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Niger state, the power state can boast of barely four hours of light per day. pls u people should not generalise that power has improved.

who is fooling who? look at your profile pix.

Andyblaze:

why? is it because she expose all her lap for the world to see?.

docspikkey:
They say love is blind but marriage opens it up. I don't want to have a failed marriage later in life as this my girlfriend cum fiancee is really bringing out the beast in me and I think it's time we called it quits.
I don't want it to seem like I'm over reacting to some things that's why I'm bringing it here for advice because I'm really starting to loose it.

1. When we first started dating, she was pretty cool headed (or maybe she was pretending), and more shapely than she is now. Now she eats every thing she lays her eyes on, she's developed too much belly fat and even looks older than her age. A little caution from me to her and she goes on the defensive. She maybe derives pleasure in making me angry and I've got a temper I try to control. Nothing is too weighty for her so say. At times when we have a disagreement, she makes annoying references to my mother and she wants to be a daughter in law to this same person?

2. She expects me to do everything in the house for her from arranging the house to cooking to and expects me to do it with joy. Yes I can cook, and I don't mind assisting her in the kitchen, but it becomes annoying when she always wants me to cook when she's around and doing nothing. Is this what I'm going to face when we finally get married?? Leaving like a bachelor in my fuk!n marital home? Worse is she never fails to mention she's not my house wife...so maybe when we get married, she would say she's not my slave.

3. Hygiene, and in terms of neatness, she turns me d fuc.k down. Dropping her Bleep!n stained pads all over my house during her period or in my waste bin . Now as a medical practitioner, those things hardly irritate me but what should be done ought to be done and rightly too. I've tried talking to her but there are things a guy doesn't need to tell you if you are a mature lady. If she can't handle herself during her period, what would she teach our daughters when they get to that age? At times during sex, the smell is a turn off but I'm so careful not to hurt her feelings that I don't even tell her.

4. She tends to nag a lot until things go her way. That is my greatest turn off ; she knows it, yet she does it during these sessions she at times goes physical and expects me to lump it. There are times I get so mad I just go out so as not to loose it. I'm strictly against beating women but she's really leading me down that path and I think it doesn't need to degenerate to that extent before we go our separate ways.

These are just some of the things she does and most times when I imagine life with her due to all these her attitude, I get scared.
Or could the fault be with me? Could it be I'm expecting too much from her? Could it be my standards are too high and need to reduce?
Please advise me cos I'm seriously at a loss on what to do again with her and I'm writing with anger shaking every part of my body. I love her but that's not enough for me to condone every thing she does.

pls, if u can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen, before it will be too late.

Ginaz:
Is really true God gives love and peace of mind alone, I think it is high time we ladies sit down and really think hard about our prospective about marriage? Are you getting married cos of pressures from friends or family or cos you have an idealistic view about marriage or cos all your friends are getting married? Till you have a realistic and factual reasons for getting married, you can never be happy. Dont marry out of desperation, its not a must to marry and I haven't seen in the Bible that it is a must.

Please allow me to tell you a true life story that happened in my compound, this girl got married to a man, she already have a child outside wedlock. Days after marriage, there was no peace as they fight day and night. To our shock, a highly materialistic celebrated marriage turned to the worst just 2 months.

The lady said she was tired and can't cope any longer, behold, we thought it was something that could be remedy but she left to her father's house and took poison and died. Yes, she did. Its no friction or joke, this is true life story.

Let's we ladies be careful, desperation will make us lose focus on our own God ordain husband. Marriage no be by force o. If I get married or not, that's not my top priority, all I want from Jehovah is happiness and peace of mind cos it far out weight everything.

marriage is one of the things that guarantee happinesses n fulfilment in life, let us not deceive ourselfs

Erickthrocyte:
Guys, me and my babe don dey date for about a year now. We don get so intimate. We do all the normal stuff . But no matter what, this babe no go let me touch her boobs. I don ask am y tire. And my palm no dey callused. When I don reach cloud nine, make I feel this round stuffs, omo this babe go stop the movement o.

How long this one go dey? I wan jettison her o. Bt bfore I proceed, babes, guys, wetin una think o?

Love without boobs chai!

my guess is, they are very small. so she doesn't want u to unravel the secret.

format your phone and free yourself from guilt.

only God knows those that are truly serving him.

[quote author=AmNotADullard post=40759768]Good day Nairalanders, the time I started writing this is 3:22am, whether am a popular NLder or not doesn't matter, but I would like to Conceal my identity. These would be a bit long, because I would want to explain all what is happening and has been happening to me concerning my education.

I am from the eastern part of Nigeria, and school somewhere in the south, part of the top 10 universities in Nigeria.
Back in my, Primary and Junior secondary school, I was extremely brilliant, always part of first 3, a lot of times I was 1st in class and best overall. Even my junior waec, I was so happy, people were happy for me.

The problem started in my secondary school, I noticed I started dropping, my 2nd term in SS1, I was 21/23 in class, same school, same class mates.
I thought maybe I had started playing to much, so I stopped all what I figured out could be the problem, yet there was no solution, my parents got me private teachers for my core subjects. Once they are with me, I would understand what they teach me, when they leave, I don't slack, I continue reading and reading, when exam comes, it would seem like I wasn't the one who read. A day before the exam, it would be fresh in my head and when I even write the exam, my mind would be like "you have killed it"
My parents would ask how it was, my reply would be: "yes, it was perfect, expecting the perfect result".

When I see my result, I would as usual fail virtually everything.
Still, I managed to go/forge ahead, I was able to pass my WASSCE in one sitting, how I did that I don't know, not that I passed outstandingly, I only had 'credit' in all the subject I was expect to have grade 'C'.

Then the hustle for Jamb came, let it be known that I wrote jamb 5 times, and the 5th time was when I got admitted to my school of choice.


Currently in my 200level, we resumed a new session about 2months ago. Now to what caused dis write up.

My first semester of 100level result: C, F, A, D, D.

A terrible result for someone in 100level, yes, I know. I felt too relaxed first semester, played a lot.
I determined that 2nd semester would be better, not that I was expecting all A's but I didn't want any F.
So my whole 2nd semester was reading all through, I read to the extent that I started feeling sure I should have A's in at least 3 out of 6 courses.

But when the result came in, it was worse than my first semester without me playing or getting distracted,
My 2nd semester of 100level result: C, F, C, E, C,F

And now 200level has kicked off, but something is happening to me.

I don't think I can survive this anymore,
My parents don't have money, my dad is struggling to send us to school.
None of my siblings work,
I have been contemplating different means of ending my life,
I move about with shame, I don't sleep anymore, I can't get my head straight, I would stay awake all night crying and praying for a change in my academic life.

I have done all what I think I can humanly do, hence why the thought of taking my life,
I know I can't create a life, but of what use is one that doesn't seem to make people happy?
But then, I decided to come on here, to ask if there is something else in reading I am not doing apart from, reading.... I have applied all the reading techniques applicable, jot while reading, revise, ask myself questions, and all. But still after exam, I don't seem to have that desired result, I have prayed countless times.

By my side is a chemical I got when I discovered I had 2f's. Education, they say is the best legacy. But in my case it isn't sure if it would be, I am a business oriented person, but no money to even establish myself, so that's not an option, please Nairalanders, I don't wish to Take my life, please is there anything you can suggest to me other than suicide and constant reading and prayers. I am 22years of age.

God bless.

hand it over to God, remember winners don't quit n vise versa.

hmmm, desperation.