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Aaaaarghmed:
The moment you add me to a group,looking for support for marriage.Na 2k I go give u.But if you invite me,without taking me for any thing.i can give you 50k if I have it that moment.

in fact I have made a promise to myself not to contribute a dime whenever an intending groom choses that path. I prefer to make my own contribution willingly.

talented321:
Everybody has different mindset... But i don't think i will need any contribution to wed the woman i'm only one to house...
People don't want to cut their coats according to their size they want to impress and shock society, their friends and relatives..

The moment you cut your coat accordingly, you don't need to cajole people into making contributions for you. When you have reasonable friends, they will contribute for you even without asking.

Reminderz:
the issue with all these wedding shenanigans is that, the people want to impress who don't care about them... I've never seen anything logical in expensive weddings... in fact, it's one of the reasons most marriages end in divorce because when you do all that and you realise the person you married isn't worth all the stress you went for the purpose of the wedding, then problem arises...

most people are foolish, instead of investing on the marriage, they inconvenient themselves and invest on the wedding... they go into debt because they want to pepper people... no one cares if you guys divorce tomorrow... the more expensive the wedding, the more likely it will lead to divorce...

some will even list unreasonable amount of list for the intending groom like they are exchanging their daughter for piles of yam, flour and the likes... even religion didn't teach this nonsense people have imposed on themselves... marriage is meant to be simple, after the introduction between families and dowry which is a unique gift of the bride, the rest which includes wedding is totally unnecessary and also makes no sense... a private setup within the families is the best... Inviting people everywhere who don't care and offer fake love to you is a recipe for disaster... but since most people are foolish, they want to impress their village people and when problem comes, they look for solution where solution is not...

Well said bro. When you allow the society to dictate what happens to your life, then there is a big problem.

Marriage is a beautiful thing, especially when you are blessed with an understanding partner.
Intending couples, especially the male partner go extra mile to ensure they have a smooth wedding by devising all possible means to gather money for the marriage ceremony.
For the reason above, many men and even some women create groups(WhatsApp, Telegram etc.) to bring friends in quote together for the purpose of fundraising which is disguised under the name Best men/men in suit.
In one of those instances, out of curiosity I decided to count the number of participants in the group(both male and female), and I saw like 150 people. When I did calculation with the amount everyone was to pay, the result shocked me.
Literally, we are the ones to shoulder the larger percentage of the whole thing.
So, I ask myself this question. Why do people inconvenience others during marriage preparation when they know that they are not really ready for the financial implications that comes with marriage preparation?

Good morning, I have a Lenovo B50-80(80ew) model. Some of the keys are not working. How much will it cost to replace the keyboard entirely? Urgent reply please! Thanks

A friend belonging to C2 was sent a link to validate his account by NASIMS. I tried filling the form, but the response is that his ID cannot be found.
What step can we take now?

Na wetin make me and one babe end relationship be that. After going through her social media page, I requested for her picture. She sent the ones she bleached herself.
I later sent her the original copy of herself before bleaching. Na there our relationship die.

udemzyudex:
You'll have to take it to a technician.

If you're in lag,I can fix it for you.

Thanks for the response. I am very far from Lagos.

My laptop screen back light just went off on its own last night. When I flashed torchlight directly to the screen, I could read things on the screen. Is there something I can do to fix it or I have to take it to the technician?

ebab:
Change your charger

OK. I will get another one, thanks.

My laptop cursor stops functioning the moment the laptop is connected to a power source. But if the laptop is in contact with my body it works fine.

Why does the cursor stop functioning whenever I connect my laptop to a power source? [b]But can still function if the laptop is in contact with my [/b]body.

ugwuishi:
The thing tire me. At St. Stephen Chaplaincy, B. U. K

Yeah

maasoap:
U don mean it! Now, his lover has offed him.

That's life. He was a gentle priest and loved by all during his stay and lecturing moments at the CRS department.

I didn't know he was no longer a Catholic priest. He used to be our reverend father before he travelled to the USA many years ago.

imagrg:
Edo girls are beautiful and hardworking. They know how to treat men wellah...kpekus wise and bellywise.

I concur from experience

Woman wey fit kill person no be female again na.

What are some of the things people hyped, but you never cared or liked any of them? Let me start in no particular order :
1. Pizza, Shawarma, hotdog etc.
2. Go clubbing
3. Watching BBN.
4. Using an iPhone
5. Attending weddings

Sometimes people find themselves in a tight situation that warrants them making some unconventional choices. For example, a student, be it secondary school or tertiary institution may develop feelings for the teacher/lecturer. Same goes for the teachers/lecturers developing feelings for their students.
As a teacher/lecturer, have you dated your student before? What was the outcome?
As a student, did you ever confess your love to your teacher/lecturer? What was the outcome?
Drop your comments let's have fun and learn one or two things from your experience.

Good morning, is there any other way to check if one has been selected? Because I saw my exact name on the 20k list, but I am not 100% sure if its me. Because two or more people can answer the same name.

Good morning, can this laptop be used for the learning of graphics design / coding?

benqo01:
No o not same o,make i no lie e no dey come my mind at all

I believe there are things more important than relationships in your scale of preference.

benqo01:
I have never been in a relationship since I was born till now,and am in my twenties

Na same gender secondary school you attend? Abi liver dey fail you?

Das1mama:
BECOS I NO GET MONEY... MONEY na the FUEL for a HEALTHY HOME.

Money go show in multiple figures by God's grace.

Suunnn:
Each and every time i try to give love a chance again the same keep repeating itself

I feel and think this is it: The Great Sweet and Beautiful People end up with Demons or Callous Minded or Self Centered Nuisance, while these very Demonic Callous Minded and Self Centered Nuisances end up with Great Sweet and Beautiful Angels

At Times Life is Vague, and Vaguity is Life.




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So sorry for your experience. That's the irony of life

Lala222:
I haven't met the person

Hope you meet her soon.

Professorola123:
How true bro pls

I checked for more than 15 candidates myself.

You can pass the information to those candidates who couldn't check their May/June WAEC result.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Kaman ya? Ban gane ba.

Kalamen wasu ne ke ban mamaki

Cakwakiya ke nan. Wai yaro ya sinci hakori.

The NPOWER wahala is something else. I was posted before the deployment tab vanished some days back. Now the tab is back and showing You have not been posted yet.

HRHQueenPhil:
U did nothing wrong, someone needs to tell her the truth...I use to smell like a rotten fish too till d day I was insulted inside bus.. pls if u are still using Eva soap, stop it immediately..buy her gifts of good soap, perfume and anti persperant

What's wrong with Eva soap?