily
I dnt know why ah just cnt forget tha
I dnt know

Thegeneralqueen:
If you had surprise her with a lot of gifts i bet she'll be the to call always not to forget your birthday..........Hustle ooo make your girlfriend no forget your birthday

How old are you ?

The first birthday I have done since we started dating, told her the date and she forgot that with 2weeks
Now she’s claiming birthday is common and she doesn’t rate it , that she has a lot in mind and not my birthday . What you all think ?

pocohantas:

Please answer

donbachi:
She's a matured immature.

Explain?

asking for a friend tho,
how do you handle a girl that is always talking about how she learnt a lot from her past relationships, like she went to some bar without telling her boyfriend, she didn’t even take the boyfriends call for some moments then later she picked up claiming she wasn’t with her phone, but the issue is that the boyfriend asked her why she went out without telling him, she replied that she can’t be calling the boyfriend to tell him where ever she’s going, that it was used against her in her past relationships. She normally bring up her ex shi when the guy annoys her also, like she will say this is why she got off with her ex.
Matured answer required quick

Why not try relationgoat

Recently my gf gets very angry and claim to be stressed once I suspect she’s cheating or cheated

She travelled to a state recently, she claimed she’s going to meet her aunt for the weekend, the next morning she did some bedroom vds in a lit room so as a guy man, I told her that I wana vd call her, she got angry, saying that I’m suspecting her and that she wunt do the vd call, she didn’t do it and I didn’t bother, I only didn’t call her for the weekend so to let her enjoy whatever she’s doing but my pro with her is that as usual she will later call to tell me that I know she’s not always in the right mood and always angry bla bla and that instead of standing by her i annoy and stress her yen yen..

I dnt want kids talk here, I just feel my head hurt when ever she’s doing this and I just wana handle it right cos sometimes my guys feel i also react to things but then isn’t this bleeped up?

Op sex can even make man forget his destiny
Ah no fit forget sandra, da gal Bleep me till ah forget man u vs arsenal match tym

Starboytwo:
up to a week bros, haaa forget that one... Just go and enjoy these last few days....

Lol for good or bad

czarina:
You should have asked for people's opinions earlier na.

It is well

Which kin thing b this , I took antibiotics drug and kept calm

czarina:
When was that? If it's more than 72hrs, I'm not sure it will work.

Up to a week but it always scares tf out of me wen I think of it

ikbnice:
Go take PEP drug

Pls what's it for, I'm really scared here

czarina:
Better go and take that pre-HIV drug. I've forgotten what it's called. And also take hepatitis vaccine if you haven't.


May God have mercy on you. Leave prostitutes alone una no go hear. Una even dey do "styles" with ashi. It is well.

Pls what is the name of the drug? I do mistake cum inside prostitute oo

marvin906:




Honestly that chick is about falling for you or had already fallen for you..
Just tell her your mind

Aiii, I will

CyberWolf:
Girls are convinced by what they hear.. Spit it out and stop being dumb. Read Ubunja thread, una no go gree..

You should show some respect bro

mhizbel:

Making someone your best friend goes beyond liking.

Then what else?

mhizbel:

You have to explain to her, she needs to hear it from your mouth.. The truth is when you care too much for a lady, she tends to fall for you, except she doesn't like you. so you might just be there feeling nothing but she might not feel the same. We are emotional beings.

Well you actually av a point here , I will try to stay away from her now.

mhizbel:

Why did you choose her to be your best friend? If you don't mind me asking...

First time I like a girl I dont wana have sex with..I like her

marvin906:
she just wants to know the direction your taking her the question is what do you really want from her..
put the chick outta her misery

Just friendship without sex

mhizbel:

Let him just learn to define his relationships, that's exactly what he does.

I defined that with action

lekan64:
Trust is not what is demanded but earned by consistency in good character

Is being a month and av not tried no shit with her

mhizbel:

That's not true. My brother has a female as a best friend and they ain't doing that shit.

Just what I tried to do

bdchange:

You are talking as if you don't know what your fellow guys are capable of. Some will even do more than you have done just to get to her pant. The question she is asking is a normal thing every reasonable girl should ask if found in such situations. You are to give her explanation on what you want from her and make her understand why you want it at the moment. And be truthful from your heart.

With the way I was handling the situation, the handwriting was apparently on the wall

Randy100:
There is nothing like being friend with a girl. It is a scam. A lion cannot be a friend with antelop. If truly you want a friend, look for your fellow guy. All the girls that are my friends has felt the wrath of my hand on their breast.

Lol, i think ur perception is mis guided bro

Professorcplus:
@op are you working? I no why I asked

Yes, why?

ojuu4u:
This your story clearly shows that opposite sex can not be close friends/besties. It would surely end on bed.We should stop hiding under 1 Finger
Even if she doesn't ask now, you too will still fall as the event unfolding, the hormones controlling sexual urge in body is beyond your control. Stop tempting devil and initiating what you cannot finish

Mis guided notion

labanj1:
Most ladies don't believe a guy can just be nice. If he is too nice, they believe there's an ulterior motive. Tell her what you want now, which is just friendship but don't be disappointed tomorrow when you fall in love and she's not feeling the same way.

I have a gf

Newboss:
She's catching feelings, just eat her

She's likely not the friend type

But I dont eat pple