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4ckTOT0:
na na na i am not interested to know u, i just want to pay agberos boys to gang rape u willl i watch

pocohantas:
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You must think I give 2fcks.
Think again, harder this time.

pocohantas:
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You must think I give 2fcks.
Think again, harder this time.

pocohantas:
I wonder what deludes some of you into thinking your mothers can't be brought into your e-stupidity. Hey, she was the one that brought you into the world and by extension cyberspace. If 4cktoto wants to see a woman gangraped, why not his lovely mother?

Her vagina not good enough or what? It is even an old one. It might not feel anything.

I also wonder why you all never caution yourselves, but are quick to tell the female how she shouldn't say what or be bigger than what. Please, bounce with your pseudo-respect. I ain't better than nothing .
Thank you!

Joislim:
Mine happened last year, the first guy I ever loved and had sex with. I'm in my mid twenties.

There's this particular girl that was always calling him, he said she's a friend and stays in another town.

He stopped answering her calls in my presence and always shouts at her whenever he answers.

One day, while with him she kept calling but he didn't answer , when he left to do something, I picked up the phone and called the girl. She told me she's his girlfriend and stays in the same town with us.

I broke up with him, he kept begging and crying, I forgave him. But It continued though more discreetly.
Na FBI I be sha, finally broke up. I'm scared of being infected with HIV and I told him.
He saw me on Friday and was still begging for a reconciliation, for me I'm just giving myself time to start a new relationship

pocohantas:
Pay them to gang rape your mother then.
I presume she has a vagina and you can easily figure out her location, innit? Don't tell me she is dead o, show them her grave.

Illuminated993:
My guy, that incident must have left a terrible scar on you. But the good thing is, scenarios like you had help you learn and get stronger. I got to know my ex slept with a married man while in a relationship with me. The man was her teacher in secondary school. For me now, I'm not after love, my motives are mostly sex driven, let's just fucck, I don't care about the games the woman I'm with plays when I'm not around. I'm not that guy who monitors his woman, or goes through her phones anymore. I now understand that a man can't stop a woman from playing her games. I only demand sex and respect from the woman I'm with, nothing more. I don't bother with the thoughts of her getting fuccked by another man. Maybe she's probably getting fuccked. Being cheated on really does affect one.

Kylekent59:
Scam!!

Don't allow that pastor to deceive you. It's not possible for a human being to vomit that.

It's high time people wake up from their slumber.


Anyone who attends such church is going to hell together with his/her 419 pastors.

ImaIma1:
Good thing you are not the op.

Are you expecting me to tell him to marry her or not to marry her?

That decision should be left to him to make. I only painted the picture clearly for him to see how whatever choice he makes will impact on her.

ImaIma1:
If she is not fit for you to marry, she should not be fit for you to sleep with. Now you have complicated her life and you want to run.

Where do you want her to start from with two children? You probably don't like the idea of marrying a single mother. And you have put her in that status. She has that single mother "Nigerian curse" hanging over her head.

Her family is bad. If she is with you in whatever country, the influence from her mum should be limited and as she grows, she will get wiser. When you decided to date a 19 year old, you should have known it has down sides too.

She could be the way she is...naive and all because of her age. Though there are many smart ladies her age but she is different. You could help develop on that.

You didn't try. You point fingers and say she's not smart. Meanwhile you kept sleeping with her without protection even as you say you don't love her and didn't intend to marry her.

What does that say about you too?

MariaLavina:
Five years of promises, calls, texts, trust, different styles on bed, mat, car seats, car parks, toilet lids, bare ground. Five years of cooking, washing, sucking, visiting just like that?


Chai!

rosalieene:
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Stick with him, stand by him.... then after some years or after he has made some cash,the niqqa would now remember you are not good enough so don't blame girls who leave you when things are bad.

In this 5yrs, she has missed better guys/suitors that came her way but she rejected them because of this niqqa.
Tell me why thunder will not strike him.
6 months is enough to know if you can continue with someone or not.
As a Lady, don't let any guy waste your precious time.... some guys are just time wasters sent from the pit of hell.

sirdouglas:
Now before you judge me, I beg you to hear my side of the story.
I said my side of the story cos if she is here, she may not agree with everything I have to say.
This is a lengthy one but I will try to make it as short as possible.
I it is important to note that I am not writing this to be judged or ridiculed. I want matured and reasonable people to help out.

I met this girl in 2017. Can't really remember the month but it should be getting to 2years now. We started dating. As at the time I met her I wasn't struggling, I have my own business and apartment so I wouldn't say she met me when I had nothing. I was a big boy then if I can use that word.
She was just 19 or so then. I am this kind of guy that really really take relationship serious and always looking out to see if things can work out. I don't spend on her, I don't do much for her then. I wanted to see the kind of person she is. She doesn't care or even ask of anything. She might ask for something once in a while but I will pretend I didn't hearw her and to my amazement, she will never talk about it again.
With time I started noticing something about her that I don't like. First is she is really not smart and educated. I noticed that she doesn't have her own say. She listens to gossip and always bore me with what this person said or that person. I really hate that shit.
She is a mama's girl too. Sometimes I wonder if she gives her mom details of our sex life.
She won't sweep the house or do anything for me even while the relationship progressed. I started taking care of her and helping out with her needs. I constantly keep wondering if I can settle down with her but I am always stuck with that question.

I ended the relationship when it was clear to me that I can't live with her. I am an ambitious young man and I am not there yet. I want a woman who will be more than a sex mate. I want someone who can confidently handle my business and manage my home when I am not there. She is to naive to my liking. I am tired trying to build her into the kind of woman I want.

There is only one main reason why I wasn't really hard on her. She was one girl who accepted me from her heart and I know it and I respected that too. I suck when it comes to women and I respect women a lot. You know what they say about guys that respect women. They are mostly single �
She came back few months later. She wasn't ready to let go. Being that I am a loner. My defence wasn't strong enough. We started dating. I got hold of myself and ask her to go again because I couldn't see a future with her and I can't bring myself to be wasting her time.

She wanted to stay, I told her in plain words that I don't want to marry her and that's why I am setting her free.

She left and came back the third time. We had sex and all that but this time I was determined to let her go. I went to a lab for a test with to make sure I didn't infect her with anything because I treated staph before I met her and I was afraid it may still be there or something. To my utmost surprise, she was the one who infected me with gonorrhea. I treated mine and hers and ask her to go.

I noticed that she haven't seen her period and asked her and she confirmed it. She left and came back few weeks later that she is pregnant. She insisted that she wanted to have an abortion but I wasn't interested. I told her to keep the child. Besides, she has been the one telling me that my sperm us not working. I laughed over it. I became afraid that she will try something stupid so I took her to a pharmacist friend of mine to discourage her.

Her mother got to know and ask her to call me. I went with a friend and told her mother everything. I started suspecting that the child might not be mine because I treated her of an infection she possibly contacted from another person. In fact, I was shocked when she confessed about the infection. She said it is the toilet they use at home but I never believed her.

I told her mother that I am not sure about the paternity but however, I will take care of her. I told her family that I don't want to marry her and I have told her that severely.

We had a long discussion that day and I left. I started taking care if her the more. I made sure that I made my stand clear on the matter. I don't want to be a murderer so I got to do what is necessary. She started complaining about abuse from her siblings and war started. They beat her almost all the time and I wanted to take it personal. Shit do happen at times but that is not enough reason to kill their sister.

When all this is happening, I was processing my papers. In fact, I started processing my papers before she got pregnant and she is full aware of that. I took another group of friends to their home to help beg the brothers to stop beating her so they don't kill her and the child.

My visa took time so she was almost due for delivery before I left. I sent money to her account and bought some things I felt she would need even the unnecessary ones and left.

My problem now is that she contacted me few days ago to tell me that the scan said she is having twins now not a boy. I can't explain in details because I don't know but the bottom line is that she is now having a twins. I feel for her like I always do.

I don't want to marry out of pity. I don't want to live a promiscuous life. I don't want to marry this girl honestly and having a twins for me just complicated the matter the more.

She said the doctor said she will be delivering this month. I am thinking of sending my uncle and younger brother to her family house to do the iku aka or whatever that is called so I can lay claims to my kids.

Her family is so messed up that I will never want to do anything with them on a normal day. They are from onitsha in anambra and I swore never to marry from that state. That's one of the reason I kept chasing her away. When I say messed up, I am really not that good with English to find the right word to define how disorganized it is.

I am feeling like a monster already. I need all the help that I can get. I never expected this to happen. I never wanted to complicate her life but here I am in the middle of all this.

Should I marry her out of pity and save her the embarrassment or give her money and make sure she comfortable and go ahead with my life. Honestly I don't know what to do.

fayded:
Hey guys, Gat this dilemma, I find myself in..
Will need y'all advice.
So I Gat a gf, she's great and all that. Buh I have this girl that I have a weird connection with,i dunno whether it's love or something,buh it is mutual. Buh the point is, we re really close. Been close for like a year now. I even opened a thread on her sometime ago.
Anyways, I went to my main campus on Wednesday to tidy some stuffs and on Thursday, I went to the park and booked a ticket to take me back to the teaching hospital, which is where I'm learning(I'm a clinical student)
I decided to drop by and say hello to the girl, just hello.i called her line,she didn't pick, so I just gave up.
She later called me back and by then, the bus I was in, has not yet been completed, so I just decided to surprise her and drop in her lodge without her knowing.
So when I arrived, she screamed and we hugged and all. She was so hyper, and was like let's go back to the park, let me sell my ticket and spend the night at her place.
We did all that. And then I got my refund on the ticket.
So, now the issue starts,at night around 7,she started fidgeting and was like.. She has to tell her boyfriend that I'm sleeping over. And it was now like this is a different person altogether, like its not the same girl that was convincing me to sell my ticket and stay bk.
And let's not forget that her and her bf has been having fights bcoz of me. The guy wants her to stop talking to me.
Anyways, lemme cut this short. She later lied to him dt I just visited and later at night, they had this big fight over the phone. It made me feel really bad cos I hated what was now happening between them.
Anyways, we were awake almost all night talking and gisting. I reluctantly made a move to kiss her sha, and she was like she will regret it. So I just stopped and through out the night, it was just talking, sleep talking, laughing and the rest.
My question is, has anyone been through this kind of situation before and what's the best thing I can do? And also what does she want?

chinchonglee:
Dats wat i used to think until i met one...

Dat girl is d bomb. She is a true definition of financial indepedency, she loves sport, she doesnt argue unneccesarily.

I wont mention her moniker tho.

Sunnyshinylight:
Let us share our experiences with some of you who can not live without sex......



Sex is spiritual and whatever man or woman you share your private parties with is automatically join with you and you automatically share their spiritual curses with....the wages of sin is death.... final deaths...



Growing up we were able by the Holy Ghost to flee sexual temptation.... There are thousands of you guys here on nairaland who wants to communicate with us through whatever means Satan and his wife uses to destroy virgin's...., No chance... We are not looking for husband......we are married.




We are waiting for our life from heaven, when CHRIST who is our life shall appear then shall we appear with him in glory......




Young girls and boys be encourage this world isn't your home..... your home is coming and you will practically see it very well.



All things are ours and you will soon see it.

Nasri100:
Lol i live comfortably. I am not making money for a woman.

Nasri100:
So today, out of curiosity i thought it would be a nice idea to ask my ex girlfriend for lunch (No strings attached) on Saturday cause i have had a busy week at work. Man it didnt go well. The way she unloaded on me chaii.

She said i was too selfish. Selfish with my ambitions. Selfish with my job. Selfish with my football club Arsenal. Always putting myself first. I didnt care about her emotions and feelings.

She even said she has moved on to a better guy who cares about her. Who listens to her. Who loves her for her. Who puts her first.

I was just surprised cause we broke up about a year ago and i am yet to move on to another woman but she already has someone else who is 5 times better than me cause he cares about her, puts her first and loves her.

Well i told her i am not selfish cause i donate to the less privileged and help when i can. And i never cheated on her but it didnt seem to matter.

And i think thats the fact about this life.

For someone with MGTOW and Esther Vlaar knowledge, i have conceded something today.

If you really want a decent relationship with a woman, you will have to compromise. You will have to put her first. You will have to make her a priority.

If you dont, she will leave for a better guy and it will hurt.

Nature doesnt have anything really for men. Ours is to work and provide. Women and Dogs are to be loved unconditionally.

I guess when i am 24 next month, i will learn how to keep a relationship alongside my life goals.


For now, i guess i feel bad about certain things.

Trippledee:
Please, when are you going back to prison?

Charelsz:
Not mad sir, i don't want foreigners to think that all Nigeria men are mannerless criminal like you.

Charelsz:
Me I don't hate Nigeria women ooo, AstroG can only speak for himself not for all Nigeria men.

fukara:
GEJ started TSA on paper BUT he didn't implement it.

GEJ started the rice revolution BUT he didn't complete it.

BUT

GEJ's wife completed the looting of N9.2bn and $8.4m.

If I hear GEJ started anything again, I'll call thunder for any of you!

twerkjack:
We hate y’all modafvckers too


Uncivilized, abusive, disrespectful, ungrateful misogynistic Nigerian men