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She's going through unbearable pain

vickydevoka:
Na normal thing na. Come Abuja u go see 2 days marriage.

Babe.. calm down
. We no dey Twitter.. na NL be this..

2 days marriage ke

2ndtimeuncle:
Good morning fellow nairalanders, I hope your day is going well though mine didn't start so well. I am a nairalander but I have to open this account for this. I have an issue bothering me, I will try to keep my story as brief as possible.

I am a guy from a humble background. My parents had only two children, myself and my younger sister who is now married with two kids. She had her last baby boy some time early this month. Her marriage with this guy ( my brother inlaw) has been one I considered relatively peaceful. That is from my own perspective knowing that there's no marriage without one or two misunderstanding here or there at some point.

Well, she found out that her husband got another girl pregnant who gave birth to a baby girl. My sister found out after she gave birth to her first son. Her husband was the one that confessed to her that he has another child outside their marriage. They settled the issue and moved on he promised he would end the relationship he had with the baby mama.

Last year, during the Covid19 period, my sister found out that he was still seeing his baby mama after she saw their chats. She confronted him and he denied having anything to do with the baby mama except for sending money for his daughter's upkeep once in a while. It was a big issue which was brought to the attention the two families. They found a way to settle after a lot pleading and talking to the two of them.

To cut the long story short, she sent me screenshots that proves that he is still seeing the baby mama. In one of the screenshot he wants to see her in their normal place and the girl agreed but doesn't want them have sex on this particular occasion. My sister has bad temperament and it is not easy to calm her down when triggered. She's threatening to quit the marriage and I fear she may do something wrong this time around . She is yet to confront her husband because I managed to convince her to keep it on hold till she calms down.

Note : My Dad is late and my younger sister is a house wife hence solely dependent on her husband. Please ignore my grammatical errors. I am putting this out here because I have ran out of ideas.

1. WHATEVER YOU DO IN THIS LIFE..
NEVER DEPEND ON A MAN FOR SURVIVAL!!! UNLESS YOU ARE A SALAFIYAH.
2. CHECKING HER HUSBAND'S PHONE WOULD ONLY BRING MORE SADNESS TO HER. LEAVE HIM ALONE AND FOCUS ON GETTING HIS ATTENTION..THE POOR HUSBAND JUST WANT ACTION WITH THE EX.. THAT'S ALL.. NOTHING SERIOUS.. WITH THIS INCESSANT ARGUMENT, SHE WILL MAKE HIM MAKE SOMETHING SERIOUS FROM THE EX
3. QUITTING MARRIAGE IS VERY EASY.. MOVING ON IS THE KOKO.. who wan marry after 1? Even if she's independent?


Just saying though

Rashduct4luv:
So oro awon Alfa je oro yepere? So how do you say you are of Salafiyah?

This is a symptom of your malady. We know it. You will type laughing and even rolling on the floor.



So where in this hadith does it say they are disbelievers? With one Hadith? You don lie join!






1. Yes they are Muslims and innovators till they do what takes them out of Islam.
2. Ali won't go against the Prophet in ascribing Islam for disbelievers.
3. The examples were given in the post. But you have eyes but won't see.




Even when you die your corpse will be laughing as a sign of the virus Jabata gave you. Tableeg and other innovators are innovators and not disbelievers till they do acts that really takes them out of Islam.

Go and meet him in the grave to ask if he's being punished or blessed in there. Then you'll know if he was a Muslim or not.

Laughing... I rest my case. I never knew there would be someone who's more stupid and dull than Abdul fatah Sarumi is..

Wallohi o ya olodo ju Abdul fatah Sarumi lo..

Sarumi didirim to pin kulu..

Laughing..

Rashduct4luv:
So even if someone does every other thing in Islam but only uses tesuba, na hell straight abi, Osise NEPA?

It's not possible ni.. there's no way one would do everything in Islam and it will remain just tesubah..


Everybody that has been kafara, right from the onset of Islam.. nobody has been called kafir because of ahkam masail..

Aqeedah ni salafs are always calling them kafir for.. not ahkam
.

Nobody has been takfeer because of tesuba, eating with spoon, walimah aqiqah, public nikkah, videos for dawah and other nonsense you people always do..

Aqeedah to siwaju lara yin. . It's because of aqeedah fallouts that salafs called khalaf kufar.. not because of akham issues..


I kanle know that your life don spoil patapata...
You went to service and those mcan use you as imam... laughing
.
Wallohi eni ti aye e ti baje patapata lo ma n je olori egbe..

Mcan that shia, Sufi, ahmadiyaah, Ashairah, MSSN and others are Muslims to them

Laughing.. that's their aqeedah

Rashduct4luv:
Where is disbeliever/disbelief in here?

Laughing.. wait o

Abi you are Abdul fatah Sarumi.. laughing..

He said.. yamruku.. won n jade di e di e..

Laughing

Poverty Die!!
Lack of education Die!!
Lack of exposure and imagination Die!!

Lack of sense Die!!

AbdulHakeem44:
Anobi didn't divide tawheed too na, why did u accepted the divisions of tawheed, see ignorance of the highest order for Allah sake. The prophet said kulu bidatin dolaal, so how did u know it wasnt divided, because tawheed too isn't divided.

Is debating with u the reason for calking me fool?

Perhaps I was foolish for debating with u in the first place. I thought u would have some sense of humility to convince me with ur evidences.

I think it should end here.

Bye bye to jabatiyya.

Laughing rolling on the floor.. the division of Tawheed has dalil na..

Suratul iklas is part of Tawheed huluhiyah..

Let me even think like you..

Let's say there's bidah mukafiroh and mufasiko.. laughing..

Which of the salafs that divides bidah..
1. Says there's no kafir in Islam
2. Says the sects are Muslims
3. Says you can eat with spoon
4. Says you can do walimah aqiqah
5. Says you can do walimah nikkah like alaro and Sarafa
6. Says you can go to lecture the sects
7. Says you can mix with the sects
8. Says you Adam abdulah Al ilory is a Muslim
9. Says taking ruqyah as job is allowed
10. Says sufi is dividend into two


Melo la fe ka..
Laughing

chikason22:
You didn't see anything. Collect for deceit

No kill am na

Nonsense..

That's a homeless man helping the kid slide..

All these christians xef

Empiree:
It is wrong for Saudi govt to do that. It is religious persecution, hatred and bigotry on the part of Saudi govt. Ahmadiya are Muslim even if they have difference view on certain creed.

Besides, not all Muslims agreed with Saudi decision.

Laughing

AbdulHakeem44:
Your eri with insults abi, abi eri dawah salafiya na. Imagine.

Eri jabata lo ran e ki n we eri awon salaf. Jabata has no salaf on his dolaal. If he has, mention one.

Qola shehu.. sufi ni eyin omo yi s3

AbdulHakeem44:
Your eri with insults abi, abi eri dawah salafiya na. Imagine.

Eri jabata lo ran e ki n we eri awon salaf. Jabata has no salaf on his dolaal. If he has, mention one.

Do you even know who salaf is..

Anabi and sahabahs..

If you can't bring dalil from those 2 .. forget it..

Even if you quote our nowadays salaf.. without dalil.. nobody would accept it laye laye..


Anabi didn't divide bidiah
Sahabahs didn't divide bidiah.

Awon Alfa divide bidiah and you want me to accept it? Laughing. . You are a big fool

AbdulHakeem44:
All these insults just NCOs I asked u to provide a single scholar with such understanding of yours. Every sane person who reads this thread can see who is on the right or wrong. The Sunnah I practice do not support that I abuse or curse u cos I do not deem u to be a kafir, rather pray for Allah's guidance on you.

Secondly, is it possible that your sheikh Muhammad Ali jabata will be the only man I understand the Sunnah of the prophet? As big as this world is? NCOs it is obvious he is the one who taught you or whom u learn from all these khorijee ideologies u are spreading. If he is the only one with such ideology, then think about it, if he is not, pks mention a single scholar with such understanding abi na only u and ur sheikh dey on guidance ni?

My fellow !Muslim brother and sister s who might co e across this thread, I hope u can see how difficult it I'd for this brother to produce just a single scholar who supports his ideology I mentioned earlier, this should speak volume to discerning minds.

Ejo lo n ro.. Islam is not about ejo..

Eri lo ran wa

AntiChristian:
Your Ustadh Ojasina 1 is misguided too!

I explained explicitly why rasheedi Mustafa ojasiofo 1 is ojasiofo 1

Explain why my amiable sheikh Al Islam Muhammad Ali Jabata is ojasina

Hadith



حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا يَزِيدُ بْنُ هَارُونَ، أَنْبَأَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، قَالَ قُلْتُ لأَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ هَلْ سَمِعْتَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ يَذْكُرُ فِي الْحَرُورِيَّةِ شَيْئًا فَقَالَ سَمِعْتُهُ يَذْكُرُ قَوْمًا يَتَعَبَّدُونَ ‏‏ يَحْقِرُ أَحَدُكُمْ صَلاَتَهُ مَعَ صَلاَتِهِمْ وَصَوْمَهُ مَعَ صَوْمِهِمْ يَمْرُقُونَ مِنَ الدِّينِ كَمَا يَمْرُقُ السَّهْمُ مِنَ الرَّمِيَّةِ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ أَخَذَ سَهْمَهُ فَنَظَرَ فِي نَصْلِهِ فَلَمْ يَرَ شَيْئًا فَنَظَرَ فِي رِصَافِهِ فَلَمْ يَرَ شَيْئًا فَنَظَرَ فِي قِدْحِهِ فَلَمْ يَرَ شَيْئًا فَنَظَرَ فِي الْقُذَذِ فَتَمَارَى هَلْ يَرَى شَيْئًا أَمْ لاَ ‏"‏ ‏.‏"



It was narrated that Abu Salamah said:

"I said to Abu Sa'eed Khudri: 'Did you hear the Messenger of Allah mention anything about the Haruriyyah (a sect of Khawarij)?' He said: 'I heard him mention a people who would appear to be devoted worshippers: "Such that anyone of you would regard his own prayer and fasting as insignificant when compared to theirs. But they will pass through Islam like an arrow passing through its target, then he (the archer) picks up his arrow and looks at its iron head but does not see anything, then he looks at the shaft and does not see anything, then he looks at the band: that which is wrapped around the iron head where it is connected to the shaft, then he looks at the feather and is not sure whether he sees anything or not."

Sahih (Darussalam)

English : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 169
Arabic : Book 1, Hadith 174
Sunan Ibn Majah

AntiChristian:
Stop typing nonsense that even Heekmat won't write at all. What is laughing and rolling on the floor doing here? It just shows you are still a kid at your age!

1. Where in the hadith you quoted does it mention Kufr or Kafir as regards Khawarij?

2. The Prophet used "my Ummah", what does it mean?

3. This hadith describes you and your Jabata manhaj don't you think?

Laughing out loud..

I rest my case..

You are blocked head.. no worry..make I bring another for you..

Hadith



حَدَّثَنَا سَهْلُ بْنُ أَبِي سَهْلٍ، حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ بْنُ عُيَيْنَةَ، عَنْ أَبِي غَالِبٍ، عَنْ أَبِي أُمَامَةَ، يَقُولُ شَرُّ قَتْلَى قُتِلُوا تَحْتَ أَدِيمِ السَّمَاءِ وَخَيْرُ قَتْلَى مَنْ قَتَلُوا كِلاَبُ أَهْلِ النَّارِ قَدْ كَانَ هَؤُلاَءِ مُسْلِمِينَ فَصَارُوا كُفَّارًا ‏.‏ قُلْتُ يَا أَبَا أُمَامَةَ هَذَا شَىْءٌ تَقُولُهُ قَالَ بَلْ سَمِعْتُهُ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ‏.‏



Abu Ghalib narrated that Abu Umamah said:

"(The Khawarij) are the worst of the slain who are killed under heaven, and the best of the slain are those who were killed by them. Those (Khawarij) are the dogs of Hell. Those people were Muslims but they became disbelievers." I said: "O Abu Umamah, is that your opinion?" He said: "Rather I heard it from the Messenger of Allah."

Hasan (Darussalam)

English : Vol. 1, Book 1, Hadith 176
Arabic : Book 1, Hadith 181
Sunan Ibn Majah

AbdulHakeem44:
Pls give us a single scholar who is also in support of labelling spoon as innovation apart from jabata.

And one evidence that every innovation is kufr.

Se oponu.. see arindin.. very stupid boi.

Is it Alfa that ALLAH sent to you? Laughing.. your manhaj is filthy a swear.. very disgusting and irritating


Hadith khawarij is dalil that kulu bidah is kufru.. av posted it around..go check..

Is it sin that khawarij did that made rosul made takfeer of them? Laughing..

Hadith that's in tobarooni.. about those that are using counters for adkar, making adkar loud.. they're later killed with khawarij..


Salaye why khawarij are kufar.. despite the fact that
1. They do perform Salah
2. They did perform hajj
3. They did perform jihad
4. They don't sujud to greet
5. They don't engage in sins
6. They don't do have beards
7. They did wear nisfusak
8. They were sahabahs
9. They didn't engage in shirk
10. They didn't worship idols
11. They don't do jalabi
12. They don't call rosul Allah nor dispute his role has messanger
13. They don't support any rule apart from sharia
14. They believe Allah is up in the heaven
15. They don't worship jinns nor engage in shir


Yet, rosul affirm kufru for them and ordered them to be killed..

Laughing... According to you..
It's mufasiko they fell into abi mukafiroh..

Laughing..mumu boi

Arrest and kill the Boko Haram nonsense imam

AntiChristian:
This is what you will be teaching Heekmat right? How to abuse and call people names?
You will soon earn your own Jail term too.
Heekmat will be visiting you while you eat watery beans due to your Jabata infested vituperations!

Explain with dalil why Jabata is khawarij too o

AntiChristian:
You don give all of them certificate of Kufr and Hell?

Oga NEPA!

That's exactly what made your ojasiofo 1 get misguided too..

Saying kufru onike.. 1+1 .. mathematics..

Ma fi oro esin se yeye..

Continue na.. oponu

AntiChristian:
This is what you will be teaching Heekmat right? How to abuse and call people names?
You will soon earn your own Jail term too.
Heekmat will be visiting you while you eat watery beans due to your Jabata infested vituperations!

Sebi oloriburuku ara yin le ti imam Ahmad bin anbal mo jail.. sheikh Jabata.. e ti mo le.. no be today una dey jail salafs na..

Your father Sarafa gbadebo also want to jail our brothers in ogbomosho.. Allah o gba fun ni..


Insha Allah my daughter will be a salaf and we will also abuse the kufar too..

Cursing them ni it's not allowed..

AntiChristian:
Don't laugh!

Are your Mum and Dad Christians or Jews?

Until you answer my ernomous questions with dalil.. i will answer yours

Empiree:
lol oro bobo yen ti su mi fa

Eri lo ran mi

Talibans younger brother

Machinegun91:
Blood money

You are carzy

AntiChristian:
Those people in bold are greater than your Ustadh Jabata and everyone in your village, family, etc.

Your Dad and Mum too are Sufi, Mumayiun. Even Umu Heekmat sef fit be Sufi after divorce.

Only you and whoever accepts your "no use spoon eat" be Muslim.

Bring dalil you can eat with spoon na.

Laughing