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kai mama gee one woman is drinkin all that??

well maedan u adies have fun ive been invited out to a fashion show!!!

ill be sure to slip ma biznizz card into a cute fella's pocket!!!



hpe cold reports for duty soon!!!

giggs- talkin da hardest

wat u wanna drink?

mamagee im gna need to see some id!

she wasnt modelling ndarling she was stripping!!!

lolz

beecrofty:
By the time she visits Ekiti once, she'll never want to leave

lolz

younno!!!

kaii

all these men??

where are the women??
bluspice thank you jooo

your a managers best friend

plati is still sleepin upstairs wiv her bottle of gin!!!

beecrofty:

Awww, my Honorable state is what you just described as YAMAYAMA,   

i will ensure you get no BURUKUTU and ASUN for the next couple of years,  damn, refering to my God's own state as yamayama

no mind her jooo

she doesnt no wat shes sayin!!!

busy body uno serious!!!!

but we could take this discussion to my bar i love to hear womes take on this

busy body u have been watching too many movies- who really follows the 3rd world crap nowadays

neways ill meet u on the other side??

@ op

look at it from this angle

this man is basically saying- 'i love you, but i cant marry you'!

heheeh im blushing!!!!lolz

erm im gna have to be honest- i dont think much of marriage typically cos i dont think much of men but i think if u want to have kids you must be able to sacrifice alot and be very patient

God forbid i get one but imagine i blindly marry finish then the man starts misbehavin *what will i do*i mean i also dont think a man should cheat or fool arnd God knows how much i hate it, but even if i think of leavin the children will make me stay!

then again im saying that- in the situation ill probably burn his clothes smash his car and beat up his girlfriends but i dont think thats very nice! and that just makes me very crazy!! what can u do?? guess u just have to pray *shrugs* i dont see why simply trying to talk things thru with ur husband no longer works nowadays!



but kai any woman that gets married should always give the man the impression that he could be replaced at any time!!! even after 20 children!!!!

no1

there no such thing as a labelled bastard- im not using it as an offensive term- im using the word as it is a child born out of wedlock

no2 if u no ur psychology u would no the worst thing u could do to a child- is raise it out of a broken home

no3 if u and ur partner are not married here ur child is supoosed to bear ur surname (did u no that??) nigerians ignorantly use the fathers name regardless (sayin its culture) and then end up facing legal problems in future i.e he's not ur child, ie where is the father etc! this ive seen too many times!!

no3 yes we no how a single parent could emerge- but were not talkin abt that! were talking abt the woman who has been datin her man for 8 yrs and the man doesnt want to marry! PAY ATTENTION LADY!!   ps if u marry then for whatever lose ur husband ur kid is not a bastard, but lets not go off topic

no4 i dont no abt the hullabaloo u read- but u must be very aware that this life if full of everything, u will hear all sorts of stories- the women will tell you all sorts of things- the women will never tell u- i pressured him to marry me- he was a little aggresive whilst we were datin- i had a hunch he was cheating- most of them marry thier men KNOWING all of this very well then come and start lamenting at the family section! now inno thats not the case for all but come on, what are the odds you have a very good man when you marrry and he turns sour on you??

no5 marriage is not really meant to be a walk in the park- its our attitide towards it that determines its success, people are aarranged and thier marriages work out fine its only when they 'celebritized' divorce it became soo common!

lolz

gawd

i think someone needz to start a sex ed thread!!

why the hell will a man 'ask' for sex

is she a prost.i.t.u.te??

lolz im soo suprised at some attitudes towards marriage

whats the difference between bein together for 9 yrs or marryin in the 5th??

its just a piece of paper so whats the big deal with signin it??

why would people want illegitimate kids?? i mean fine in naija the legal and class system is quite crappy

but the monkey women that make foolish mistakes dwn here pay dearly!!!

we already established you dont need money

only the foolish will spend what they dont have on a wedding

so wats the difference??- i think most of u guys need to sit down with yourselves, cos the real problem is commitment

alot of u feel its a deathsentence- and thats just downright sad!

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=412378.msg5684165#msg5684165 date=1268471762]OPEN QUESTION TO THE "MARRIAGE/MARRIED LIFE IS THE BE IT AND ALL, THE ULTIMATE IN LIFE" CREW ~

What does someone lucky enough to get married but has never found peace in his/her home do lets say because the spouse changed after marriage and started cheating, staying out late, started maltreating and beating them till they pass out, makes life hell for them and their kids ? ? ?

What advice do you have for people like this with their lives and possibly the lives of their children at risk of danger? Do you advice they remain in such marriage so that the society would not stigmatise them for becoming divorced?

Do you advice they remain in such marriage so that they can still remain accepted in society/get their dream jobs/have their bas'tard children accepted at schools without bias/etc[/quote]i didnt say that!!!

i dont think someone who marry's is 'lucky' but if ur speakin as in opposin to not marrying but behaving as if thier married- then what is stopping the spouse from treating her that way now?? they change after marriage [/b]when u dont no them well enuff! wats stoppin him from changin now??

its an individuals decision on whether or not to divorce- I for one am very well aware of the importance of providing a stable home for children! I see single women everyday- it a cycle- thier kids are [b]always messed up!! i say if u cant keep a family together dont borher startin one!!! bas.tard children are almost always obvious- take the crime rates very rarely are they from fulfilled households! teenage pregnancies same thing! o girl u really need to buy some books on child psychology- cos i can go on here 4eva!!!

its a womans/mans decision- i know what i will do but were not all the same!

aisha2:
Thank You my dear, I feel the same way too. All the shouting drives me mad, and the pastors will keep insisting that people should shout more, Why?

lolz
winch!

WHEN YOUR PASSIONATELY SPEAKING TO GOD NOBODY TELLS YOU HOW TO DO IT


Jesus was teaching non- believers how to pray and rebuking the way the hypocrites pray

when he said we shouldnt be repetitive he meant we shouldnt chant like cultists

when ur rebukin demons u dont politely ask them?? when ur prayin for forgiveness u dont softly say it?? with passion comes the attitude and the willingness to shout

a pastor can say whatever the spirit tells him- if your heart is darkened then prayer may help you
prayer helps us as much as it brings us closer to God, there is no timeframe she can translate it how she likes theres no right or wrong way abt it!- its all an order of preference

a pastor can not 'make' you feel weak- if u are not strengthened in prayers you ARE weak! and the pastor will let you no, she may have felt intimidated because of her inability to pray for a long time!- I advise you to seek God because the devil is taking over if u are getting irritated by prayer!kaii!! Only the devil and his minions dont like to hear the name of Jesus- if praying for a long time doesnt suit u then go to a corner and read ur bible- whilst everyone else are praying!

theres a yoruba sayin- orii mi o nii ko adua!

I tell you now theres nothing God loves more than to hear his children- people dont pray cos they have to- they pray to spk to God!

lolz

yes yes yes i have another question

if your god hates the infedels soo much, why did he bother create us??

instead of commanding you to war- i hope im making sense??

as in why will he command you to kill his creations??

were they not in his efforts??

he couldve just destroyed all infidels in a fire or summin instead??

this is absolutely baffling me

hmm
this is quite educating

never knew u guys thot abraham was a prophet

now what were his prophesies??

arkinsus is a mankenian

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omg this car loooks amaaaaazing!!!

*parks SUV outside sees customers waiting*

o dear this is what happens when u let the ladies run ur biznizz!!

come in come in people

eddy1977:
since when did the name zack orrgy become zack sin assembly? i did not type that.?

OMG U HAVE MADE ME LAUGH OUT LOUD IN THIS LIBRARY!!LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

NL NO GO KILL ME!!

erm dunno wat u guys call it

long essay sha

*sophisticated security system electricutes the intruder*

ehn lust is better

*all the while the surveilance cameras are filming this display*

no mind oo im in uni im doin ma diss