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Muslims claim to love Rasul-ullah (saws). Many prove that by keeping beards, using miswak and wearing pants above ankle. No doubt all these are sunnah and practicing any sunnah is commendable and will be rewarded.But it is equally important that one should be keen to follow the Prophet’s example in interpersonal relationships with others: wife, children, relatives and fellow Muslims. These same people beat and mistreat their wives and children and even slap on the face which in Islam is strictly forbidden even for animals.

Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet said, “If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered a woman to prostrate herself before her husband.” [At-Tirmidhi] However, although some have declared it Sahih on the basis of similar ahadith, some others have declared it weak. In fact, Tirmidhi himself calls it weak after quoting it in his Sunan.

Whenever I ask in a gathering about the above hadith, everyone says he has heard it. But when I ask about the hadith concerning eleven women, not a single person would have heard of it. The hadith about sajdah and the common people’s saying: “A man should kill a cat on his wedding night so that wife should be terrorized to fear the husband,” has done great harm to the relationship of the spouses.

The following ayah from Surah Rum in the Qur’an and the hadith of Muslim emphasizes the importance of the husband and wife relationship in Islam.

“And among His Signs is this that He created for you wives (spouses) from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are, indeed, signs for people who reflect.” (The Qur’an, 30: 21)

Jabir reported that Allah’s Messenger said: “Iblis places his throne upon water; he then sends detachments (for creating dissension); the nearest to him in rank are those who are most notorious in creating dissension. One of them comes and says: I did so and so. And he says: You have done nothing. Then another says: I did not spare so and so until I sowed the seed of discord between a husband and a wife. The satan goes near him and says: ‘You have done well.’ [A’mash said:] He then embraces him.” (Muslim)

The Hadith of the Eleven Women

Muslim narrated the following hadith:

Narrated ‘Aisha: Eleven women sat (at a place) and promised and contracted that they would not conceal anything concerning their husbands.

The first one said: “My husband is like the meat of a lean weak camel which is kept on the top of a mountain which is neither easy to climb, nor is the meat has fat, so that one might take up the trouble of fetching it.”

The second one said: “I shall not relate my husband’s news, for I fear that I may not be able to finish his story, for if I describe him, I will mention all his defects and bad traits.”

The third one said:”My husband is a tall man; if I describe him (and he hears of that) he will divorce me, and if I keep quiet, he will neither divorce me nor treat me as a wife.”

The fourth one said:”My husband is a moderate person like the night of Tihama which is neither hot nor cold. I am neither afraid of him, nor am I discontented with him.”

The fifth one said:”My husband, when entering (the house) is a leopard, and when going out, is a lion. He does not ask about whatever is in the house.”

The sixth one said:”If my husband eats. he eats too much (leaving the dishes empty), and if he drinks he leaves nothing, and if he sleeps he sleeps alone (away from me) covered in garments and does not stretch his hands here and there so as to know how I fare (get along).”

The seventh one said:”My husband is a wrong-doer or weak and foolish. All the defects are present in him. He may injure your head or your body or may do both.”

The eighth one said:”My husband is soft to touch like a rabbit and smells like a Zar’nab (a kind of good smelling grass).”

The ninth one said:”My husband is a tall generous man wearing a long strap for carrying his sword. His ashes are abundant and his house is near to the people who would easily consult him.”

The tenth one said: “My husband is Malik, and what is Malik? Malik is greater than whatever I say about him. (He is beyond and above all praises which can come to my mind). Most of his camels are kept at home (ready to be slaughtered for the guests) and only a few are taken to the pastures. When the camels hear the sound of the lute (or the tambourine) they realize that they are going to be slaughtered for the guests.”

The eleventh one said:”My husband is Abu Zar`ah and what is Abu Zar`ah (i.e., what should I say about him)? He has given me many ornaments and my ears are heavily loaded with them and my arms have become fat (i.e., I have become fat). He has pleased me, and I have become so happy that I feel proud of myself. He found me with my family who were mere owners of sheep and living in poverty, and brought me to a respected family having horses and camels and threshing and purifying grain. Whatever I say, he does not rebuke or insult me. When I sleep, I sleep till late in the morning, and when I drink water (or milk), I drink my fill. The mother of Abu Zar`ah and what may one say in praise of the mother of Abu Zar`ah? Her saddle bags are always full of provision and her house is spacious. As for the son of Abu Zar`ah, what may one say of the son of Abu Zar`ah? His bed is as narrow as an unsheathed sword and an arm of a kid (of four months) satisfies his hunger. As for the daughter of Abu Zar`ah, she is obedient to her father and to her mother. She has a fat well-built body and that arouses the jealousy of her husband’s other wife. As for the (maid) slave girl of Abu Zar`ah, what may one say of the (maid) slave girl of Abu Zar`ah? She does not uncover our secrets but keeps them, and does not waste our provisions and does not leave the rubbish scattered everywhere in our house.”

The eleventh lady then added, “One day it so happened that Abu Zar`ah went out at the time when the milk was being milked from the animals, and he saw a woman who had two sons like two leopards… (On seeing her) he divorced me and married her. Thereafter, I married a noble man who used to ride a fast tireless horse and keep a spear in his hand. He gave me many things, and also a pair of every kind of livestock and said, ‘Eat (of this), O Umm Zar`ah, and give provision to your relatives.” She added, “Yet, all those things which my second husband gave me could not fill the smallest utensil of Abu Zar`ah.”

‘Aisha then said: Allah’s Apostle said to me, ‘I am to you as Abu Zar`ah was to his wife, Umm Zar`ah.’”

If we contemplate on this hadith we learn the following important lessons:

Women do talk about their husbands more than men talk about wives
Some husbands are going to be very bad, and some excellent, and others in between. It describes the entire spectrum of husbands in the society.
Notice that the name and identity of the bad ones is not exposed, whereas the good ones are mentioned by name.
If someone has 5-6 daughters he should not expect that all their husbands will be excellent.
If husband is not good, women should be patient hoping for reward from Allah. At the same time, they should work on improving them.
Observe the honesty and fairness of the last woman who praises her ex-husband even after he divorced her.
The most important lesson for all husbands is the concluding sentence of the hadith. The Prophet has praised and endorsed the behavior and pampering of Abu Zar`ah.

This picture depicts so much about how we conclude without proper investigative measure. We all need to work on ourselves

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Good day

Not everyone is aware but can anyone be helpful in explaining in layman methods the procedures and proceedings On Insurances in Nigeria. 1st Class, 2nd And 3rd Party

How do u think it favours and which is the best insurance company for now.

Normally i have never made any enquiry on it and i just do the normal 5k 3rd party Insurance with Anchor on my car’s and lately i get a whole lot of bashings from right, left and Rear.

A pregnant woman hit me yesterday so hard i was boiling but after i came out and saw she was pregnant and she already gave me that pitiful face and pleaded i just asked her to leave. But when i wokeup this morning and saw this my car looking like all those Iya eko wey don use fake bleaching cream in their days looking like rainbow i felt so sorry for the car. And i think i should work with insurance now.

Please laymans explanations

Gazzuz, kingreign etc

All Nairaland Muslims who are interested in attending this year RAMADAN IFTAAR should start signifying by including their names below:

ATTENDANCE:

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10.
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IBADAN IFTAAR 2018

Iftaar will also hold in IBADAN and is scheduled as follows

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IBADAN ATTENDANCE
1. Penmight
2. Ummukhoyr
3. Princealbashir
4.
5.

All Nairaland Muslims who are interested in attending this year RAMADAN IFTAAR should start signifying by including their names below:

ATTENDANCE:

1. Balash
2. Maclatunji
3. Ennesy
4. Eluquenson
5. Gentleyoung
6. Olaide1295
7. Dareey1
8. bobchigar
9.
10.
Etc.




IBADAN IFTAAR 2018

Iftaar will also hold in IBADAN and is scheduled as follows

Kindly signify your intention to attend IBADAN IFTAAR by replying with "IBADAN and your name" e.g. IBADAN Penmight

IBADAN ATTENDANCE
1. Penmight
2. Ummukhoyr
3. Princealbashir
4.
5.

Aliyeous:
Aliyeous Jazakallahu Khair. Balash would love 2 attend buh unfortunately am based here in d north, i want 2 use this medium 2 solicit all northern muslims here 2 come together n inculcate dis wonderful act. balash mukina2

Alhamdulilah robil alameen, Anyone can sponsor anywhere in the north for it and have it in any mosque around. if the attendance is just 10 for a start insha Allah in subsequent times the members would increase.

keypad1:
salam alaikum......why are you not using Islamic calendar?

its on the graphic my brother

All Nairaland Muslims who are interested in attending this year RAMADAN IFTAAR should start signifying by including their names below:

ATTENDANCE:

1. Balash
2. Maclatunji
3. Ennesy
4. Eluquenson
5. Gentleyoung
6. Olaide1295
7. Dareey1
8. chemprince
9.
10.
Etc.




IBADAN IFTAAR 2018

Iftaar will also hold in IBADAN and is scheduled as follows

Kindly signify your intention to attend IBADAN IFTAAR by replying with "IBADAN and your name" e.g. IBADAN Penmight

IBADAN ATTENDANCE
1. Penmight
2. Ummukhoyr
3. Princealbashir
4.
5.

Salaam alaikum waramotulai wabarakatuh

lestat:
Why hasn't tuface spoken up about the genocide going on.in his state

And tomorrow this gutless man.will ome out to.run for a political position?
He is such a shame to benue.people

At least say something, speak up before they wipe your people off or are you no more from middle.belt?

Very Hateful statement and rude individual, He has visited the state after the killings and even gave them things and monetary stuffs. how many time do u want him to go there? his he the president.. Channel your Hateful energy to your PVC in 2019 and stop your hateful speech

All Nairaland Muslims who are interested in attending this year RAMADAN IFTAAR should start signifying by including their names below:

ATTENDANCE:

1. Balash
2. Maclatunji
3. Ennesy
4. Eluquenson
5.
6.
7.
8.
9.
10.
Etc.




IBADAN IFTAAR 2018

Iftaar will also hold in IBADAN and is scheduled as follows

Kindly signify your intention to attend IBADAN IFTAAR by replying with "IBADAN and your name" e.g. IBADAN Penmight

IBADAN ATTENDANCE
1. Penmight
2. Ummukhoyr
3.
4.
5.

mukina2

Lagos Venue On The 27th Of May 2018

Araromi community central mosque
Diya Street Ifako Gbagada lagos

(Descriptions: Anywhere you coming from take a bus to Gbagada Alight at Gbagada And Take a Bike To Araromi Community Central Mosque Close to the Traffic Light after the bridge in Gbagada, Or If you coming from Bariga, Shomolu, Yaba etc Take a bus to Gbagada Close to Jolad Hospital and take a bike across the bridge to Araromi Central Mosque, If you by any chance needs to explain in details to the bike man simply remember is just a stone throw to Jolad Hospital, Its Immediately after the Bridge In Gbagada And Close to the traffic light before getting to Sweet Sensation)

May Almighty Allah Continue to guide us in Our Daily Affairs

All Nairaland Muslims who are interested in attending this year RAMADAN IFTAAR should start signifying by including their names below:

ATTENDANCE:

1. Balash
2. Maclatunji
3. Ennesy
4. Chemprince
5. Gentleyoung
6. Olaide1295
7. Dareey1
8. Bobchigar
9. Lateefx
10. Eluquenson
11. Lanrexdo
12. Abdul Salam
13. Jarus
14. AY Olatunji
15. Hillz
16. Sulymn
17. Fatymore
18. Mhidey2308
19. rhajaan
20. mutiu450
21. abdulahmid
22. alaricsaltzman




IBADAN IFTAAR 2018

Iftaar will also hold in IBADAN and is scheduled as follows

Kindly signify your intention to attend IBADAN IFTAAR by replying with "IBADAN and your name" e.g. IBADAN Penmight

IBADAN ATTENDANCE
1. Penmight
2. Ummukhoyr
3. Blazinraj01
4. Majordiran
5. Princealbashir
6. Ademola
7. missioner
8. smileyz16
9. Kunlexity
10.

As Salam Alaykum Warahmotullahi Wa barakaatuh

Ramadan Mubarak... as we have always done in the past few years during the holy month of RAMADAN by holding RAMADAN IFTAAR at this period. NAMUSORG in collaboration with Nairaland Muslim Community hereby announce this year Ramadan Iftaar 2018 (SEASON 9 )


BACKGROUND OF THE IFTAAR

As those that have been around for some time already know, Nairaland Muslim Ummah organize iftaar (Joint Breaking of Fast) on chosen day(s) during Ramadan. The first edition started in 2009, hosted by JARUS at Mama Cass Restaurant, Ajose Adeogun, VI, Lagos. We had two editions in 2010, Mainland Edition at Sweet Sensation, Allen Avenue, Ikeja and the Island Edition hosted by Majoroller at Mama Cass, Awolowo Road, Ikoyi. The 2011 Edition also came up in two parts: Island at Mama Cass, Ajose Adeogun VI and Mainland @ Sweet Sensation, Allen Avenue, Ikeja – both bankrolled by Majoroller. The 2012 Edition (Season 4) was also in two places; one at Jarus residence in Ajah while the second was hosted by Majoroller in Surulere. The 2013 Edition (Season 5) was hosted by Jarus @ his residence in Ajah.
The 2014 Edition (Season 6) was co-hosted by hrmkz, thirty and Dynamo1 and was held at Araromi Central Mosque, Gbagada, Lagos with over 50 people in attendance.

The 2015 Edition (Season 7) was hosted by Page9 and was held at ALHAJA SABALE MOTU AYINKE CENTRAL MOSQUE, Ojuelegba Road, Surulere and was assumed to be the biggest iftaar we would ever held with over 70 Nairalanders in attendance.



SEASON 9: 2018

This year (2018) Ramadan is going gradually and Insha Allah, we are having Season 9 of Nairalanders' Ramadan Iftaar. Bearing in mind that it is better held on a weekend, this year Iftaar will however hold on Sunday, 27th May, 2018 In Lagos And June 3rd 2018 in Ibadan

dejt4u:
jazakumllahu khaira.
please can we have something like this in Osogbo too?

Very Soon My Brother, We only need to have at least an average member of just 20 to carry on and insha allah it would be fixed.

Lagos Venue On The 27th Of May 2018

Araromi community central mosque
Diya Street Ifako Gbagada lagos

(Descriptions: Anywhere you coming from take a bus to Gbagada Alight at Gbagada And Take a Bike To Araromi Community Central Mosque Close to the Traffic Light after the bridge in Gbagada, Or If you coming from Bariga, Shomolu, Yaba etc Take a bus to Gbagada Close to Jolad Hospital and take a bike across the bridge to Araromi Central Mosque, If you by any chance needs to explain in details to the bike man simply remember is just a stone throw to Jolad Hospital, Its Immediately after the Bridge In Gbagada And Close to the traffic light before getting to Sweet Sensation)

May Almighty Allah Continue to guide us in Our Daily Affairs

NAMUSORG IFTAR PROGRAMME 2018

‎بسم الله والحمد لله والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله ، وبعد

This is to inform members of the upcoming Ramadan Iftar programme in Lagos and Ibadan on the 27th of May and the 3rd of June 2018 respectively.

The Lagos event on the 27th May 2018 will Insha Allah start right after the Asr salah, members will be given the opportunity to meet and interact with each other just before a reminder is served on one of the many tenets of our religion and then we all break the fast together at sunset.

The Ibadan event on the 3rd June 2018 will Insha Allah start at about 10am and runs up until 2pm, there will also be a meet and greet among members before an open air lecture and then refreshments to be used for Iftar is packed and served.

SPONSORSHIP
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_The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever gives iftaar to one who is fasting will have a reward like his, without thaIt detracting from the reward of the fasting person in the slightest._”.... So sponsors will be appreciated as this is a window to get multiple rewards in the month of Ramadan.

No amount is too small or too large, when you see the returns on your scales of good deeds, you will be glad you'd done more. Interested Sponsor/ Donors should contact;

Balash - +234 706 686 1266
Eluquenson- +234 802 957 6067

The Organization Account Details Goes Thus:

Name- NAMUSORG Concept
Account Number- 1018899691
Bank Name- United Bank Of Africa ( UBA)

_Venues for both events will be communicated to the house soon_

Search for MsMs form in the updated thread up there and submit to me

Forms are been submitted almost everyday. Keep the messege coming and May Almighty Allah continue to guide and protect us in our daily affairs

Wohn Lu Gbogbo Enu Broda Faya, I no understand how u no get power and you go dey form defender of the Universe

Asasahow

Okponu

dupzy05:
Am interested

send me a dm or copy the number up there and contact through whatsapp while you copy the form fill and submit to any of the number above

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Leave Abusive marriage.. Ladies needs to listen.

Its not true love

its MADNESS

U this dude is the funniest EVer.. are u a learner? u want sell LE and you dey call am XLE�� How 2007 go be XLE. are u that much a novice?

Then u come update say the car is water / Flood again

And you want sell 2.7m

This is the funniest joke this year my booda. Better dey use am

Would they wear their traffic warden Uniform to classes too?

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