Okworigeorge: ....lolololz plastic fan

lol but whatever man i just tired of them i am leaving for good this time useless team

i am so tired of being an arsenal fan it brings nothing but pain let them loose if they like i just hope my walcott will leave @ the end of the season so i can become a man city fan for good i like most of their players. i am just tired of being disappointed all the time by this useless team

My questions are:
*the last 3 rakats we do before we go to bed are they mandatory or can i opt not to do them if i choose let's say on alazy day?
* do I have to say invocations in arabic,reason i am asking this is i have this small book, fortress of the muslim with many invocations from the qu'ran and sunnah, some are long and very had to memorise in arabic so what i do is (unless I am praying)just say and ask Allah's favor in my language is that ok?
* what age are children suppose to pray without missing anything? my kids(9&6) pray the first 4 but hardly pray the evening one cause they go to bed early. can they pray even if it's not time and go to bed cause they are kids or what?

i'll be back for more.

hey I have been reading this thread and it contains many answers that not only the op will benefit but some of us too therefore with the permission of the op I would like to add some questions of my own. but if it'll bother her I'll open a thread for the questions I have. thanks
salam

thiendella:
Aww, you have a little baby ?

yes he is 3 months reasons why i am here late in the night he does not sleep u wanna baby sitt?

maclatunji: I admit, you may have to make some contact behind your wife in the process of getting a second wife but please and please

you know what when I think of my husband marrying again this thought is exactly what goes through my mind and for the life of me I don't know why but it hurts sooo bad just thinking about it. let me elaborate. You see to me my husband is my gist partner, when I hear something or have some interesting things going on he is the first to know, I am so eager to tell him and share the story so we can laugh or just talk freely about it, I tell everyone around me don't tell me a secret you know you'll be ashamed of my hubby knowing for I can't help myself. It's not a must for me to tell him everything but having been friends before we marry make it nearly impossible for me to know something and not tell him. I believe it's the same for him too. So like you said if he were to marry again to spare my feelings he'd have to keep it to himself until he knows for sure he's going to bring her to our home. This to me is why I dread him marrying again for it would mean we have lost that thing that made us a couple it's a big deal marry anyone whether it's the first time or second time so if he's going to keep it to him self I don't know........ But like they say Allah will not put a position you can't handle. hehehe.....

a friend posted it on her fb wall. I was going to watch but completly forgot about it. xam garekh borom khaleeh,

I nominate tbaba, his videos are a good source of knowledge for me

deols:

Welcome back sis.
Some people just want to win arguments at all cost. I wld av given up if I wasnt convinced of my stance. And when I know I am wrong,I admit it.

I dont dabble into matters I have no knowledge of. Even on this section, there are threads I read and move on from and if I need clearity, ask questions.

I have said all I wanted to say on this topic. It is left 2 people to decide if they want it to affect their lives or not.

That's how it should be for I can't tell you how much I have learned from islam since I register in this site, sometimes it's books that someone mentions, sometimes it's websites, and sometimes it's the posters deep knowledge on the matter being discussed I would hating having to think of the forum as internet stuff that are mostly false. Sometimes I just read too because my knowledge of the topic is limited. I will look for that book about the prophete'wives.

waaoh this discussion has degenerated to women hating their mother in law cause they don't want a second wife. let's keep the thread honest please some of us are learning a lot from the posts here. The contract thing for instance is the first time I am hearing it. Well done Deols and Zayhal keep it coming.

CAMEROONPRIDE: where did we ask for ur love smh

I see you are confuse, well I am not surprise I supected it long time ago. as for asking for love, may be that's what you need to do instead of sinking into hatred.