This is the world we find ourselves.
 The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace and remain at rest.

Self love.

Leopantro:
She can keep him

if another woman steals your man, there is no better revenge than letting her keep him.

Real men can't be stolen.

You are correct

Congrats am happy for her.

Congrats am happy for you.

lindabon:


There is nothing natural about it sir.
It's all about power.
We leave in a male-dominated society so men can get away with anything they do to women; rape, abuse, cheating etc.
If men are stigmatised the way women are stigmatised for sleeping around, they will be grounded, but sadly, they are not. (Some men still are grounded but they had to ground themselves, no-thanks to society)
Daughter's watch their fathers cheat on their mother time and time again. They begin to believe that that is how all men treat women. What most of these men don't realise is that when they are selfishly sticking their privates into any and all orifice, their daughters are watching and learning. Eventually, their daughters grow up believing that they are just objects for men to dig in and out. They become women who have very little value and respect for themselves and their bodies.
But who cares about all this; after all, you believe this is "beneficial" to the society.

My advice to men is this: Before you go ahead believing and adopting every crap society tells you is the norm or is "beneficial" for you, think about what you are teaching your daughters and the impact your reckless behaviour will have on her in the future. Be a good role model to your daughters and be the type of man you want her to marry when she grows older. That is your duty as a father, and no one will do it for you. So The choice is yours.

Good points.

olamide452:
How did that cross enter the bottle exactly

My thought exactly.

Nltaliban:
Big brother naija is here again.
Nigerians won't give room for critical thinking anymore.
Instead of us to face and tackle the present challenges facing our country we'll start voting for people who will just use and dump us. Now y'all have given the government 3 months break they didn't ask for, who will question them for the wrong steps they take during that period?

Una wey vote for Efe last year, Wetin he give Una?, no be unfollow he unfollow Una?

Let's start thinking abeg, bbnaija is a total waste of money, the money channeled into this nonsense if injected into the economy or educational sector will make a difference.

Let's put on our thinking cap please.
Nltaliban

Since BBA started i have never sat down to watch it from the beginning to the end. Mother use to say they are making their own money, look for a problem to solve and make your own money or do you want to suffer in your old age

FG should equally invest heavily in other sector of the economy.

It is well

Only God can deliver this country from her numerous plight

Pavore9:
And when he is old and weak, he will expect the boy he threw out with his mother to be responsible for him.

king1234:
those who are angry with Kanu's wife dont understand she has to set the boundaries now. if , God forbid, Kanu were to drop dead tomorrow do you think the brother will allow Kanu's children to inherit his property 100%. A line has to be drawn...and she is fighting for what is rightfully hers.

I am a guy and I would hate for anyone but my immediate family to take over my property if I am gone.

Yes we are brothers/sisters the best I can do for you is what i have done for you while I was alive after that my immediate family comes first

You are right.
Kanu should set his brothers who he is spoon feeding up with businesses so they can become independent if not the future of his offspring is as stake

ekems2017:
If kanu allows his younger brother that is old enough to know that if a man is married he should give him and his family a breathing space destroys his home, he will surely regret it.
Yes there are many women out there for him to choose from but he should know that he is not supose to toil with the wife of his youth.

Seems kanu's ex-girlfriends and extended family has finished spending all his money, I pity kanu.

When i was a little girl, father use to say it's better to report a case than to be involved in physical battle

Mariangeles:
Happy birthday... May you bigger and more successful than your Dad

Amen.

Thank you lord for today

THEbaddest007:

maybe I would go for economics thanks

You are welcome.

linearity:
Am curious, you got B3 in Further Math and C6 in Math and you say no expo was involved?

It's possible, my blood brother and sister got similar result without expo.

THEbaddest007:
my waec GCE result without any expo. What course can I study with this result?

cc lalasticlala

Am so happy for you.
My result then too was good all thanks goes to God, my mother and father.

Op it's all depends on what you have passion for but I love Economics and Business Administration.

sacluxisback:
There is this babe i have been dating on/ off for close to 3 years now.

We have had countless arguments but we always settle.

I find it hard to break up with her,because her pussy is so sweet!!

Not all vaginas are the same to be honest. Her own is like cocaine.

Very fresh and clean. I dont know if it is lust or love but nowadays nothing she does is wrong in my eyes.

I have made attempts to take it to the next level with her but she said her people dont accept mbaise men.(She is from agulu, anambra)

The only problem i have with her is that she bugs me for money all the time but i have been able to handle it.

She prefers friends with benefits arrangements, of which i pay her a token.

I am considering getting her pregnant to tie her down regardless of consequences.

Please i need mature advice on how to move on from her because even if i marry someone else. I will still be banging her which i don't want to do.

Sweet emotion
@ubunja what advice do you have for your brother?

publicenemy:
Some men are so irresponsible. How can a woman bring you food while Ur married to another.

They do that to spite the wife, the man is a foolish and wicked man.

dingbang:
Because of ashawo, him kill the wife...

RIP to the dead.
Why don't he divorce his wife and marry the mistress instead of killing her.

Evablizin:
Wow.

I love the smile i'm seeing on her face,she will be a great lady,the efforts of the people that contributed to this surgery wouldn't be in vain.

Amen.

YourCoffin:
Chai. I belong to number one o. I kinda suspect I wasn't destined for marriage. This one I no con be gay, how we go do am?

I have no answer to your question.
You can ask God.

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. The Unbeliever – Marriage can be hard enough at times, add to that the pressure of deeper spiritual disconnect, and you may be in big trouble when the normal stressors of life occur. Missionary dating and marriage will be a road of extra struggle. If you hold vastly different spiritual beliefs now, don’t falsely assume you’ll get him to “turn around,” or change his ways later. It may happen, but it may not. Be careful not to settle for less than what God would want for the spiritual health and care of your marriage. - 2 Cor. 6:14

2. The Abuser – You are worth far too much to be abused by anyone. Ever. Move quickly away from anyone who brings you physical, verbal, or deep emotional harm. It’s not worth it to attach yourself to one who desperately needs help and freedom himself. You are not his saving grace. That is God’s work. Marriage is built on deep love and respect and this is most certainly no way to begin. See the warning signs for what they are. Believe you are valuable and precious to God. Say “no more” and move on. - Ps. 11:5   

3. The Addict – This man needs freedom that can only come by admitting there’s a problem and seeking counseling, professional help, and the strength that God can bring. Addiction to alcohol, drugs, or pornography will lead to destruction. And though your relationship may seem to challenge him in the right direction, don’t be fooled that he’ll so quickly “give it all up for you,” without the aid and accountability of professional help. You are not the one to set him free and your role is not to try to change him. Only God can. - 
1 Cor. 6:12

4. The Narcissist – If your boyfriend cares more about what he looks like in the mirror on any given day, than what you do, or can’t seem to get enough of his “greatness,” you may have trouble ahead. No matter how handsome, talented, and charming one may seem, marriage is built on the word “together.” If the relationship before marriage seems a bit one-sided, emphasis on “his side,” it may be destined for struggle. Your life should be greatly cherished by the man who calls you his wife. Humility, compassion, love, and respect towards others are much more admirable characteristics than simply the externals. - 2 Tim. 3:2-5

5. The Controller – What seems to be disguised early on as “I’m only trying to help,” can really be a deep need for control and a heart of jealousy. This man will dominate and strive to make every decision for you, decide who you should spend time or who you should no longer see. The one driven by control needs will have continual issues with whether he can “trust you.” Often, under the grasp of the controller, you may start to feel like you can hardly breath. It’s suffocating. It’s supposed to be, that’s how he holds you in his grasp. Be free. This is not your problem to fix. It’s God’s. - James 3:16

6. The Angry, Hot-tempered Man – A man who cannot control his temper before you’re married, will most certainly be a man who cannot control his temper after you’re married. In most cases, it will worsen. No matter what our personality type, it still doesn’t give us room to plow over anyone in our pathway with harsh words and rants. Take time in different scenarios to see how he responds, especially under pressure. How does he act on the ball field? In traffic? When the waiter gets the order messed up? When the pressures mount at work? When you’re running late? The key is – does he realize it’s an area of weakness that he desires for God to help him change? If the answer is “no,” steer clear. - 
Prov. 22:24

7. The Man Still Tied to Mama – We all love a man who loves his Mom. There is deep respect for those who care for and show love to their parents. Yet sometimes the lines get blurred. When the guy you’re dating still has every bill paid by his parents, they control every decision he makes, and he cares more about what Mama thinks than what you think – newsflash – struggle is ahead. One of the number one causes of divorce is relationship difficulty with in-laws. No family is perfect, but be sure you’re both on the same page when it comes to leaving, cleaving, and uniting as one. If there is trouble with drawing healthy boundaries before you’re married, there most definitely will be trouble later. - Matt. 19:5

8. The Flirt, Cheat, Tempter – Behaviors established before marriage are not going to magically go away once you say “I do.” Sexual sin can be a deep trap of the enemy and once ensnared in these destructive patterns, they are difficult to break. The mistakes of the past should hold no control over our present and future. Watch for behaviors that signal trouble. Is he respectful to women? Does he flirt with your best friend or the waitress at dinner? Is he begging you to sleep with him? Red flag. Be careful that you have wisdom to see the true heart before you enter covenant relationship with one entrenched in sexual sin. You are worthy of respect, the one who loves you, will wait for you. - 1 Cor. 6:18

9. The Liar – Every marriage must be built on trust. Without this as a firm foundation, you’re in for trouble from the beginning. So what about those “little white lies” you started noticing along the way? In reality, there’s no such thing as little white lies. Any lie is meant to hide, deceive, or manipulate truth. There is no room for dishonesty in a healthy, loving relationship. It’s a dangerous trap and you will always be left wondering what he’s hiding. - Prov. 19:9

10. The One with Destructive Money or Work Habits – If you’re supporting your boyfriend and paying for everything now – this may not change much later. Is he a hard worker? Does he have a job? Is he a workaholic? Does he have secretive spending habits? Addiction to gambling? Insurmountable debt? Once married, these patterns can worsen when the stressors of family life and responsibilities mount high. Money problems and financial struggles are one of the main causes of divorce. Have the discussions before you’re married. Decide upfront if the two of you can agree on the big issues. - Prov. 13:20

LionDeLeo:
The landlady right now,

Austinio:

you better be careful because she will hurt you again and more painful if you get close to her or give her any chance

You are 100% right, she has to stay away to save herself.