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Any form of cheating and lack of self-worth

Any lady that is capable of opening any sensitive part of her body in the name of getting a tattoo, is not worth keeping as a housewife.

Hello Nairalanders, I intend traveling to another state for a function next week. My plan is to stay in a hotel.
My question is this, must I pay for a full day? Because I intend to lodge from around 8pm till morning around 6-7am. This is my first time and won't want to be exploited due to lack of experience in this area.

DMCY:
To think my ex came over few days ago😂, bruh that ex is still knacking the babe.

No commitment and loyalty in most of the relationships this days.

What causes a laptop not to boot completely, until when connected to power source?

Fiscus105:
Yes,and at same time, it may reduce or even stop it, some married woman, ignorant enters into the hands of lovers/manipulated men.


I biliv you know employees work better in absence of CCTV than the one under no supervision of CCTV.

But once there is a loophole, it's over.

Danisaint112:
I know a girl who is pregnant and married now but still sleeps over at her ex place. She was pregnant but visiting her ex till marriage.

There’s a trend going on right now mostly by GenZ that many people might not be aware of: a lot of your wives gave their exes what we call a “goodbye/send-off sex.”

The last time I brought this up, I got messages from men telling me to shut up and stop exposing the secret. But I have to speak on it—because it’s wrong.

Even the men who benefit from it wouldn’t tolerate it if they were on the receiving end. Let’s be real—no one wants to be betrayed like that.

Apart from avoiding ladies who keep in touch with their ex, before you marry anyone, act like a stranger and ask around about her past and present ordeals. You will learn a lot.

I have come to understand that women are very manipulative. Especially with those crocodile tears the usually shed. If you fall for it and they know you do, it is finished.

Background check of the would be wife or husband is necessary, though it won't reveal all the informations you seek. But it will give a glimpse of who you are about to marry.
About the goodbye knacking, it happens so often. This has led to some ladies pinning their ex's pregnancy to their husbands.

Fiscus105:
Any married man, who doesn't have Express access to his wife phone......I pity who no pity him. That is a must for married man, a least, it would checkmate her a little bit.

We are in global village in which, any intruder can come to Ur marriage from different Angles, unlike during the time without phone) internet, in which, it was very easy to notice the intruders,and in which, it could easily be cautioned, before he unleashes damages.

....... meanwhile. Atimes, many of these women are "innocent and ignorantly" enter the traps of intruders.

Having access to your spouse's account will not stop them from cheating. It only makes them to be more careful not to leave traces of their illicit act.

More comments from the ladies please

OKOATA:
She owns her body and can do what she likes and same goes to the guys too. You obviously don't stick to a girl except you a limpo.

I don't want to support the claim that he or she owns his or her body and can do whatever they pleases. If you are not ready to dedicate yourself for your man or woman, then don't go into relationship. You should Just remain single or tell them your real mission

Emmanuel900:
I can proudly tell you that most Nigerian girls are serial cheater, there's nothing like loyalty to a Nigerian girl, most of them are big advocate of having 3 boyfriends and having the backup for those 3 boyfriends.

I don't take relationship seriously, the title of boyfriend these days is like a the title of a stupid simp. Once I'm interested in a girl I just vibe with her till I get what I want, I'm not interested in be a stupid boyfriend I just want to fvck and that's all but I won't tell them, now after vibing and Fvcking if the conduct is good I can stay around for more vibing and Fvcking.

I still haven't seen a girl that the vibe is good enough to make me pick up the title of a boyfriend. Most guys fall into that trap of playing boyfriend, that title is being allocated to a guy by Nigerian women to extract more resources from you, it doesn't mean they take you seriously. They know they will get more goodies and things from you if they give you that title while there are several other without that title that even have more access to the coochie.

Nigerian girls usually give the boyfriend titles to the richest and most capable among the guys they are Fvcking with till you can pay no more and they allocate the title to another guy, until they get a guy ready to pay into marriage. If you know the truth about these women you won't ever want to be the boyfriend of any

That's true. But I still believe there are good girls out there that will love and cherish you wholeheartedly

pebbycougar:
the miracle between my past addiction for being with a girl for a friend, I don't think I want a girl friend in life. I'm honest, #miracle

Can you please elaborate more, so that people can learn from your experience.

Nehyooh:
This shouldn't be a question bro, he did the right thing.

I remembered my "ex" used to do; Her ex keep calling her, and the dump girl will be telling me, gisting me everything they discussed, I warned her, but no changes

One of reasons i jilted her was when she started the statement "It's not your fault, if not that my ex is a drunker, smoker, dirty, and I don't love him, I wouldn't have given you chance" whenever we had any little argument. I knew something is cooking, I dumped her dirty ass on the phone and ghosted her.

My honest advice to any male or female is this, if you're not over your ex, don't go into a new relationship. For it has a way of affecting the present relationship

slim75d:
Cheating has become a norm in the society, I experienced thesame attitude with my girlfriend, I saw her chatting with her ex. After some months, she slept over in my place, I unlocked her phone and checked her WhatsApp, lord have mercy 3 different guys banged her while we were dating

I wonder why people cheat or double date. When I was single, I always made it clear to my girls from day one that any form of cheating is a tie breaker for me. I was lucky to date girls with the same ideology as mine.

We had a scenario in the compound last week about two love birds. The guy asked his girl to vacate his room and pronounced that the relationship is over between them.

His reason been that the girl is still chatting and receiving calls from her ex. Something he warned her about, and she promised to stop.

After the first event, he started spying on her phone and found out she deleted all the charts he saw earlier with the ex. Further inquiry led to him noticing a particular number always call her when he is at work. And that number, happens to be the ex's digits.

Finally, he noticed she changed her ex's name on her phone and that gave him a reason not to ever trust her again. And thereby ending the relationship.

Do you think this is a enough reason to end a relationship?

SETHARTHUR:
That's fraudster such institutions doesn't exist.you might be a victim to phishing or ethical hacking.

I think the bank exist, but not present in all locations in Nigeria. I Googled them on the Internet.

Good evening Nairalanders, I think it's high time the government regulates how the citizens data are unlawfully obtained without consent.
Last night I got a message from Parallax Bank Limited opening an account for me. The funny thing is that I have never heard about them before now. They also have access to my official email.
I think this is wrong and unprofessional. Government should take measures in ensuring that our data are safe and secured.

Gracie100:
iv had a crush on him since sec skul, tho he was my senior, I admired him because he was hardworking and intelligent.
when he graduated, I moved on with my life.
we met again this yr in d university he ws in 400l(law)
while I just got admission. we became close friends and he helpd take me thru sum of my gs courses, he even told me I cud call him my elder bro.
sumhow we lost contact but I always see his post on fb, but thing is, he has Never messgd me, I even comment on his post and lyk dm jst so he cud notice me but he doesn't.
recently I had a dream where he came back to me, but its nt happening in real life.
nw, even tho I'm itn my late teens, I know I'm in love with him. but he doesn't seem to care.
his num which uses to whatsapp is nt going thru, n iv decided not to mssg him on fb but to wait for his mssg. I still love him so much. I feel he is the only one tht can make my life complete but i jx can't ask him out,


I need advice, but pls nt ur insults.
ps: I'm also a scholar student and I wear glasses so sum peope call me a nerd but, u noe, we also have feelings too ryt.

The best love I ever had apart from my mum's was from a teenage girl that mustard the courage to make the first move.
Making the first move shouldn't be a problem. Two outcomes are expected. Is either he feels the same or otherwise. With that, you will free your mind of the load you're carrying.

Kingzrocky:
I am not.
Its just the condition attached for me to get the #60,000 job opportunity.Injusy

To hell with the 60k. Don't do something you will later regret in life.

Kingzrocky:
In respect to this thread: , I got a man who promised me a job next year with #60,000 salary plus accommodation benefit.


I have never done thus before. I really need to leave this contract Security work because I feel so vulnerable and stagnanted, having done the job for over 8 years with nothing to show for it.

Feel free to express your thoughts, insults is welcomed.

Wonder shall never end. Are you gay?

Blake755:
Omo just imagine despite of sickle cell awareness be raised everyday yet this one's dey do mass wedding no genotype check hmm

Tests were carried out, and those who came out positive for various health challenges were screened out.

ebab:
Change your keyboard

OK, thanks.

Good evening guys, I don't really know what is wrong with my Lenovo laptop. When I try inputing my password after booting, the system won't respond to the characters. And when it finally respond and I try to open Ms word, it shows that the control key is in use. After I won't be able to type anything again.

spencekat:
I hate this idea of telling people to contribute a certain amount for you, all in the name of a committee.

It's very annoying to say the least.

Aaaaarghmed:
If I agree to Marry a Nigerian.na just parlour wedding.families and like 4 friends each,from bride and me.i dont need all those exorbitant nonsense.max 30pple.

I concur.

Nice2023:
That is usually seen among people who depend on others for everything.

Not in all cases sha. Because I knew someone who his family can comfortably sponsor his wedding without complaining. But because he has contributed for others in the past, he felt it was his turn to collect contribution.

Eboski:
Like in my Church it’s their trademark I hate it so much , I have contributed over time for others , but during my time I did what my power can carry, I didn’t bother myself setting up a committee , one was calling us during his committee for us to pay up like do you depend on us to get married…..

These days people join association just for the benefit of getting contributions. True friendship is gradually fading away.

Aaaaarghmed:
An old time friend was always worrying me to marry.i told him even though I am Capable.i don't wana end up with yeye woman.shishi this guy no get because e see say e don dey near 35,he marry one girl.he messaged me some says back say e dey hungry. I tell am say I no get, take note,i have sent him.money more than 5 times since he married because he writes me sometimes that he is broke.why stressing me,na me send u to marry

One of the biggest problems we face in this country is allowing the society to decide for us. Some people allow pressure from the society to force them into union they aren't financially capable to navigate.

dkidd:
It happens everywhere bro... Some people mentality just dey somehow. Some even have ordinary birthday parties and create avenues for collection like say na Sunday offering for church. So many people are abnormal in this country

That's serious.

Sonnobax15:

My own na be say any form of discussion wey involve unnecessary billing,count me out totally...

Na men own dey baffle me pass...... Especially when I hear say a man took loan from Lapo just for the sake of marriage . Stupid men..

Starting a family on a faulty foundation is very bad. Why borrow just for a wedding as if you starting a venture that will yield interest in no distant time. Some men sha

dkidd:
It's just poverty mindset. Why not do what u can conveniently on ur own rather than depending on contributions from others before u can marry ur wife. That's how they invite the spirit of poverty into their homes

I don't know if these things happen in the south as well. Because all I have experienced happened both in the rural and urban north.

Flows001:
I swear.

One idiot has been beefing me because I didn't contribute for his wedding.

The fool was asking me for contribution when I had to deal with helping my Mum out of an issue worth hundreds of thousands, I was desperately sourcing for money at the same period while he was preparing for his wedding and the idiot kept pressuring me to send him money, na so I ghost am oo.

If you know you aren't financially ready for a wedding, then don't even start it at all if you will be depending on funds from people's contribution.
It's annoying sincerely.

Lack of proper preparation causes all that nonsense. They feel you owe them that contribution.