SETHARTHUR:
That's fraudster such institutions doesn't exist.you might be a victim to phishing or ethical hacking.

I think the bank exist, but not present in all locations in Nigeria. I Googled them on the Internet.

Good evening Nairalanders, I think it's high time the government regulates how the citizens data are unlawfully obtained without consent.
Last night I got a message from Parallax Bank Limited opening an account for me. The funny thing is that I have never heard about them before now. They also have access to my official email.
I think this is wrong and unprofessional. Government should take measures in ensuring that our data are safe and secured.

Gracie100:
iv had a crush on him since sec skul, tho he was my senior, I admired him because he was hardworking and intelligent.
when he graduated, I moved on with my life.
we met again this yr in d university he ws in 400l(law)
while I just got admission. we became close friends and he helpd take me thru sum of my gs courses, he even told me I cud call him my elder bro.
sumhow we lost contact but I always see his post on fb, but thing is, he has Never messgd me, I even comment on his post and lyk dm jst so he cud notice me but he doesn't.
recently I had a dream where he came back to me, but its nt happening in real life.
nw, even tho I'm itn my late teens, I know I'm in love with him. but he doesn't seem to care.
his num which uses to whatsapp is nt going thru, n iv decided not to mssg him on fb but to wait for his mssg. I still love him so much. I feel he is the only one tht can make my life complete but i jx can't ask him out,


I need advice, but pls nt ur insults.
ps: I'm also a scholar student and I wear glasses so sum peope call me a nerd but, u noe, we also have feelings too ryt.

The best love I ever had apart from my mum's was from a teenage girl that mustard the courage to make the first move.
Making the first move shouldn't be a problem. Two outcomes are expected. Is either he feels the same or otherwise. With that, you will free your mind of the load you're carrying.

Kingzrocky:
I am not.
Its just the condition attached for me to get the #60,000 job opportunity.Injusy

To hell with the 60k. Don't do something you will later regret in life.

Kingzrocky:
In respect to this thread: , I got a man who promised me a job next year with #60,000 salary plus accommodation benefit.


I have never done thus before. I really need to leave this contract Security work because I feel so vulnerable and stagnanted, having done the job for over 8 years with nothing to show for it.

Feel free to express your thoughts, insults is welcomed.

Wonder shall never end. Are you gay?

Blake755:
Omo just imagine despite of sickle cell awareness be raised everyday yet this one's dey do mass wedding no genotype check hmm

Tests were carried out, and those who came out positive for various health challenges were screened out.

ebab:
Change your keyboard

OK, thanks.

Good evening guys, I don't really know what is wrong with my Lenovo laptop. When I try inputing my password after booting, the system won't respond to the characters. And when it finally respond and I try to open Ms word, it shows that the control key is in use. After I won't be able to type anything again.

spencekat:
I hate this idea of telling people to contribute a certain amount for you, all in the name of a committee.

It's very annoying to say the least.

Aaaaarghmed:
If I agree to Marry a Nigerian.na just parlour wedding.families and like 4 friends each,from bride and me.i dont need all those exorbitant nonsense.max 30pple.

I concur.

Nice2023:




That is usually seen among people who depend on others for everything.

Not in all cases sha. Because I knew someone who his family can comfortably sponsor his wedding without complaining. But because he has contributed for others in the past, he felt it was his turn to collect contribution.

Eboski:
Like in my Church it’s their trademark I hate it so much , I have contributed over time for others , but during my time I did what my power can carry, I didn’t bother myself setting up a committee , one was calling us during his committee for us to pay up like do you depend on us to get married…..

These days people join association just for the benefit of getting contributions. True friendship is gradually fading away.

Aaaaarghmed:
An old time friend was always worrying me to marry.i told him even though I am Capable.i don't wana end up with yeye woman.shishi this guy no get because e see say e don dey near 35,he marry one girl.he messaged me some says back say e dey hungry. I tell am say I no get, take note,i have sent him.money more than 5 times since he married because he writes me sometimes that he is broke.why stressing me,na me send u to marry

One of the biggest problems we face in this country is allowing the society to decide for us. Some people allow pressure from the society to force them into union they aren't financially capable to navigate.

dkidd:

It happens everywhere bro... Some people mentality just dey somehow. Some even have ordinary birthday parties and create avenues for collection like say na Sunday offering for church. So many people are abnormal in this country

That's serious.

Sonnobax15:

My own na be say any form of discussion wey involve unnecessary billing,count me out totally...

Na men own dey baffle me pass...... Especially when I hear say a man took loan from Lapo just for the sake of marriage . Stupid men..

Starting a family on a faulty foundation is very bad. Why borrow just for a wedding as if you starting a venture that will yield interest in no distant time. Some men sha

dkidd:
It's just poverty mindset. Why not do what u can conveniently on ur own rather than depending on contributions from others before u can marry ur wife. That's how they invite the spirit of poverty into their homes

I don't know if these things happen in the south as well. Because all I have experienced happened both in the rural and urban north.

Flows001:


I swear.

One idiot has been beefing me because I didn't contribute for his wedding.

The fool was asking me for contribution when I had to deal with helping my Mum out of an issue worth hundreds of thousands, I was desperately sourcing for money at the same period while he was preparing for his wedding and the idiot kept pressuring me to send him money, na so I ghost am oo.

If you know you aren't financially ready for a wedding, then don't even start it at all if you will be depending on funds from people's contribution.
It's annoying sincerely.

Lack of proper preparation causes all that nonsense. They feel you owe them that contribution.

Aaaaarghmed:
The moment you add me to a group,looking for support for marriage.Na 2k I go give u.But if you invite me,without taking me for any thing.i can give you 50k if I have it that moment.

in fact I have made a promise to myself not to contribute a dime whenever an intending groom choses that path. I prefer to make my own contribution willingly.

talented321:
Everybody has different mindset... But i don't think i will need any contribution to wed the woman i'm only one to house...
People don't want to cut their coats according to their size they want to impress and shock society, their friends and relatives..

The moment you cut your coat accordingly, you don't need to cajole people into making contributions for you. When you have reasonable friends, they will contribute for you even without asking.

Reminderz:
the issue with all these wedding shenanigans is that, the people want to impress who don't care about them... I've never seen anything logical in expensive weddings... in fact, it's one of the reasons most marriages end in divorce because when you do all that and you realise the person you married isn't worth all the stress you went for the purpose of the wedding, then problem arises...

most people are foolish, instead of investing on the marriage, they inconvenient themselves and invest on the wedding... they go into debt because they want to pepper people... no one cares if you guys divorce tomorrow... the more expensive the wedding, the more likely it will lead to divorce...

some will even list unreasonable amount of list for the intending groom like they are exchanging their daughter for piles of yam, flour and the likes... even religion didn't teach this nonsense people have imposed on themselves... marriage is meant to be simple, after the introduction between families and dowry which is a unique gift of the bride, the rest which includes wedding is totally unnecessary and also makes no sense... a private setup within the families is the best... Inviting people everywhere who don't care and offer fake love to you is a recipe for disaster... but since most people are foolish, they want to impress their village people and when problem comes, they look for solution where solution is not...

Well said bro. When you allow the society to dictate what happens to your life, then there is a big problem.

Marriage is a beautiful thing, especially when you are blessed with an understanding partner.
Intending couples, especially the male partner go extra mile to ensure they have a smooth wedding by devising all possible means to gather money for the marriage ceremony.
For the reason above, many men and even some women create groups(WhatsApp, Telegram etc.) to bring friends in quote together for the purpose of fundraising which is disguised under the name Best men/men in suit.
In one of those instances, out of curiosity I decided to count the number of participants in the group(both male and female), and I saw like 150 people. When I did calculation with the amount everyone was to pay, the result shocked me.
Literally, we are the ones to shoulder the larger percentage of the whole thing.
So, I ask myself this question. Why do people inconvenience others during marriage preparation when they know that they are not really ready for the financial implications that comes with marriage preparation?

Good morning, I have a Lenovo B50-80(80ew) model. Some of the keys are not working. How much will it cost to replace the keyboard entirely? Urgent reply please! Thanks

A friend belonging to C2 was sent a link to validate his account by NASIMS. I tried filling the form, but the response is that his ID cannot be found.
What step can we take now?

Na wetin make me and one babe end relationship be that. After going through her social media page, I requested for her picture. She sent the ones she bleached herself.
I later sent her the original copy of herself before bleaching. Na there our relationship die.

udemzyudex:


You'll have to take it to a technician.

If you're in lag,I can fix it for you.

Thanks for the response. I am very far from Lagos.

My laptop screen back light just went off on its own last night. When I flashed torchlight directly to the screen, I could read things on the screen. Is there something I can do to fix it or I have to take it to the technician?

ebab:
Change your charger

OK. I will get another one, thanks.

My laptop cursor stops functioning the moment the laptop is connected to a power source. But if the laptop is in contact with my body it works fine.

Why does the cursor stop functioning whenever I connect my laptop to a power source? [b]But can still function if the laptop is in contact with my [/b]body.

ugwuishi:
The thing tire me. At St. Stephen Chaplaincy, B. U. K

Yeah

maasoap:


U don mean it! Now, his lover has offed him.

That's life. He was a gentle priest and loved by all during his stay and lecturing moments at the CRS department.

I didn't know he was no longer a Catholic priest. He used to be our reverend father before he travelled to the USA many years ago.