₦airaland Forum

spiSeyi:
Sane clime agberoism if this happens in Nigeria PO and his obedients wagon will be saying this can't happen in a sane clime, something like this also happened in Japan (one of the world most conservative environment and a true definition of a sane clime) and it took the life of the former prime No one can get power with woman voice or by crying on the national TV , power is not served on a platter of Gold anywhere in the world

Absolutely right you are. Power is never intended for the weak. If a weak man rules,his people will definitely suffer hell.

santaclaws:
That's just another perspective, neither of us is wrong. What made me come up with that comment was the fact that a lot of young ladies get advice from "big sisters" who advise them based on their own negative experiences. There are some women who believe that a lady cannot make it alone until a man sleeps with her, such a mentality is why some girls are laid back...

I think there's an element of truth in that advise. However,it depends on what the lady in question is planning to do.

If she going into show business,whether as an actress or artist she can never go far without men having a "taste" of her goods. And that's not an assurance that you will still make it.

I personally know actresses who told me first hand experience they passes through with directors,producers,and the rest of the crew. This tend to be more pronounced if the girl is beautiful.

santaclaws:
This is the most shocking part... Some of the so-called working class girls are involved in both corporate and regular hook-ups.

Some ladies have been fed with lies that they have to be prostitutes to be accomplished in life. What a shame.

You're mistaken here. No one fed them with anything,they realized in most cases their body is the bargaining chip when dealing with randy men. And most men are shamelessly randy.

That's why female marketers fare well compared to their male counterparts,especially when they're good-looking.

A potential client will flat-out tell you to sleep with him before doing business with you. We also can't deny cases of bosses sleeping with their younger underlings for promotion or other favors. What about sex for grade?

You'll be surprised by the amount of men willing to accept sex than cash from women. But women will rather take your cash and refuse you sex.

What a funny world.

Brendaniel:
We warned you guys.... We warned you guys... We warned you guys....

I can't you well,c'mon louder louder loudaa!

Brendaniel:
This is why we will keep telling you guys we warned you guys, because it is clear you people knew he was coming to do bad but tribalism and religious bias was more important to you guys, so we will keep reminding you guys of your very stupid decision...

We warned you guys....

Paste it out on your forehead.

chidiokay:
by paint and customize all your cloth with "we warned you" ... that one sef naa life achievement

Obidients no go kee person. Absolutely brain-dead set of folks.

chidiokay:
Oga carry these una nonsense "we warn ..." cry comot for here jare
Polls/ elections is not enough to get the right leader, what protect the country interest are the system in place and the readiness of the people to hold the govt accountable

If US, Uk , name it don't have the kind of system they have and citizens that are ready to stand up to the govt ... there leaders would take them for a ride
In countries like china, singapore govt official you steal money na death sentence

God bless you for this. I don tire for obidients and "we warned you"...

No one,i repeat no one can tell what would be the aftermath of the economy if peter obi had won,likewise no one knows for a fact that this is how tinubu regime will turn out.

The obidients just keep using this statement because it massages their ego and make them feel like they knew it all and can predict shit.

We all know tinubu is not the best of choice among the presidential candidates and he'll do bad but no one imagine it could be this worse.

Wotowotoman:
Guy, please be the messiah to save Naija na. Abi you sef be lazy Nigerian youth? 🤔

Na liverless loud mouthed idiot.

Unperturbedpota:
Lazy Nigerian youth. Keep ranting online don't go and attack those stealing your future. Keep focusing on Davido Wizkid big brother and useless trash.
.Kenyan youths did the needful while lazy Nigerian youths keeps sitting down waiting for a Messiah to come and save them
Foolish youths
Tomorrow when Kenyan economy gets to the point where you can never reach it Nigeria. Lazy youths will start arguing who has the better jollof rice between Nigeria and Kenya.
Very stupid set of brainless foolish people

You are among those you call foolish. Infact your own stupidity surpasses them. What holding you from taking the initiative?

Organise the youth in your street,town or state and led the protest or whatever if you really mean it.

Idiot without liver wan dey form online.

Omoawoke:
Of course, the one with 30 women and 1 man will grow faster.
The one with one woman and 30 men may not even survive at all

You're wrong. The one with 30 women and 1 man shall be wiped out entirely when a neighbouring tribe attack them.

Men presence is not for procreation alone,men are also DEFENDERS.

Iamblessed85:
Thanks for this. I came to this conclusion myself after some meditation and so i’m shocked to see it validated by someone else. I have always said that everyone you help tries to get even either subconsciously or consciously.

Why do they need to get even?

It’s hard to believe but they subconsciously resent you for doing better than them. When you help someone (especially someone you came up with), they start to feel inferior. They hate that you now occupy that pristine position as their helper, afterall you grew up together and you aren’t better than them in any way or so they think.


How do they get even?

1. They ask for help repeatedly. Everyone knows this would cause you to react poorly at some point, so, they continue to poke the bear. When you get tired and turn down their request or react poorly, everything else you’ve done is thrown out of the window and you become a bad person. You nolonger wield that pristine position as their helper.

2. They simply pay you back with evil or talk down on you behind your back.

In summary, no good deed goes unpunished. Does it mean you shouldn’t do good? Not at all but just know that often times, it’s someone else that would reward you. You’ve put out that positivity into the universe and so the universe becomes your debtor. With this understanding, people should never say stuff like “after all i’ve done for you”. The reason why they are hurting you is because of all you did for them lol.

Perhaps you even threw in some condescending remarks while at it and this sorta overshadowed the good deed.

I me need some of what you took before posting this. The wisdom here is profound.

phemray:
You are correct and nothing do you. Most men love chubby ladies. I think it depends on your area and how you socializes. The strategy you use matters as in maybe you stress men too much. take things easy because phone and social media have made things easier for men.

Speak for yourself chief simp,which one is most men?

A good amount of men first choice of a mate is a slim girl not a whale. Unless he's out of options or he's a simp.

Fairview1:
What's your reason?

Tell us why you prefer a rich due over a broke one or a tall dude over a short guy.

Mine is because it's simply my choice. I detest fat girls.

Hannania:
You're not getting the whole point. The comparison is 25m/yr to 500k monthly business revenue, not profit. It will be delusional to pick the business

Absolutely. I guess i misunderstood you initially.

No sane person will choose the "business " over the job in this case.

Hannania:
There's no where on earth you'll earn 25m/year and not have a very high value (skill). Convert it or PPP(Purchasing power parity ) in any country, and you're better off than the so called business

I don't think so. We're getting off the op's topic but i guess it's allowed.

Look,we're not talking about mom n pop or small businesses here,we're talking big business,fortune 100-500 companies and you're saying 25m is way better in comparison?

Any employer that is willing to pay you 25m annually is easily making times ten of that amount. Who's better off then?

tensazangetsu20:
If you are fired with the right skills you can get a higher paying job again but if business fails it's not easy to rise up again.

You said the right skills,which means this is not the case most times.

Same thing apply in the business field,the right person,with the right skill and resources will definitely rise back up with time.

All entrepreneurs must face inevitable crisis that may come close to putting them out of business. Most will fail,few shall scale through the challenges.

LocalFARMERS:
If you will only eat what is prepared in your presence. That means you won't eat a lot of things in this Country. From Mama put food shops, to fast food restaurants etc

Don't mind these folks. Na ova sabi people. They can buy processed and canned foods as if they knew how it was prepared nor the dangerous chemicals present inside.

Just try giving out free indomie or sardines and see how they will scramble to get one.

Tokskob2008:
Granted business may flop but nobody is considering about termination of appointment?
What if the person get sacked in just a few month

My thought exactly. People keep focusing on the insecurity of doing business ignoring the insecurities an employee is going through.

You can always be fired at any time.

Realtruth2023:
wait hold on. is it not you all that were shouting how Yoruba was the best during Ojude Oba. Why is it that when others especially igbos hail their own you get pained. haaa!!!!! this is pure witchcraft walahi, which kind of envy is this, and you are a young man not an old man, you should know better.

When Yorubas like you should Yoruba Lagba it is not pride to a fault abi, the trait you guys exhibit when you hail Yorubas is not limited to low-life among you abi

Bro go back and read my comment once more.

My point is Nigerian have talented and successful folks outside the ibo tribe that are not half as loud as the ibos.

Tflex01:
Many Nigerians are in the same position that guy was just promoted to and a Yoruba guy was the first Nigerian in that position.

If na una get Ogunlesi, Anthony Joshua, Wole Soyinka etc etc or even Dangote, you for no let anybody hear word again for this world. 😂

Bros i tire for this people o. I wish the government will grant them the biafra they are fighting for,i swear even chad will be far better than them.

They are too proud to a fault. And this trait isn't limited to the low-lifes among them,even the high ranking ibos act the same way.

tsdarkside:
ehen....this politicians will sell your anuses for money....

they already sold you before wholesale....

Absolutely bro. Dem don already sell our yansh,so na to dey on guard always. If you go fight gay man omo na jail straight.

Me sha my YANSH is well guarded. Anybody wey try anything go collect.

victory36:
Honestly, of it will bring an economic bailout of some sort, then we had better sign it. Better to live with gays than live in hopelessness and poverty

Don't be foolish,the masses won't even smell that money,rather It will majorly be distributed among themselves.

You on the other hand will have to protect your YANSH because gay now have rights in nigeria. If you looseguard a gay will openly Bleep your YANSH and you or your government can't do nothing about it.

This should be an eye-opener to those who believe the west have nigeria best interest at heart.

Akpabio22:
Wow 1908 everyone in that picture is completely dead abd buried. Same thing will also happen to we the current generation. There nothing in this life that worth dieing for or killing your fellow man to achieve it. It's completely meaningless

Stop being foolish,of course everyone shall die but that dosent mean you should remain docile in life and just await your death.

They are many things to kill and die for. Most important of them should be your interest,followed by your family.

dkidd:
What sort of parent utters such to her prospective son in-law and u expect him to be happy with the situation. Until u ladies grow some brains and realise as men the utmost thing we require from y'all is peace of mind + respect y'all will continue to miss the mark. Ur family sounds very troublesome. Even u too and u don't seem to see anything wrong with ur moms utterances. It takes wisdom to talk despite one's age or position. If u don't speak with wisdom u always end up causing problems for u and those around u. He's probably moved on to someone better who can understand what it takes to be with him. U should do the same. There are lines u don't cross with some people. After ur mom made such statement does ur family expect the man to start begging for acceptance? Who Una be sef? Elon musk family? Abeg any wise man will smell trouble from such a family him never marry u Una done dey position am for cage if him come marry u I'm sure he will become a shadow of his old self. I'm 100% sure ur mom said a whole of other degrading shyyt to that young mind. Let the man live his life. Go and find someone less fortunate to frustrate. He's a wise guy

Gbamsolutely. Human beings view things emotionally and from their own selfish point of view. Bottom line,everyone should do whatever suit him.

IMAliyu:
Of all the authoritarian governments you could have chosen you choose the 2 worst as an example. The neo-monarchy of NK and the dictatorship that dragged it's people into war with a non hostile neighbor.
I would much rather a Chinese, or Cuban style government, if we were ever going to be non democratic.

At least these governments have a positive goal for their people, and are doing a relatively good job given their constraints.

Thanks for your inputs. China didn't crossed my mind but they're good example of what nigeria should model in an autocratic politics.

advanceDNA:
Na husband wey mumu marry am dey pay pension naaa

Omo na true o...may we never be an olosho retirement plan. And for those that see nothing wrong with it,we wish them more pensioners to their home.

RawSex:
I'm glad i have someone else who thinks like me. Only if we could get more of our kind in this country

That's why I cringe anytime I here the word zoning.
The masses don't know that it will only benefit the selfish political class who only want to share power among themselves and not for their interest or benefit.

Absolutely. Zoning or dividing this country can never be the solution.

Don't we have state governors performing woefully in their state? As we all know,a non-indigiene can't govern any state in this country,yet the chosen governor is still neglecting his people, Now what do we call that?

In leadership,the main attributes are COMPETENCY AND FAIRNESS. A fair yoruba man won't mistreat neither igbo nor hausa folks. Likewise a competent yoruba man will try to seek for other competent mind like his to assist him,even if they're from a different tribe.

advanceDNA:
because women are the kings of manipulation and sex is the only thing most of them have as a tool for manipulating .... That's why they will always make sex look like a favour they are doing for you......it's all about leverage


If u come make mistake marry retired olosho or sugar daddy babe hahahahaha! withholding sex na old habit for those ones.......
.she will even codedly ask you to pay or buy her something first before u knack for your own home

Bro you funny sha... olosho no fit retire na,who go dey pay her pension?

As long as there's continous stream of interested customer,an olosho can never retire. Unless she gets too old and unattractive to men,then shes no longer in business.

See simps commenting left and right. Truly simps are in endless supply.

In a royal setting,the queen must serve her KING needs,if she's uncabable due to illness then other wives will help her with the work.

A true king can never serve his queen. Unless he's a fool in the first place.

Perfectskills01:
There are 2 important things I will say to you . The first will address you to relate with your childhood friend from distance. The second will give you the proper advice he should follow to better his life .

Law 10 says - Infection, avoid the unhappy and unlucky.

Take note of this law in the 48 laws of power.
You and your friends are no longer on the same level in life , the purpose of childhood had been fulfilled. It is better to relate with them from distance.

Do you know why Read law 10 in the 48 law of power for better explanation. But let me explain little.... You saw how your friend infected you by group of unlucky friends , they will pull you down before you realize it . Apart from that, you both ain't treading the same path in life , a childhood friend can't serve the purpose of adulthood friend. You can now be relating from distance. Meet and greet , help each other and depart .

Do you want more explanation . Alright, there is something we call envy . Envy operates in every Human being , for so many can't control it . It is complex emotion. Your childhood friend will envy because you are now doing better than him . 2 things will likely happen .1. He may use your achievements to motivate himself , Which is rare case. Or 2. He may feel bad about you , and depressed anytime he compares himself with you. You know what that means . That is why you must avoid the unlucky and unhappy. When you help them , they feel belittled , it will put them in an inferior position. Subconsciously , they feel repulsed , instead of appreciation , they envy your position and spark antagonism. This is the brutality of the human nature .

However, be aware and tread carefully. Help your friend if you have means , but be aware of this possible outcome.


Let's move to the 2nd advice, which will center on how to help him .

You need to understand purpose. That which interests him is his purpose. He loves teaching, that might be his purpose , if not , he would have stopped at first try , but instead he organised classes in the neighborhood. Location matters . Let him look into how he can maximize his teaching career. There is money in that job. We have people who own schools, they are making big money, they also started somewhere . Weac and Jamb classes should be considered. He needs to be smart because there are many competitors out there. If it's location, let him change . The problem might not be what he is doing but how he his doing it .

If teaching aligns with his purpose, it is important he knows, to enable him to continue or find something else that aligns.

A smart fellow should be able to think his way out but not everyone is destined to be smart , if he is not yielding, bro avoid the unhappy and unlucky, don't mingle with them but give what you can from distance.

None could have said it any better. I love how brutally honest you sounded. I need to paste this shit right on my walls asap!

anonimi:
What tribe will your autocratic president be from, to rule for 20 years

Can you see where the problems of nigeria are originating from? We're talking about figuring out a solution and you just have to bring up tribalism. Like wtf!

Are you saying if the chosen leader isn't from your tribe you won't go along with it?

I'm a f""uvking hausa by tribe and even though most of my folks are mostly religiously tribalistic,I'll still vote for a Christian to rule us for that long.

Our focus when choosing leaders should never be influenced by tribe or religion,we should pay attention most to COMPENTENCY AND FAIRNESS.