₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Regina some of us warned you.
They said we are jealous old cargos.
I knew that marriage has k-leg, but I never expected DV. I believe your mum was aware, but asked you to endure because of the money she is getting.

It is so sad a beautiful young girl subjected herself to this. Look at how he even married you inside shrine. Ladies married to average men got a better wedding. But you were married opposite agbara.

Your mother failed you and I hope this serves as a lesson to other greedy young girls.

Please endure and work it out with him.

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politicoNG:
https://leadership.ng/natasha-there-is-no-case-instituted-by-federal-government-against-me-says-nwebonyi/

OlujobaSamuel:
What's the relationship between 7up and PepsiCo
What happened to Mountain Dew also
There should be a further link to get more of these insights

franchasofficia:
If Tinubu truly means well for Nigeria and wants to end this insecurity, he should order Nigerian military to go back to their barracks, they are compromised, the top generals who are core Northern Muslims are in bed with these terrorists; some for Islamic purpose, others for financial purposes and using the insecurity to enrich themselves by looting the funds allocated for security and fighting insurgency. It's a big business for them, so cut off their lifeline and order them back to their respective barracks and use half of the trillions Nigeria has been wasting on fighting this endless, unwinnable war on insecurity to hire foreign mercenary outfits to end this nationwide insecurity before it finally consumed the whole of Nigeria.



Hire Chinese or Israeli mercenaries and watch insecurity become a think of the past in Nigeria

Truths9ja:
Wow he's happy that his parent are live to witness his winnings and givings

Rebelutionary:
Maybe you should ask Jack Dorsey and Zuckerberg why they came to Lagos?

Lagos is the hub of innovation, our own budding silicon valley.

Read it up and stop asking questions that will make people question your education biko?

Celestialsword:
https://dailypost.ng/2025/10/16/bandits-have-created-states-inside-nigeria-hold-victory-parades-shehu/

Rebelutionary:
Maybe you should ask Jack Dorsey and Zuckerberg why they came to Lagos?

Lagos is the hub of innovation, our own budding silicon valley.

Read it up and stop asking questions that will make people question your education biko?

Truths9ja:
https://x.com/Globalstats11/status/1978873785374929036?t=mFq01K2R3SU5-DzBaWUhJQ&s=19[/quote]what tech is Lagos producing and what tech products are coming put of Lagos?

RodgersAkpafu:
The bolded is a LIE

Go get an education
you need it

RodgersAkpafu:
So if European refugees stayed back home and "developed" Europe

Will there even be a United States of America?
Or Canada?
Or Australia ?
etc

Critical reasoning is not the strong suit of those who think like you

RodgersAkpafu:
See your life outside

TruthU87:
Breaking News: President Trump is considering an overhaul to the U.S. refugee program that would favor mostly white people, documents show.

https://www.nytimes.com/2025/10/15/us/politics/trump-refugee-white-people.html

AOB1:
Please jail this man for the sake of those security personnel that was killed because of his reckless utterances

Kemadealadire:
And what makes you think she was sleeping with those men while the relationship with them lasted Na wa oh, since when did relationship equal sexship.

malali:
Why am i surprised, even her adopted nationality and party does not want her.

Nobody wants her.

They dodged a bullet.

alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/tope-alabi-opens-up-about-painful-relationship-experiences-before-marriage/

sreamsense:
I wonder who in his right senses will go out to protest for the release of a terrorist. They never protest for the right of those Igbo virgins ipob/ESN established by kanu used for ritual for charms. They never protested for the right of those Igbos killed and cannibalized in their bush camps. They never protested for those EZes, rich and poor that were tagged saboteurs, killed and paraded their heads in public square.Many tricycle, motor, motorcycle that were forcefully hijacked from Igbos and took away their lifelihood. DSS should arrest all of them protesting release of kanu

FreeStuffsNG:
https://thecradle.co/articles/iranian-strike-in-tel-aviv-uncovered-secret-intel-base-below-residential-complex-report

breadtoaster:
Please, those of you who are married — how do you cope?

I am married to someone I don’t think is my friend. We dated before marriage, but during that time, I had a very senior friend whom I always went to for advice, help with decisions, and assistance with things that required initiative or “manly” effort.

My husband, on the other hand, is very quiet. Living with him feels like living in a graveyard — no TV, no outings, nothing lively. It’s not that he isn’t intelligent (trust me, he is), but he’s too lazy to put his mind to work sometimes. By 9 p.m., he’s already asleep. He eats, goes to work, and that’s all. He has no drive for more. Whenever I talk about progress or goals, he says, “It’s a process; it’ll take years to come to fruition,” but he never thinks of ways to get things done efficiently or on time.

So in terms of ambition or drive for achievement, I’m suffering living with him. I feel alone. I’m scared that his lack of motivation and his slow, passive lifestyle will kill my own drive. I’m not even extremely driven myself, but I know I want to achieve greatness. That desire pushes me, but I’m afraid that living with him will make me too relaxed and unmotivated — and I don’t want that.

Before marriage, I had friends — both male and female — with whom I shared advice and ideas. I’ve always had male friends because they tend to be driven. From them, I learned about crypto, stocks, business ideas — they inspired me. But my husband doesn’t trust them or me around them. Since we got married, I can’t talk to most of these friends at home unless I’m at work. It’s affecting me mentally. I’m scared that my circle for growth and greatness is being trimmed down, and soon I might start behaving like him — with no ambition or hunger for achievement.

Women, how do you handle such relationship dynamics?
How do I keep my drive while being married to such a man?

Every Friday night, he’s already asleep. One time, I dragged him to a lounge on a Friday night, and he was dozing off there. I ended up dancing alone while other couples danced together. If there’s something important we’re supposed to do, he won’t take initiative or push for it.

For example, I suggested we start going to church regularly to build our spiritual life. One Sunday, he woke up first and went to bathe. When he finished, he didn’t wake me up, and by the time I opened my eyes, it was already late. When I asked why he didn’t tell me, he said he called me but I didn’t answer. For me, I wouldn’t act that way — especially when it’s something that helps build our faith together.

We also planned to pray as a family. We did it for two days, and then he forgot — and honestly, I’m struggling to remember too. I don’t know if our marriage is under spiritual attack or if it’s just his personality, but my mental health is suffering. I’m not happy. I don’t genuinely smile anymore.

He doesn’t know how to pamper me or show warmth. If I complain about something, he just lashes out. He didn’t date much before marriage; he was one of those “spiritual brothers.” I was spiritual too, but I thought quiet men were more romantic or deep inside. I was wrong. I feel like he’s choking the life out of me.

At home, I can’t even make calls freely — he gets unknowingly aggressive if I’m on the phone and says things like, “Don’t you have things to do?” So I can’t talk to the people I’d love to.

After our marriage, he had issues going to my family, claiming I blackmailed him because of earlier arguments. He would get upset about small things, like me dancing to Afrobeat music. He’d say I shouldn’t, then later deny he said it. Or if we go out to eat, he’ll say we should leave early or that the place will soon close, even when I just want to relax and enjoy being outside.

I feel alone, yet married. I miss home. I’m not sure what to do.

It even took us one month after the wedding to consummate our marriage. We were both virgins, but his manhood wasn’t functioning well, and we had so many arguments that our emotional connection broke down. I felt it literally fall apart. Now I feel like I’m just living with someone.

He often says, “We’re not aligned,” or that he trusts me only 60%. If I go out, he sometimes gets angry or accuses me of lying about where I went. I can’t stay indoors all day like him — I’d just die inside.

I need help. I feel like I’m losing myself. When I visit home, my mother’s voice feels loud or too much, my friends when i talk to them, it feels like they are talking too much — not because they are talking too much, but because I’ve been living in such silence that I’ve lost touch with voice, morelike in a graveyard.

I am even crying as I type this, and he is sitting somewhere on the other side asking me if my head is swelling or what is making me cry.

I’m just… tired. feeling so strongly emotionally starved tooo.

fergie001:
The youths demand Rajoelina to apologise and then resign

SOURCE

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https://www.nairaland.com/8538197/madagascar-rajoelina-warns-against-coup

EvergreenDiarie:
🔥 VeryDarkMan don expose Blord again! 😳 This time, he’s calling him out for allegedly selling fake iPhone 17s for ₦450,000, even though the real price (with shipping) is about ₦280,000!

In this shocking new video, VeryDarkMan breaks down how Nigerians are being scammed with counterfeit phones, inflated prices, and fake Apple packaging. He claims Blord has been deceiving fans and customers — using hype and fake luxury to make money off people’s ignorance. 📱💸

Watch as VDM gives full receipts, price comparisons, and unfiltered truth in his usual fearless style.
Is Blord really guilty or is this just another social media drama? Let’s find out! 👀




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6v-VnsCnyp8