PAGAN 9JA:


as i said before, akatas are racist. By the Gods, they are even racist against themsefs and keep using n- word in their useless rap e songs. not to mention all their pan-black , black-jesus, black egypt, blac black black movement. and then they try to pull us Africans into it! that was why i created this thread in the first place. we Africans must distance ourselves from the racist mentality of akatas and westerners.


@BahPulo, race is different and ethnic group is different.make note. .

you can put anything in front of that ism, hate is hate whether you call it racism, tribalism I don't care it's still hating someone for who they are and it's wrong. Like I said before africans are capable of racism which you can't deny cause all I'll have to do is paste one of your post for you to ponder on next please....

JallowBah:

Still, many africans seems to think that black people can not be racist.
Why?

I know right, the kind of racism I witness among black is alarming to say the least what I find annoying the most is when they try to point fingers at other ethnic groups, I mean you have to like yourself first before anyone can try liking you........ lol

I have to go to bed I'll talk to you guys later. I have a 2 months old who only sleep after 1:00am so I used the time to check on you guys stay well hopefully I'll be back soon.

Salam

deols: @tbaba, I said earlier that I am not totally against it. I even joked about the possibility of some other interested folks.

I understand too that polygamy might solve some social problems but as a Woman,I am allowed Islamically to not want 2 be a part of it and that I am going 2 use to my advantage.

Lol exactly what I am saying I don't have to love it or help anyone who wants to participate in it that's my right. Now a day the negative outweight the positive so every man out there should think well before he enters into a polygamy.

deols: The best thing we can do is to keep ignoring them.

They will by their actions show the world how very tolerant they are.

Now you know who starts all the religious violence we av been seeing and after they get served by their equals,they whin all over the internet.

Muslims are the best of mankind..You would almost never see a Muslim insult other people's faith because to respect that is ingrained in us.

Let them keep showing the world who they are. The best thing to do is ignore them. Make your own comments and move on.

I did try to ignore for I thought may be it's just politic but I have come to realize it has nothing to do with politic but intolerance. like you said it's best to ignore them.

Joe Mosco: politically, our problems may not be entirely from muslims. But what is the justification for a man not just to kill, but to matchet and deface another man under the excuse of blasphemy.... It is heartbreaking.... Is blood not sacred to you people??

How about you open a new topic and ask why some *d*ot out there thought it necessary to murder his fellow countrymen instead of running around every muslim thread to insult islam. Will that help solve the problem or will it add more fuel to the problem? You people need to address the issues that make you kill each other. I come from a country with over 80% muslims but we don't have the problem nigeria has could it be something else other than religion? but no you don't want to deal with your problems you'd rather look for some more tensions to make things worse than they are.

BetaThings:
Your advice is based on a hadith that shapes the manners and etiquette of muslims who are aware and conscious. Don't you think that that message is totally lost on those who have no code and follow only their desires?

Not really his advice is based on human courtesy you don't have to be a muslim to know you are being mean and spitful even non religious people know that these people who comment for the sake of it know they can't talk to their interactions outside the net like this so why should they do it behind a computer? My grandma used to say if you are above 5 years old you should not say whatever crosses your mind before you think it through especially if it's not a nice thing. I know for a fact these trolls are above 5 so they should know better.

You know what I am sick and tired of ignoring the trolls that continue to go in any muslim thread to insult muslims and their religion. I have try my best to ignore you people but it is starting to look like we are afraid of you. Here it's if you don't have anything nice to say Sh**t the hell *p. You don't have to comment especially if the topic being discussed does not concern you. I don't know the politic in nigeria regarding religious bickering but you people need to consult the way you talk about other people beliefs, you are always insulting and disrespecting us it needs to stop. I have lived and interacted with people from different backgrounds never have I seen people show so much intolerance like this website. Are you people telling me everything going wrong in your country is due to the muslims? Nonsense

Its all those thinking that is now occupying my mind, even though I am not in hurry of getting married for now but someone need to start thinking about the future as time wait for no one, as people keep reminding me of my Birthday in 2 days time in my office, the more concern about the future engrave my mind. But I surely believe Almighty Allah will grant me my heart desire and wishes.

To my Muslim brothers and sisters in Islam, I believe if we truly follow the teaching of Islam in which we claim we practice, we will surely become the best mankind on earth. Islam is already a complete and perfect religion is we (Muslims) that need to really work on our behaviour and attitude. We should try as much as possible to be a good example to other mankind. I cried inside sometimes when I see the behaviour some Muslims showcase in the society especially Muslimah (Muslim woman), some of such behaviour are not worth living with. The earlier we trace our step back to Almighty Allah the better for us.


Maa Salam.....

this is a good post but you need to be specific. Like what are the characteristics that turn you off of muslim girls. give some examples you may get some advices from the sisters here. I have not courted a man in my life (I married the first guy that asked he's a childhood friend.....) but have been around my friends one thing that turns most muslim girls I know is the lack of respect most men display when they meet you the first time. Give examples may be I can help.

deols:

Wa alaykum salam sis. Only the second wife thing appears new.

I see you know what they say whereever 3 to 4 men gather the second wife thing can not be avoided. Like I said noone is getting help from me

ossyme: @bah, how is polygamy practised over there. I may have to link you to get a second wife if there are sisters who are ok with a nigerian brother. Ma salam

LOLOOLLLLL you are funny Well people where I come from do practice polygamy, but it's a dying practice especially among young men and women. Here is my philosophy I don't want a sister wife, nor will I help any man get one you know what they say treat others like you would like to be treated.
My own brother ask me to help him marry my best friend as a second wife I refused and made sure my friend says no too because I love my sister in law she is sweet, polite, kind and she loves and respects my brother a lot. she does not deserve a sister wife. I know it's halaal for muslim brothers to marry up to 4 wives but they always forget the conditions attached to this rule. So my brother sorry I don't help in matters like this one next question.............lol

I think what I wanted to say has been said by almost everyone who posted so far. This is a test of his faith he should consider that before he does anything.
Let him look for something to do no matter how minial, shining shoes, cleaning houses, offices or washing cars. there is nothing as a degrading job as long as it helps keep your dignity. This is really sad some how I wish him luck and may Allah helps him get what he seeks without him resorting to crimes.

salam my brothers and sisters
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nice thread I love babies

nice tips. I'll add to these don't underestimate them have conversation with them you will be suprise how much both you and your child will learn from each other. I have gotten great ideas such as toys time, chores sharing... from my six year old. sometimes they teach you a lot without you even realising it

uplawal: Alhamdullilah for you,but then,dnt you know it is compulsory before now?

Lol at this post I knew it was compulsory, but I did not follow it as I should, neither did I have anyone forced it on me. I do now, I thank Allah for giving me the will to follow it like you said alhamdulilah. It looks like you follow every thing in the book alhamdulilah for you don't forget to pray for those of us who may not