₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
In 2025?

Why concerned if I have a man? I beg you in the name of whatever you hold dear, skip me and grab the non-bitter women.

Thank you for making my day o. I am always pleased to know men like you do not find me worthy. May I NEVER be considered sweet by you two. May I remain bitter to you. May you continue to wonder and pick (marry) other women while neglecting me.

Amennnnn!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

I do not appreciate your group-quoting and your selective highlights to my post.

Every letter is important.

I do not begrudge you , neither does anyone care about your relationship status.

I am concerned about the bitterness you exude in every letter and the hopelessness of the course you constantly fight for.

You seem to ensnare other women to toe your path in hopes of company in misery.

You preach equality from a flawed viewpoint and you're oblivious of reality and what it means to be a strong woman.

Your insecurities, doubts, unfulfillment and elusive answers to womanhood is what you ask in rebellion, disrespect and sometimes indiscriminate access to your womanhood.

The joy is knowing who you are and your strengths.

So far, you're projecting fear and inner conflict.

The crack is getting wider

alphonsojaybaz:
We’re Not Criminals!” – FG Fires Back as Ghanaians Demand Mass Deportation of Nigerians in Viral Protest Video



https://eyesoflagos.com/were-not-criminals-fg-fires-back-as-ghanaians-demand-mass-deportation-of-nigerians-in-viral-protest-video/

cc: Mynd44 , Nlfpmod , Seun

What is any reasonable Nigerian doing in Ghana?

Although Nigeria has heavy presence in most sectors of their economy from real estate, to banking and petroleum to SMEs, it still no reason for Nigerians to be there in numbers.

But shame on APC government for killing the Naira beyond dead since late Buhari to Timubu.

Domyresearch:
Genuine reason to abandon 3 children?
That's not a man, that's a man child.

where in the post did you read he abandoned the children?

alphonsoolajide:
Wife Discovers Husband’s Secret Second Marriage on Facebook — After 3 Kids and Years Together!



https://eyesoflagos.com/wife-discovers-husbands-secret-second-marriage-on-facebook-after-3-kids-and-years-together/

The question is what's she doing on social media ? Terrible wife who has no respect for herself, children or family.

pocohantas:
When a (married) man cheats on his wife = karma because she slept with married men as spinster.

When a (married) woman cheats = olosho, send her back to her father's house.

Logical people and sense/accountability = two parallel lines.





Yea, his responsibility to bring home STIs and open his family to enemies. 🙌

you do realise that a woman/ girl who has had 6 dudes has only 20% ability to bond with her man or stay in a long term relationship?

Feminine bitterness is evident every time you drop an opinion on the comment-feed.

I wonder.

Biology and psychology say something happened to you. And I know what it is.

Body count for men? Are you gay or effeminate?

For every woman a man sleeps with , he's made a crown with

Remove your number there except you're a copy and paste OP

zero8zero:
Social media has lied to you that Anioma is Igbo. Go to Anioma communities in Delta and cure your ignorance, stop arguing with me.

Igbos have 9 local government in Delta state and all of them are Igbo names. They are the tribe with the highest local governments in Delta state.

Seems your only claim to education is 5 minutes interrupted Google search

zero8zero:
They are in Aniocha North LG.

They don't have a single local government to themselves.

zero8zero:
Anioma is multi ethnic and multi cultural. We have igala, Urhobo, Olukumi, igbos, Agbor, Ika etc are part of Anioma.

Where in Anioma land is an urhobo an indigene and is Agbor a tribe?

Social media has done well to expose illness beyond medical diagnosis.

Putindbutt:
The same Olukumi people that they want to carve into Anioma state, Lol. We told them Anioma is multi ethnic but they are arguing.

As is Yourba land and Hausa land. The country cannot be divided..

And there's no multiethnicity in Anioma as the name suggests it's over 95% Igbos. Olukumi is swallowed, having no local government area to themselves.

They speak both Igbo and internally speak their olukumi language when indoors.

They have been absorbed

Olatundex22:
you know more than the kings ancestors before your grandfather was born abi. What is your business if it works or not.

he is speaking facts. Olikumi are a tiny group in Igbo area in Delta state, having no land or local government to themselves and share no direct border with Yoruba or itsekiri

Factcheck0001:
but if they post about the agulu packaged fraud then they are helping right?

People whose worldview are tainted by tribal blindness do not feature on my comment-feed.

You're part of the problem you pretend to fix

ryloy:
President Bola Tinubu and Akwa-Ibom Governor

Nairaland is not helping Nigeria's political climate with this kind of stupid post

QuinQ:
You don't even care that it has produced massive positive results.
All you keep yapping is your extremely corrupt, ineffective judicial system

ok

QuinQ:
This is ADJUDICATED by the community and guilt clearly established before any punishment. No one is taking law into his own hands. Besides, this is for extreme people who repeatedly do the same thing. I'm sure the first time he did it he was simply warned

you're irredeemable if you're remain intellectually stubborn and refuse to learn

Your community cannot exert physical punishment without a court judgement. It is not about custom.

LEARN!!! NO COMMUNITY CAN EVEN OSTRACISE ANY PERSON!

The law stands tall and strong: any custom that stands against. fairness, equity and human dignity is void. That's why the police can't even slap a killer suspect in front of camera.

Go back to your lawyer.

Then come back and delete everything you've written here.

QuinQ:
That's why they don't allow cameras durring the beating - no evidence, you go explain tire

I will challenge the OP to post the name of the village and community here if there ruler and leader will not be in jail within 3 months.

These cultural oafs are ignorantly desperate to set the clock time back to 1412.

Not even the police is permitted to torture suspects, let alone some Google-blinded villagers who uses tree branch and secretion as toothpaste

QuinQ:
Law has to address ills in society. Show how many men were beaten to death by their wives last year

Nigeria has elapsed to mob violence where an armed robber caught can be lynched to death or even a car thief can be beaten by a mob to death.

Yes the thief did wrong and everyone knows but if any member of the mob is caught, he will face the law.

Same applies to a community or individual like you who take laws into your hands in a case of domestic violence against the man who beats his wife

It's not your place.

Learnt anything yet?

QuinQ:
If you consider my screenshot above maybe it won't be so damning - 50 women beaten to death in 3 months!

sentimental now? The law does not cater to sentiments and emotions.

Men die from domestic violence too and doesn't change the fact of law.

MadamExcellency:
In my community, our kinsmen go to the police and obtain permission and treat any community issue as it regards their law. Most of you are just ignorant of how most cases are settled.

Have you been to a customary court or followed the cases adjudicated there? Do you know how they appoint the heads?

The police has no power in Nigeria to grant you or your community the permission to flog anyone.

Customary courts are not even presided by magistrates or judges, they are run by a lawyer and they apply only customs that do not infringe on human rights and dignity.

That was my I was worried about your mental health especially as Nairaland has given platform for oafs and mentally bankrupt people to express what they know nothing about.


You will be in jail if the man sues alleging breach of his dignity of person and rights.

Please, social media and the internet do not have the piowers to transform village shmucks and dweebs into 21st century citizens as you're trying foolishly to claim.


You and your community must be seeing Coca-Cola bottle as the greatest invention of all times.

Please , I'm obliged to apply on behalf of you and your community, WHO next big charity destination case for social evolution as your lineage and community didn't complete the phases that turned baboons to humans.

Ozua!!!

MadamExcellency:
This is a customary law, and the Nigerian constitution has courts for that, which bypass the high courts and appeal courts. It's part of civilisation.

The sheer boldness with which this ignorance is expressed is even more damning than the original post

ErebeOcoco:
Yesterday in my community, a lady reported that her husband assaulted her.

Now in my community, slapping, attracts a fine of 50k.

Fighting attracts a fine of 100k, 24 stroke of the cane and 1 carton of beer.

Threats of any sort attracts 100k and 1carton of beer.

Back to my story, the husband was arrested and whipped 24 stroke, and was made to pay a fine of 50k and 1 carton of beer.
And afterwards was sternly warned by the youths never to lay a finger on his woman again.

He was given a bottle of beer and told to take his wife home.

Men in the house, how would you live with your wife after such humiliation?

What amused me was the type of men and youths that came out to embarrass and advised the man on how to govern his home.

Sorry no pictured is allowed when there is public beating in the community otherwise I risk 150 strokes and 200k fine.


File photo used for illustration

I am genuinely concerned about your community and your mental health in 2025, more then I am about the man.

You all are a threat to civilisation, humanity and the world's nuclear family.

Commentor:
Won't work.

It already has, Queer.

BlackViper:
https://nypost.com/2025/06/03/us-news/parents-of-7-year-old-nc-boy-killed-walking-home-from-grocery-store-charged/?utm_source=youtube&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=nypost

Nigeria police will arrest the driver and tow her car and lock her up for weeks and collect heavy money then tell her to go and settle the dead child's family.

Worthless cursed country.

Seun's new censorship mechanism is akin to the Federal government repressive attempt to curb social media.

What a shame.

The below screenshot is a comment I got banned!

Absurd.

Fake news , fake headlines

Helgreenluv:
How could you have asked a serving Senator to shut up just because he agreed with the submission of the Chairman of the panel? This woman too do sha. She always talks stupidly. Inasmuch as the Senator went to far, I believe Oby Ezekwelisi is to blame. Maybe this is how she disrespects her husband at home and she forgot that not everyone tolerates nonsense.

The senator didn't do anything bad. He said he will go on to present his matter and the yam legged Igbo woman asked a man , a senator to shutpup just like that.

Na only Igbo woman go fit do this kind thing for this country

One one monkey said Ezekwesili kept her cool when she was being insulted.

Only an Igbo woman can do this outside in all of Nigeria.