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edwife:
But the first picture is actually terrible ,what's the joy of being married to someone you are scared of?

The rest are craps!

They dont look scared, they look submissive, you didnt comment about the other two pics as well..

From all, Im my opinion,

Your man loves you and wanted you for real at first

He is not in a stable condition in Dubai financially and maybe age is catching up, with pressure from family to marry or have a baby

When it all happened, probably little funds he sends to his family is becoming unavailable and they start to fear that all money will be going to you and the child (Because you definitely gonna need a new apartment and all)

Family have been complaining to him behind you and putting pressure on him, giving him all reasons to abandon you

Now they want the child alone and you out of the picture.

Your man will come to his senses one day and regret all these. Whether you leave with the baby or not, he will come to beg for forgiveness to take you back. He is just plain stupid because getting you to dubai will at first easy medical care for your child, you can find a daycare or Indian nanny to take your child to and start working together. You might be able to get a better job than him and adding both salaries together, you will live an average life, even if its a bedroom apartment and have savings. You both will also be able to send something to the greedy parents.

1. I would think you call your husband, tell him some of this points, cry on the phone even if you have to fake it, remind him of your past together and give him reasons to see that the future will be brighter if you live together and work together there. Bad as he bad in Dubai you will get a teaching job that will pay at worse 150k naira monthly. Even if that goes on accommodation, he can handle feeding and the rest.

2. But since they are indirectly telling you they dont want the marriage. Threaten him abit also, let him know at this point you have nothing to loose., they are not doing you a favor and you are the one doing them a favor my tolerating their nonsense and raising a child for him. You can run away with your child, leave the child with your parents and finance yourself to go to that same dubai for a job and take care of your child.

Just be prepared for whatever comes and stay strong

Yes. A woman should either be educated, even if up to a Diploma level. Or very serious to direct her focus on learning something that she can specialize on to cover up. If shes a young lady we are not talking about provision store oo. lol . There is a yoruba proverb something like ' Ko kose, ko kawe ..........

One of the things a girl who really likes you will do is never ask you for money but can show when they are in need for you to come in. You will know the reality if you get broke and cant send for like 2 months.

It starts from Laziness and some people do it intentionally. They forget things that they dont want to talk about or things they dont want to do or take blame for not doing. Tell her to remind you about taking her for shopping in two weeks time, If she forgets, then she is for real and you can seek medical help, cope with her or get her used to a diary and sticky notes and make sure she is also putting efforts. Because on the long run, you might have to be the one to remind her of no toothpaste in the house, kids appointments, etc.

Blinding and conrete in Block A for underground

Reinforcement and concrete pour for columns in other areas

Concrete footings, Backfilling and waterproofing

Formwork for ground beam (Block E)

Concrete pour for footings and columns, with three stage coats of bituminous waterproofing

reinforcement for footings and column for ground beam

Formwork for bases

Blinding

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digging Below water lever and dewatering

Excavation for footings and diverting underground services (other blocks and areas)

Block E. Excavation for ground beam and raft foundation

Building Extensions ;From 2014

Blocks A, B, C & E

FastShipping:
Cool! Where is this project located?

Middle East

G + 14 : From 2013

Twin Tower . 45F * 2 : From 2012

More

2B+G+M+7 : From 2012

Steel structure, precast concrete slabs and glass wall

Just thought to create this as a diary and preview of some project which i have been part of and on-going ones. To include snapshots and construction stages. Enjoy viewing

oluwasunshine:
I give mine to two people because i am highly confused,rokiatu and farano because i don't know who to choose but as for male,i don't know them because they don't upload their pics. What of yours my fellow romancelander,type their name and also post their pics.

I dont think we have the most beautiful or handsome, there are lot of pretty and cool dudes on NL (silent users) in different form of shape, complexion, intelligence and all. We can only have favorites that align with the kind of girl or guy that attracts us among the ones we know.

Only God knows how many bullets they wasted on that snake

tracyorez:
Me

pretty.. really ur in Kent? am visiting Ashford this summer for the first time. Would be nice to meet up xoxo

Enegod:
I like ugly girls
They are always loyal

Me too, not only loyal, many more

100 percent true. Its like no one checks on the affairs of the embassies from back in Nigeria, No inspection or Review. Only Embassies that i have heard good things about ; Washington DC ; Saudi Arabia .

UAE, QATAR, MOST IN NORTH AFRICA AND ASIA should be scrapped and their Ambassadors be questioned.

The tailor..or her friends..or her fashion adviser .. Someone is her mans ex

naijaboiy:

if you think you Love two people at once,,choose the second.

Because if you really loved the first you wouldn't have a second option

Confused set of species

Actually she is double dating under the umbrella of confusion. Whats confusing about choosing btw 2 people when you already know one is your head and the other is your heart? selfishness !!. How old are you that you are a virgin? But your thoughts and promises to a guy are loose. Which of the guys would you stay with if you heard they are doing this same thing you are doing? If you respect your first relationship, there are walls you would have built around yourself. You are cheating already !! Driving in the middle of a two lane road wanting to swerve at will to which lane moves faster, you are not the only road user ma'am. How to confuse you more.. you never know what the guys are also doing behind you, so keep it up

littleduck:
Thank you for your very wise words even if they make me cry because this is what I have learnt and I also know.
Also for Europeans a woman that is older is still a kind of no-go thus this was one of the things that worried me since the very beginning. I was absolutely terrified from this situation. He jumped into my life with his full strength, it is extremely difficult to resist him. I always do everything he wants, he looks at me with his lovely face and that is... I am lost. Nothing else matters.
I have even told him that if I will have a permanent contract I may really marry him, if things develop, but only if I will first meet his family and only if we do everything according to the Nigerian style.

so this is the situation, I am lost, it does not matter how logic and strong I am in my work this did not prevent me from all this....and honestly I do not see why I should be the lucky one the one that got the Prince....it is against all statistics....

Actually some people dont believe or care about age in a relationship, you can be happy together regardless of age.. If you look younger than your age, you are pretty and have good manners/attitudes and you are confident that you love him enough to respect him, be humble and submissive (Just try to find out more about basic requirements that you must meet to win over a Nigerian man) you are good to go. Even if he does not love you really now, you can win him over fully with time. If you conquer every reason that will make him think of having or wanting another woman back home or over there if you finally be together, the chances of him dumping you will be slim.

If he has kids already, it would have been more convincing, but every man wants a kid someday, no matter what you do, this may eventually be the only reason he would be looking for another woman no matter how much he loves you.

Since you truly love him, and he has been there for you, giving you his time, making you happy and all, somehow you are both balanced thinking of the pros and cons. You can both help each other, he gives you happiness, you give him happiness and change his life somehow through the green card or Europe stay. Even if you die tomorrow, you wont be forgotten for the life changing and opportunity you have given to some generation with that, and then you will die happy and in love.

Its better you find a way to meet up in person, get to know each other and have a feel of reality. The first meet should come with you meeting his people and analyse how they feel about the relationship. DO NOT rush to engagement or marriage at that time.

DAVE5:
lemme be the first to say u r most welcomed, hope u r good n remember; u can order anything u want,itz on the house , datz some real sweet ride, I'm a fan of big cars too

Haha, thx Dave. Handshake and knuckle