BossLaifay:
Lol babes! The brokest ones shout the loudest! As if they even have 'wealth' to spilt 50-50!
Do they know these same laws also ensure that marial debts are treated just like marital assets? Split 50-50 in the wake of a divorce? That time you wont hear any more protests! They wouldn't say "my wife was a stay home mother and wife sonshe can not be responsible for the debts" They will quickly share those ones claiming they borrowed for the family! Idiots everywhere!

Fools like Elder001 are broke and have been taken to the cleaners for all their hard earned $10 an hour/12 hours a day! Now they dont want us to hear word! Ndi ala!

APCsupporter:


You mean any man who supports equal responsibility is not a true father? Just say that any weak kitten guy that doesn't opt to be a slave to useless 0loshos who are looking for an easy way to get rich over a hardworking mans money. If the ladies can't take care of them let the guys keep their kids. As a man you don't need 1/20 of that money to take good care of your children

Elder001:


Lazy ass.. keep waiting for only the man to fund child support so that you can use the money to sort yourself out.
lazy cretin afraid of taking responsibility

Elder001:


your responsibility is to co-provide not popping out kids and sitting down..
lazy dunce

BossLaifay:
All this you typed won't change anything dumbo! The fact is you are irresponsible and have limited thinking abilities!

Child support should be shared equally yet you are here advising men not to support such laws in Nigeria so you can father children from multiple women and not be held accountable for providing a roof over their heads or food in their tummies! Your type that I am reading from here so, you need strict rules to 'help' you do the right thing! Your borehole of a baby mama is #winning and you're here crying foul!

Go and face your responsibilities dumbo! You are a disgrace!

Netanyahu1:
Seriously? So you have all the time to read some idiotic thread on nairaland yet you have not come across the word sexual abuse before? Grown men deceiving and impregnating underage girls and abandoning them and the baby?

I understand what the op. Is trying to say , but men like you is the reason we actually need strong child abuse laws, domestic violence spousal abuse and iron clad child support laws in Nigeria.

For your information most guys don't need harddoon abi whatever you call him to teach them how to be players , its a simple stuff.

APCsupporter:


I think you have comprehension problems. The op made it clear that he is not against child support but against the nature of the laws. If Dangote were to get into that trap he would be forced to pay over 5 billion dollars to a woman who contributed nothing to his wealth and still pay her salaries? What kind of child will need this money? And at the end of the day the useless gold digger will use it to live luxurious lifestyle while dangote gets bankrupt and even go to jail. It has happened to so many celebrities. Google it.

Shugarlord213:
I give my househelp my money to buy food stuffs. If my wife likes let her hug transformer. Or is she the one paying the househelp monthly?

Or have I spent a dime or seen her money in the last 12 years we are married??

Nigerian women should get a hold of their lives

Elder001:


it's said that you wasted your time in replying a demented fellow.

kense88:
Is obvious you have mental problem. Lazy goat, is your type that will be expecting there husband to buy under wears and bra for them, while she ties rapper all day eating and sleeping at home. It seems laziness runs in your family. Like mother like daughter.

PDPGuy:

Yes, it’s much more likely that child support will be implemented via a judicial decision, rather than an Act of the National Assembly.
That was exactly how women in Nigeria earned the right to inherit their late fathers’ properties, via a Supreme Court ruling.

Elder001:


women should stop using kids as bargaining chips to sort out their numerous problems.

African men will only embrace child support scam if both the women and the men are ordered to pay equally anything other than that it'll be resisted at all cost.

keep on dreaming kid.

Elder001:


and how's not supporting child support mean that I've evil intentions towards children?
wake up from your dream. this is Africa

No man will do that child support scam with you and no man will share properties with you.


your evil intentions towards men shall be returned to your male relatives in ten folds.

Elder001:


Same way you talk to people anyhow same way people that are below you will talk to you anyhow now matter how highly placed you're.

Elder001:


I'm a disgusting old fool because I don't support child support?

Are you even in Nigeria? if you're in Nigeria you must be dreaming if you think any Nigerian man will share his properties with you or do child support.

what is your age?

I owe you nothing and I don't expect anything from anybody

Elder001:
Any woman who have no plan for her children's future is worthless and not qualified for marriage they must tell the other partner about their evil intention before they get married so he can decide(Some fools are looking for who to use to have a baby what a shame)

Ladies focus on yourself and become a better person .


CHILD SUPPORT IS A SCAM!!!!!!

Elder001:


probably a kid or a lady.

I blame myself for replying you but next time don't post on my thread.. pls

Elder001:


Lol kid! you can't type without insulting people.
I'm not surprised.

You came on my thread to post stuffs supporting child support and I quoted you.

If child support should be legalized in Nigeria then the payment must be equal.

The courts should setup accounts where each parents will be made to pay in monthly.

or calculate the total cost of taking care of the kid till he gets to 18 and both the man and the lady will be told to pay the money equally.


If you can't behave matured without using provocative words please don't post on my thread next time.

Elder001:



which people are going to enforce these laws?? our constitution hasn't defined it yet.

Child support is a scam.
The cost of taking care of the child till he's 18
and both parents should be forced to pay the money equally in the presence of everyone in the court

Nicolars:
lol, I'm confused, where r u driving at

Nicolars:


some of us were in a family where our rich dad left us and is living a golden life whereas we are living a spoon-mouth life

CastedAyo:
A Nigerian man on Twitter @NaijaClassCapt has taken to the micro-blogging platform to narrate how, his colleague, a "Good Samaritan" loses his car and almost jailed after stopping to help a lady carrying a crying baby in Abuja.

Read his tweets below;
"My colleague's car was snatched at gunpoint. Down the street from his office. It was a setup. He was just driving home from work when a woman carrying a crying baby flagged him down-- beside an obviously faulty car whose bonnet was open. He stopped to check.

It was a grave mistake. It was like in the movies-- everything happened in a flash, too unreal to be true. Three men armed to the teeth instantly bundled him into his own car and drove off. This happened in Asokoro, Abuja.

They drove towards Gwagwalada, got to a point and stopped. They weren't sure whether to kill him or let him go. One of them knew for sure that since it was a new car, it must have a tracker and killing my colleague would be a surer way to avoid jail.

They robbed another car, and 'accidentally' dropped off my colleague's ID card in that car. They continued towards Kabba. At around 1:00 AM, they stripped him of every clothing he had on, and told him they know he would track the car. But that if they ever get caught, they ... would track him, kill every member of his family and then finally kill him. They told him to forget about the car--- he shouldn't bother looking for it.

No car stopped for him. No sane driver would stop for a completely naked man in the middle of bushy nowhere at 1:00 AM. In the morning he saw people going to farm and explained to them. Soon, he had enough clothes and money with which to go back to Abuja.

He had suffered some form of shock and was now showing signs of PTSD-- he had been beaten and forced to endure the inhumanity of traveling in the truck of a sedan along a very bumpy road.

The moment he came back to Abuja, he was admitted. On the second day, before we could find out what transpired, policemen investigating the second robbery, came to arrest him in the hospital.

It took connections and 'leg' to stop him from ending up in Kuje Prisons.
Today, my colleague is one of the most heartless people i know. He would slash your throat if he had to.

Life."

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/05/man-loses-car-almost-jailed-after-stopping-to-help-lady-carrying-a-crying-baby-in-abuja.html