Sleekcareers:
Still Open

I sent cv times without number, you people failed to acknowledge it

How much una wan pay, op its not 50k job

Wande22:
Thunder fire them. Dem send sms to me today without name of the company. AWON eleribu somebody

Dey sent to me too o, they said preston services for customer care representative.
Are you going?

Emma2Seconds:
Dear are you a man or woman??

I wouldn't tell u to msg me if i was a man.
Abi se man fit carry belle ni

greenermodels:
I'm almost forty,age is not on my side anymore.

But I thought its we women that worry about getting to a particular age without being married, i never knew men also worry this much

ucheheart:


Who carrying help? Those that I carried in the past, where are they today? I ended up not marrying any of them. We do crazy things indoors but carrying her is not one of them and I don't feel bad abt that. If she even volunteer to carry me, I will gladly accept. Marriage is a two-sided relationship. So she completes me and vice versa.

Gosh, that woman is lucky to have you sha

Emma2Seconds:
Can't it be done without the public/too many ppl being aware of it??

Oga, message me lets talk business

Abeg me i wan join hookup o, I'm tired of living the good girl life, there's really nothing to gain from it...

imadiyi:

Marriage is an endless journey. No matter how far you have gone, it still seems you have not started. If you really want me to talk to you on this, then you will need to answer a few questions. With those answers, I should be able to counsel you.

If you are ready, you can mention me,,ok?

Pls ask

Slynation:
You just confirmed that they showed you to him as your husband but you said you rather remain single...well seems you have already made your choice, but at 32, I hope you realize your offers are limited instead of nagging like a 21year old lady.

Good luck tho...

Can i ask u a question?
Ok, what if i force mysef to marry him and at the end of the day i make life miserable for him? Wil the sin still be on my head?
Or probably i force mysef to marry him and the marriage does not last 2 weeks?
Would u marry someone u don't like as a wife ?
U marry someone cos God told u to marry him and then she doesn't give u the chance to touch her or perform ur marital duties?
I have seen so many cases of " God said you should marry him" and the marriage didn't last a year, so what are we going to say abt that?

Reggaemich:
let me motivate u

I have a married woman as a friend

She married at 34years, she has grown up children

Boy(15)
Girl(13)
Girl(11)
Boy(

Presently her husband is in abroad senting her money(dollars)

She just recently built an upstairs here in Nigeria

Her story
So many men came when she was younger, she refused them because she was not emotionally connected, coupled with their way oh life,

Note
Most of these men coming to marry her were wealthy

Reason she married her husband

He was calm and an easy going person, she was emotionally connected to him, she loved him At first sight, though he was poor then.

She helped established him and made him become wealthy (groomed HIM)

She is presently enjoying her peace of mind, happy home(even though the husband is in abroad),

Simply because she was patient, At last, she got the best.


So marry who u are emotionally connected with, to avoid had I known and when u find the right man or person, u will feel it within u (peace and joy within), no doubt, will be in your Heart,


A broken Relationship, is better than a broken Marraige, Don't Rush

This is all i needed to hear, i don't understand why people will tell you to marry someone you are not emotionally connected to, and they will term it ignorant, how on earth do u expect me to live with someone i don't like? I believe it won't work. Thank u for this piece, I appreciate

Ruke1989:


I am a pastor too. Married at 33 after much pressure. Pressure is not good for you at this stage, cut off from him. The fact that you saw him in dream doesn't mean God is speaking. Dream come from our thoughts during the day, comes from diabolic manipulation which is possible here, comes from God, comes as a result of malaria sickness, etc. Rebekah in the bible had emotional connection and joy the moment she saw Isaac. Adam was wowed the day he saw eve. He exclaimed, This should be called "Wo! Man" because she is flesh of my flesh. If the pastor is from God, you definitely would love him thesame way Adam and Rebecca loved the spouses God gave them. So not loving him is a sign God is not involved. So there are no consequences
Back to the question, never you go too close to unmarried men at this stage of your life seeking advice or prayer. A lady did this same thing to me which that pastor is trying to do to you. I later found out her father brother don fuc--ke-d her tire. But I thought she is holy prayerful sister and she said God lead her to me. It's a scam sister. Talk to me on the phone 0+902+88+19-30+29

Thank u alot, my heart ease a little

Benokonma:

Lol,so this is what you could get from my post? That girls leave me? Lol.just lol.

So feeling heart broken over the pain my daughter felt makes me weak.

Just so you know, this thread was created for my daughter sake.

If I had a son I will not send anybody. How am I to help her in menstruation and other girl issues?

I am in need of someone to love my daughter and not me.
Looking for a mother to my daughter and not my soulmate.


Know the difference.

I should stamp my feet on the ground and insist my daughter lives with me then wake up to her being burnt with hot water or maltreated,all because she didn't willingly accept my daughter but pretended to accept her for fear of losing me?



I appreciate your input bros.

Thank you

Uncle, the only woman that will serve as a mother to your daughter is her mom. I understand the point that you are doing all these for your daughter but do you think its easy for a woman who does not birth a child to behave like her mom?
Even no matter how hard the woman try to be, in your eye and other pples eye, shes not doing enough. U shuldnt av allowed the mother go for the sake of the girl. I was raisedby a step mom, my eye see shege. She pretended to like me at first but wen she entered fully she turned my dad against me. One of the reasons i hated my dad till now

I dated a single dad who told me i hated his child, this girl is allowed to talk rudely but I can't talk because shes her dads daughter. There was this day i was talk To the father on phone, she was disturbing and the father said, stop disturbing i am talking with someone, the girl said " wetin concern me", i was so angry i kept it to my sef, now this girl actually collected the phone and told me " don't mind anything my daddy is saying o, he will not marry you". Omo i was so mad that day and instead gor the dad to apologize, he said don't mind her jare shes a small girl. This is a girl of 7 years plus o.
Any woman that wants to marry a single dad must be strong in heart cos especially if its a girl child, na serious competition. Cos the girl will never accept the wife as a mother, the girl can even be planning in her heart to wicked the wife cos she doesn't see her as a mother and another thing is the girl will keep updating her mother about your marriage to your wife and so many things will be going on underground. The only way to avoid this is either you leave the girl with your mom or just register her in the hostel cos trust me they will keep finding each others fault and u sef will be fed up of the whole thing. Even if u are married to a single mom too, na dat one worse pass except non of the children will live with the two of u. To think that your child is even 17, chai

ednut1:
He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD. there is no where in the bible where you are to seek spiritual help for marriage. Pastors self dey divorce, did they not pray see pastors below that divorced. Stop this habit of going to meet these useless conmen

Thank you, i think i know better

Jman06:
Tell yourself the truth, relationship with those exes of yours didn't work because you considered yourself richer than the guys and so became disrespectful. No man wants to be disrespected by a richer wife, so those guys bailed.

You're simply looking for a richer man whose money would be deemed "ours" while your own money remains "yours". I'm sure that when such man comes along, you'll muster all the "emotional connections" in this world to be with him. Keep waiting while you age and become less desirable.

Y must u pple always involve these kind of things in relationships or marriage issue?
U think at 32 i am not wise to know what i want?
He has his own money, i have mine. Money is not the reason why i made this post.
This is even someone already processing his japa papers, if i am to consider that one at all, will i not jump on the offer?
The way some people think sef amazes me. Money money money everytime

ednut1:
Women who run from one pastor to the other are red flags and not wife materials. They get deceived and manipulated by these so called men of God. If you are wife u better block his number and stop seeing him. But hey na woman we know how it goes. The guy probably has no money too, if he had you would have married him

This is not about running from one pastor to another, everybody prays to get it right and I believe there are some things that you need to know spiritually in order to get this

ednut1:
Women who run from one pastor to the other are red flags and not wife materials. They get deceived and manipulated by these so called men of God. If you are wife u better block his number and stop seeing him. But hey na woman we know how it goes. The guy probably has no money too, if he had you would have married him

I know pple would say this, but to some extent, the guy is ok and i also have my job, its not abt having money or not. Atleast all my relationships, most of my ex had nothing when i was with them. It just didn't work

Goodevening all, i have been wanting to get peoples opinion about something that has been bothering me.
I am a lady in my early 30s, 32 to be precise. I have had like 3 relationships that failed. Among of them is a guy i dated for 6 years but later ended the relationship because i got a job and at the time but he didn't have a job, he ended the relationship due to some certain decisions he took.
I am a kind of person that believe strongly in God and things of the spiritual, i later met a pastor guy that was assisting me in prayers but to my surprise this guy started telling me that God has told him to marry me. I told him immediately that i am not interested, i had a dream once about him where they showed him to me that he is my husband, i woke up and prayed against it. It was this time that i told him to stop any prayers he has been doing for me if his intentions was to marry me.
I educated him of how marriages are crashing this days even the ones that loved themselves dearly, i also educated him about how wifes are killing husbands and husbands are killing wives but i think this guy has refused to listen.
I got a call from his so called " spiritual father " sometimes last month and the man was telling me all the implications of not marrying him that if i want my journey to be fast in life then its him that i should marry.
I immediately told the spiritual father that its not possible and I won't marry someone i am not emotionally attached to, I'd rather remain single all my life than go into a marriage that i know won't last 6 month all in the name of God told me to marry him.
I know there are people who are wiser than me concerning marriage issues, i know there are people who have been in the same issue as i am now, please how do you pple cope, is there a punishment when you don't marry who God wants you to marry?
How am i sure its not this guy that's messing in my head?
For the fact that i am in my marriageable age doesn't mean i should push mysef into what I don't want.
I am sorry for the long epistle �