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truth is;

we dont like each other

we dont get along

this tribal thing leads to mismanagement

some people are getting uneccesary advantage

we should just break up

instead of killing each other daily

the military can be put to soo much better use

and the wester world will stop complainin we are an overpopulous nation!!

much babe no mind this satanist ooo

@op ive dedicated my time and efforts to stoppin ogaga's game

kaiiii my frend just said the funniest thing!!

dbanj has made hi intentions for genny very clear

'no long tin'

kaiii!

wat research the psycopath was comparing me to you  

hes the jobless one had to report the ba.stard to the authorities!! kaii

neways whilst ur advisin me lemme advise u

keep your dog on a lease!

well i guess soo long as unno each other b4 and something draws u apart

theres nothing wrong with continuing

theres soo much more to relationships that what is done when ur together

i will actually enjoy a long distance tin cos then the man no go complain when im too busy!!!

then again my family is always sayin its not good for a woman to leave her husband for too long

^^ added to the list!!
lolz too funny!

kai chic and gators should just get a room alreadi!!!

this one na too much!!

gators

she started it!!

FL Gators:
@ayettymama
Oya, lets go togeda.
I need a water-woman to bring me water when am feeling hydrated

o ba ee lai!!

anti gators mind urself ooo



@uniqued

dont just say to me go and just say to ur bf

he's the one who needs help!

kai see that afro

much babe you are really too much!!

thumbs up luv!

erm i hope ur not talking to me??

better not waste ur time preachin to me here

charity begins at home

scooby

u really need help!

im going to compile a list of nlers that need help!!

loooooooooooool


i should probably go gym too??

@ op

whether fitness first is still open at this time  

goth

no mind him joo

probably seuns younger brother

like th eillegal immigrants have a society planning what theyll do to remain in other countries!

for nigeria to break up there doesnt have to be a war

neways everyone is entiltled to thier opnion

people are gettin carried away with nl

WAIT FOR ME IM ON MY WAY

karo93:
@donugapi

paul never said it was his personal opinion. theses were like guidelines if you have read the books of paul. Paul was trying to break Judaism ties by telling them that they were no longer under the law so he could not give his own laws for the law as he said is for criminals.[1.tim.1.10]

thats not true!

lol

i have soooo many friends that are married at 21! one of them had a child at 18 married so no theres nothing wrong with it!

so far they are both emotionally and financially ready!

well

its only been a yr if u feel your parents views will affect the marriage

let the guy move on- when ur 50 and still single or ur future husband treats u badly they will no they made the wrong decisions!

then again they do mean well but thier mentality is too backwards- issue of polygamy has gone long ago and thie ris no tribe thats doesnt practice fetishness!

if ur like me and sincerely dont give 2 abt what ur parents say then you can tell your parents to accept him cos youve chosen him and get married

if they simply make the effort to know the family and the guy they might like him!

ABGABGA

YOU ARE NOY SERIOUS!!LOLZ

like i said

your definitiomn of skimpy will differ from everyone elses

i think you dont understand what paul meant and should go back to wat i said

it does not say THOU SHALL NOT WEAR JEWELLRY

it means we shouldnt spend too much time worrying abt outer beauty

as it was said in those times similar to now

jewellry and heavily braided hair signifies social status and wealth

and thats what paul told us to avoid

yes God looks at our hearts- but that doesnt mean people should go to church dressed shabbily and smelling because they dont believe in deodorant!

looooooool

at least theres humour!!

my friends mom told her kissing guys causes meningitis!!!!

talk abt an prevention strategies!

[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=407149.msg5618951#msg5618951 date=1267611596]I will try and keep this short. This is my first post so please dont bag me out. I really need some advice from you guys.
I have been in a relationship with a yoruba man for over a year. I am trying as much as i can to learn his culture and ways but i am really struggling at the moment to understand what the heck is going on and do i have anything to be concerned about.
The first six months were great but now not so much. We are in a long distance relationship at the moment. I am supposed to be moving closer to him in may. We visit each other every two to three months. We communicate via webcan, sms, email and phone. But lately he is always busy doing something and doesnt have time to come online or talk so we only sms. He got angry with me cos i didnt call him much but when i call he doesnt answer or is busy at the gym or something else. He told me tonight that he cant give me time the past months cos he is an 'african man who has to hustle' and i should be understanding. Whatever the heck that means!! I would better understand if i knew what was going on but he wont give me a straight answer. So anyway i want to know what 'hustle' means and also from you guys and ladies who better know the culture, should i be as freaked out as i am or do i have nothing to be worried about. I am so ready to walk away if i am being played but i just dont know and i have no one to ask except him so thats why i am here asking you. Thanks for your time.[/quote]the 6months is wat most people will call 'the honeymoon period' when the convo becomes shorter the sweettalk stops all together and he no longer has any 'time

most women are familiar with that!

its npot our 'culture' for the guy to behave like that- again this is the guy and nothing to do with you nt knowin the culture!

hustling huslin rubbish the guy is probably a con artist (im probably gonna get crucified for that) and you understanding means ur not supposed to disturb him whilst he goes abt scamming people- but if that doesnt bother u u shouldnt be worried

wat i dont get is why ur the only one calling?? is he in nigeria and you somewhere else??

neways if your no longer feelin the relationship u can talk abt it and if things dont change. . . . . . . . . . . . .

kaiii

in soo many words

what do u mean by do the verses??

what is your question??

H2O2:
For the sake of argument,

IF I started dating a babe at age 15 do I have to get married to her by the time we're 23, just because it's been 8 yeras?

if u read it properly u will see she isnt young

they started dating when they were both adults

kmt

sebi u will just send someone to the nearest village to buy pepper??

it will even be cheaper

or just be eatin indomie looooool


i remember when something similar happened arnd here- thought they were tryna wipe out the africans!

satanist

lolz

yea hpefully im still here

if its not too far down the yr!!!

and theres soooooooooooooo many places to go!!!

karo93:
It was peter who said it not Paul.

I am asking why christian sisters dont  follow the words of peter which accordingly to 2.tim.3.16 is the word of God.

I also want to cripple the excuse of ladies immoral/club dressing styles to church in the name of looking good for God.

but i have not reached any conclusion so i would want the "christian" sisters to explain this otherwise or tell me where they stand on the issue.

well what is your question??- i have told u the meaning

what is immoral to you isnt immoral to everyone else- im pretty sure ur one of those people that say wearing trousers is a sin and use a bible verse to prove it!

truly u are truly a joker!!!!

all im saying is people onli describe what they see!

there wont be a word for it if we didnt have it

dont get me wrong- kiniun- might not actually mean lion

but just be used for the purpose-it might mean leaopord or warreva big cat!!

all inno is there are kiniuns in nigeria otherwise we wont have a word for it!

simple logic taught in history!