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I don't usually comment on nairaland because of the long process of doing so. But because i must not allow you to make mistakes that is why i decided to add my comment.. I will simply say there is no red flag redder than what you have seen. Dont expect anything better than the small shege she is showing. A woman is at her best behavior when she is engaged and whatever attitude she exhibit now good or bad is only 10 of the total package of bad manners she has. Forget the marriage plan please

I cant see the cloth on her. She is still n.u.de. Psychological effect of her numerous n'u'de' picx online.

kITATITA: Leave her phone alone. She's entitled to some privacy. My wife doesn't password her phone yet I don't touch it; even though I bought it for her. You may not like what you see there.

Are you saying it is normal for your wife's phone to contain what you will not like to see.

i wonder o. Why will your wife's phone contain what you will not like to see.

Can you please define ''what you will not like to see" from your own perception.
And what is privacy where trust and transparency is the watchword

Poor performance, guys go 10 rounds unstop. Ask the ladies

yemmit90: Can you please explain in details the Quail eggs production,market and brooding?

A comprehensive details can not be given through this medium, however you can have the following basic information

Quail begins egg production as from 6wks of age.
They lay an average of 1 egg per day
Their daily management is similar to that of poultry, but without daily use of drug/vaccinations as in our regular poultry

The market for market for quail egg is quite unsaturated, there is ample opportunity for producer to sell their product. Just create enough publicity. The egg is sold based on their health benefits

Brooding require more care than the regular pullet chicks. They are more tender, require more heat (about 37'c by 1st week)
You may require to give assistance in feeding and water during first week. But no vaccination/drug
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though kssing is not an african thing, but we have embraced it even to our advantage

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Kissing is a universal language that requires no translation…. And its very good for your health!

The Top 10 Health Benefits of Kissing have been documented in medical studies offering amazing advantages for a long and healthy life.

1. Those who kiss their partner goodbye each morning live five years longer than those who don’t.
2. Kissing is great for self-esteem. It makes you feel appreciated and helps your state of mind.
3. Kissing burns calories, 2-3 calories a minute and can double your metabolic rate. Research claims that three passionate kisses a day (at least lasting 20 seconds each) will cause you to loose an entire extra pound! It’s time to start that kissing diet!
4. Kissing is a known stress-reliever. Passionate kissing relieves tension, reduces negative energy and produces a sense of well being, lowering your cortisol ‘stress’ hormone.
5. Kissing uses 30 facial muscles and it helps keep the facial muscles tight, preventing baggy cheeks! The tension in the muscles caused by a passionate kiss helps smooth the skin and increases the circulation.
6. Kissing is good for the heart, as it creates an adrenaline which causes your heart to pump more blood around your body. Frequent kissing has scientifically been proven to stabilize cardiovascular activity, decrease blood pressure and cholesterol.
7. Those who kiss quite frequently are less likely to suffer from stomach, bladder and blood infections.
8. During a kiss, natural antibiotics are secreted in the saliva. Also, the saliva contains a type of anesthetic that helps relieve pain.
9. Kissing reduces anxiety and stops the ‘noise’ in your mind. It increases the levels of oxytocin, an extremely calming hormone that produces a feeling of peace.
10. The endorphins produced by kissing are 200 times more powerful than morphine


Read more at: http://www.thoughtpursuits.com/top-10-health-benefits-kissing/

I like this and i know you will like it too.
Kissing is a universal language that requires no translation…. And its very good for your health!

The Top 10 Health Benefits of Kissing have been documented in medical studies offering amazing advantages for a long and healthy life.

1. Those who kiss their partner goodbye each morning live five years longer than those who don’t.
2. Kissing is great for self-esteem. It makes you feel appreciated and helps your state of mind.
3. Kissing burns calories, 2-3 calories a minute and can double your metabolic rate. Research claims that three passionate kisses a day (at least lasting 20 seconds each) will cause you to loose an entire extra pound! It’s time to start that kissing diet!
4. Kissing is a known stress-reliever. Passionate kissing relieves tension, reduces negative energy and produces a sense of well being, lowering your cortisol ‘stress’ hormone.
5. Kissing uses 30 facial muscles and it helps keep the facial muscles tight, preventing baggy cheeks! The tension in the muscles caused by a passionate kiss helps smooth the skin and increases the circulation.
6. Kissing is good for the heart, as it creates an adrenaline which causes your heart to pump more blood around your body. Frequent kissing has scientifically been proven to stabilize cardiovascular activity, decrease blood pressure and cholesterol.
7. Those who kiss quite frequently are less likely to suffer from stomach, bladder and blood infections.
8. During a kiss, natural antibiotics are secreted in the saliva. Also, the saliva contains a type of anesthetic that helps relieve pain.
9. Kissing reduces anxiety and stops the ‘noise’ in your mind. It increases the levels of oxytocin, an extremely calming hormone that produces a feeling of peace.
10. The endorphins produced by kissing are 200 times more powerful than morphine


Read more at: http://www.thoughtpursuits.com/top-10-health-benefits-kissing/

[quote author=jennykadry]It is wrong for women to show equality with men by wearing obnoxious dresses, it is not by been seductive with your dressing. Freedom is not about been able to do what you like alone, it also includes putting other people into consideration while you exhibit your freedom. If your husband appreciates you wearing those stuff at home (which i do for my wife) for his exclusive admiration, understand it that going to the street in that same wear sends a wrong signal to people outside who can only look but cant touch....(you will only cause them to burn for desire) no wonder cases of rape and sexual assault is sky high in the recent times. Plssss ''bi ko nu'' ''e jo'' ''du allah' ''i beg'' do not show your equal audacity with men (because you don't want to be dictated to) by doing what can cause public unrest......you cant imagine wetin your 'yansh' dey cause for outside. We are at the receiving end, we can tell the story better. Assert your equality with men in other ways like sharing domestic finance equally, prepare roaster for cooking, sweeping, watching of your undies, taking kids to school etc. Goodluck

Beware of scammers. He is not calling again since first call, you have not spoken with your sister on phone!!!!!!!, beware. The Lord will preserve her life, may be somebody is just settling scores.

jennykadry: Okay so recently I visited my country Nigeria and had the best and worst time of my life, no thanks to mosquito, gossips, diarrhea, cough and catarrh and NEPA. I never knew that married women on skinny body fitting jeans are the controllers of their homes and can't take "orders" from their men as wearing skinny jeans equates to being in charge of the home . Well according to some people it is a crime for a woman under a man to wear such disgusting bottom wear. To make matters worse, the educated driver we hired in the east is completely against women over 30 wearing skinny jeans.

please note that these people have no issues with women wearing pants or free styled/cut jean, their issue is that skinny jean-stating that it is too tight and body fitting for a woman "under" a man to wear outside. I never knew a woman above 30 is not allowed rock skin tight jean again. Women and men in the house both married, single, asheriwos like dayokanu my brother should please help me out here, cos hubby has no issue whatsoever with skinny jean but obviously some men do, what do call it? Insecurity? I don't want to sound like a feminist but the men I me toned above are the reason why women push for feminism with their nonsense....under a man and taking orders line.

Do you think these people lack exposure or they are just insecure?

Jeans, leggings, jeggings are wears for different people and different situations. How can you absolve a married woman of promiscuity when she wears a skinny, ''butty showing'' and ''see through'' nonsense jeggings on already offensive, protruding and twerking booty and topping it with a skimpy top. Tell me, what was on her mind when she left home....feeling Hot, seduction, etc Look in the name of exposure not all things should be accepted. Must it be acceptable to us because all westerners are doing it, pls what is bad is bad...shikena

Sperm and egg (ova) do not stay many days as opined by the op. Eggs for about 24hrs depending on the uteral condition, sperm up to 48hrs depending on uteral conditions.
In overall is a nice write up. Thumbs up

The Return on Investment on the businesses vary and it depends on a lot of factors. But in ideal situation ROI varies between 60-100% in a circle and a circle varies from one business to the other. As from 6wks, Quails begins to yield while in Tilapia, not earlier than 6months. Your success largely depends on what you have and how much you know.

@op whatever your faith cannot support do not do as your conscience wil not give you rest. Its not a sin as long as its wit ur spouse

THIS IS WORD OF WISDOM FOR THE MARRIED...What makes a successful marriage?
A successful marriage is a marriage where conflicts are resolved successfully. The presence of conflicts in a marriage does not mean the marriage has failed. Conflict actually spices up a marriage. Conflicts in marriage can only be destructive if unresolved. Anytime a couple resolves a conflict, they become closer. Human beings tend to respect one another whenever they resolve any conflict between them. A couple’s relationship becomes healthier after resolving a conflict. The way pepper spice up food is the same way conflicts spice up marriage. But just like too much pepper can turn to poison in food, so also can too much conflicts destroy a marriage. Because conflicts are inevitable in every marriage, what makes marriage successful is the ability of the couple to resolve their conflicts. The reason why people separate is not necessarily because of the conflicts they have but because they are unable to resolve their conflicts. Therefore, don’t see separation or divorce as an option when conflict occurs in your marriage. God will grant you wisdom and understanding to make your marriage successful. God bless you.
If our men/women share this view......divorce will be a thing of the past..... TRUE OR FALSE

I intend to use this medium to answers FAQ on all (i mean all) agribusinesses . Trending now include but limited to the following 1) Quail egg production, Quail egg incubation, quail brooding. 2) cassava flour processor 3) Tilapia fish production and value addition 4) Floating feed production. You can ask questions on any area of agricultural business bordering on production (crop and animal), processing, storage , and marketing, sourcing etc.

Chaiii, no mercy for lonely widows oooo. And my friend really want to help her ooo.

I hope am not boring you, am sharing my experience which i gather from all around me. Money give more confidence to man than anything. Sense of fulfillment is an opium for man, when this is not there his psychology suffers a setback and our women do not help matters as they kill and bury the innate courage/confidence he tries to exude without money. The women are quick to point to him ''go and see your mate outside and see how they provide for their family"" Such comments simply make most men to lie low and accept what comes and he eventually turns to ''Mr Nice''.... he cooks when he is hungry, cant ask for choice food, can's ask for sex at will, except the lady is willing or she just pity him, she cant query the lady for whatever she does(e.g late coming from work, untidy home, lazying around etc) because any attempt for him to do otherwise will be met with total rebuff. It is then you will hear women saying my husband is ordained for me by God, he is ''fery, fery undertanding''. He prepare the dinner when am late from work (nothing bad in cooking when its done out of mutual respect), he helps me with kids, in fact we do not quarrel..... i love him. Meanwhile the husband is praying ....oh God let this cup pass over me. He knows with money he can be himself and assert authority except a man that wants to break his relationship.... that our fathers say ....suuru la'fi n se oko obirin (you require lots of patience to be the husband to your wife)
Conclusion of the whole matter is that a true man wants to rule his home like a Kingdom, where he is in charge,(treating his wife like a queen) takes responsibility for what happens(responsibility shared is authority shared) but when money is lacking women usurp the power and authority

Hello guys and gals, ladies say they can't be bought and guys believe that their attitude to money is like that of fly and sh*t. Hmmmmm do you know what?,.... there are exceptions to this innate believe. Only few ladies will not be attracted to money or be maintained in a relationship without much money and still give the husband the due respect even when he errs. The point here is when there is no money how much respect do you give to your husband, when he fails (due to a fault not his) to provide enough for the home. Can he come back from work and ask for his food, can he tell(or you ask him)his choice of food, can he ask for sex(or you offer him) when you are a bit tired. When he doesn't look cheerful, can you ask him, pet him to know what is going through his mind, can you apologize to him after a quarrel even when you know you are not guilty? The point here is 99.9% of our ''[b]you cant buy me''[/b]ladies will be guilty of the above points.Meanwhile 100% ladies will pass all the above if the man has enough financial muscle. When a man is slighted/insulted in a relationship that lacks financial strength and he keeps quite, women should be aware he is not happy but he accept the situation as it is now.He condones the woman excessive aggression/misbehavior/lapses now while he bleeds inside.
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Dead cells(exfoliates), it screens the body, if not dia our body is exposed to harmful rays dat cause cancer. Cant remove all by soap and H2O

Am not sure the parents are aware of the children coming to you. Try and confirm by tactically confirming from the parent in a way that will not be rude/obnoxious. Whichever way it turns stop giving...why?... if their parent is aware and do not acknowledge it and do not have a cordial relationship with you then their life is not a fertile ground to sew seed. Again, if the children are doing it on their own, stop it because its a bad habit and do not encourage them to continue. Look am a xtian and believe in giving...Proverb says a liberal heart shall remain fat...... mind you not all givings attracts blessing especially when the spirit is not leading you to do it or the one that will grief your heart after giving.

Donxavier:

una no go kill me with laff with this Okafor matter

Now Okafor or no Okafor. How can i advice my friend who will soon be meeting her for the re-union (they have bn speaking on phone all the while)after a lot of hyping and the two birds are dying to see each other, especially the woman. How can he deflate already inflated feeling, and the Hot feeling is at the apogee, a heartbreak will be disastrous (on the part of the woman) if my friend does not apply wisdom. What can he do to stop this without causing disaster. PLLs help oooo.

First, find out if its a change of attitude from better to this worse. If yes, find out the point at which this occurred may be after birth, after getting a job or after a major incident. From that point sit your wife down and discuss the issue with her and how its affecting you.
Secondly if its not a change of attitude and perhaps she has been like this and you condoned it then, it takes the grace of God to change her. Be patient about the persuation

kulyie: you have said it all.nothing more to say

No you have not said your own, dia ar mor to yarn

Well, its best we get the core issue first. If I understood you well, u are saying the husband is in a quarrel situation with the wife because men are making advances on her..... Doesn't connect . Please explain.
The issue is that the husband is alleging her of infidelity but she claims (which her husband do not agree wit totally) that the people are mere toasters who she has vehemently refused to have an affair with but her undoing is that she cant put up a stern, fiery face against them. They call her line, send love messages, (she is a marketer, so she shares her number). I believe she is not having affair but the situation of these toasters has become a menace and its affecting her marriage

Yes, i need some direct way of handling the above situation. A family is having issues because of serious allegations her husband levied against her. She confided in me that she doesn't know how to handle such situation without been misunderstood by her husband and also without been a nuisance to people generally. She claims the frequency of intimate advancement from people is enormous and if she should do it her way she will constitute a nuisance as she will practically be quarreling/fighting with people of such motive.Pls advice and suggest ways to handle such to her plsssss. Am on my kneel. Fp material

Fellow NLders kindly suggest different ways/words that can be used to politely reject unsolicited familiarity/niceties with romance undertone/sexual advances especially from men/boss/neighbors/naughty elderly men etc, to the women (especially married) without causing a rift. Pls share your experiences if you have one. You will be saving a family now at the brink of break-up.

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Prostitute? Ashi? no no. She is responsible. Probably had bn molested...not sure. Cuold be fear of bonding/emotion

@Matronila, all these are not factors, i've verified. Could it be her body chemistry?. Ar dia ladies like dat.