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EggovinMma:
I don't think they are married. Personally, o don't like the idea of not doing all the necessary rites when she took in, even if is traditional one.Some of these friends will stop calling or coming around her, and the rest can well be mmanaged . Obviously, she doesn't keep well bred friends.Thats why I will not entertain some friends after I tie the knot. .Some get bad belle .
Some go enter kitchen to find out weather na meat abi fish person take cook.

EggovinMma:
*sleep walks out of thread*



The more reason it's such a bad idea not to marry a live in gf as soon as she takes in.Marriage has a way of naturally help her reshuffle her friends.I am sure all the friends here are singless.

jude33084:
What does that mean?

Enegod:
you be im papa?

Enegod:
na England women cause am

Yomieluv:
Naija things.

FG scamming the people since 1960,if in doubt,ask the minister of interior.

Justfollowit:
What is with the sense of entitlement y'all keep showing? Because you guys are friends automatically gives you a 5- star into her life.

What if you are really not good enough for her? When did it become a moral sin or crime not to date someone because the person is simply not good enough

She has her own aspirations, dreams and likes, if she thinks you do not fit into any , zoom off and let her be.

Have you also failed to consider the fact that maybe she doesn't like you in that manner. You can't threaten someone to like you, it is either she does or she doesn't. Don't sweat it

And You write as if you haven't ignored many women out there who stylishly showed interest but you ignore them because they are not good enough for you.

You cannot have it both ways

Her response was in good faith. If you look take it is as such and if you don't na your wahala be that

ShirelleBaby:
So we are promiscuous?

ShirelleBaby:
So we are promiscuous?

Blackett:
Bro e don do. Too much of everything isn't good. If you over do stuffs, people miss the sense of it.

missjenna:
Op, I read your post and I have this to say.

First of all, I would say that I made that comment as a result of the nature of the thread with which it was commented on.


Coming to the concept of independence,
I don't think there is any thing like total independence. No human, man or woman can be totally independent of the other.

When you term a lady or when a lady terms herself as independent, all she is trying to say is that she does not totally rely on any man for her upkeep and her and day to day survival.
She believes that she has the right to tell which direction her life should go.

Having said that, let me also say this
I believe every human being has a innate tepid narcissistic trait that is masked by their outward characters

This trait is also accompanied by a fragile ego and sense of importance above the opposite gender.
This mellow trait however expresses it self more in the masculine gender.

Asides this, humanity have for long been bombarded with tales from legend and religion that glorifies the male gender above the female.
This has so far created a kind of belief that a man should be the one in charge, the one in control, the one at the top.

When you look at the power structures of the world, not excluding our Nigerian traditions, you would find out that women are most times relegated to the post of follower instead of leader.

When a man sees a woman that is "independent", it kinds of threatens that mild narcissistic trait
At first he feels a complex mixture of fear,annoyance insecurity and surprise
Then depending on his personality, his subconscious tries to see if it can conjure up a mechanism to counter this threat.

Either he decides to hate her and stay away
Or
He becomes intrigued by her, creating a sense of respect which makes him want to get close to her.

But most times, most men tend to go in the way of the former.
Most men just don't feel women should be above them in any way. They have this feeling that every woman should want them. That we can't cope without them.
The fact that a woman can be "independent" is in a way alien to them and when they see this, they are caught aback.

Actually, no man wants a woman they can't control. They don't want any woman that threatens their supremacy, hence their reaction.

One mistake most "independent" women make is to let pride get in the way.
They feel a grandiose sense of achievement and importance which makes them see themselves as not on equal par with most men that might try to approach them or get to know them
I think this also makes men stay away from them

Op, you also said that most feminist women hate men that are insecure about them.
Well I don't think we hate them. We are just irritated by the fact that they would feel insecure about us.
I myself like men who are not intimidated by me.

Op, I hope I helped
Thanks

richol:
ready to die,ready to give up? which one cos i dont see u entering the rock called aso

richol:
ready to die,ready to give up? which one cos i dont see u entering the rock called aso

richol:
ready to die,ready to give up? which one cos i dont see u entering the rock called aso

Blackett:

The world is bothered about the harm smoking causes to the lungs and the general health of people affected by second hand smoke, and someone somewhere in Nigeria is bothered about being kissed by a smoker.

lokito:
Last week on Rumuola bridge my friend, a young man hit a lady's bumper. Next thing my friend started yelling at the lady in loud hubbub.

Lady (a karate trainer) steps out of her car, gives my friend like 27 slaps with her leg. Angrily my friend steps a little closer to hit her back and retaliate cos people were watching

Omo, this time young lady gives my friend another 15 slaps with her left leg plus one extra three-hit combo on the stomach. People started clapping, including me.

Jesus, my friend landed straight on the floor, got up immediately to approach her again. This time twas me that gave him a DIRTY SLAP, saying "you wan kill yourself? Even me wey dey here go beat kpan comot for your head, you wan go try a karate woman.

LESSON: guys it's not all women we can beat o

NellyDiva1:
Omo.dis guy is reali reali enjoying

pwerrymansion:
this is the most stupid post I've come across in decades! My dear run as fast as your leg can carry you.

EggovinMma:
All this plenty plenty Agbo wey Dem dey drink sef


Agbo diarrhea
Agbo fifer e dey
Agbo infection, se o wa??
Agbo suga
Agbo krokro r
Agbo jedi jedi



At the end of the day when the child is out, no good breast milk, na to force one big bowl of brown akamu, with hand inside the baby mouth and nose. .