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RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 10:04am On May 05, 2010
tkb----

to me the ideal woman has a good job, loads of money in the bank-- and an even better MAN!!!

if i own a merc he must own a porsche if i own a porsche he must own a bentley!!!

if i have 2milli he must have 10milli! i dont care for the 50/50 men!
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 10:01am On May 05, 2010
German1234:
Sometimes the easy solution is not the correct one,  But in this case it might be smiley

I actually tried to deny him my puzz with the outcome of him behaving like a typical nigerian man - like a 5-year old, stuppern, my-way-or-the-highway BOY! Which led me to think what I wrote in the poster,  

The reason to why he has not got a job is because he doesnt have recidency in this country and you have to have that to get a job. BUT even if he had residency, I think that he would only work 2 times a week or even less. It seems like the biggest interest in his life is to hang out with his friends and TO TALK ON THE PHONE to call his family and friends in nigeria,  I guess he misses them, but it can sometimes be too much.

He also asked if we could get married, but there is my limit. That is one thing I will NEVER do berfore I know its the right thing,
if u were my sister i will tell u this

the gus is a phakin looser drop him!! have u not seen illegal immigrants workin?? do unno if he has a wife and 2 kids at home?? is he worth ur stress?? o girl u need to wake up, theres only 1 thing the illegal ones look for-- can u imagin ewhat kind of man wants to get married b4 havin a job??
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Recommend Me A Wifey! by ayettymama(f): 9:55am On May 05, 2010
owshe
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 9:52am On May 05, 2010
tkb417:
no ma

im not broke, its more like the parasites feel its natural to suck and not work

its a recipe for disaster and poverty- thats what im eulogising

any smart lady will understand- only a thief will think otherwise grin cheesy
if u cant recognise a parasite and flick it off then thats ur problem!

whats a recipe for disaster and poverty?? expecting a man to be a man?? expecting a man to work and not wait for u to pay the bills?? expecxting a man not to be a looser??

no ur wrong, a smart lady will know a real man doesnt need her money!
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 9:50am On May 05, 2010
tkb417:
hehehe

those who know me know i have done well for meself at my age

my worry is for a woman that wants to tie her apron on my neck cos of my goodies

she has no hope is my point cos what if stuff happens?

im sure you know MKO Abiola, ask his children the difference between when he was alive and when hes dead

those who are standing are the ones who chose not to be housewives

i pity anybody who thinks being a housewife to a rich man is an avenue to prosperity
poverty beckons
Like i said its all about upbringing-- some men dont even want thier women to work, but u have twisted the story, im not asking whether or not ur doing well, but i have to admit its certain type of men that feel particular abt spending money-- its not a case of rch man poor man its abt self respecting man, any man thats worth any type of hustle will not sit down and wait for ish to be handed to him!!!!!!

u can argue from today till tommorow thats the truth!!

any man thats worth anything will not ask a woman for money!! thats a man right there!!!
RomanceRe: What Do You Think Of Men Who Meet Their Wives In The Church by ayettymama(f): 9:42am On May 05, 2010
[quote author=Area_boy link=topic=441244.msg6001800#msg6001800 date=1273048612]but u fail to notice that like 95% of the unmarried young ladies use church as one way to find Mr right. consciously or otherwise.[/quote]98% os stats are made up on the spot, how many women do unno lookin for men in the church?? u must not know alot of women!!!!

i have single christian friends who are allergic to church, cos u guys go lookin for women doesnt mean all women do thesame!!

joka- in fact dating from church is even against my priciples- simply cos it never ends well!!!
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 9:39am On May 05, 2010
Ujujoan:
You guys should stop the comparism! It's different!

A full grown man who can't take care of himself is a loser. It's not the same for women, because guess what . . . she's a woman!
no mind them-- its the broke men that like to lament!!  grin grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 9:33am On May 05, 2010
tkb417:
housewife in this 21st century?

what if somethn happens to the guy? how will she cope and catch up

any woman that believes in the term called 'housewife' is a pidgeon and loser grin grin
erm, believe in the term?? wat u tryna say??  u neva seen a housewife b4?? if something happens nko?? thats why a woman shouldnt marry a looser!!! so when something happens she'll be fine!

cope and catch up---lol go and ask the widower thats sittin on millions how she coped to catch up! mshew

u dudes need to get urselves work! eurgh men like this disgust me!

Ujujoan:
Why Nigerian men only?  undecided

As far as I'm concerned, they are all the same.
i didnt say nigerian men only, the only loosers inno are nigerian!
FashionRe: Shoes Freaks, Hop In Here by ayettymama(f): 9:28am On May 05, 2010
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these shoes are amazing!! and they are only like $500!!
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 9:23am On May 05, 2010
tkb417:
ure right ayettymama

scrub and loser!!! what do u call a woman that does that
pidgeon and loser shey grin grin
ill call her a housewife!!!

lol u guys have no better defence!!- anyways it all boils down to ur upbringin
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 9:22am On May 05, 2010
miller123:
why is he not working?
because he's a scrub

Ujujoan:
Na wa oh, tomorrow now you'll come and say he duped you!  lol!  cheesy
its bad to say but its tru- women should have this kinda attitude when dealin wit nigerian men
RomanceRe: What Do You Think Of Men Who Meet Their Wives In The Church by ayettymama(f): 9:20am On May 05, 2010
[quote author=Area_boy link=topic=441244.msg6001699#msg6001699 date=1273047213]the problem is, those chics "not looking for attention" have issues themselves to sort out. they believe they are not pretty enuff and no man will look their way and thus. dress for comfort rather than to look appealing. tongue

you really cant say a woman doesnt want attention. every woman on earth loves it. married or unmarried  undecided[/quote]yes but a woman seeking for God will not go to church seeking for attention- to some lookin good comes naturally, to some not soo much, not llthat glitters is gold!
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 9:11am On May 05, 2010
tkb417:
i can tell my babe i miss her puzz and that doesnt mean i dont miss her heart or whatever fckery someone spewed up

so its a biggie when a guy doesnt have money and the babe pays the bill but not when a guy caters for all and y'all sit your fat asses to watch movies .
of course it depends on ur communication i alwaysused to tell my ex i miss his prickk- doesnt i dont love him (or maybe it does!!!)

yes its a biggie not because a wona can collect money and a guy cant, but because no self respecting guy will do it, people can lament all they want, even if a guy has small money he still has dignity knowin he worked for it and spends it wiseley. A guy that sits around waitin for a woman to pay all the bills is nothing more than a scrub and a looser!!!
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Gentlemens Club.....you are all welcome. by ayettymama(f): 9:07am On May 05, 2010
luiz what was ur mission?? findin a wifey??
RomanceRe: What Do You Think Of Men Who Meet Their Wives In The Church by ayettymama(f): 9:06am On May 05, 2010
well unno how men are-- after boinkin every woman in the city they somehow think they deserve a virgin, i dont get how these men walk around thinkin they are Gods gift to women- just because there are generally more women than men. kmt puhleeze. most of them are loosers|!
RomanceRe: How Can I Know If He Is Just Using Me? by ayettymama(f): 8:58am On May 05, 2010
adconline:
be careful with pieces of advice you receive from some female members of NIL. They always give stereotypical answers. If you had changed the question " I'm dating this Naija guy, He does not show me any affection " they would tell that Naija men are like that and he might have wife in Naija. Be careful of one size fits all solutions. You really know this guy more than these nameless and faceless folks. It depends on the context, if you guys really love to talk dirty, that's no way he will not use those words or maybe if you told him that the intimacy was good, should you not expect his response to be sexually and explicitly worded?
i hear what your saying-- put me bein a woman aside, or me not likin nigerian men aside

what kind of honest respectable man sits around waitin like a scrub for a woman to be payin for all thier dinners??

a man with no job shouldnt even have a gf, he should be lookin for a job!!!!

if any man will succeed in life- he wont have a woman paying for his ish-----Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime---unfortunately this girl is gonna be feedin him food and puzzy until she fixes up and finds a man that has a job!!!!
RomanceRe: What Do You Think Of Men Who Meet Their Wives In The Church by ayettymama(f): 8:53am On May 05, 2010
^^ not all of them- the honest ones are normally not soo bothered abt lookin good, men want a church girl that will look good, not knowin they are just thier to get attention. thats why u  men think all the girls are decietful. If you close your eyes and open ur mind, pay attention to the women that arent lookin for attention, you will find the genuine ones!
CelebritiesRe: Nigerian Celebs And Six Pack Abs by ayettymama(f): 8:50am On May 05, 2010
israelite:
The secret of having this packs. if u are pot belle before there is a lot of work for you to do to earn your 6packs. first you have to burn those liitle fat in your tummy by daily gyming, like herobic, weight gyming this will help to burn your fats and flatten your tummy, the second thing to do after u av achived that is to start pushups at least for a beginner you have to do 20push ups 4 rounds, and do decline sit up u u are unable to do 3 rounds of 15situps u are on your way to getting this paacks but u have to be consistence. i will show u the pics latter.
how do unno soo much?? do u work in the gym or summin?? lol u have alpot of packin knowledge oooo

lemme send all the ugly mutete's to this thread to get advice!!!
RomanceRe: What Do You Think Of Men Who Meet Their Wives In The Church by ayettymama(f): 8:48am On May 05, 2010
^^ lol!! i didnt no!!! even the men no church is where the bad girls at!! but there are some churches ova here that are really good- helluva booring but full of genuine people. My church is that kind of rich bobo church-- the men try thier best but. . . . . what they say abt old habits.
FamilyRe: Top 10 Most Important Nigerian Families Of The 21st Century by ayettymama(f): 8:04am On May 05, 2010
Lol u guys are funny not the top politicians muppets!! The most prestigous families in naija has to be the kuti's!!!! Everyone home and abroad know abt the kuti's have have generational acheivements!!
RomanceRe: What Do You Think Of Men Who Meet Their Wives In The Church by ayettymama(f): 8:00am On May 05, 2010
Lol SA goddess that's an illusion if ever I've heard one. Whose to tell u the guy or girl hasn't just come from the skankiest club in the city?? The best and worst people you will ever meet will be in church-- don't forget holiness is not written on ones forehead!! @op because someone met their partner in church doesn't mean they went there lookin for one some people spend all their time in church-- all their friends bein those they met in church!!!
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 7:44am On May 05, 2010
Tbh a 419er is a 419er whether he's scammin nigerians, scammin oyibo's scammin babies or scammin pensioners they are all the same--- a bunch of thieves that should rot in jail!! Abeg me I just wanted to say that ooo-- I'm not accusin ts, I simply don't like him because he's the one that started all this and he's a scrub!! Kai if the guy looked good I wouldve even joined the fight sef!! Nofine-- no money and girls are throwin themselves abt like mud!! All for a guy they have never met who has absolutely no prospects!!
Forum GamesRe: What's On Your Mind?? (Remix) Continued . . . by ayettymama(f): 2:26am On May 05, 2010
eurgh they keep changing sheldons character how come he can lie now??
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 2:24am On May 05, 2010
oh please u follow me arnd like uve never seen a woman b4!!

i dont give a ish wat u do- but u obviously craave my attention

yes na a cow is in better shape than me and your mother both!!

why are u following a cow like theres no tommorow??

im givin it to each of u 1 by one- phack, i dont even no why plat will ask of me from u, she should no better that i dont converse with goats

abeg she is the one that knows the language of u animals im no farmer! mscheew
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 1:55am On May 05, 2010
[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=439934.msg6000736#msg6000736 date=1273020793][color=deeppink]Calm Down, it's only a public Forum. . .Wonder what you would do if it's actually real life.[/color]

[color=deeppink]You're really annoying, Stop instigating trouble.[/color] angry[/quote]if it was real life love na2twat and his fellow animal farm brothers will be put in place!!!
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 1:54am On May 05, 2010
lol even if i was 1000pounds ill look better than any woman in ur family!!!

lol u guys just make me laugh lookin for ayettymama all ova nl

goin on his personal yim to get my attention

dayum dude ayetty dont give a shite abt u get ova it!!

u sick puppy dogg dont u get loved at home??

u need someone to stroke ur fury belly??- no more young girls to abuse??

tell ur family of fools to go suck it, stick a finger in it and kiss it!!

bloody animals-
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 1:27am On May 05, 2010
please na2twat

who gives a flying phack what your pathetic illiterate arse thinks

please go get urself a boyfriend u fool

your no better than the seeker or whitelexi

go phack urself rabid animal!!

see the basterd comin thinkin hes supaman in diguise who the hell are uhuh

oloriburuku aburo the seeker!

this middle finger is dedicated to you


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Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 12:49am On May 05, 2010
henry101:
This is the most interesting live thread so far.
This Nairaland reality show pass the BAD GIRLS CLUB.
But Am really dissappointed in u'all.
I dont know if the actors involved in this reality show are adults.
More grease to your fake backsides.
you watch that too??

i loove it!!
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 12:38am On May 05, 2010
lol missy i pity u, unno no maybe its some kind of abacha/abiola style jazz he's usin on these women

in fact i use goggles to read his postings cos its like medusa tunin into stone- inno wan fall in love tongue tongue tongue tongue
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 12:36am On May 05, 2010
lol ur not even helping ur case mentioning that nutter!!!

Missy B:
For each Question You/ he answer/s, there's 20€ . Deal? grin
we will be soo grateful, u dont no how much that will mean to ts and his family and weed smokin buddies

in fact they will be soo grateful

any time u need a pack of thugs to follow u arnd naija they will be ready!
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 12:33am On May 05, 2010
lol

its begginin to look like they have all had discussions on yim

and are now posting sensibly


we no want jooo

gerraway wit ur sensible posting

say ur minds!!!
Nairaland GeneralRe: 190 And Theseeker! by ayettymama(f): 12:29am On May 05, 2010
no mind fl she no wan ban!!!  grin grin grin grin

missy can u donate to this charity please??

all we ask for is 20naira so ts can support his wife and kids at home  cry cry cry cry younno its not easy  cry cry cry

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