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chiommy123:
yeah once during my service year

so how was the experience?

chiommy123:
so what was your reaction after the drama

just the dizziness and hallucination.

did you ever take intoxicants?

chiommy123:
that's good to know that's if it's true

am not the lying type either. is better you hate me for my truth than to lie.

chiommy123:
I thought that's what you guys like. why the run na. btw you should thank God you ran because if her boyfriend is a cultist and meets you in her room knacking her that's another R.I.P

am not that type, I never done it and I don't intend doing it soon.
in my area we don't have such cultist guys, even if there is they done retire cuz if U're caught u'll be charge with terrorism as BH member.

chiommy123:
I thought it appears like thyme you should have seen it na

they separate am na, haven't you ever use powdered Lipton. in my area we use often.

chiommy123:
be gay and in a relationship with a Lady? what are you afraid of?

it's possible na, for gay to be in a relationship with girl. you know how our society see gay people.
am afraid of sex. I remember running like say BH dey chase me from one girl room when she insists on having sex.

chiommy123:
be gay and in a relationship with a Lady? what are you afraid of?

it's possible na, for gay to be in a relationship with girl. you know how our society see gay people.

chiommy123:
unknowingly how?

they mixed it in a tea one morning . it was the dizziness that made me realize it's weed.

chiommy123:
after that experience you tried it again

for the last time, yes and it was unknowingly. if a'm not mistaken it was in a tea they put. from that very moment I never take anything from their hand and one of them is my cousin.

chiommy123:
after that experience you tried it again

for the last time, yes and it was unknowingly.

I won't but this, 200k? I like my woman braless.

chiommy123:
heard that too. so why you go try weed on an empty stomach abi they force you?

I just wanted to taste the stuff, and to be precise it was my first and second to the last time...
I thought it would make feel strong or bold, but it made me dizzy.

chiommy123:
if she said she doesn't want sex that's different but she said she wants it and the guy most likely wanted it too why leave her and masturbate?

what if he is gay? what if he is not ready to bang her,? or he respect her so much that he don't to bang and run. or may be he is afraid like me.
I dey fear toto die...

chiommy123:
the guy get purpose wey make him wan try the weed and am sure its going to work for him

yes it fit work for him. like those rap stars wey want gather inspiration, I hear say na weed dey create all those lyrics.

samysmoothfresh:
whats her name?

is she a nairalander?

when last did she see her period?

is she a virgin?

do you have any erectile dysfunction?

answer these question lets start from there.

my guy wetin be this na? is it a job interview?

chiommy123:
if that actually happened that's betrayal just move on

how is that a betrayal?
can't she masturbate?
why not go handle herself elsewhere?
I don't get it, if I refuse to make love and masturbate,so what? I don't know why people are so obsessed with sex nowadays.
well, it's a good thing to remain virgin.

well, for me if girl is visiting me and am so attracted to her I mean sexually or I get lust for the babe. I don't hang out with her indoors only outdoor, where people are watching us. and if she is coming to my house tho not mine actually cuz am still with my parent, I usually invite her to my mom's living room and introduce her to my mom then we hang out there, or sometimes just in the compound so that I don't get chance to try stupid move I'll regret later.

in your case she's somebody's wife. be careful bro.

chiommy123:
I heard weed gives inspiration. just try it

mah sister na lie be that. I remember the time my friends mixed shisha with weed, as I puff it I swear I no fit stand on my feet. the worst thing is that I was just back from lectures, I was tired and hungry too. madam I regret say wetin carry join hostel with those boys.

Obainoneandonly:
"the only way to limit such is to reduce flocking with opposite sex"..can you hear yourself..so u want us to be living like those folks in zanfara,kano,Kaduna,sokoto etc .....were we won't be able d see d face of our female sisters,all covered up like a masquerade wandering like someone Dats lost.... whether u like it or not,we will fraternise and flock 2geda,because Dats what we were born to do........your plan no go work down south here...only your blinded brothers up north would agree with you

one spotted. you and your south!!!

Flickzvill:
thanks for this it really helped the thing is each time I kept pondering on this issue she takes it I am being controlling and not focusing on the point damn

He who created us, created us along with our life partner which came from our ribs bone. and He alone knows what He have in store for you, so clear worries and trouble from mind and heart bcuz it'll only ruin your days and your health as well. Be nice to her and everyone else cuz we don't know who might end up our life partner.

May God bless us and our mother 9ja. Ameen

I've been in a situation like this once, but mine no dey sleep at anybody's place but her parents.
she just get many boyfriend's assistant. and am the jealous type, so I called her one night explained everything I have in mind including my worries. I told we have options, 1. is to make things work. 2. we go our separate ways.
she asked me to give her time so she can process it, I gave three days and the reply I got is we go our separate ways. it was never easy cuz I love that girl to my bone marrow, days became longer, nights became lonely. but now I'm a free flying bird.

just man up bro, you'll get over it soon. may God help you. Ameen

in Islam it is forbidden for Muslim girl to marry non-Muslims, but for a Muslim boy is allowed to those considered as a people of book by the Quran (I. e Christians and Jew's). so, if you really love her and you don't want to be the cause of chaos between her family and herself, keep the love and the marrying plan to yourself. or else you might be the reason she'll lose her family or her life for. and I know you don't to be the reason for either of the two.

and if my daughter is to marry a Christian or non Muslim no matter what his faith is, I'll declare her not my daughter from that moment.

He wants to have some space, why not let him?
you've done all you can to straighten things, but he seems antagonistic.
let him be and focus on your job and your future ahead. He might come around and if he doesn't I think is for the best.


pray for the both of you and find peace somewhere else, If he is the right man mother destiny would bring you back together.

bless up.

am sorry, but truth be told y'all are most stupid lovers I've ever heard of. the first time you met u have sex? konji go kill us youth. haba have patience na.

I've dated my ex for over two years but we never had sex, we remained like that until we do part. we only kissed once, we respect each other's opinion of no sex till married. up to now we holla each other on phone and social media platforms.

I've never fvck anybody. and even if a'm to do ain't with ashy lady.

Joanosas2950:
true talk, i know her in and out, we have shared a lot but she is not scaling up to my standard anyway whatsoever, its like me settling for far less than i could get, but then again is the emotion of our bond being hard to break

my brother am really inspired by your story, and breaking up ain't an option bcuz all u've done would be in vain. from my perception you are the positive side of that girl and her coming back to 9ja made her lose that part. so, the only thing that might change her for the best is BEING AROUND YOU.
I'll advice you to get a means of getting her back to where you live. bcuz I understand you influence her life more than anything else, and you can't change her from the outside or on phone, you have to be present.
keep up the good work. God will surely be on your side.

A'm still preparing for my first sex encounter, but I really wanna give her sooooo good of impression. u feel me? I mean like to make her see an angel or heaven if possible.
maybe in three years time with wifey.

well, it's madness in reality. cuz being side chick to a man means he is cheating on someone, which means he ain't loyal even a bit.

To me, if I want to marry you, ur past is ur past. let's forget about it and plan for the future.
but asking you how many men have u slept with? is crazy and I don't buy the idea.

asking ur wife/husband to be how many people they slept with and expecting the truth, mean U're mentally inappropriate.