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th epelican i just had to point out u are *ehem* a bit facially challeged just to make sure these girls knew what they were doin, abi can u not see there has been yrs of fights caused because of you?? no im not obsessed with u im just amazed at the idea women choose to be ignorant. uju was tryna start trouble she knows very well what happened im sure shes been thru the posts i have been thru the posts for entertaintment purposes   ive read all abt wat u guys get up to!

missy ill post u th elink later

Lol ok Inno no man would complain if I said me and my man must earn the same amt- men don't mind bein loosers nowadays yet they still wanna be the 'head' they wanna be respected they wanna be consulted-- abeg I'm not plannin to be a broke woman in fact my life hasn't even started I can't remember bein broke. . . . . Ever wth will I say entered my brain to now make me look at a broke man?? Abeg call am competition call am wetin u like my husband will be my own inspiration I don't need to look at outsiders ill look up to ma man!! Pleese!! Fix up and stop complainin abt ayettymamas expectations!!

Lol I understand all the hype abt this interview ting yea--- but missy b why u wanna hear the lies of a dodgy dude?? Go onto the previous posts and find out what happened as I've heard ts has had an opportunity to spk and he neva did so the bobo will just cook lies for u! Abeg!! U wan him come back decieve more women abi?? Ts shuld remain banned!!! If u want to help him donate to my charity!! HELP THE SEEKER BUILD HIS MUDHOUSE!!!!!

Uju u don't no how the guy will behave ooo unno the bobo needs papers he might even cry crocodile tears and stalk her for a couple of weeks, girl u mite have to find a system to dump him

Uju no mind them joo this is the reason why I have soo many enemies on nl these men don't wanna hear the truth-- ladies instead of attackin the woman that's quite clear on her standards why don't u go ahead and expect more from the loosers u carry abt?? And men when a woman spks like this u supposed to fix up!! Don't expecta woman to dumb down her standards people move up in life not down!!! Eurgh

@tkb ditto

So because I can't stand broke men u automatically think I'm jobless myself or I'm broke?? Lol no its an illusion to think rich powerful women don't need rich men. I don't need to explain or prove myself to anyone but its women that say things like 'I have my own money and I don't need a man' that end up in situations like the poster. No pun intended love

Lol no me I no de dig gold ooo na platinum I de dig for!! Lol I won't even try and sugar coat it I can't stand broke men!!!

I won't go into marriage knowin I still have feelins for my ex it would bring to much hurt to ur spouse-- guess one will just have to learn to let go and appreciate what you got

SA Goddess:
Out of curiosity, why would the advice be different if you knew German was caucasian?  I think it should be the same regardless,

and this is where ayettymama gets controversial!!lol

in all and absolute honesty nigerian women no exactly when a man is a scrub
its by choice they chose to look after or spend money on them
with other people its different- a white girl doesnt see anything in paying the bills- paying her part on dates or making more of an effort
thats why im even suprised

daduke2k:
Ayetty, wil u marry a Nigerian? Just a question

ur not the only person asking-- we'll see!

ooooooo

@german1234

ur white??

ooo sorry i didnt no

well the advice has to be different

im glad u figured it out- cos white girls never do (i hope that doesnt sound rascist)

yes love- hes definitely using you

and the fact he knows u love him hes using u more

hello can pls speak to elohim!! track!

unno serious!

lol odunnu

wetin be hpb oo

yes daduke they are nigerians ooo somehow somehow they have missed on th eoloriburiuku syndrome that most nigerians have caught!!

amebo!!!

english ur problem? i said my family is perfect!! exemplers of real men that respect women and contribute to society

oooo sa godess you no be nigerian, you havent seen a man fake a life b4??

why do u think i started my genuine guys post??

lol

lol why are u mad?? should i not let these non nigerian women no th etruth??

ok im sawy--- its all a lie oo

nigerian men are the sweetest , most honest kindest most hardworking people on earth. in fact thats why we carry gfood reputations everywhere we go. its a good thing to spend money on brokeass men- these are men that should be celebrated and pampared

more power to you

daduke2k:
U ve a blood bro ríght? Can u say d same abt him?

not really but yes i have alot of family- no i cant its unfortunate i cant marry my cousins!!

i aint hatin bro- its just the bitter truth!!

tkb417:
ure a certified kolomental

i find my 9ja women the best in all places ive been to

and trust me, im widely travelled. No one comes close to ma 9ja women

u goodluck in your quest to belittle your 9ja guys

more grease to your elbow

lol dont get me wrong im not belittling naija guys- im nigerian nuff respect for the ones that are tru, but most arent!! me inno nainja women are the funkiest she!! non nigerians tell me that all the time!

the only reason naija men are soo popular wit foreign women because there are soo many of them! kissin ass for papers make them think they are generally sweet! they are not sweet oooo dont be decieved!!

tkb417:
i can see ure very experienced in this dating schitzo

no probs!!! u still cannot infer from the few you have met cos as at the last time i checked, we have more than 60 million 9ja men and im sure u havent met 10,000

10,000 isnt a reasonable sample size to pass such a hasty generalisation

so, no worries

lol joka all of u are in denial- just because i know the way these men behave doesnt mean ive dated them all! lol its nothing to do wit who ive dated, ive seen it everywhere soo many times,

analyse it all u want!

SA Goddess:
If the above is the case, you have to learn to choose your lovers CAREFULLY then, I also happen to like Nigerians as a people but I will not date a man that will leave me bankcrupt just because I love everything about them, when it comes to relationships, we have to go deeper than that!

do unno whats funny?? im nigerian and i find absolutely nothing great abt them!!!!

just the traditions-- but the young men arent soo traditional so whats left??

hmmmmmm

tkb417:
im a typical Nigerian and i wont behave like that

so lets draw the parallels

where did u get your stat from?

o dea- i observe things luv

thats how u get to know!

i have observed differences betn black and white

nigerian and ghanian

men and women- u cant deny most men go into relationships for sex??

so if th ewomen denys him of the sex, whats the normal reaction??

tkb417:
i think all the men ayetty has been with behave like this

i still doubt all 9ja men behave like dt. Im a Nigerian and i dont behave like that

my ex bf is nigerian and he didnt behave like that- but he doesnt speak for all nigerians out there! plus he wasnt typical!

tkb417:
she already has a fraudulent mindset about Nigerians

a realistic observation shouldnt be called a fraudulent mindset
not all of them behave like this ur right
but most of the ones scavenging illegally in foreign countries spongin off women are most likely to behave soo!

its a shame-- the whole point is if u cant hold ur marriage together how u gonna counsel on marriage??

if u cant hold together ur family how u gonna counsel on kids??

thats the problem

i want to see a man of God have a good home, real blessings from God- if not what kind of prayer will he be givin me??

no wonder apostle paul didnt want to marry-- its better to focus on God than to be distracted

this guy is pretty nastay! ewww

SA Goddess:
"I actually tried to deny him my puzz with the outcome of him behaving like a typical nigerian man - like a 5-year old, stuppern, my-way-or-the-highway BOY! Which led me to think what I wrote in the poster"

Just how much experience have you had with Nigerian men for you to make such a statement?  I am just curious!

u dont need to have much experience with nigerian men to know the way the typical ones behave

deny him a bit of puzz he'll be gruntin like uve neva done it b4!! mchew

Beavyvan:
Hello everyone, my parents are btw the age range of 50- 60 and they still quarrel, exchange words,keep malice and the man even blows n slap her. I have grown to see them doing this but at this stage when all thier children' 4 of us are all married with children of our own' its really disheartening.
The most annoying one is that recently my father started accusing my mother that she wants to kill him. After all these years(33).
i was thinking of telling my mum to travel somewhere maybe for about 6months, to be away from all his troubles b/c it is really wearing her down. Pls anyone with more reasonable advice?

your right-- she should travel away from him and get him a househelp (preferably a boy)

ur never too old to get some couples councelling as well-- let the family gather and air their views

its upsetting all of you the way they bicker, its important you all show them what they are doing to each other and the family

after time apart they should miss each other enough to start making things work