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Stop questioning me @bluetrails7
I don't owe you any explanation.

Pray to have beautiful and healthy kids which only God can give besides she is not God the giver of children.

That's very good keep it up

RIP to the dead.

May we not die over the problems we did not cause.

Nutase:
the some you mentioned was not used to qualify the relationship but the disadvantages of the relationship. So it's obvious you have a wrong mindset. In relationships what works for 4 may not work for 5. So locate what works for you and stick to it.

like I said earlier on if you don't understand my point then am not the cause, you have a wrong mindset,why bully another who have a different opinion by saying she is talking trash. If you must know we are all entitled to our own opinion.

In a country where there is freedom of speech you are looking for a VULNERABLE person you can turn to your slave by silencing them through bullying.This is 21st century I pity the vulnerable people around you and if you go about insulting the vulnerable ones amongst you at any slightest opportunity then you will surely reap what you have sowed.

Nutase:
you just exposed yourself. So because Nike married Sam and it worked out it means everyone marriage with there age gap is ideal.
My sister you are on a long thing.

Celine Dion husband was twice her age and she is one of the few celebrities without a scandal in her marital life.

You better pray to meet the right person and stop talking trash.

I mentioned SOME not ALL in my POST but if you don't understand that then am not the cause

What does this assumption of yours say about you too?

"Small small girls who have zero experience with marriage would just open thread and think they sound logical in their assertion" 


The sower knows by default that when he plant mustard seeds he reaps mustard seeds

EsotericMonk:
Small small girls who have zero experience with marriage would just open thread and think they sound logical in their assertion.
The key in marriage is love and mutual respect . I have seen marriages with 1, 2, 3 and even zero age gap yet all the negatives op attributed to in her post are also applicable.
I have female friends who tell me they can't get married to a guy who isn't above 5yrs older and I have some whose hubbies are above 10yrs yet they play and go about as best of friends.
Wether you say some or you say all, the 10year yardstick is as baseless as a 2yr yardstick.

WHETHER YOU ADMIT IT OR NOT I DON'T CARE, YOUR OPINION YOUR BUSINESS.
@Mrbottle is 100% on POINT .

MrBottle:
And you are very silly to call me silly. Make your point as I have made mine.
I observed something from your post which I have seen on several occasions in many families that with that age gap someone has been subdued to the extent they don't have voice again.--- thats my stance. And you don't have to call me silly to buttress your point.

You are so RIGHT.
I will share a story about a teenager that was subdued by the husband with a ten years age gap and his ex girlfriends not until she rebel and GIVE UP ON HIM that things changed.

I don't need to prove anything to a headless bully like you, I will not define that word and there is nothing you can do about it than whine like a TODDLER and HEAVEN WILL NOT FALL.

If you cannot GOOGLE the definition of GENERATION then like I said earlier am not the cause of your problems go and meet the person that turned you into a FOOLISH IDIOTIC HEADLESS BULLY

jaychubi:
If u dnt kw d meaning of generation then I consider u a toddler n may nt need to comment on a toddler thread headless goat

jaychubi:
Nonsense do u kw the meaning of generation foolish idiot

If you have no point to make GET LOST.

FOOLISH IDIOTIC ONLINE BULLY, am not the cause of your problems go and meet the person that turned you into a FOOLISH ONLINE BULLY

OKUCHI11:
should the above mentioned... be a yardstick for all... no offence please..

You can find it in my post where I mentioned SOME.

I had to use this reference because it was necessary.

RadicallyBlunt:
Are you minding the op? With her myopic view about life. That's d probably the age gap of a man that can handle her immaturity. Its what some ppl actually want sef.

You are myopic, stop deceiving yourself.

The age gap between pastor Sam Adeyemi and Nike Adeyemi is not up to 10 years. Just imagine if Pastor Nike Adeyemi didn't marry pastor Sam but end up with a man ten years older than her. Even for the fact that the age gab between them is not up to ten Pastor Sam is Matured and extremely sound. Thank God Pastor Nike married a man that is not ten years older than her.

Also the age difference between Barack Obama and Michelle Obama is not up to ten years.

LadyGoddiva:
THat’s the age difference between my parents and they get along PERFECTLY well! I guess the success of the marriage would be based of individuality, mutual respect and understanding and maturity of the people involved.

I SAID SOME OF THEM NOT ALL.

From observations and reviews here are some of the disavantages of a man 10 years older than the wife.

1. They belong to different generation.
2. Some of them like sending wifey on errands in public places
3. You might end up raising the children all alone.



You can add yours.

yomi007k:
I agree.

U sound unhappy.

Not really, it's just that when I think about my DAD I wish he never died especially when I see WICKED PEOPLE still existing but GOD IS UNQUESTIONABLY.

The truth is my father's blood runs in my vein and I will never be able to forget him untill I leave this world.

It is well.

When I was a little girl my BELOVED FATHER BEFORE HIS DEATH make sure my standards are high all round. Remember that you are not the reason why someone has a MEDIOCRITY MINDSET.

MY FATHER'S LEGACY IS A SHIELD THAT HAS PROTECTED ME ALL MY LIFE.

FOR MORE THAN 20 YEARS I HAVE BEEN LISTENING TO MY FATHER'S FAVOURITE SONG BY JIM REEVES, MOST TIMES I WISH MY DEAR FATHER WAS TILL ALIVE BUT WHO CAN QUESTION GOD. MAY HIS SOUL REST IN THE BOSOM OF THE LORD.AMEN.

I don't know under what influence you write your so called advice.

LADIES, NEVER TRY TO TAME YOUR MAN.

Only diabolic people will want to take the free will of another human being, so they can take advantage of them.



Free will is a precious gift from God, for it lets us love him with our “whole heart”—because we want to.—

Matthew 22:37.

TheArchangel:
you must be real pissed right now.

Soak yourself well in a hot water and sip a nice hot beverage to calmdown a bit.

Thanks.

First I got drenched by the rain and I had to drive a Truck that had a puncture tyre unknown to me, at the end of the day the vehicle got stock in the rain.

I was shivering and cold all in the name of trying to help.

Should adult belt be used to flog a two years old that do not want to brush his teeth?

As for me since I was born up till this moment my father and my uncle's who love me unconditionally has never used belt or anything to flog me, they only correct me with love.

A relationship should be a union between two separate people — not one person who defines the other. Over time, the two of you may fuse in the way that “Kimye” and “Tomkat” and “Brangelina” all have before, but if the foundation of your relationship is not first built from two individuals, you will likely face some turmoil in the near future.

Don't allow yourself to be defined as simply “so-and-so's girlfriend.” Yes, he is likely a big part of your identity, but if you strip that away, what is left? Do you have your own friends and hobbies that you cultivate separately from your partner?

We have all met “those girls” who jump from one relationship to another because they don't feel validated on their own. Their life goal is to find someone who can take care of them and who can provide a cushy life. These women may seem happy, but they certainly don't have the upper hand in their relationships. If something goes awry, they are left with nothing but panic and an identity crisis. Don't let that happen to you.

If someone at a bar asks you about what you do for fun, don't immediately start talking about school or work. It's all very interesting, I’m sure, but you should strive to be able to answer the question organically and honestly. Sit and think about what makes you feel fulfilled. Is it photography, or writing or nonprofit work? What defines you other than your job and relationship?
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The healthiest relationships are those that involve two different individuals with different ideas and interests. You should be able to share your love for books and skiing with your boyfriend, while he can teach you about his interests. This will both add depth to your relationship and expand both of your horizons. It will allow the two of you to grow together.

No one should be the superior party in the relationship. Both of you should be able to recognize the other's individuality and be supportive without being demeaning or condescending. Our society has striven for so long to have equality in all aspects of life, so why would you stop with something as important as your own relationship?

Be your own person, and let your significant other be his or her own person as well. Your relationship will be much healthier and stronger. Don't start a new relationship if you aren't able to define yourself without someone else.


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What is your opinion of a company that refuse to rent an office despite having the money to do so.

She belongs to the category of women who force friendship on people with the aim of sending them on an errand couple with an unreasonable attitude.

I think a restraining order from the court is the best, this will protect her so called prey or what do you guys think.

MrBrownJay1:
Only ONE thing can be done: MARRY THE RIGHT GUY!

If you get to Meet some men/women, you will say that if God is the one who created them, then God is such a WONDERFUL GOD.

Thank you LORD for creating all the good men and women that have added value to my life, God please bless the mother that RAISE THIS GOOD/BEAUTIFUL SOULS.

Madam.

In life learning is a continuous thing.

Go and learn a skill so that you can become self-sufficient.

MONEY IS THE ANSWER TO EVERYTHING.

You don't need to prove anything to him, work hard so that you can have your own money no matter how small and ensure you take care of yourself.

There's healing at the end for a harsh truth but false hope never pays either immediately or in the long run.

Someone once said THE WIFE IS TO SUFFER WHILE SIDE CHICK IS TO ENJOY.

what a country we live in.

Ladies!

Remember that you do not fall from the sky, you have your own responsibilities towards your family, if you are 100% dependent on a man there will be no respect most times, work and earn your own money, most of these men looking for someone's daughter to turn into a housewife will never allow their own SISTER or DAUGHTER become an housewife.

ALL THE GREAT WOMEN OF OUR TIME ARE NOT HOUSEWIVES.



Ecclesiastes 10:19

A feast is made for laughter, wine makes life merry, and money is the answer for everything.

IpobAreFools:
The kid here is your stupid self. Fool!

Hatred and bitterness does not pay.
I PITY YOU.

There is an element of truth in this post.
Thanks.