it depends on the age of the baby, but from my experience Huggies USA is the best. Joyful is also a very good pampers. my baby wears one till evening except she poo.

livingstone
Ur response is really an encouragement to sme's. Before now, I never knew one can make such money in month.apart from people like dangote, innoson e.t.c

post the whole story here if u want suggestions/answers. dont refer us somewhere else.

I experienced this too when i got married newly. I was always begging my hubby to stay at home. I will close from work, hurry back home to meet my dear hubby especially those days he is off duty but for where !!!! either he is out or about going out. i will plead with him and even try to make him understand he is the reason i hurried home. he will tell me that it is also the time his friends come back that he has been at home since morning(when am not around). sometimes he will understand and stay for few hrs but will still go out later. At a point, i stopped bothering because it started bringing serious problem between us. I was soo bittered .But i tell you, now that I have kids, I don't bother asking him to stay or not because I am sooooooo busyyyyyyyy. My kids keep me busy so I don't feel lonely for one bit. all I do is once is 9.30Pm I flash him to remind him its time to come home. Believe me he keeps to it. In most occasion he comes back at 9pm so that he will meet us(the kids and I) awake .
So my dear, dont worry as soon as the kids start coming u wont have his time. he is the one that will have your time.
Take kia.

GOOD AFTERNOON EVERYONE

HALIMATT.
I suggest you go for scan to make sure there are no retained tissues after child birth. If scan is ok. Check for infection too.It could be you may be pregnant. some women take in even when they are practicing exclusive breastfeeding. if its non of these, then do not panic or seek for a doctors advice.

Good morning everyone,

PROUDMOM 38
The waist pain is normal as long as ur pregnancy is not a high risk one. It happened to me in my first pregnancy though mine was my bom bom. they were soo painful that sometimes i could not sit down. Its part of the things u experience in pregnancy. Presently my wahala now is back and shoulder pain. U can try take paracetamol when the pain becomes unbearable but not continuously. SORRRIIIIIIIOOOOO.

Good afternoon everyone,


JEJI3 & HALIMATT
I suggest you need more bed rest. avoid anything that will stress you. If pain persists go see ur doctor.

PROUDMUM
U can even do the sterilizing urself. I wanted to buy in my first baby but because of the cost, my mum taught me how to do the sterilizing myself which is very ok and safe. All you do is wash them, boil water, pour in a plastic container that has cover, add small salt to it then put the feeding bottles including the teat then cover air tight. It is recommended u have a plastic spoon u can use to remove from the water anytime u need any of the parts.

OLALAYO1710
Folic acid only(from doctors prescription) is what u need in ur first three months. So many doctors are against pregnacare.

JUMAYIN
Avoid anything that will stress you including things that can shake ur body or trow u up and down. You do not need exercise now. No jumping bikes except your road is very very good and the okada man is very good. Avoid kpekusing(sex) for now though very few occasions is allowed. some doctors will tell u it doesnt matter but I tell you 70% of the people that constantly engaged in sex in the first trimester had miscarriage. Take folic acid(1 tablet) only on daily basis.

Good morning every one.

Pelupelu
I advice you go for another scan somewhere else before you conclude.

KING 59
There is still time for the baby to turn. Do not panic some babies remain breech even at 36 weeks and turn(engage i.e turn head down) before 38 - 40 weeks.

BEEDAM
I experienced the swollen legs in my first pregnancy during the 3rd trimester, even after child birth. The nurse I asked said it is lack of rest. That I move about a lot. she advised I raise my legs anytime I lie down. But make sure your blood pressure is ok cos it could also be a sign of high blood pressure.

CHRISTABELI
Any anti malaria drug you are taking in pregnancy should be prescribed by a doctor. I took Fansider in my first pregnancy which was recommended by the 2 general hospitals I used then. BUT It is risky taking anti malaria drug in the 1st trimester, dat is why it is advised to treat malaria, typhoid or any infection/disease before/when planning to take in so as to avoid any drug in the 1st trimester.

CLINIK
It depend on the age of your baby. For new born - 6 months. Nigerian diaper(pampers) is ok and affordable especially the jumbo pack. But as from 1yr + Dr brown, absorbers, chuggies are all good. i.e from experience.

Very funny posts, I have been laughing since I started reading this kpekusing thing. My colleagues in the office will be wondering while I have been laughing.....5 kposas to everyone.
I am 16weeks, it has not been easy especially during the first trimester. I have never been to hell but it was like I was near it. I thank God that trimester is over and I am better.

Martosin212
please give your wife some time especially as she is still in the 1st trimester (12 wks) she is still not completely free from miscarriage. you can have her as much as you want from 2nd trimester but you also need to discuss it with her so that she can see reasons why she needs
to give in to your demands. IT IS NOT EASYOOOOOO, PREGNANCY NA ANOTHER WORLD.

SOMEONE IS WATCHING is an unprofessional movie. its supposed to be a home base movie not an international movie. There are so many errors in the direction of the movie.
The director need to do lots of work. e.g of scene that appears unprofessional are:
1) Daniel Pidol's lawyer who should have used the advantage of the gun he had to shoot Julian (maybe on the legs or any other part of the body but not to kill him) since he had killed his secretary, only dropped the gun on the table for Julian to take it even knowing that Julian had only a knife.
2) The Daniel Pidol's lawyers voice was supposed to show that he was speaking under duress when he spoke to Daniel Pidol rather his voice was calm.
3) Why should Daniel Pidol drop his lawyers card purposely for Julian to pick it which he used in tracing Daniel's lawyer knowing fully well his lawyer is the only one in possession of the vital information about the killer Julian.
4) What prevented Daniel Pidol from including that Julian is the killer when he sent the hearts to the Police for Julian to be arrested he can then charge Julian for damages to claim back all had lost because of Julian.
These are just the few I want to mention.
THANKS.

From the info i got from the net it is free with free accomodation

JENNYKADRY

You are the most stupid person in this world. May be you are the ex girlfriend dating her husband. Can u read loud your comments and rate urself ?. If you don't have anything to offer better be silent and not post any comment.


This story is very pitiful. Don't have sex with him to avoid contracting any infection HIV inclusive. Don't be surprised he is avoiding having sex with u because he knows he will infect you(u never can say) .
1) Ignore your husband and move on do as if he does not exist(it is not easy,but u can make it, but pls dont insult him).
U are a strong woman. Focus on ur health, happiness, children and ur future(think of what u can be doing to earn money). Do not support him AGAIN financially. Save ur money for urself and ur kids.
2) Discuss this with ur parents and possibly there should be a family meeting between ur family and his family. U cant do it alone.
2) If u can leave the house for a while say 1,2 or 3 months. Pls do it for ur sake and that of ur children. Ur kids need their mummy alive and healthy, all u need now is FRESH AIR. If u die(God forbid) they will SUFFER I MEAN SUFFER.They will become SLAVES and possibly ABUSED. No matter how much a man loves his children he hardly take care of them VERY well as he should especially when he is married to another woman.
3) If u don't have anywhere to go to, try to keep ur mind very busy, maybe church activities, movies or any handwork. U have to be careful in visiting friends because some of them may compound your problem.
4)Before u have sex with him again make sure u both go for medical test. Men can be very careless. So many of them sleep with women(not the wife) without condom. I have read stories in this nairaland family of men who infected their wives with HIV.
Finally , hand everything over to God.

Very funny
I love them.
Thanks to the posters.

"LOVE, Even When Angry"?
MADAM Poster, I don't agree with u AT ALL
Ask yourself and tell yourself the truth.
Will you continue to love 100% even if that man u adore and care for soooo much is cheating on you??
I need u to answer me sincerely.

Poster I don't agree with you.
Are women slaves??
Why must it be women this women that.
If a husband cheat, it is the wife's fault.
If a husband beats his wife, It is the wife's fault.
If a husband refuses to take care of his siblings, It is the wife's fault.
If a husband dresses untidy, it is the wife's fault.
If a husband refuses to listen to his parents, The wife has bewitched him.
If a husband deserts his friends, the wife told him to do so.
If a husband is comes home late, the wife caused it, her nagging keeps the man away from home.
If a husband misbehaves, the wife is at fault.
No matter how a wife submits to the husband, any negative thing the man does, ALL I mean ALL the blame will go to the wife.
THE SOCIETY IS VERY UNFAIR TO WOMEN

[quote author=Sophyrocks]OP, To answer your question; This is because such men never take the sanctity of marriage seriously and DO NOT know what marriage is about. The Society we are living in does not encourage these men to be responsible and take marriage seriously. There is a common belief that you can only transform a woman to be a good wife only if you are mean and a cheat. Afterall, what is the usual advice given to women whose husbands cheat? To bear, always pray, never think of divorce and keep on loving their husbands no matter what as if they are robots with no human feelings or emotions. In order words, you should be the one to clean his mess and make the maarriage work This belief alone will never make such men change from their ways. Unfortunately, we will continue to have such irresponsible men if excuses are always made for them and they are not left to face the consequences of their actions. I hope they will also come up with the same excuses for cheating married women too.

Good comment.
Men will always be defended when they cheat, the woman has to do the work and all that. I have seen a man whose wife is almost perfect in all things but still the man cheat, will you blame the wife?
I am experiencing this same thing in my marriage presently, decided to calm myself down because I dont know anybody i can talk to, but I think I am a bit relieved from the good comments/advice i have read so far.
It is heart breaking for someone u truly love to cheat on you. I cried so much yesterday because i could not bear it, I pray that God give me the grace to move on. Its not EASY AT ALL to ignore and do as if nothing happened.