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we all are.

my dear we are in for more heartaches, o. paloma and diego will be separated for much more longer than two weeks. it will begin to look like eternity. thats why TRUST is vital in any relationship. you just have to trust and have faith in your partner. they both lacked it and paid dearly for it.

not exactly funny but it makes for very interesting reading. i like it

oh oh! over? so soon? what happened? he didn't meet up to your imagination?

more important issues like what, my brother?
playboy, someone once told me that jack became a dull boy because he was all seriousness and no fun!

uhm! Sade from back in the day. yeah, that's a good one. she did good in the 90's. yeah, i think she deserves a mention. how about anita baker? don't think anyone mentioned her. she roooccked way back.

ha lioness, you got me laughing so dear answer the question, is he the guy from mars?

@ gentleone, my sister no be small twist and turn o.

i just want to get to the end. i need to finish the story because i know AIT will never finsh it.
someone please help out, anybody pleeeeease..... delarontus, where are thou?

AngelaZ, nferyn has told (still telling) his story on the thread "Tell us about ur marraige" did you miss it? Quite an interesting story, if you ask me.

hi guys, i'm stuck. i followed the last link but couldnt read beyond episodes 170 or there abouts. tried to see if i could watch the concluding video offered for free, but i couldnt. someone please rescue me. i NEED to read the remaining episodes. i just NEED to.

as for AIT, i bet they wont end the soap. not with 238 episodes.

nice and simple quiz, i also think there should be more questions.
anyway, i love it. says i am ephesians.

ha layi you are putting the men on the hot seat eh, no be so? ok.
we shall see what happens during your turn. we are here and we'll be watching!

oracle, which case close? this case is as open as ever o. we want to hear all d juicy details. so babygirl, how did it turn out? i mean yesterday's date. is ur crush over or are you in even more deeper? spill it out.

icingbaby, i'm so glad he called back. THANK GOD, o. i hope he turns out ok for you.
ciao.

nferyn, kenflavor, fabian, what else can i say? save to say thank you. to everyone, thanks a million. your love is overwhelming. God bless us all. it is well.

meanwhile, i'm enjoying your stories.
congratulations! chiditaiye, a boy and a girl. WOW!

if he does indeed call back, abeg babygirl do let us know o, so we can all thank God for answered prayers!

@ sir kay, thank you so very much. i hold that scripture (and many others) close to my heart. may your marriage last forever.
i appreciate ur kind words, IAH, dablessed, seun, vexxy, nucca and all who shared in my pain. God bless you all. it took a lot of courage and angelaZ for me to talk about this here. thank you again.
@ otokx, it was by private means, all 3 in the vehicle were killed. it was a freak accident that should never have happened.
@ nucca. true talk my dear. i know what i had, and the memories was what helped kept me sane when it happened initially. i wouldnt trade those five years i had for anything in the world... thanks yall.

my story continues...

after d birth of my second boy, customarily both mums (mine and his) came to do their bit, one after the other and as expected my husband moved out of our bedroom to another to give the mums room to care for the baby especially at night. they left about two months later. i expected my husband to move back to our room but alas he did not, to me it seemed as if he loved his new-found privacy and prefer that to being with me. and that was the begining of TROUBLE for us.

as the days past and turned into weeks i began to feel worse. i started feelin unloved. i felt i was no longer needed, i mean i had given birth to his children and as such fufilled my role and i'm no longer useful in his life anymore. i felt useless, i felt ugly. i felt used. but rather than call him to talk and clear up things i became bitter and would snap at him at every turn. this made him turn away even more and we went from bad to worse. we drifted apart. we became two strangers living together barely talking except to scream and curse at each other. we were heading for the rocks.

then one day, six months after the birth of my son, i packed a few things into a bag and told him i was leaving! that shocked him. and as i looked up at him, i saw the fear in his eyes.
"so you finally want to leave me?"
"yes"
" please dont leave me, we can start again, please."
"to what end?" i asked
"because i cant live without you"
"WHAT?" i asked " i thought you no longer wanted me as i have finished playing my role. it was his turn to scream "WHAT?"
"i thought you couldnt stand me anymore. i thought you hated the sight of me. at first i attributed it to post-natal hormonal feelings thats why i thought i should stay away and give you time but you got worse"
but i thought... i thought ... no i thought....

oh the trouble and pain we would have saved ourselves if only we communicated. so that night we made up and determined we would always talk. we didnt sleep, we talked and talked into the night till early morn. form then on, we became one again. we became stroger and tighter. laughter and happiness was back in my home. two years later, we celebrated five years of being together.

            shania twane's ''still the one" was our song.

            looks like we made it , see how far we've come my baby
            we might have took the long way, we knew we'll get there someday
            they said, i bet they'll never make it but just look as we're still holding on
            we're still together, still going strong.
             still the one, you still the one i run to, the one that i belong to.....

he said we'll play it on our 10th anniversary. everyone who thought we couldnt make it, all those who stood in our way, would be invited.... i once sang "i wanna grow old with you" (westlife) to him and he jokingly said but you are already old now i screamed and chased him, we ran around the house like kids. my marriage was bliss, my home, heaven on earth. life was too good to be true.

how long do you think the marriage would last?

i thought it would last my lifetime but it didnt.
just like angelaZ, he died in a ghastly auto accident some months after our 5th wedding anniversary, tearing my world apart.

its close to 3 years now and i've learnt to be strong again. i have learnt to live with the pain.

@MSY
miracles still happens. do you believe in miracles?

How i met my husband.
i met my husband in 1996. i work for a large establishment and was on my way to work that morning. he was on his way out of the premises when i walked past him, i didnt even notice him. unknown to me, he turned around and slowly followed me. unfortunately for him one of our shuttle busses came and i boarded but rather than turn and walk away he just stood there and watched the bus. it moved a short distance and stopped, he saw me come down and entered my office block, he then turned around and went his way.
several days later( he had made enquiries about my name, office phone no etc) i received a call in the office from a strange man who introduced himself as engr....
"i saw you some days back and i'll like to meet you, can i come to your office"
" oh yes, why not", i was looking forward to envangelising this man. i pictured him to be middle- aged, pot bellied, bald and very much married and i was just itching to tell him what the bible says about womanising and adultery.
so when he came i was taken aback, here was a very young man, very handsome man, i was pleasantly surprised. we got talking, i found that he was born-again& no need for my sermon, etc.
fell in love with him almost immediately.

who proposed?

he did.

who oppossed?

everyone.
from my parents to my colleagues, a few of his relations, friends, neighbours etc.
REASON?
he's yoruba and i'm igbo!
how did we prevail?
of course we prevailed because we were in love and wouldnt take no for an answer. then God stepped in. miraculously my parents turned around and agreed then it all went smoothly hence.

wedding/honeymoon

got married with all the 'noise' we could afford to make then way back in 1997. didnt go anywhere special for our honeymoon. we couldnt afford it. (we made up for it down the line, though)
things started looking up for us, soon after and we made tremendous progress financially. a year later we were blessed with a boy. everything was going smoothly, the thought of cheating never crossed my mind and i could swear the same goes for him. life couldn't have been better. then i had my second kid and trouble started........


to be continued....

angelaZ, i've read ur account over and aver again. i share in ur pain. its the most devastating thing under the sun, losing ur husband. angelaZ, i think i'll share my story too.

fire ke, ha she's gone. she's escaped.... to heaven's gate! ha ha

oh my g ha ha ha

oh my! na wa o, he he he he

oh vizion you've really made my evening. i've been laughing so loud everyone is wondering if i'm alright?
but come o, if you be the policeman what would you do at that point.

stupid husband. the counsellor means you should kiss ur wife passionately at least twice weekly not hand her over to him. some men are so dumb!

oh God, this is so soooo funny.
what a clever dog. ha ha ha ha

her trial starts next month! ha ha

ahhh, come on seun!

looking at the activities of some of them, i'd say that a few have tried to justify their stay in office.

and my nominees are........
gov. bola ahmed tinubu lagos state( in the face of mr president's tyranny, he's tried his best)
gov. gbenga daniel of ogun state ( he started very well in the begining)
gov. chris ngige of anambra state ( he'd rather give his people their due than submit to the "godfather" or die trying)
gov. donald duke of cross river state (he's done well in tourism for the state)

And MY award goes to..................................................



GOV CHRIS NGIGE!!!!