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eleniyan2020:
you de report to police,they will set you up against the police, becareful..

uuzba:
Very simple
when you see this type of thin trouser & slippers,
He's a yahoo boy.

highvaluewoman:
Sent.

y3mi:
^{Most big / rich men prefer monogamy because it truly affords them the opportunities to misbehave as they so please when they see fit...}

Before I proceed, polygamy as used in my opinion is within the scope of 'Polygam Responsibly'. So shelve whatever presumptuous thoughts you may have in your head.

Contrary to popular views, polygamy would make a man live long than these much touted nuclear family system called monogamy. I can make a table chart where both can be compared and contrasted side by side with their list of advantages and disadvantages.

Monogamy in that table only has just one advantage over polygamy, and it is a factor which I've been unable to resolve theoretically stating. However, polygamy check marks all others bearing more advantages than disadvantage.

One of the advantages is an assured peace of mind, one which has to do with the management stability that renders the life of the husband to last much longer than those trapped in the quisling and wilderness of monogamy.

Importantly, I've noticed that most of the reaction to that word is founded on false assumption, which in its own reality is prevalent in the society. The idea of been a 'loose cannon' is what fills up their thoughs at the mere mentioning of "polygamy". It is high time 'polygamy' should stopped been miscontrued as promiscuity.

They are in fact not the same. More precisely, polygamy will curb whatever tendency in a husband married to multiple to not live like a wild-dog, it will curb it, it will force him to become sexually and socially responsible. Why would he want to screw around when he's got nine beautiful ladies at home.

Monogamy on the other hand, do not only affords hypocrites the unhinibited opportunities to scale a fence, cheat, manipulate, even in spite of all the matrimonial vows made. It verily provides so much leeway for promiscuity in all forms of adulterous activities.

Polygamy is the marital commitment between a responsible and capable adult man with at least two sensible and matured wives.

Based on the reality of today's world, it is advised to ask your ori before going into polygamy, personally I will not recommend it if you're not capable. I repeat do not go into polygamy if you are not prepared to live a life of commitment to stark responsibilties. Otherwise you will suffer your wives.

Ensure you have capital to run it. It is not just by having lengthy and bulging member or been tall like dongo. Capital is the most important factor that trumps all in today's capitalistic and materialistic world.

Do not betray your wife by imposing yout right to bring in a second wife. That is not polygamy. That is abuse of contract which you sworn, and so you must leave with or at best, settle for divorce which I personally frown upon.

Polygamy is ensuring your would-be first wife knows what she is getting into from the onset. That's part of been responsible. Not after one lady has been with you through thick and thin, some even aborted since you weren't ready, and finally boom, you blew, then you saw reason to marry a second over her while citing ruse such as saggy boobs and wrinkles tummy. Oga you no normal.

Femininity has reserved curse that afflict men that does so, I'm not asking you to believe it or not. That curse go worry you.

And finally,
Most big / rich people prefer monogamy because it affords them the opportunities to misbehave as they so please when they see fit. With their wealth, they have the mechanism to ochestrate it without the spouse they are sworn to to knowing, polygamy gives you restrain.

Check out the excess population of young females luring about, who are their preferred targets 🎯 ? Married rich men trying their best to live a monogamous life, they argue that such married men are responsible to their wife, and so when he's budgeting, he adds their demand and expense to his budget.

It's so worse that these ladies do not want to settle with a moderate guy who is ready to settle but prefer to become the N^th baby-mama to a rich man, yawu boi or politician. These are the deep result of a society pretending to make monogamy work. All the hotels and brothels are patronized by monogamous spouse.

Why is it only Fela Kuti you see as to cite example, why not many successful polygamous white folks like Brigham Young who is the second president of Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter Saint Date, marrying a total of fifty six wives. Their are many list of people out there who live a successful polygamous life, now even world celebrities are popularizing polyandry which is Life Version of it. Why in your shallow understanding made you conclude HIV/AIDS don't kill monogamous couple(s). There are individuals who have compromised themselves before settling with their innocent partner into a me-and-my-wife monogamy.


Polyandry is allowed for those who want to engage in whatever it technically means. But think deep about it. How is that viable. One woman responsibly married to multiple husbands. Well, let's imagine a capable and wealthy woman married multiple partners as husbands, so each one of them gets offsprings from her or how does this work. Polyandry/Adelphy sounds like formalized promiscuity to me.

Why is it only Fela Kuti you see as to cite example, why not many successful polygamous white folks like Brigham Young who is the second president of Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter Saint Date, marrying a total of fifty six wives. Their are many list of people out there who live a successful polygamous life, now even world celebrities are popularizing polyandry which is Life Version of it. Why in your shallow understanding made you conclude HIV/AIDS don't kill monogamous couple(s). There are individuals who have compromised themselves before settling with their innocent partner into a me-and-my-wife monogamy.


Polyandry is allowed for those who want to engage in whatever it technically means. But think deep about it. How is that viable. One woman responsibly married to multiple husbands. Well, let's imagine a capable and wealthy woman married multiple partners as husbands, so each one of them gets offsprings from her or how does this work. Polyandry/Adelphy sounds like formalized promiscuity to me.


Can you make a list of them in short phrases.

Not ready because the perks and opportunities monogamy affords cheating monogams is not worth speaking the truth over. Polygamy is an herculean task, even as a rich and wealth husband, but that which has it rewards while making you gainfully responsible.


Can you make a study in your locality or area, to 📝note down the statistics of widows who are still within the age bracket of marital activities and extrapolate which category they fell into, is it monogamy or polygamy. Come back here and present it to us... Then, I can believe you, not the presumption you posted up there.


This topic was discussed here https://www.nairaland.com/8059332/men-really-happy-only-one#129398694

ravensckar:
Congratulations on his recovery!

But quoting all those Biblical verses after using scientific approaches is tantamount to deceit. Why are Nigerians so full of deceit?

If prayers are that effective, wouldn't ambulance be taking people to Church rather than hospitals?

Pastors will fall sick and go to hospital for treatment. Members will fall sick and go to pastors for healing. Who is deceiving who gan self?

highvaluewoman:
Drop links, abeg naw.

Caramia2020:
Sponsoring someone's religion beliefs is funny, at the end the person being sponsored might be holy, Mecca ke.

Lomprico2:
Is toncoin now notcoin? SHM

Matheusmartin:
..
They saw how notcoin paid,then decided to rush tapswap.


Unknown to many, there are cooler projects secretly going on on tg..

If u know, u know

Cyril009:
My Redmi 9s had a weak battery
Started rebooting itself on Sunday so I changed it yesterday

But the rebooting hasn't stopped after changing the battery

It was fine all through yesterday after changing the battery and this morning...

The battery hold powers,so it's probably not the battery

Started rebooting again this afternoon..
When it started this afternoon thought it was the power flex but It's doesn't reboot when turned off

It's reboot stays on for at most three minutes then goes off
Rebooting takes about 30 seconds

while it doing all that it gets warm enough that you don't want to place on bare skin
it also gets slow and hangs

Any help 🙏🏾🙇🏾‍♂️

Namaster:
Atiku is BAD LUCK EXTRAORDINAIRE. Losing is his hobby.

But the way Tinubu is dealing with Nigerians, I'll not be surprised if he becomes a one-term President.

osuofia2:
Wake up sir, this is Nigeria

gaskiyamagana:
Iran Is falling? Say something sensible.

Idaytesj29:
You that you are ranting, are you tolerant of other religion or race or ethnicity? Abeg let's hear beta talk

pablobellins:
Good evening chief, pardon my late response. I hvnt bn online.
I arrested the guy so I could get a refund of my money. The case is now settled.

Curious345:
Good .. they were sponsored by Rwanda

Fujiyama:
^^^
This has nothing to do with it. We are having a serious discussion here.



^^^


This has nothing to do with anybody liking anybody.

Nobody has to like soldiers. Liking soldiers is not a requirement for citizenship. They are government workers paid to do a job - and the problem is that the job just isn't being done.

We have soldiers besieging a building in the heart of the capital city while real threats to national security lie unchallenged in our forests, hills and mountains.

This is not how to get things done.

ruggedtimi:
have you gone online to watch them exchanging fire with B.H

CuriousCart:
Will there be reprisal attacks in Banex like they did in Delta state? No.


Bye.

GloriousGbola:
https://punchng.com/breaking-lagos-court-convicts-cosmetic-surgeon-adepoju-over-clients-death/





journalism is sadly dead. i had to go through three articles before i found what i was looking for




one year for malpractice resulting in death or a fine of 100k?

and dr adepoju is a straight up vixen