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What is'Okafor law'

My friend have not said no, scared of making situation worse for her. Is the idea of introducing his ex to his family (and keep the relationship clean) as away of solving this problem ok, considering the fact that women could be jealous. Which other ways can he get himself out of this debacle without hurting the woman. She vehemently promised not to bother his family.

What will make a woman not to like pre-intimacy. She allows sex as often but will bulge when you want to engage in pre-intimacy. In fact breast touching is a no go area.No kissing. She claims satisfaction each time. But i feel something is missing somewhere....pls who can shed more light on this. Pls i need sincere advise from experienced people

Please kindly help advice a friend of mine who is presently under pressure to go into an affair with his ex. My friend is happily married but somehow got connected to his ex(first love of the ex), who has been widowed for about 5 yrs now.The fire was rekindled when my friend showed some niceties to her. My friend is confused because the ex said she has never been happy since her parent disallowed her from marrying him and now that she is free she has vowed to be happy again with him. Though she promised not to disturb his family. My friend said she promised to take care of herself (she is employed) and the consequences of the action even if it results into having baby. What should my friend as she claim she has not had any relationship since the death of her husband and my friend is the only person that can bring joy into her life again.

Thanks to everybody that have contributed. You ar sincere and ubiased. I'll make use of what i get here, Txs... no divorce, extra affair, separation, etc

@Nashville, we didnt marry ourselves as perfect beings but we expect improvement of character over time. We have been married over 5yrs and 2kids.

@bebe2, my thinking at times is that i am too available to her. For over a year now am away for d 1st time for 2wks at a stretch.

This attitude of hers is eroding my self esteem as a man. Many things are on my mind now but my faith as a Xtian...... the stress affecting me

Attention yes am available(a family loving man). When there are issue that require her seeking peace and apologetic she becomes ill, therby getting my attention.

I have tried to see any area am lacking (though am not a millionaire) but she is not accusing me of anything

@idnoble, i am quick to initiate peace eachtime we quarel. i've tried all known wisdom to relate wit her. The issue of finance is for those who might think she is d breadwinner

My wife is rude, unromantic, unapologetic and lazy. I finance the house 100% and bn faithful to her. Am abt taking a drastic decision. Pls help

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Who is fooling who, that Islam is a religion of peace, when a PhD holder in Arabic/Islamic studies support terrorism and suicide mision.

God will deliver travellers on that road. Smooth ride without serious hold up is very, very rare on the road. Bad road, accident, robbery, broken down vehicle contribute to this.

Call her, ask her, if she opens up talk to her. Cuddle her. let her know its not what she thinks. Dont call her bluff or ignore her totally. Or will u prefer a lady that sees it, and make up her mind on how to repay you without showing it on her face.

Yes i do say thank u once a while to her because she is available for me always. Even when its not convenient for her she offers me sex and she can drill me once in a while. So she deserves it

Most girls are like dat except you go ur village. Best thing set out for more search while u put her on probation. if u ar lucky to find drop her if not marry her but u got to b a step aheasd of her.

it is not their fault, startime Daarsat and even Gotv are not helping matters. CNN, Nat Geo Wild etc were removed from my Gotv channels without any reason. All the resetting i've bn doing have not restored it.

careytommy: this carrington has to tell us why he is always up in naija's bizness?

Carington married a Nigerian lady......eeeeem i forgot her name

Chiamaka01: What am i even doing here?


Anyway, i am the first to comment.

You better rush back before dem add joystick to your thing.

It is a matter of choice