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JASONjnr:
Ubanka....Shege!!

Dan burouba shege ba...in taya ka karasawa.

ericmor:
Are you talking about another R.Kelly or the USA musician?

USA r kelly musician.

TemporaryHansel:
In the end, you are all you've got. When things go awry, you'll be left alone. So, why not just be alone from the beginning? I have always had this thought on my mind.

Mentally you have to accept you're alone but physically you have to surround yourself with people. Even fake friends and enemies are useful.

AGUBANZE:
If she say no once commot hand, even if woman slap me I go still maintain my steez

R.Kelly
P.Diddy

These two names will strike fear in the heart of black men into music or Hollywood and I believe Nollywood own is coming as Daddy Freeze chop 2 million fine. Make all men stay calm around women, this matter nah black men dey collect. Make your color just light small like Christ Brown you fit escape am, nah the coco be that.

But R kelly skin light na. How e no manage escape am?

Guestlander:
Business is not limited to buying and selling in tiny shops.

That is actually trading and not business.

Nazgul:
The kind of risks girls take these days because of money is terrible.

Imagine going to a hotel to sleep with a total stranger in this Tinubu's administration where there's an all round increase in ritual killings.

When you try to advise them to embrace hard work by developing themselves and choosing a career path, they'll rain insults on you.

The other day I was waiting for a bus round Iwaya junction we weren't even much sef. That was about 2 weeks ago. A highlander just pulled over, whine down his glass and asked the girl standing close to me where she was going so he'll drop her off. She told him bariga and he told her to get in.

From that place to Bariga at most is N300. So why risk your life by following a total stranger because of such amount?

Even me that's a guy sef, I would respectfully turn down a free ride from a total stranger any day anytime.

Entitlement mentality and the urge to get things for free has lead so many girls to their grave.

Guys are never offered free rides,who dash you toto? Both men and women will hardly offer a ride to a man they know let alone a male stranger.

DonroxyII:
Trust Me & I'm not Being Overtly Optimistic, The Future of Africa is Brighter Than Her Past ....

We have better handler than The Past ....

Africans were Tyrannised Internally & Externally but With Civilisations, The World all Over is Fighting The Established Hegemony For Fairness, The Political Landscape, Government & Governance is Changing Other than Back in The Days ...

Most of Africa Democracies are Young Especially Sub-saharan African Countries thus It will take Considerable Times For Nations-Empires to Merge With One Another Due to Differences in Norms But Whether They Like or Not, Consciously Or Unconsciously, They Must Merge & They Shall Merge Until Humanities Become One Indivisible Nation Devoid of Colours, Tribes, Cultures....

The world is getting Unified By Commerce & Infotech Other Than Mere Battles-Wars Unlike Before .... Africa has Achieved Tremendous Civilisations Unlike Before ... Even if it is European/Arabian Influenced Civilisations, It's Better Than Barbarisms Previously Recorded ..

It's Not Yet at Par with Other Advanced Nations who have been able to Put Aeroplane in the air & Ships in the water with Jets In Space ...

But Africa would surely also get there ... !!

I sincerely hope so.

DonroxyII:
The Bolded is False.... The Present Generations of Africa are Not As Myopic as The Older Generations ....

The Future of Africa is Brighter From Internal & External Products ..!!

Quite the contrary. I'm not being pessimistic but even the AU is a big joke compared to the EU. With the bad blood and antagonism between African countries,unity will be much difficult to achieve.

PureFace1:
One of the biggest lie the west will tell you is there's free markets and every business can compete fair and square.

It is one of the biggest lie Africans are being lead to believe in, there's nothing like Free markets.

These people know that Airpeace is going to take a fair share of their markets if allow to operate, they will do everything to frustrate Airpeace.

The west is only nice to you as long as they can exploit you and you are not able to challenge their market and economic dominance, If not that China build themselves to the extent that even the west can't do without them easily, look at how they ban Huawei and China from accessing Chips, well i can't blame them it is basic human nature. No one want to lose the top dogs spot all in the name of free and fair competition and the person below you will do anything to displace you.

Africa will have a lot of problems with the west in the future unless we want to remain poor and backward.

You're very much on point. No one want to leave the top spot because the top feels so much better than the bottom.

Africa can never be united to defeat the western dominance so i don't see why they should be threatened over a mere airline trying to operate in their territory.

Jagermeister:
On the attention part, there's no way you're escaping it if you're that high up, especially if you're heavy-set as i am and man, you're by no means average at 6ft.. you're a tall dude.

And then the "getting famous" part? Bro nobody is going to hand anything to you for being a tall fellow...

You'll get a fair amount of free🐱 and attention (even from men) but that's about it.. you might not work as hard as a short person to get fame from today's internet space but you bet your ass that you must put in the work nevertheless..

I usually get on tictok whenever I'm less busy and some peeps there are mostly popular due to one or two uncommon physical characteristics.

Granted,the app is a bit lacking in matured audience but one can still build a name from there.

Whatever is difficult for normal folks is always different for special folks. By the way,i wear elevator shoes and also put on some insert when going out sometimes and the extra 3 inches i get really makes me feel good. Really wish it could be permanent.

I now understand the bitterness of shorter dudes.

Prettygirl200:
why should I try to impress you here? Whoever has chatted with me offline can attest to that!! I ain't putting my pics out here in a public forum that's full of pests!!!

Chatted with you offline? You mean on other social media right? Anyways, If you're really pretty,chat me up on this whatsapp number 07088555036.

Urgent1Million:
Medicine and others?
Dey play.
Remove engineers from the equation and all of you will teleport to your hospitals and treat your patients with your bare hands and without a building.
Besides, if everyone studied medicine, we won't have medical doctors after one generation 'cos doctors can't teach in the universities to produce doctors.
I can drink agbo and be free from malaria and Jedi Jedi.
Can you carry out surgery with a kitchen knife?
Even the kitchen knife is manufactured by engineers and technologists anyway.

I regard anyone with the idea that one course is superior to another as more or less stupid.

A lawyer is just as important as an engineer. Both of them will require the service of a doctor to maintain their health. A doctor will have to rely on a pharmacist for drugs recommendations and creations. All of these individuals will definitely need technology to connect with their colleagues and families and this is where a computer scientist or a tech-person is needed...etc.

My point is,we all need each other one way or the other and in that case no one is really superior.

bizzibodi:
I feel it ,they make medicine very stressful course,you attend lectures from morning till 3pm and the next day d lecturer is giving you shotgun giving when you hardly have time to cook,wash,read... lecturers crash a one month course in 5days.
In saner clime medical students are on scholarship,accomodated with free food,textbooks & laundry taken care of...so that they will not have any distraction.

That distraction part is absolutely correct.

You see these two field medicine and engineering,if your any of your ward is studying in any of them make sure to provide them with as much comfort as possible,so they can have much more time for their studies,otherwise they'll performed poorly or even fail.

Jagermeister:
No bro… bad comprehension!

I didn’t say anything about aesthetics!

I talked about being representative of my age. There’s no 40 year old laying a 20 year old on merit except perhaps you’re famous (even still) or there’s a motive for her! It’s no natural selection.

And let’s not talk about the part where you said I should work on myself; very laughable because you know little bro!

On the being famous part,you're very right on that. Most men 40 and above laying 20s girls are either well-known or well-loaded with money.

But at 6'5,you just need to put yourself on camera and you'll easily become famous because 98% of nigerians are below that height. I'm sure you've been showered with attention even from your fellow men let alone women.

I envy your height though,not that im short at 6'0,but the advantages I've gotten as a result of my height just makes me wish i can grow taller.

Jagermeister:
You should be proud of yourself for what you’ve done here..

Even I, as male has enjoyed attention from both sexes and is now experiencing the true reality of life leaving me behind.

From not being able to attract the kind of “girls” that used to discreetly collect my number from people who knew me and into not-desiring to go to certain places anymore for the sheer fear of not fitting-in.

I mean, I’ll probably look out of place in a school campus and might be mistaken for a young lecturer or a masters student at best all while I’m not 40 yet, even though I’m ultra fit and healthy, is indeed baffling.

But I’ve come to terms with it… the same type of people who used to call me “my cute baby” now call me “fine man”. I know I’m not who I used to be and sadly, it’ll only get worse when I finally lose all my hair haha . These are even the silver days still! The bronze and even coppers are not far behind!

While I have accepted this reality, there’s a lot of people who will carry this grandiose personality to the grave and would still be questioning why their coffin is not positioned in the right way as they’re being lowered down! Well, nobody would give a shit at that point, that’s for damn sure!

Bro if i get your point,you're saying you're below 40 and you're now looking unattractive?

But many men are above 40 and are still looking good. Maybe you need to work on yourself and adopt a more healthier lifestyle.

Your prime as a man begins at 30 unlike for women Provided you're living a healthy lifestyle of course.

pansophist:
Life is very hard, and I mean that literally. It is also harder when the tools a person have to make it easy is ego, delusion, living on past glory, entitlement, especially when they are just one calamity away from being downgraded to nothingness.

Just one car accident, a loss of job, a victim of others aggression (stray bullet), or being cut off from their host (for girls who depends on mens money to feel fly) etc. Life is hard, but the wrong mindset makes it harder.

I do not know if this is a good thing, but compared to other species, humans are cuddled from birth to at least two decades. Many of us went all through our formative years being reliant on others (eg parents) and thinking the world owe us.

For men, its also worse. Many of the looser male are those whom are tall and attractive, and went through life getting girls easily. And many girls are victims of those boys, since the girls aint carrying any load themselves, and think being instagram worthy couples is what life is all about.

The need to pepper others, or be in the spotlight is more important than the need to make sure you move along with time, and not stuck on the past.

I have said it before that ''delusion is what makes many people sane. If people can see the harsh realities of their life, they will be depressive''. So you can say that delusion is a good thing somehow. Its an anesthesia to the mind.

Regardless of the gender, its a very dangerous thing for adult to start life on easy mode for up to two decades. It will just make them lazy and feel like they are better than others.

Boss himself,your post was educating as usual.

But have you ever considered starting a personal blog? Seriously the wisdom and knowledge you possessed could do the world a whole lot of good.

TheTundeMuniru:
Even when 200GHC is about N20K, can 200GHC makes you a decent pot of soup in Ghana? I guess the answer is NO.

Even though our Naira depreciated beyond the low, it is still more valuable than the Ghana Cedis.

Be objective bro.

At this moment,the cedis is worth more than the naira. Granted,200GHC can't make you a decent pot of soup but when converted to naira,which is 20k that money will make you a very tasty and well-garnished pot of soup in nigeria even in this harsh economy.

Tallesty1:
Stay wise kor.

So, in your wisdom, sleeping with a random woman is better than building a real connection with someone? Someone who will give you emotional support and companionship; someone who cares about your well-being, shares experiences, and builds memories with you?

Someone who will come to your place and help you tidy up when you're busy, cook something for you, and possibly help with whatever you're working on—or at least encourage you in ways that keep you motivated and inspired.

This is why some of you struggle in dating. Aside from satisfying your physical cravings, you're simply too immature to handle a relationship with a woman because you don’t understand their value and can’t possibly add any value to their lives.

If this is what you call wisdom then I wonder what your foolishness will be like 😂 😂

What do you need a woman emotional support for? You're a man for God's sake. Going into relationship with this kind of mindset is what set you up for disaster later on because no woman respect an emotional needy man,worse if he's a mate.

As a man,you're saddled with the task of leading and protecting your family. You're supposed to be the stronger shoulder everyone could cry on.

HighTension80:
Career politicians are sheer opportunists. They cash in on, and cash out in, every electioneering period.

See how it works:

1. They occupy some position of authority in the ruling party within their constituency.
2. The opposition targets them for a 'buy-over' and to 'weaken' the ruling party.
3. They name and receive their 'immediate', usually Financial-boosting, honorarium and await the 'balance' when the now opposition wins.
4. They suddenly become disgruntled with the system they've hitherto benefited from and resign from the ruling party.
5. They announce their defection to their sponsor opposition party at a campaign rally. They've delivered the first phase!
5. They get appointed into some key roles in the campaign programme, with more resources available to them now than they'd recently, prior to their defection, received from the current administration.
6. They release implicating information to the opposition - as have-been insiders - to use against their now former party and it's administration.
7. If the opposition succeeds in taking power, they have a high expectation for an enhancement of their CVs and expansion of the scope of their resource-control access.
8. If the government party wins, a reconciliation committee panel will be set to woo them back - another opportunity for higher cognizability and resource accessibility.
9. All these happen for a very single reason, which is:
10. This is Nigeria!

You sum the whole shit up perfectly.

How do you expect someone in such state of mind to genuinely care about the interest of the masses? That's why anyone supporting any political party in nigeria without any gain is worse than idiot.

DWickedLandLord:
A woman will not lie about violence that never occurred. Embellish .....yes. But not outright lie just to paint you bad .

There's nothing more annoying on nairaland than when people with no account balance keep talking about IQ n Intelligence

It's either you're underestimating the manipulative tendency of females or you're naive.

There's this story about a lady in UK that repeatedly damage her face and claimed being rape multiple times till the police found out she's actually the one hurting herself to claim victimhood.

Vagina people are way shady than you think.

GiZcorp:
I agree totally with you. It will be very terrible in this country, because It's crystal clear that the country will continue to descend the alley of mismanagement, corruption, nepotism and insecurity. The best one can do for oneself and family now is to try and relocate. I hear Rwanda is some how a good destination, if I check and its worth it by this time next year I be viewing Nairaland from there for starter.

Exactly. Good luck with that mate. I wish you the best in your search.

GiZcorp:
We are in for the long ride of suffering, despair and witnesses to monumental corruption oozing from the Tinubu led government. It's just sad that we can only watch, rant yet can't help the situation.. 😭

Good thing you finally understand how severe the situation is.

Well,regarding the state of things,you can't really do much,instead you should focus on protecting yourself and your family from the impending doom.

Start the process of getting a permanent residency in a good country abroad,i know it's getting difficult to achieve this but the longer you wait the more harder it gets.

Remember,to travel out of nigeria 5 years ago was much easier compared to today. Imagine how bad it will be in the next 5 or more years to come.

Standing5:
what if the sidechick uses otumurkpur?

The person you're asking could be under the influence of otumokpor.

Anyways,it highly likely that otumokpor na him dey use hold that man.

BrighterSyde:
Just like the other idiots we have here on NL these ones will come on social media supporting rubbish but go to their homes lamenting when they have to queue for fuel in an oil-producing country where the politicians enjoy benefits that these dumb supporters can never smell in their lifetime even with the stipends they are thrown.

If you are above 25 and you believe that Apc or pdp or lp is the solution to Nigeria’s problem then you indeed need your head examined.

You’ve seen failure and corruption across pdp, Apc and lp and yet who has benefitted from these systems? Is it the masses or the politicians, but you are still daft enough to support one party or politician without getting paid then you are more stupid than helinues, mannabbqgrillz, yarimo, freestuffng, madridguy…etc who are getting crumbs for their support.

Spot on. Supporting any party in nigeria openly without any form of incentive for you whether now or in the future is the ultimate form of stupidity.

All political parties in nigeria are the same. The game plan is;get into power,make plans for a second tenure,steal as much as i can,allow my allies to steal as well,steal once more,make arrangements for my retirement,steal again,keep on stealing....etc.

The most profitable thing in nigeria now is not business,it is POLITICS.

GiZcorp:
You truly understand the political terrain and events unfolding in Nigeria.

You won't believe this but I'm immensely appalled at the state which this country is. Our international image is in ruins up to the point of other african nations making fun of us.

I dare say I'm among those genuinely corcerned with making this country great but after objectively viewing the situation on ground and calculating where the country is headed,I was filled with only despair.

Not trying to sound pessimistic bùt hope in nigeria becoming better is nothing short of a pipe-dream.

IT CAN ONLY GET WORSE.

Tinubu victory is already assured even if the masses are suffering. 8 years is the minimum,but dont be surprised that he might rule for 12 years. He's already working on passing the bill for a 6 years per term.

gawu1:
Inyameri, anything wrong with that?
They said the match is part of a festival event. But your inyameri brain failed to let you know that those pictures were taken at different events marking the festival.

Bro da alamar kai bahaushe ne ko?

GiZcorp:
You're very correct.. At this point we can only rely on God for deliverance...

Only Most high can salvage nigeria situation.

I'll be brutally honest here,you have just 2 option as a nigerian citizen,it's either you find ways to align yourself with the powers that be so as to be in their good books or you leave the country for good.

APC are only getting started with nigeria. Their long term goal is to destroy all political opponent or render them nearly useless so that they'll be much less than a threat. Then they shall be tye only rulling party and enjoy total control and wealth of nigeria.

We can see how pdp are getting useless and powerless as time goes on. APC that was formed just less than a decade ago is the party now making PDP look like incompetent fools.

As long as people like wike still exist in pdp,then the fall of pdp will be swift even though the party annihilation is inevitable.

We all know the number of folks decamping to apc from pdp is way lesser than vice-versa.

Anyways,fellow Nigerians,wake up and make plans for your individual selves.

Carcholce:
I don’t help anyone. I don’t expect anyone to help me. I only part with money when you render services for it, like wise myself. I get paid when I render my services. If you want money from me, you must work for it.

Absolutely. I share the same sentiments as well.

Helping any human on this earth just for helping sake isn't worth it at all.

Because come to think of it,to offer any tangible help cost money,time or both. Couple with the fact that most humans are natural ingrates you'll agree with my point that it isn't a worthy endeavour.

I'm not saying i have not or I'm ever going to help anyone,but some I've helped in the past have talked shit about me behind my back and some have actually turn enemies now.

GiZcorp:
This man will travel one day and on his way back he will be told to remain at large because we got a new government. He's so unapologetic when it comes to dishing out anti people policies and statements - like he got everyone by their balls, forgetting that Nigerians are very dynamic and we have a notable way of seeing ourselves out of the maze.

The chance of such event happening is way too slim. You won't believe the amount of money APC governors are making in tinibus reign.

Tinibu is only suffering the masses,but his cohorts and other important allies are living large. Hence,any atttempt at such will swiftly be thwarted by his overfed loyalists.

We have to give it to that man,he understands the game of power through and through.

mmadu4:
this country is gone. forget about nigeria . find a way to leave with your family to another country

True that.

I was among those championing the fixing of the country but at this point,except for some divine intervention i don't see nigeria getting any better. Infact,it can only get worse from here.

Folks,try as much as you can to secure resident for a good country overseas. At least,a bad situation there is still better compared to a bad situation here.

You can be assisting with your one leg in and the other out.

hybrid77:


Goodluck jonathan will win any election in nigeria presently. Peter obi should step down for him

But i doubt if he will make any meaningful change. He was and is part of the problem..

So, no solution in sight. We will all keep crying here in hell

Someone that was muscled out of power even as the incumbent president. He's already lost his liver and I'm quite certain he wont contest for any public seat in his lifetime.

Buhari and co were very brutal in the 2015 election battle,jonah is a bit soft in my opinion.

APC need another brutal opponent party to give them a taste of their own medicine just like they did to pdp. PDP can never be up to such task let alone labour party.

DonroxyII:
....

Real Men Don't Complain about Their Women ... You Men all Make The Women Entitled....

If You ain't Playing Her Silly Games Another Morafvcker somewhere would play the simping Games 1000times .

She knows there is always Market for Her Stupidities So Why Wouldn't She be Entitled ... ...

God is not to be blamed for the Failure of Adam ... If You ain't Eating the Apple, Someone else is eating the Shee

If She Comes With a Particular Format, Your Job is to Re-format Her With Better Ones... she either agree or Bounce depending on Her State of Mindsets then You continue your Own normal life as If Nothing Ever Happened....

& If she is a Janj.awee ... Just Make Her Bounce from You .... She will Run Off in a Jivvy

Women would always be Women.. Na You Must Manned Up & See Their Actions as Fun, If You think about it too Much, You will Craze

As i read this your post,i knew i just have to comment. Bros,na man you be.

They're always going to be fools in this world. Simps are always in endless supply,it is left for you to make it clear to anyone you're dealing with that you're not a fool or a simp.